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Herzog Wolfhammer
Sigma Special Tactics Group
4294
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Posted - 2014.02.10 08:43:00 -
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XNCReman wrote:So yeah, getting a date around Toronto Ontario(anywhere with in a hour or two drive from this **** hole city) is impossible.
So I don't have very many friends or a large social network to meet women through, I have run into a brick wall when it comes to meeting and dating women.... Most of my interests are very male centric, I don't except to find young women my age volunteering at tank museum or at any other of my nerd interests.
I'm attractive, In shape and have a good job and spare time(which is being filled by eve online and hitting the gym) so in theory I should have no problem getting a date, guess what its impossible.
First attempt was approaching and meeting women in public places, IE malls, Book stores, Coffee Shops, Guess what this is a brick wall. Ever been to a place were women avoid eye contact with men at all times, and look at the ground all the time, and act terrified if you smile at them?, You'd except this in a place like Saudi Arabia. (Muslim women make eye contact more so then Canadian born women and are more friendly(not the I want to **** you kind of friendly) Even worse when you go out of their way to avoid you.(I have up on meeting women in public, and just eye **** them to troll them)
Oh maybe you should goto the bar or nightclub!, Haha, again they avoid all eye contact with you and stay with in their own little group here as well.
Online Dating! I was on here a year and a half, before I gave up and deleted my profile, I messages nearly 2000 women, only 5% wrote back( most of the responses where only 3 -4 word stances) and they always stopped messaging me back after 2 or 3 messages, I did meet two women off here, but only went on 1 date with and they never wanted to see me after words, Almost met another women who had a lot of common with, but she stopped messaging me back after 3 weeks of talking, right in a middle of making arrangements to meet up(what a *****), I also had a pile of women stop messaging me back when I mentioned I have never traveled and work a blue collar job and only have a high school diploma) I calculated out that my chances of meeting a women per message was 0.023% and it was going to take me 7000 messages and 5-6 years to get a girlfriend.
Here's the Kicker, which makes me think its not me! I set my location to somewhere in the US, California in particular, and I got way more positive response from women! I got three so and so likes you in one day, more then what I would get in 6 months, and the women wernt fat and ugly! and 20% of the women I contacted responded.
Speed Dating - Same as online dating, conversations tend to fall apart when you mention you only have a high-school diploma etc etc etc.
In conclusion, Canadian women are stuck up and have unrealistic standards, and if you don't have a very large social network to meet women through, you're ******, and likely to end up with first women who willing to date you even though your not a good match with her, honestly a real doll have more personality when a Canadian women does.
That's some remarkable "beta" attitude you got there.
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Rain6637
Team Evil
9424
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Posted - 2014.02.10 08:56:00 -
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takes one to know one, eh? Rainfleet on Twitch |
Eurydia Vespasian
Storm Hunters
5061
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Posted - 2014.02.10 13:53:00 -
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XNCReman wrote:Eurydia Vespasian wrote:i want to read more squirmy posts by the afflicted. Troll.
and to think...i'm not even from Toronto |
Commissar Kate
Team Evil
44617
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Posted - 2014.02.10 14:48:00 -
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Eurydia Vespasian wrote:XNCReman wrote:Eurydia Vespasian wrote:i want to read more squirmy posts by the afflicted. Troll. and to think...i'm not even from Toronto
Hahah
I got my laugh for the day.
Thanks. People, who talk, don't know. People, who know, don't talk.
Unlocking all racial clothing |
Rain6637
Team Evil
9486
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Posted - 2014.02.10 16:44:00 -
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i was just thinking back... if they aren't single they're dying to ditch a ****** boyfriend. sometimes husband, but I don't have sympathy for those cases. Rainfleet on Twitch |
XNCReman
Soviet Directorate of Eve
6
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Posted - 2014.02.12 06:57:00 -
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Rain6637 pretty good advice, i'll take that into note. I work at a place thatGÇÖs pretty much as bad as eve for women though, lol
I almost bought an 06 Cadillac CTS but got 08 Impala LS, it came down to which car is going to lost less on maintenance when it hits 200,000km( and easier to get parts for at 500,000+km).
