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Kaely Tanniss
Commonwealth Mercenaries Vendetta Mercenary Group
888
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Posted - 2017.05.20 07:52:12 -
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It funny how it's so easy to pass judgement on someone you don't know. Eve, as you all know too well, is full of such stigmas. Too often we paint a picture of what we think or assume someone is based on misinformation, opinion, or a simple lack of knowledge. I have been guilty of this as much as anyone else. For too long I made assumptions on limited or misunderstood information based on my own opinions. When you deal with someone in Eve, we all paint a picture of what we think the other person is..be it appearance or social status. This very disconnection from the truth drives so many in Eve. It's easier to paint a picture of the bad guy than to stop and learn what something or someone truly is. This goes for corps, alliances, and players.
From a certain standpoint, one would see someone who wardecs their corp as some sociopathic, "evil" person. One would assume that the guy trolling in local is some 400lb nerd living in their mothers basement. The truth is, though there may be situations where this assumption is on par, for the most part, it is completely inaccurate.
I have made assumptions on certain people in the past. Some of my dealings with them have been unpleasant, or at least seemed so at the time. I stood strong under a belief that what I thought was right, only to learn I was wrong. I can also say I have made assumptions that some people were good people and been equally wrong. I have accepted the revelation that I have been wrong about so many things on so many levels. Those I thought were were good people turned out to be something else. Those I thought were bad people and a scourge on the game have turned out to be really nice people. I have tried to explain this to others. To have them open their minds to the fact they can be just as wrong as I was. Most refuse to listen, confined by their own opinions on what they know little about. After all, it's easier to feel right not knowing than to be proven wrong by knowing. I, for one, am not afraid to admit when I have been wrong..and wrong I have been.
Eve is a unique beast all it's own. It creates friendships while destroying others. It breeds hate for those we don't even know. It opens doors while closing others. The potential of Eve as a means to open new relationships is unprecedented..the potential to create discourse is equally so. I stand in a place of change as I learn what I thought was one way, is the complete opposite. I implore those who stand where I did to open themselves to a new view. Stubborness breeds nothing but discontent.
If you are unwilling to learn facts before passing judgement, that is your prerogative. Just don't make it the problem of other people who should be making their own informed judgements based on fact. Base your judgements on truth and knowledge or keep them to yourself. You know who you are so there's no need to point fingers.
That's all I will say on the matter. You may pass your judgements on me for my rant. You may shiptoast this post if you want. I felt the need to say this so I did. I can admit when I'm wrong..can you?
...you may commence with the trolling..
If I had a nickel for every time someone said women don't play eve, I'd have a bag of nickels to whack the next person who said it..
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Mortlake
Somalian Coast Guard Authority
2996
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Posted - 2017.05.20 08:09:17 -
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Behold, the asteroid belt in which I mine my fucks. Lay thine eyes upon it and thou shalt see that it is barren.
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Kaely Tanniss
Commonwealth Mercenaries Vendetta Mercenary Group
890
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Posted - 2017.05.20 08:12:10 -
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Don't worry Mort..I still think you look sexeh in that alligator skin speedo...
If I had a nickel for every time someone said women don't play eve, I'd have a bag of nickels to whack the next person who said it..
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Mortlake
Somalian Coast Guard Authority
2997
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Posted - 2017.05.20 08:17:01 -
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Kaely Tanniss wrote:Don't worry Mort..I still think you look sexeh in that alligator skin speedo...
You know it <3
Behold, the asteroid belt in which I mine my fucks. Lay thine eyes upon it and thou shalt see that it is barren.
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Black Pedro
Yammerschooner
3440
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Posted - 2017.05.20 11:32:09 -
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Eve is an interesting game. Players can engage with it on multiple levels. Some play Eve Online like the would a first-person shooter, or even a game of chess: in a detached way, where they are controlling pieces or avatars in a virtual world. Others, intentionally or not, insert their complete real-world persona into the virtual universe. The first group play the game and think nothing of shooting another player or inflicting damage on someone else to gain advantage (or as part of some role-play) just like a chess players doesn't consider the emotional ramifications of taking their opponent's pawn. It's part of, no in fact the main point of, the game. The latter group though view their character and assets as themselves and take personal offence to anyone who dares hurt them in the video game exactly as they would in the real-world. They can't imagine why anyone would want to deliberately hurt another person like they just were and go straight to the calls of 'sociopath' and 'psychopath' to explain what happened to them.
Of course, this isn't black and white and there is a gradient between the two extremes where players may fall, and even one player may view some actions as 'in-game' and thus meaningless and part of the fun, and other actions 'real-world' and thus hold them to a different standard and be offended if they fall victim to them. This is made even more complicated by these forums and other forms of communications which can drift between our fictional New Eden personas and our real-world identities.
