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Noden Vorpalstar
Gallente The Knights of Polaris
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Posted - 2006.11.06 01:13:00 -
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I've been dating a girl for the last 8 months that I have really deep feelings for, and I know she has the same feelings for me. The problem is I've never really been romantic, and I feel that this might be causing strains in our relationship.
So I would like to ask the EVE community for tips on being romantic, and romantic ideas.
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Jenny Spitfire
Caldari Boryokudan Incorporated
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Posted - 2006.11.06 01:16:00 -
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Be sensitive and ask her what she wants or interested in. Listen! --------- Faction Warfare Begins Technica impendi Caldari generis. Pax Caldaria! |
Calisto Cody
Minmatar The Black Swan Society
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Posted - 2006.11.06 01:23:00 -
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i think people in general get hung up on the word/term romance, just do nice things for her. walk her home, etc no big most of the time.
what jenny said and
on a sunny day, go for a walk around town or into the parks. and just talk in general about things.
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Captain Hudson
Caldari Bravehearts Xelas Alliance
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Posted - 2006.11.06 03:21:00 -
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Originally by: Noden Vorpalstar I've been dating a girl for the last 8 months that I have really deep feelings for, and I know she has the same feelings for me. The problem is I've never really been romantic, and I feel that this might be causing strains in our relationship.
So I would like to ask the EVE community for tips on being romantic, and romantic ideas.
Cook her a meal, have at a candle lit table with roses and cheesy music ( if you want ). should be romantic enough, or do the walk in the parks and stuff as mentioned above. ] |
Xrak
Black Nova Corp Band of Brothers
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Posted - 2006.11.06 03:42:00 -
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Tell her to spread em.
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Kyguard
Fire Mandrill Astrophobics
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Posted - 2006.11.06 04:06:00 -
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Originally by: Xrak Edited by: Xrak on 06/11/2006 03:55:53 Tell her to spread em.
Erm the butter on the sandwichs for the picnic that is.....
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Sakura Nihil
Tabula Rasa Systems The Star Fraction
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Posted - 2006.11.06 06:21:00 -
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Jenny seems to know what she's talking about on these things - a nice homecooked, candlelit dinner at your home would probably be what you seek.
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Bhaal
Minmatar M. Corp Lotka Volterra
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Posted - 2006.11.06 11:54:00 -
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Women like men to do a lot of little things for them, to show their love & appreciation.
Most men find it annoying to have to do this **** all the time, but that's the way it is...
Even if you really love her, eventually you'll get sick and tired of having to do all the little things she likes.
And a warning, if you start to do all these small romantic gestures, you can never slow down or stop, otherwise she will think you don't love her anymore, or are cheating on her or something.
My advice is only do romantic things once in a while, when you feel like it. And don't ever do it if she asks for it, because she's testing you to see if she can put you on a leash or not.
Do these gestures when you feel like it, not when she expects you to.
Love is like a never ending war between men & women, with many little battles, you need to win more than 50% of those battles, or you're in danger of becoming ***** whipped.
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Indra Sebuchiore
Sebiestor tribe
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Posted - 2006.11.06 11:55:00 -
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First problem is coming to the EVE community for advice on romance! __________________________________________ "In girum imus nocte, et consumimur igni."
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jason hill
Caldari Nightmare Holdings
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Posted - 2006.11.06 11:56:00 -
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yup
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Nm'Me
Amarr Firmus Ixion
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Posted - 2006.11.06 12:17:00 -
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Buy her a rose on completely random days.
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Moridin
Interstellar eXodus R0ADKILL
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Posted - 2006.11.06 13:12:00 -
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she does not want romance. women value the relashionship my the level of sacrife you are willing to do for her.
let¦s look at some stats. bring home a bonquet of flowers 1 day = 1 good point.
bring home 1 flower every day for a week = 7 point.
see that the grandiose thing is not cost effictive in the long term.
now find something sweet and work from this rule of thumb
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Gothikia
Reikoku Band of Brothers
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Posted - 2006.11.06 14:02:00 -
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Originally by: Noden Vorpalstar I've been dating a girl for the last 8 months that I have really deep feelings for, and I know she has the same feelings for me. The problem is I've never really been romantic, and I feel that this might be causing strains in our relationship.
