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cpt Snack
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Posted - 2011.02.23 08:25:00 -
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So im not really sure why im asking this here but:
So ive been hanging out with a girl since the summer, recently i asked he on a date it ended well, so i ask for a second. We went for supper then drinks, It was even her idea to go to the strippers, then to the club were we danced it was nothing to sexual. Then there was a wet t-shirt contest and it was basically a who can remove there top fastest. After that she was grinding on me, and dancing as if she was turned on. So we went back to her house, she picked up her kids from the neighbors. her oldest went straight to bed, and i go to the couch were i had slept multiple times before. she tells me i can come down to her room, we get downstairs and instead of putting her littlest kid to bed she lays her down in the middle of her bed. We lie there for a bit talking then go to sleep.
Now what im wondering, is she playing me or dose'nt want to go to fast. Now im a virgin and she knows, and she has two kids. But its pretty hard to make a move with a 2 year old laying between you.
this sounds more like a story then a question im just confused. When were texting or talking on the phone its very positive. then in person it either feels like she is waiting on me to make a move or she is not interested/likes me only cause im a nice guy.
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Akita T
Caldari Navy Volunteer Task Force
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Posted - 2011.02.23 08:47:00 -
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My magic 8-ball reads either "leading you on, the big tease" or "pretty damn confused about what she wants herself"... it's kind of stuck between those two.
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Alpheias
Euphoria Released
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Posted - 2011.02.23 09:04:00 -
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BRUTALITY! FINISH HIM! |
Zedic
Amarr Universalis Imperium Tactical Narcotics Team
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Posted - 2011.02.23 09:15:00 -
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We don't have enough info about your relationship and we don't know her inner thoughts.
You could be being played.
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She could be testing you to see how you'll react to her kids. That's not playing games; that's biology. Her kids [should] come first so ~ if she's considering a sexual relationship with you, your virginity isn't a factor - what you'll do after sex is important. The kids know you, and I assume have seen you around since you mentioned going to the couch like you "usually do". Children young enough to still be in bed with their parents are pretty young (hopefully? o_O ) so they're impressionable / vulnerable. The stability of the kids, and her feelings are important.
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She's being a prick tease. Drop her like she's hot, or lay her down like she's luke warm. Whatever, but don't waste any more of your time on her and certainly not your virginity. That she's single with kids could be an indication she's a beotch, she has terrible taste in men and is dealing with a deadbeat dad or whatever.
If it happens again, talk to her about it the next day. Do Not react around the kid. The kid will not understand and will instinctively blame him/herself. Anyone reading this who grew up in a broken home as I did will understand this. When you speak to her; be as emotionally neutral as you can be. Her response should clear things up - if it doesn't - yea she's probably confused or playing games. It's your life, decide how to proceed from there.
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Malaclypse Muscaria
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Posted - 2011.02.23 16:28:00 -
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Ok, that was a weird story... but in any case, I'll leave you with the wisdom of the Butthole Surfers - heed these words, as they will serve you well in many of life's situations, starting with the one you describe:
Daddy? Yes, son? What does "regret" mean"? Well son, a funny thing about "regret", is that is better to regret something you have done, than to regret something you haven't done... and by the way, if you see your mom this weekend, will you be sure and tell her... SATAN!
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Florio
Versatech Co. RED.OverLord
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Posted - 2011.02.23 18:14:00 -
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Putting a two year old between you is a bit fracking weird.
If a girl is not comfortable enough to sleep with a bloke then she shouldn't put her baby to sleep next to the bloke.
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Master Gotama
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Posted - 2011.02.23 19:19:00 -
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Imho, the question should be about what you want. By introducing her kid to the bed, IÆm guessing she is looking for a baby daddy and considerÆs you a possible candidate. The question is whether you want to play baby daddy or just want a few good shags with the milf. Being a virgin, I highly suggest option #2. ItÆd be a shame to lose you virginity and manhood with the same woman at the same time. I think you should consider option #3: go to either Las Vegas or Amsterdam (whichever is closer) talk to the nice ladies there and get the whole virginity thing out of the way. Then you can come back to this predicament and see it from a whole different perspective.
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Evil Aye
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Posted - 2011.02.23 20:11:00 -
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mmmm...teasers.. Slave |
Wendat Huron
Stellar Solutions
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Posted - 2011.02.23 20:19:00 -
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Mothers are not for you, you're a damn virgin, you don't need to go from that to beast of burden but hey, rather you than me.
For me a mother is an expired product, if the kid ain't mine I want nothing to do with it. I resent the woman for getting kids with another man and expect me to help raise it and I know most women look at me and see someone considerate and dependable, in short a sucker whom they feel they can play once the deed is done. Not gonna happen.
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Slade Trillgon
Endless Possibilities Inc.
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Posted - 2011.02.23 23:44:00 -
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If you are lying in bed with her and her youngest, I would say that you are in. She is just putting you to the test, so to speak as Zedic pointed out.
If she was totally not into you, she would never let you into her bed, much less with her youngest in it with the two of you.
At least that is my hypothesis with the minimal amount of information I have on this relationship and the people within it.
Slade
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