I agree with you Kaely, it is extremely problematic to try to infer anything about the real-world person playing this video game from their actions or even communications. At best, you would need prolonged and personal contact with another player to start to form an accurate assessment of them and whether you are dealing with a real-world persona or some in-game construct the person is playing. Even then, it probably is impossible to know much about them from how they play the game given there are so many flavours of motivation that get people logging in and doing stuff.
Given all this it takes some maturity and perspective to play Eve in my opinion. I also think that those who see that Eve is just a virtual game world where our 'in-game' actions don't really matter are the ones most likely to stick with and really enjoy the game, but I also think that it is important to remember there is a real human being behind each of those avatars you interact with worthy of the respect and consideration you give any other human being you would personally interact with. By all means shoot, bump, gank, wardec and scam the other avatars all you want since that is the game, but when you communicate with the other human beings behind those avatars act like you would your friends playing a board game. By all means trash-task and tease them, or even forcefully express your displeasure over losing, but don't threaten or personally insult them.
I understand though that this is how I engage with the game and other players are different so I am very reluctant to read much into the character of other players by how they play Eve especially given what I stated above. That's fine with me as I can largely control who I interact with and block or distance myself from those that take the game too seriously, or act in an unpleasant or childish way, or truly are struggling with mental issues in real-life.
It's lame to say, but the best ship in Eve truly is friendship, although a T2 Catalyst comes a close second.
The 8 Golden Rules of Eve
Why Do They Gank?
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Dom Arkaral
The Conference Elite CODE.
1375
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Posted - 2017.05.20 21:31:43 -
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Love it or hate it, it's human nature at it's finest.
As for opinions, there are no right ones or wrongs ones, nor are there invalid ones.
Like some brilliant mind once said, Quote:Opinions are like arseholes, everyone has one.
And what do people base their opinions onto? Stuff they either saw or were told of
Tear Gatherer. Quebecker. Has no Honer. Salt Harvester.
Broadcast 4 Reps -- YOU ARE NOT ALONE, EVER
Instigator of the First ISD Thunderdome
CCL Loyalist
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Tora Bushido
EVE Corporation 987654321-POP The Marmite Collective
3801
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Posted - 2017.05.20 22:26:07 -
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Kaely Tanniss wrote:...you may commence with the trolling.. You're right...
DELETE THE WEAK, ADAPT OR DIE !
Meta Gaming Level VII, Psycho Warfare Level X, Smack Talk Level VII.
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StonerPhReaK
Herb Men
654
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Posted - 2017.05.20 22:47:57 -
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My marijuana induced psychosis is telling me this post is meant to be constructive.
Signatures wer cooler when we couldn't remove them completely.
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Jonah Gravenstein
Machiavellian Space Bastards
28255
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Posted - 2017.05.20 23:13:13 -
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StonerPhReaK wrote:My marijuana induced psychosis is telling me this post is meant to be constructive. Don't hog it, pass it.
Also this is deep for C&P and could turn out to be a decent thread, I approve.
In the beginning there was nothing, which exploded.
New Player FAQ
Feyd's Survival Pack
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Vipsan Agrippa
Machine Gun Coitus
218
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Posted - 2017.05.21 03:56:19 -
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Jonah Gravenstein wrote:StonerPhReaK wrote:My marijuana induced psychosis is telling me this post is meant to be constructive. Don't hog it, pass it. Also this is deep for C&P and could turn out to be a decent thread, I approve.
F that, Black Pedro turned it into a wall-of-text-codie-circle-jerk.
I summon the spirit of Norman! ( we know you start your day with a bowl of rice poofs n C&P )
Norman, Norman, Norman make your spirit known!
Atari we know you are there.
Join the C & P community spirit of Saeger, tell us what you feel about Fredo Taniss moving over to your bestest buds in Venbedwettas??
*my cpu table rises as the lights go out*
All I hear is: Green kill boards sads - rabies - pill popping - I'm not a bitter vet, just think your blue donut is gay, might as well be a blue waffle - Send me DPS and my fleet will double it back - Fredo is nuthin to me now *childs crying*
They will throw them into the blazing furnace, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.
Alliances will rise and fall, but one constant in Eve is the smouldering dumpster that is C & P.