So I would like to ask the EVE community for tips on being romantic, and romantic ideas.
take her to go see the borat movie, then after it bung on some eyeliner and pretend to be johnny depp then do all that mushy fuzzy wuzzy stuff that they like. just dont go OTT or they'll think your ghey.
or you could just get lucky like me and not have to do all that crap (except the eyeliner bit, she digs it), so just find one who is insanely messed up in the head, is up for anything, and im of no use at all, haha, sry dude :)
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Old Geeza
The Retirement Home
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Posted - 2006.11.06 14:10:00 -
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Originally by: Noden Vorpalstar So I would like to ask the EVE community for tips on being romantic, and romantic ideas.
Step 1: Get the biggest bank loan you can.
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Malicious Afterthought
Suffoco Noctis Atrocitas
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Posted - 2006.11.06 14:11:00 -
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Do ordinary things extraordinarily well.
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Rina Shanu
Phoenix Knights
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Posted - 2006.11.06 14:15:00 -
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Originally by: Noden Vorpalstar I've been dating a girl for the last 8 months that I have really deep feelings for, and I know she has the same feelings for me. The problem is I've never really been romantic, and I feel that this might be causing strains in our relationship.
So I would like to ask the EVE community for tips on being romantic, and romantic ideas.
Be a combination of two men: Bundy and Simpson! That should solve things. Ups, thats afetr she said Yes... oh well, dunnpo, be yourself and act natural arround her, best thing to do I guess.
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Lanfear's Bane
Shih Yang Tong
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Posted - 2006.11.06 15:29:00 -
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Stage One: Originally by: Noden Vorpalstar So I would like to ask the EVE community for tips on being romantic, and romantic ideas.
Stage Two: ???
Stage Three: Profit
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Nm'Me
Amarr Firmus Ixion
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Posted - 2006.11.06 19:40:00 -
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Originally by: Malicious Afterthought Do ordinary things extraordinarily well.
Offer to do the dishes!
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Eris Discordia
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Posted - 2006.11.06 20:54:00 -
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If you want to score loads of point get some nice massage oil ( not the one you buy at a sexshop but more the new age type of thing for relaxing massages), a movie she will like, make dinner buy flowers.
Then arrange the evening around those things.
Hold her hand when you walk together, tell her she is pretty and she makes you feel good and makes you smile etc.
Plan a weekend or 2 nights in some nice hotel in a nice place.
Go dancing together somewhere after buying her dinner.
Make handmade gifts ( look for valentine homemade gifts, should find plenty of romantic stuff there, and aybe for christmas too).
Go to mushy christmas movies together.
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Valkazm
Amarr Cursed Spawn SMASH Alliance
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Posted - 2006.11.06 20:57:00 -
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Romance is overated once you start your gonna have to top it next time . Go for the kinky approach instead do fun stuff there
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Yolan
Cutting Edge Incorporated RAZOR Alliance
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Posted - 2006.11.06 21:39:00 -
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BE YOURSELF!
she either takes you as you are or not, similarly you accept her the way she is or not. If you are not romantic then thats who you are and she must obviously see other qualities in you or she woulda gone elsewhere by now,
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Kindakrof
Caldari Cruor Frater Coalition of Carebear Killers
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Posted - 2006.11.06 21:55:00 -
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As stated on Bash.org:
Quote: IronChef Foicite: well, there's a lot of reasons IronChef Foicite: i mean, roses only last like a couple weeks IronChef Foicite: and that's if you leave them in water IronChef Foicite: and they really only exist to be pretty IronChef Foicite: so that's like saying IronChef Foicite: "my love for you is transitory and based solely on your appearance" IronChef Foicite: but a potato! IronChef Foicite: potatos last for ******* ever, man IronChef Foicite: in fact, not only will they not rot, they actually grow **** even if you just leave them in the sack IronChef Foicite: that part alone makes it a good symbol IronChef Foicite: but there's more! IronChef Foicite: there are so many ways to enjoy a potato! you can even make a battery with it! IronChef Foicite: and that's like saying "i have many ways in which I show my love for you" IronChef Foicite: and potatos may be ugly, but they're still awesome IronChef Foicite: so that's like saying "it doesn't matter at all what you look like, I'll still love you"
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FooB2
Caldari Pre-nerfed Tactics
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Posted - 2006.11.06 21:59:00 -
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heres what you do.
take her to the movies to see a "racy" film. one that you will "enjoy". buy her a tub of popcorn and cut a hole in the bottom, and keep it on your lap. undo your pants when you sit down and let the movie do the rest.
its even more romantic if you offer popcorn to the guy sitting on the opposite side of you too, and then see which one "wins"
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Layla Currie
The Highway Men
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Posted - 2006.11.06 22:05:00 -
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Originally by: FooB2 heres what you do.
