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Reaver Glitterstim
Dromedaworks inc Test Alliance Please Ignore
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Posted - 2014.04.22 17:41:00 -
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Shalua Rui wrote:...uh, I actually made a mistake there, it should be: Talk TO her about it, no? No I think you were right initially when you said talk WITH her. One of the biggest problems people have in communicating with each other is the habit of talking TO people. They are trying to push their ideas on the other person. Talking WITH a person is about finding mutual agreement. And if you're both willing to truly listen to each other, it often is less about compromise and more about mutual benefit. A relationship built on compromise is only marginally better than one filled with unspoken negativity. Fit a warfare link to your tech 1 battlecruiser. Train Wing Commander. Get in the Squad Commander or Wing Commander position. Your fleets will be superior to everyone else's. (had this sig BEFORE Odyssey BC rebalance) And bring back the missile Inquisitor!! |
Eurydia Vespasian
Storm Hunters Disturbed Acquaintance
7794
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Posted - 2014.04.22 17:57:00 -
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Oh, kergy. I love your stories lol. |
IIshira
School of Applied Knowledge Caldari State
805
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Posted - 2014.04.22 18:42:00 -
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Harrison Kion wrote: dating advice dont call your girlfriend sovereignty. girls dont like being ihubs.
So does this mean don't say "Docking permission requested"? LMAO |
Vortexo VonBrenner
SolMod
1074
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Posted - 2014.04.22 19:54:00 -
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*gets notepad ready and ensures OP is comfy on couch*
So OP, you say you think going to online gaming forums for relationship advice is a good idea, ja?
I see...interesting... *scribble scribble*
Now...tell me about your mother...
I'm listening to-áBj+¦rk, playing EVE, eating fishsticks, and I'm cold....this is immersion gaming. |
Desivo Delta Visseroff
Probe Patrol Ixtab.
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Posted - 2014.04.22 20:06:00 -
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Doireen Kaundur wrote:You have a girlfriend (hetero-relationship).
But your girlfriend also has a friend (girl) who is always talking down about you to your girl...almost as if she were jealous of the time you spend with her. Almost like she's trying to break you guys up.
What's up with that?
Unwritten rule among single guys is that "chicks come first." Ive never had a male friend get in the way of anything I wanted to do with a girl. If anything, they cheer you on hoping you'll score.
Don't sweat it bro! Here's the situation. You girl's friend is either:
1. Jealous - She wants your rod - give it to her or don't; 2. She's poison - Trying to trap you - If you will offer her your rod, she'll run to your girl and squack to ruin your relationship.
Here's how you should handle it. Tell your girl that you suspect her friend is trying to play her. Trying to break you two up, so she can move in. Set up a little trap. Tell your girl to tell her friend that the two of you had a big fight and your girl left you all crushed and sad.
If her friend comes over looking for the rod, you'll have your answer and a winning choice either way you go |
Herzog Wolfhammer
Sigma Special Tactics Group
4801
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Posted - 2014.04.23 01:07:00 -
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Doireen Kaundur wrote:Unwritten rule among single guys is that "chicks come first.
And that is your fatal error right there.
And women have no agency. Think about it. And then stop putting up with crap. Because crap is all you will get. I'm old enough to have seen Land of the Lost when it first aired on Saturday mornings, so take my advice. Every mistake you can make I've already made. Bring back DEEEEP Space! |
Aspalis
Red Federation RvB - RED Federation
543
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Posted - 2014.04.23 02:06:00 -
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My luck with the opposite sex has been absolutely rotten...
Girl #1 went like; Her: Hiii! I think you are cute! What sign are you? Me: (gives her the finger) This sign! Now, **** off off with your astrology nonsense!
Girl #2 whom I initially clicked really well with, there was the conversation, the intellectual exchange, everything. Her: All my previous relationships has failed because of communication.. (begins a long tiring rant with a few accusations here and there about her terrible exes) ... ... Why are you so quiet? What are you thinking about? Me: If you are ever going to talk about something else?
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Desivo Delta Visseroff
Probe Patrol Ixtab.
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Posted - 2014.04.23 16:31:00 -
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Aspalis wrote:My attitude with the opposite sex has been absolutely rotten...
FTFY |
Nissui
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Posted - 2014.04.23 17:03:00 -
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Eurydia Vespasian wrote:Oh, kergy. I love your stories lol. I read this in Miss Piggy's voice.
OP, if you're solid with your girl, the third wheel's nonsense will likely bring about some cognitive dissonance: her disparagement versus the reality of a (hopefully) positive relationship. Ideally, the SO will discard that nonsense to find consonance with the experience she has with you. If she sides with the friend, it's probably safe to say you dodged a bullet anyway.
(Surplus of assumptions in this post.) |
Aspalis
Red Federation RvB - RED Federation
546
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Posted - 2014.04.23 18:26:00 -
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Desivo Delta Visseroff wrote:Aspalis wrote:My attitude with the opposite sex has been absolutely rotten...
FTFY
There is nothing wrong with having standards. I guess the difference between you and me is that I have some. |
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Shalua Rui
Rui Freelance Mining
24669
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Posted - 2014.04.23 18:36:00 -
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Uh, this thread is going places... "ginger forum goddess, space gypsy and stone nibbler extraordinaire!" Shalua Rui - CEO and founder of Rui Freelance Mining (RFLM) |
Adunh Slavy
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Posted - 2014.04.23 22:55:00 -
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Put her on the spot and turn the tables.
With your girl friend there, say to the 'friend'. "Do you really hate me so much as to make your friend *motion towards your girl friend* miserable?"
Then add self-defacing comment to sell sincerity, "I may not be the best fish in the sea, but at least I'm polite enough to not tell her (the girl friend) that I don't like you either."
She either will, shut up, come back with an argument that you'll never recover from, or she'll freak out and prove your point for you. Necessity is the plea for every infringement of human freedom. It is the argument of tyrants; it is the creed of slaves.-á-á- William Pitt |
NightCrawler 85
Phoibe Enterprises
1530
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Posted - 2014.04.24 06:48:00 -
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Adunh Slavy wrote:Put her on the spot and turn the tables.
With your girl friend there, say to the 'friend'. "Do you really hate me so much as to make your friend *motion towards your girl friend* miserable?"
Then add self-defacing comment to sell sincerity, "I may not be the best fish in the sea, but at least I'm polite enough to not tell her (the girl friend) that I don't like you either."
She either will, shut up, come back with an argument that you'll never recover from, or she'll freak out and prove your point for you.
Or, she will act all hurt and angry, the gf will turn on her bf and be angry at him for being so insensitive towards her friend, he will pretend he is sorry, she will forgive him (for now) and the friend will have a "real" reason to trash talk him to friends and his gf Phoibe Enterprises official recruitment thread The Eve Reader - -áAudio Recordings of Eve Chronicles
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