(Bob's a cuck)
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Kaely Tanniss
Commonwealth Mercenaries Vendetta Mercenary Group
898
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Posted - 2017.05.21 04:53:24 -
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Vipsan Agrippa wrote:Jonah Gravenstein wrote:StonerPhReaK wrote:My marijuana induced psychosis is telling me this post is meant to be constructive. Don't hog it, pass it. Also this is deep for C&P and could turn out to be a decent thread, I approve. F that, Black Pedro turned it into a wall-of-text-codie-circle-jerk. I summon the spirit of Norman! ( we know you start your day with a bowl of rice poofs n C&P ) Norman, Norman, Norman make your spirit known! Atari we know you are there. Join the C & P community spirit of Saeger, tell us what you feel about Fredo Taniss moving over to your bestest buds in Venbedwettas?? *my cpu table rises as the lights go out*All I hear is: Green kill boards sads - rabies - pill popping - I'm not a bitter vet, just think your blue donut is gay, might as well be a blue waffle - Send me DPS and my fleet will double it back - Fredo is nuthin to me now *childs crying*
Vipsan..I knew you couldn't resist..besides, in order to be bitter, you have to be a vet...and yes, I know who you are..still doesn't change my statement. A little advice, if you're going to try to troll me..you're gonna have to think of something better..if you can.
@DOM..that's exactly my point..most opinion is based on what someone has heard rather than learned. It's based on ignorance rather than knowledge. It's based on fear...fear to be wrong and look bad to others for admitting it. Which do you fear more..the fact you may be wrong..or the stigma that will be placed upon you by others once you admit it? Difference is, I don't care nor do I seek the approval of other people. Mark my words..and you know I have been right about a lot of things..there will come a day when you will recognize the error and no longer care what others think. That will be the day you're finally free. The question is, what damage will have been done before you reach that realization..
I know you understand what it's like to be ridiculed by players who disagree with what you do in CODE...you are doing nothing different than those who have placed accusation and assumption upon you.
@Tora..lol..that is so cute.
If I had a nickel for every time someone said women don't play eve, I'd have a bag of nickels to whack the next person who said it..
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Herzog Wolfhammer
Sigma Special Tactics Group
8474
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Posted - 2017.05.21 05:50:44 -
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I find the lack of trolling in this thread to be disturbing.
Bring back DEEEEP Space!
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Omar Alharazaad
Devils Rejects 666 The Devil's Warrior Alliance
3330
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Posted - 2017.05.21 05:59:23 -
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Player and character separation is critical, IMO. Omar is an honorable *******. He does awful things, but he sticks to his word. In terms of Pathfinder or D&D he would be considered Lawful Evil. Now, the guy who drives Omar isn't nearly the same. This guy he's pretty much Neutral Good, but tired of most peoples' **** at the same time... the inexorable push towards true neutrality continues every day. Life is kind of a *****, crap happens, idiots rise above the diligent... these kind of stresses weigh down on almost all of us. The guy who drives Omar sublimates this by putting himself into a role that is outside of his normal comfort zone. Catharsis is achieved. The ruination of another person's day may be satisfying one day, the vindication of a set of principles operating as intended may be satisfying the next. Either way, it's a game where we try to find enjoyment in whatever way we can. The fact is that in order for this not to be simple digital masturbation we must engage other people. How we do so is up to us.
Come hell or high water, this sick world will know I was here.
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Eve Griefer
Paper Cats
12
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Posted - 2017.05.21 08:24:31 -
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Black Pedro wrote:Others, intentionally or not, insert their complete real-world persona into the virtual universe.
FWIW, I've seen suggestions, if not actual evidence, that the insertion of the RL persona into the virtual character/avatar/toon is unintentional. Whether in EvE, WoW, or Second Life, I've seen people get unreasonably (IMHO) angry over actions taken against their character.
I'd like to play EvE without the niggling doubt that my actions against another player's character might be taken as an attack against the player.
The longer I'm in EvE, the more I learn that the propaganda is just, well, propaganda. That there are no evil alliances trying to wreck one's game.
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Lew Dicrous
Dissidence Dawn The-Culture
78
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Posted - 2017.05.21 10:36:42 -
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You're a stigma.
It burns when I PVP
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Kaely Tanniss
Commonwealth Mercenaries Vendetta Mercenary Group
901
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Posted - 2017.05.21 11:12:47 -
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Lew Dicrous wrote:You're a stigma.
Do elaborate..
If I had a nickel for every time someone said women don't play eve, I'd have a bag of nickels to whack the next person who said it..
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Dracvlad
Tactically Challenged Tactical Supremacy
3170
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Posted - 2017.05.21 11:29:55 -
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It is rather amusing, the other day I was wondering whether some of my alliance mates would be interested in the events in Romi, so I said who has a thing against hisec mercs or something like that, to have one guy start sprouting off on me about it being a perfectly valid game play, missing the point completely in which another chap saw it as I did as merely being a way of getting some dank killmails on people who are normally difficult to pin down. I was laughing at the diatribe thrown at by the first guy just because he and I had talked about bumping as a mechanic. Not that I seek out such conversations in alliance as it causes drama.