take her to the movies to see a "racy" film. one that you will "enjoy". buy her a tub of popcorn and cut a hole in the bottom, and keep it on your lap. undo your pants when you sit down and let the movie do the rest.
its even more romantic if you offer popcorn to the guy sitting on the opposite side of you too, and then see which one "wins"
haha this advice wins
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Bhaal
Minmatar M. Corp Lotka Volterra
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Posted - 2006.11.06 22:37:00 -
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Originally by: Eris Discordia If you want to score loads of point get some nice massage oil ( not the one you buy at a sexshop but more the new age type of thing for relaxing massages), a movie she will like, make dinner buy flowers.
Then arrange the evening around those things.
Hold her hand when you walk together, tell her she is pretty and she makes you feel good and makes you smile etc.
Plan a weekend or 2 nights in some nice hotel in a nice place.
Go dancing together somewhere after buying her dinner.
Make handmade gifts ( look for valentine homemade gifts, should find plenty of romantic stuff there, and aybe for christmas too).
Go to mushy christmas movies together.
My EX GF used to always give me massages, and with that sexoil stuff too. Got hotter the more you rubbed it...
I used to massage her feet, very sensual like. I could get her to do just about anything after that.
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Panshin Bolo
Amarr
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Posted - 2006.11.06 22:59:00 -
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Originally by: Eris Discordia If you want to score loads of point get some nice massage oil ( not the one you buy at a sexshop but more the new age type of thing for relaxing massages), a movie she will like, make dinner buy flowers.
Then arrange the evening around those things.
Hold her hand when you walk together, tell her she is pretty and she makes you feel good and makes you smile etc.
Plan a weekend or 2 nights in some nice hotel in a nice place.
Go dancing together somewhere after buying her dinner.
Make handmade gifts ( look for valentine homemade gifts, should find plenty of romantic stuff there, and aybe for christmas too).
Go to mushy christmas movies together.
Wow, you're easy !!
Righto... Mr. Charming moves in here.
Advanced charming lesson (I did this twice with two different GF's):
Buy/make her a gift. (no biggie eh?) Tell her, u bought her a gift (eh?) Tell her, what it is (wtf?) Then tell her, you're gonna get it, you just don't know when... (curious silence)
The first time i did this, I won one of these small red, cushion hearts at some local theme park, and she accidently called when i just won it. Told her, she was gonna get it, but never knew when. We only knew eachother for two weeks.
On one night, a week later, I called her up, And asked, "where are u in the house at this moment?" She replied: "I'm sitting on my bed." I asked her to look under her pillow. She found the cushion heart. Ca-ching! Next day we kissed.... (at noon i'd driven to her house and asked her sister who was sick that day to put it under her pillow and not to tell her)
Second time..... argh that storry is way too long... maybe if u've liked the first i'll post the second ;)
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Dee Ellis
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Posted - 2006.11.06 23:25:00 -
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Tell her she's hot make out ??? sex...
That's how it works around here atleast..
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Weirda
Minmatar Queens of the Stone Age Anarchy Empire
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Posted - 2006.11.06 23:27:00 -
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Originally by: Jenny Spitfire Be sensitive and ask her what she wants or interested in. Listen!
translation: be EMO...
... and don't tell her you into online gaming (in the event that she have dated a 'nintendoboy' (looking for proper 'mallrats' reference)... __ Weirda Join QotSA
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Mtthias Clemi
Gallente Momentum.
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Posted - 2006.11.06 23:57:00 -
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I find tht all girls are different tbh, a lot of them will get bored if all you do is compliment them over and over..
really does depends on age
look at me talking about women like some sorta nice person
honestly they can all burn in hell for all i care.
(also whoever said the borat and jonny depp thing, are you dating the girl i like?!?!?!?)
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Ceramik
Black Avatar Firmus Ixion
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Posted - 2006.11.07 00:16:00 -
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Do tell her you are into gaming. All the girls I have dated seem to think it is cute that I'm into computer games, D&D, and anime. And I'm not talking about nerdy girls here, the girls I'm talking about are the kind that I drooled over when I was in highschool.
Be honest and frank, but also kind.
Don't EVER ignore her, make sure you introduce her to people so she doesn't feel left out.
Don't try to be something you aren't, act the same around her as around everyone else. This means that if you aren't "romantic", don't try to be. Just be a good person.
Chances are that if you aren't "romantic" in the first place, that isn't what she was attracted to.
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