I run into the trying to ditch\ does'nt like a boyfriends(or wish they could) types a lot. "Hey look, that girls checking me out, wait a minute that over weight guy shes with is her boyfriend><...F***" I've herd a couple of bad storyGÇÖs about this from guys who have gotten dates form dating sites(one reason why I stopped with online dating sites):/
Women want what they can't have... |
Rain6637
Team Evil
9598
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Posted - 2014.02.12 08:46:00 -
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I was wondering where you went.
man I really suggest not dating at work. things like that will follow you to your next job, when your new boss and old boss talk with each other about you, as part of the interview process. I know it sucks/you don't have to tell me about it.. i was in the military and it was mostly male. I only limited myself to outside of my battalion, but most of the time the only people i saw were my own battalion.
there's something you should know about girls/women... while men will make an issue of things as they come up, and break up with their significant other when it's necessary, women will keep quiet and start looking for someone else, and not break it off until she has someone to go to. "they always keep one foot in the door" is how my close friend describes it. so my point is you shouldn't worry about it when she mentions she has a boyfriend, or a fiancee, even.
cuz sometimes when they mention a boyfriend, they're just letting you know that spending time requires some considerations. ...but it's not a no or a shutdown. (though personally, I don't bother with married women, or moms. thankfully, I have simpler options)
I've been on both sides of this situation. my ex-wife had no problem signing our divorce agreement, because she thought she had a sure thing with some other guy. soon after our divorce was finalized and I stopped paying her a couple thousand dollars a month from my military paycheck, their relationship went sour and she moved back in with her parents. and yeah i find that hilarious.
so there's that.
"just because there's a goalie doesn't mean you can't score"
and
"visiting team always has the advantage" Rainfleet on Twitch |
Mixu Paatelainen
Deep Core Mining Inc. Caldari State
73
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Posted - 2014.02.12 09:30:00 -
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You don't look like/happen to be Rob Ford do you OP? |
Sibyyl
University of Caille Gallente Federation
6
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Posted - 2014.02.12 09:58:00 -
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You're going to public places for the purpose of approaching (doesn't even seem like meeting) women. We're psychic, you know.. it's natural to want to avoid eye contact with somebody like that.
Your goal should be to have fun, to enjoy the moment when you're outside. Enthusiasm is contagious. You didn't mention doing anything bold (like actually talking to one of these women). They're only human like you.
/Fÿ¡
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Rain6639
Team Evil
1625
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Posted - 2014.02.12 13:12:00 -
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Sibyyl wrote:You're going to public places for the purpose of approaching (doesn't even seem like meeting) women. We're psychic, you know.. it's natural to want to avoid eye contact with somebody like that.
Your goal should be to have fun, to enjoy the moment when you're outside. Enthusiasm is contagious. You didn't mention doing anything bold (like actually talking to one of these women). They're only human like you.
/Fÿ¡
is it because women are psychic, or could it be the same reason cats lose interest when you look at them. for no tangible reason. aka catty.
psychic catty psychic catty
must be psychic. Rainf1337 on Twitch |
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Rain6637
Team Evil
9598
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Posted - 2014.02.12 14:40:00 -
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OP if they can read minds, then it's game over cuz you should be ashamed of yourself for wanting to hook up.
ok wait, I got it. what you do is line the inside of a baseball cap with tinfoil so they can't read your mind, or see the tinfoil. then you spot them in a reflection in a storefront, and walk backwards at them all nonchalant-like. after you bump into them, apologize and ask if they know which end of the mall Neiman Marcus is on, or if they know a jeweler who fixes Rolexes.
it won't get you anywhere, but you'll have done a good deed for someone who is too uptight to have fun. Rainfleet on Twitch |
Sibyyl
University of Caille Gallente Federation
7
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Posted - 2014.02.12 15:20:00 -
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Rain6639 wrote:is it because women are psychic, or could it be the same reason cats lose interest when you look at them. for no tangible reason. aka catty.
psychic catty psychic catty
must be psychic. I like this theory. One moment looking at OP with the look of utter boredom. Next moment OP doesn't exist and licking yourself seems like a good idea. Meow.