And to last night, one of the guys starts sounding off on AFK cloaky camping, and in jumps a corp mate who reveals in it because as he put it he likes to upset people and then self declares himself as a sociopath, which to me was as defensive as hell, but he did admit to enjoying causing angst on people and why not, it is a competitive game and in affect making the other person feel defeated is almost as much fun as defeating them. For example for the moment I am rather enjoying the afterglow of our successful defence following a 36 hour ultimatum to leave our space from the best alliance in the game, who are now declaring that it was not a real attempt and only a few people were involved, etc. I am not of course saying they cold not do it, but the will was not there. I am enjoying his deflation as a person more than anything else and there is nothing wrong in that.
What I replied to that person was that as an old player with billions and so much assets and multiple skilled toons some idiot AFK cloaky camping means I either use another toon elsewhere, jump systems or go play another game or just rat in somethings really hard to catch to kill small stuff to keep the ADM's up, so much for causing me angst, it only affects new players, sadly my wife was shouting at me to head up for shut eye, otherwise I would have told him that he was not a sociopath but he was enjoying the game his way and my difference was merely that those small guys trying to scrape together some ISK to pay for their subs was not high up my list of people to test myself out on. I did however make the point that what he does does reduce content as they don't have the ability to form for lols as they are space poor.
Anyway what I just wrote there is going to be misunderstood by so many who are so quick to label others, but the last time I tried to discuss this with one guy I was told that I don't get Eve, which to me was really that I don't get how he wants to play Eve which was the correct answer from him, but in affect I did understand because I had asked him and he had replied on what made him tick and I saw nothing wrong with that.
Anyway have fun, it is the important part, but I leave one simple thought for me it is all about game balance and some people get rather emotional about that...
When the going gets tough the Gankers get their CSM rep to change mechanics in their favour.
Blocked: Teckos Pech, Sonya Corvinus, baltec1, Shae Tadaruwa, Wander Prian, Daichi Yamato, Jonah Gravenstein, Merin Ryskin, Linus Gorp
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Mike Adoulin
Adolescent Radioactive Pirate Hamsters
2250
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Posted - 2017.05.21 13:27:29 -
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*runs laps on the hamster wheel*
*runs more laps*
I like pizza. With pineapple on it. Tastes nice and juicy.
Everything in EVE is a trap.
And if it isn't, it's your job to make it a trap...:)
You want to know what immorality in EVE Online looks like? Look no further than Ripard "Jester" Teg.
Chribba is the Chuck Norris of EVE.
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Dom Arkaral
The Conference Elite CODE.
1387
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Posted - 2017.05.21 14:06:45 -
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Kaely Tanniss wrote:Vipsan Agrippa wrote:Jonah Gravenstein wrote:StonerPhReaK wrote:My marijuana induced psychosis is telling me this post is meant to be constructive. Don't hog it, pass it. Also this is deep for C&P and could turn out to be a decent thread, I approve. F that, Black Pedro turned it into a wall-of-text-codie-circle-jerk. I summon the spirit of Norman! ( we know you start your day with a bowl of rice poofs n C&P ) Norman, Norman, Norman make your spirit known! Atari we know you are there. Join the C & P community spirit of Saeger, tell us what you feel about Fredo Taniss moving over to your bestest buds in Venbedwettas?? *my cpu table rises as the lights go out*All I hear is: Green kill boards sads - rabies - pill popping - I'm not a bitter vet, just think your blue donut is gay, might as well be a blue waffle - Send me DPS and my fleet will double it back - Fredo is nuthin to me now *childs crying* Vipsan..I knew you couldn't resist..besides, in order to be bitter, you have to be a vet...and yes, I know who you are..still doesn't change my statement. A little advice, if you're going to try to troll me..you're gonna have to think of something better..if you can. I think it's best that you step away from the bong now.. @DOM..that's exactly my point..most opinion is based on what someone has heard rather than learned. It's based on ignorance rather than knowledge. It's based on fear...fear to be wrong and look bad to others for admitting it. Which do you fear more..the fact you may be wrong..or the stigma that will be placed upon you by others once you admit it? Difference is, I don't care nor do I seek the approval of other people. Mark my words..and you know I have been right about a lot of things..there will come a day when you will recognize the error and no longer care what others think. That will be the day you're finally free. The question is, what damage will have been done before you reach that realization.. I know you understand what it's like to be ridiculed by players who disagree with what you do in CODE...you are doing nothing different than those who have placed accusation and assumption upon you. @Tora..lol..that is so cute. My Mother-in-Law has an eclectus that when ever you call her name or stare at her, she yells "What!?" opinions are never wrong Kaely, no matter what they're based on. they change based on perception. the only thing that's right is a fact. they don't change unless another fact changes it.