/Fÿ¡
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Rain6639
Team Evil
1625
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Posted - 2014.02.12 15:34:00 -
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way better than the alternative, that a guy deserves to be called out just for trying
are you from Ontario (around Toronto) by any chance? Rainf1337 on Twitch |
Eurydia Vespasian
Storm Hunters
5080
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Posted - 2014.02.12 16:01:00 -
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Rain6637 wrote:there's something you should know about girls/women... while men will make an issue of things as they come up, and break up with their significant other when it's necessary, women will keep quiet and start looking for someone else, and not break it off until she has someone to go to. "they always keep one foot in the door" is how my close friend describes it. so my point is you shouldn't worry about it when she mentions she has a boyfriend, or a fiancee, even.
this...is sometimes true. i'm guilty of it. recently guilty. but the important caveat here is to realize there is always a reason. |
Kitty Bear
Disturbed Friends Of Diazepam Disturbed Acquaintance
1210
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Posted - 2014.02.12 16:55:00 -
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Rain6639 wrote:Sibyyl wrote:You're going to public places for the purpose of approaching (doesn't even seem like meeting) women. We're psychic, you know.. it's natural to want to avoid eye contact with somebody like that.
Your goal should be to have fun, to enjoy the moment when you're outside. Enthusiasm is contagious. You didn't mention doing anything bold (like actually talking to one of these women). They're only human like you.
/Fÿ¡
is it because women are psychic, or could it be the same reason cats lose interest when you look at them. for no tangible reason. aka catty. psychic catty psychic catty must be psychic.
yep women are just like cats
cute & fluffy exterior and on the inside a heart & soul that makes satan look soft & gentle |
Rain6637
Team Evil
9606
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Posted - 2014.02.12 17:48:00 -
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Eurydia Vespasian wrote:Rain6637 wrote:there's something you should know about girls/women... while men will make an issue of things as they come up, and break up with their significant other when it's necessary, women will keep quiet and start looking for someone else, and not break it off until she has someone to go to. "they always keep one foot in the door" is how my close friend describes it. so my point is you shouldn't worry about it when she mentions she has a boyfriend, or a fiancee, even. this...is sometimes true. i'm guilty of it. recently guilty. but the important caveat here is to realize there is always a reason. oh, subtext! I like this game. this means "I'm desirable!"
silly me, I forgot it always means "I'm desirable" Rainfleet on Twitch |
Telegram Sam
The Drones Club Shoot 2 Thrill
1307
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Posted - 2014.02.12 20:36:00 -
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-Yes, this thread is weird. But one of the best ones in OOPE since the "Why Sneezing is Excellent" one. -Rains, you might as well archive those posts. You know you'll need them again. -Gawd, I'm glad I don't have to deal with the opposite sex interpersonal drama game anymore. It's good to be old. |
Khergit Deserters
Crom's Angels
2748
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Posted - 2014.02.12 20:39:00 -
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^ Ack, I need some rest. My straight man alter-ego momentarily took control and usurped posting rights! ^ |
Colonel Selene
Team Evil
2323
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Posted - 2014.02.12 20:46:00 -
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Kitty Bear wrote:Rain6639 wrote:Sibyyl wrote:You're going to public places for the purpose of approaching (doesn't even seem like meeting) women. We're psychic, you know.. it's natural to want to avoid eye contact with somebody like that.
Your goal should be to have fun, to enjoy the moment when you're outside. Enthusiasm is contagious. You didn't mention doing anything bold (like actually talking to one of these women). They're only human like you.
/Fÿ¡
is it because women are psychic, or could it be the same reason cats lose interest when you look at them. for no tangible reason. aka catty. psychic catty psychic catty must be psychic. yep women are just like cats cute & fluffy exterior and on the inside a heart & soul that makes satan look soft & gentle
Yeah like me.
RAWR |
Jelly Fat
Greedy Bastards
4
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Posted - 2014.02.12 22:37:00 -
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Being successful at dating is easy and can be achieved anywhere!
You just need to stick to some rules:
If you have only one of these skills, make sure it reaches Level 5:
1. being handsome.
2. being rich.
3. being extremely funny.
An appropriate mix of these three skills at lower levels could work out, too. It all depends on how you use them, in the end. I am a professional Fedo Breeder.
Buying high pedigree Fedos since 2013 |
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Rain6639
Team Evil
1627
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Posted - 2014.02.13 01:48:00 -
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thanks Khergit~
"are you not entertained?" Rainf1337 on Twitch |
Rain6637
Team Evil
9634
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Posted - 2014.02.14 04:07:00 -
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Jelly Fat wrote:Being successful at dating is easy and can be achieved anywhere!
You just need to stick to some rules:
If you have only one of these skills, make sure it reaches Level 5:
1. being handsome.
2. being rich.
3. being extremely funny.
An appropriate mix of these three skills at lower levels could work out, too. It all depends on how you use them, in the end. sort of. I've been told many times that women interpret handsome = trouble. if that's something you have going for you, just keep that perception in mind and maybe be nice. 'clean and well groomed' comes in a close second, for practical reasons.
rich is a tricky one. the problem with spending money for dating is girls/women get used to things very quickly. I think it's important to watch where the money goes. a lawyer friend of mine once told me "it's not about having money. it's about money placement." so have it, but spend it on yourself/make sure it stays yours.
...put yourself in their position. imagine you meet a woman who constantly spends money on you. yeah it would be nice, but what would you think about them, especially early on. would make you wonder why someone places a real monetary value on your company, wouldn't it? and that's been the experience of a lot of girls. the fact is, quite a few of them think a relationship means having access to your wallet. borders on prostitution imo.
so how much money does one need, exactly? it's relative, and I don't think it's just about money; it's also about your future potential. you only need more than the last guy or girl she dated . just because she has a boyfriend or had one doesn't mean he's great. and it's really nothing to worry about, cuz if you seem to be something better, she'll give you the time of day, and if she's happy with her significant other she'll probably just politely tell you so. that's a pretty good outcome in itself, so there's no reason not to try.
as for funny, I suppose that's a thing for some people, but I don't ever think about making her laugh. but i do think about making her naked. and I think "make her laugh" is a failed piece of advice because it's incomplete. like, it's not really an end-state. (so you've made her laugh, now what?)
but if you must, I suppose you could ask if she's ever heard of the sport known as midget tossing. or something
if you're trying to capture the essence of 'a good time' I think it's important to convey a sense that everything is under control and there's no reason for her to not trust you, AND that you'll appreciate good behavior. [lol good behavior. interesting choice of words.]
she has to know that you'll do very naughty things to her. being funny in itself doesn't really convey that. Rainfleet on Twitch |
Rain6637
Team Evil
9634
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Posted - 2014.02.14 04:11:00 -
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"midget tossing. it's exactly what it sounds like. some tossers have different techniques, it's all in regulation. you can grab them by the wrists, or one wrist one ankle, or both ankles. you know the hammer toss? where they pick up a weight and spin with it a couple times and let it go? yeah, that but with midgets. usually into a pool." Rainfleet on Twitch |
Eurydia Vespasian
Storm Hunters
5135
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Posted - 2014.02.14 06:17:00 -
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all this over analyzing...
what ever happened to just being the courteous, honest as possible, funny, good looking, decent in bed, not a tightwad, not too overly nice in your manner towards me (that is have a mind of your own and not just try to please my every whim)...but not an ******* either kind of guy?