Tear Gatherer. Quebecker. Has no Honer. Salt Harvester.
Broadcast 4 Reps -- YOU ARE NOT ALONE, EVER
Instigator of the First ISD Thunderdome
CCL Loyalist
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Noragen Neirfallas
Rabble Inc. Legio De Mortem
4258
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Posted - 2017.05.21 15:14:15 -
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Lew Dicrous wrote:You're a stigma. Your mums a stigma
(Sorry couldn't help it )
Member and Judge of the Court of Crime and Punishment
Noragens basically the Chribba of C&P - Zimmy Zeta
Confirming that we all play in Noragen's eve. - BeBopAReBop
ISD Max Trix favourite ISD
'"****station games" - Sun Tzu' - Ralph King Griffin
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Mobadder Thworst
Perkone Caldari State
1260
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Posted - 2017.05.21 22:52:21 -
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Mort, I feel like you aren't taking this seriously.
Dammit, someone judged someone! This is serious.
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Mortlake
Somalian Coast Guard Authority
3013
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Posted - 2017.05.21 23:13:27 -
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Mobadder Thworst wrote:Mort, I feel like you aren't taking this seriously. Dammit, someone judged someone! This is serious.
I am. I AM!
Squirrel!
Behold, the asteroid belt in which I mine my fucks. Lay thine eyes upon it and thou shalt see that it is barren.
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Valona Siura
Science and Trade Institute Caldari State
23
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Posted - 2017.05.21 23:37:00 -
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What a load of smug patronising self aggrandizing garbage.
You people really do take the cake |
Dom Arkaral
The Conference Elite CODE.
1388
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Posted - 2017.05.21 23:38:30 -
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ahh holey that was quick
Tear Gatherer. Quebecker. Has no Honer. Salt Harvester.
Broadcast 4 Reps -- YOU ARE NOT ALONE, EVER
Instigator of the First ISD Thunderdome
CCL Loyalist
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Mortlake
Somalian Coast Guard Authority
3015
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Posted - 2017.05.21 23:52:34 -
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Valona Siura wrote:What a load of smug patronising self aggrandizing garbage. You people really do take the cake
I'll suck your undock for $1000.
Behold, the asteroid belt in which I mine my fucks. Lay thine eyes upon it and thou shalt see that it is barren.
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Mobadder Thworst
Perkone Caldari State
1261
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Posted - 2017.05.22 00:06:10 -
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Valona Siura wrote:What a load of smug patronising self aggrandizing garbage. You people really do take the cake
Do you mean this in a good way or bad way? I ******* love cake. |
Lew Dicrous
Dissidence Dawn The-Culture
79
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Posted - 2017.05.22 01:14:49 -
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Kaely Tanniss wrote:Lew Dicrous wrote:You're a stigma. Do elaborate..
no u
It burns when I PVP
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Kaely Tanniss
Commonwealth Mercenaries Vendetta Mercenary Group
902
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Posted - 2017.05.22 04:22:27 -
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Valona Siura wrote:What a load of smug patronising self aggrandizing garbage. You people really do take the cake
Who are you to criticize Mr. eve mail half of eve with salty, incomprehensible rabble.. You just had to make a comment so people would notice you..didn't you. It's okay though..you be you all you want.
If I had a nickel for every time someone said women don't play eve, I'd have a bag of nickels to whack the next person who said it..
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Valkin Mordirc
2856
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Posted - 2017.05.22 04:33:01 -
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What/who brought this on? (Is it who I think it was?) Was it just the recent events or something else? I don't really let things in EVE get to me to much. I joke around with Sol, we don't even argue any more. =D
#DeleteTheWeak
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Erin Davis
Commonwealth Mercenaries Vendetta Mercenary Group
77
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Posted - 2017.05.22 05:31:10 -
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Valkin Mordirc wrote:What/who brought this on? (Is it who I think it was?) Was it just the recent events or something else? I don't really let things in EVE get to me to much. I joke around with Sol, we don't even argue any more. =D
More along the lines of me, kaely, and scar joining vmg from ikr, and getting holy hell from saeger, dom, xorphix, etc etc on groupme and ingame channels. I mean, I dont blame them really, but its actually nice here. Good groups of guys from the inside. |
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