is this too much to ask?! holy ****! |
Sibyyl
University of Caille Gallente Federation
34
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Posted - 2014.02.14 06:26:00 -
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@Rain6637, Spreadsheets in spa-- dating? |
Rain6637
Team Evil
9642
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Posted - 2014.02.14 09:28:00 -
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ladies, ladies. shhhh it's ok. staaare into my abs. Rainfleet on Twitch |
Commissar Kate
Team Evil
45679
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Posted - 2014.02.14 16:34:00 -
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This one of these times I'm scared to click the link. People, who talk, don't know. People, who know, don't talk.
Unlocking all racial clothing |
Rain6637
Team Evil
9699
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Posted - 2014.02.14 17:03:00 -
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hah you sound like angelique. she thought for sure i was going to send her a picture of my dangly bits Rainfleet on Twitch |
Eurydia Vespasian
Storm Hunters
5144
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Posted - 2014.02.14 18:24:00 -
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Rain6637 wrote:hah you sound like angelique. she thought for sure i was going to send her a picture of my dangly bits
what would be wrong with that? I have like a collection I've acquired from guys over the course of my gaming career. some coaxed...some just freely sent. it's sort of weird. like a conquest thing, i suppose.
I have this innocuous sub folder in my pictures labeled "twilight pics" and while I do like twilight...there are no such pics in there lol! but the chances of the bf opening a folder called "twilight pics" are very remote. which is certainly for the best and working as intended. I wouldn't want to have to explain a veritable phallic forest of images.
cute btw. good and toned. I thought I saw a pic of you one other time a good while ago. ona bus or something. I could be mistaken. I don't remember you looking exactly like that if so. |
Brujo Loco
Brujeria Teologica
1118
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Posted - 2014.02.14 20:33:00 -
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Well friend, let me tell you this as a natural born and bred Latinamerican Male (Venezuelan) , having traveled across several countries in this beautiful part of the American Continent and several Caribbean Islands.
You are just LOOKING IN THE WRONG PLACE ...
Every single Expat from Canada, UK, USA and any other european country get 10000000000x more positive "hits" from women in Latinamerica than their own countries.
Gringos get dazzled by the sheer affection of our women, and if you treat them well, they will not only cook and give you strong, healthy children, they will gladly help support the house and a great number of them dont mind you being the bread-winner of the family.
Even Spaniards I have met here that have married local women enjoy how women here can be women without trying to take your pants and pretend they are men, since I know many people from Spain that refer to their women as "Men with breasts" "Tios con tetas"
I am ok with sexual liberation and women empowerment and equal wages for women, but I know many men get sometimes shadowed over by working women that behave like men and in the end, being so self-reliant that they don-¦t really NEED a man at all, except for sex and/or women that are looking for Prince William himself to wed them as they "look for love" in several relationships that last but a mere twinkle in the fabric of Space-Time, there are also the classic gold-diggers and other bumps in the road, but that goes with the territory.
Come down here, despite the many wonders of modernity, most of our women are still very much traditional women, hearty, affectionate, caring and loving.
Heck I can even try to hook you up with 3 family members and 1 very young pretty family friend that is single if I find you good enough for them (after some beers and lengthy conversations of your intentions)
That-¦s how we do things down here.
You can come to Panama, Dominican Republic, Nicaragua, Venezuela or Colombia (countries I know very well) and find a decent woman just by living there some months. Avoid the cities, the country women down here are still down to earth women that have strong family values and fearful of G-d.
We all are pretty Christian down here, so I hope that isnt a hassle, specially Catholics and local branches of Protestantism, so I let you know this first beforehand since I know religious values can be quite different up there.
Finding partners is not that hard, you just have to know where to look.
This is my free advice to you.
If you want more info just PM me, I can offer you more guidance in your quest.
Cheers and be Happy Friend!
Inner Sayings of BrujoLoco: http://eve-files.com/sig/brujoloco |
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