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Bob Stuart D. S. Radioactive Sheep Farm	Posted - 2008.08.28 08:19:00 - [1] I would like my friend to put on a particular accent when we engage in erotic activity. However, I am concerned that this would be against her religion. Does the Amarr religion or its priests consider that to be deviancy?
Devilish Ledoux Caldari Ledoux Holdings	Posted - 2008.08.28 08:51:00 - [2] Are you asking because you want to know or because you want to see some old codger flip out of his cassock? _
Kimochi Rendar Ghost Festival	Posted - 2008.08.28 08:53:00 - [3] It depends very much on the region and the priest's individual interpretation of the scriptures. Where I came from for instance, anything other than one man and one woman, in the marital bed and the missionary position would be considered to be deviant. That's not what I personally believe, but then I lost my faith a long time ago. As for the accent thing, I would suggest you ask her if she would mind trying it one night... You never know, she might even enjoy it herself! If she expresses concern or distaste though, then don't push the matter further. Out of interest, what accent specifically? Good luck, and have fun! Ghost Festival is now recruiting!
Bob Stuart D. S. Radioactive Sheep Farm	Posted - 2008.08.28 08:54:00 - [4] Well, you see, if it is considered deviancy then raising the subject would risk offending her personally and her beliefs. Whereas if it's not deviancy as such, I'd only be risking offending her personally. So, I'd just like to know before I do anything too stupid.
Kimochi Rendar Ghost Festival	Posted - 2008.08.28 09:15:00 - [5] Kimochi opens a video reply window. She's looking out of a window in her quarters. Mr. Stuart, I'm going to be brutally honest with you. Sex is a vitally important part of a relationship... If you don't feel satisfied both sexually and emotionally, then you will eventually start looking elsewhere. My advice to you, is to ask yourself: "Do I need this in order to be happy?" She turns towards the camera. If the answer is "no", then there is no problem... Simply try to put it out of your mind. If the answer is "yes" then you owe it both to yourself and your girlfriend to be honest and open about your feelings. She touches a holographic control and the video feed dies. Ghost Festival is now recruiting!
Nomakai Delateriel Amarr Shadow Company G00DFELLAS	Posted - 2008.08.28 09:25:00 - [6] Any priest who thinks that it's OK that you're in the same bedroom (considering that it's an interfaith relationship between a believer and a heathen) is hardly going to be concerned about what you do when you're in there. ______________________________________________ -My respect can not be won, only lost. It's given freely and only grudgingly withdrawn.
Rodj Blake Amarr PIE Inc.	Posted - 2008.08.28 09:32:00 - [7] Mr Stuart, I heartily recommend you enrol on one of the SPCS' religious education courses. They have a long and noble history of educating ignorant heathens such as yourself. Not only will they be able to answer all of your questions regarding religion in some detail, but they will also provide you accommodation and employment upon the completion of the course Dulce et decorum est pro imperium mori.
Camperific Es and Whizz Hedonistic Imperative	Posted - 2008.08.28 09:34:00 - [8] Installing a dancing pole in your station quarters, Getting her to dress as a Khanid schoolgirl, Achura cord bondage, Kruul's book of '10001 positions you can't do without dislocation',may all be called deviancy,getting her to put on an accent is just a plain lack of imagination..And here was me thinking deviancy was the Federations biggest export.
BloodBird Gallente Tactical Freedom Alliance	Posted - 2008.08.28 09:50:00 - [9] Edited by: BloodBird on 28/08/2008 09:54:48 Originally by: Rodj Blake Mr Stuart, I heartily recommend you enrol on one of the SPCS' religious education courses. They have a long and noble history of educating ignorant heathens such as yourself. Not only will they be able to answer all of your questions regarding religion in some detail, but they will also provide you accommodation and employment upon the completion of the course Oh, that's sweet - the guy asks a rather simple question that could do with a yes/no answer, and you ask him to go sign himself off as a slave? I think he might have hit a touchy subject of sorts, or perhaps you just behave like this every day, all day long. Originally by: Camperific And here was me thinking deviancy was the Federations biggest export. Not really the biggest, no, bit it's not that small either. Also, just because your average Federal subject knows how to be... sexually creative, not all do. I think it's sweet how he would risk the ire of the Amarr's collective faithful in public instead of risking to hurt his girlfriend, honestly, I do. I just hope he figures this out soon and is rid of his doubhts. Sig source
Verone Gallente Veto Corp	Posted - 2008.08.28 10:26:00 - [10] Edited by: Verone on 28/08/2008 10:28:06 Originally by: Bob Stuart Does the Amarr religion or its priests consider that to be deviancy? If you think putting on a voice when you're down and dirty having some fun is even remotely close to deviancy, then your life in that respect must be very timid indeed. Being upfront, honest, confident and open with your lover about what turns you on, plus taking care of her needs to make sure you know how to get her going and keep her satisfied is the sure key to success. Talk with her about it... Ethan grins with amusement as his feed ends... \o/ EON FICTION WRITER OF THE YEAR! \o/ >>> THE LIFE OF AN OUTLAW <<<

Myrhial Arkenath Ghost Festival	Posted - 2008.08.28 10:37:00 - [11] It does not matter what her religion thinks is correct here, but what she thinks herself. If she was truely that close to the book she'd not have shared a bed with you already. I can only echo that you should have an honest conversation about this matter with her. But why bring this up on GalNet? If she has access to the IGS as well and reads this...well, you may actually upset her more that way. Diary of a pod pilot
Karanth Gallente Eve's Brothers of Destiny FOUNDATI0N	Posted - 2008.08.28 10:40:00 - [12] What is wrong with you kids nowadays? Now, back when I was younger and slightly more limber (You know what these clones are made of? Not exactly grade A+ dancing material...) we used to do all sorts of crazy things. Trees were sometimes involved, as was a hot tub in the back of a huge luxury vehicle that bounced. I still have a recording of that night, and it has kept me in ships more than once.... Anyway, unless you can record the event and commit blackmail with it, it's not really that deviant in any way. Not that I ever did something like that, no sir! --- Wheel of Whineage
Rodj Blake Amarr PIE Inc.	Posted - 2008.08.28 10:57:00 - [13] Originally by: BloodBird Edited by: BloodBird on 28/08/2008 09:54:48 Originally by: Rodj Blake Mr Stuart, I heartily recommend you enrol on one of the SPCS' religious education courses. They have a long and noble history of educating ignorant heathens such as yourself. Not only will they be able to answer all of your questions regarding religion in some detail, but they will also provide you accommodation and employment upon the completion of the course Oh, that's sweet - the guy asks a rather simple question that could do with a yes/no answer, and you ask him to go sign himself off as a slave? Slave is such an emotive word. I prefer the term "adopted worker" Dulce et decorum est pro imperium mori.
Silver Night Caldari Naqam Exalted.	Posted - 2008.08.28 11:14:00 - [14] If you can't ask such a simple question for fear of offense, then you perhaps have larger relationship problems. If you and your friend are engaged in 'activity' while unmarried, what makes you think such a simple little variation will be a big problem? -------------- The Clown Man. GLS Mr. State Caldari Patriot. Sansha's Nation Supporter
Jaliaah	Posted - 2008.08.28 11:15:00 - [15] A simple hint: Women generally don't like it if you talk about their "bedroom-stuff" to others, much less the whole GalNET. But we DO want to talk with our partner about the stuff thats supposed to make the bedroom a special place and not one of misunderstanding, so you best talk to her right away... and if you are brave enough you might outta confess to her the thing about GalNET as well. -Jaliaah
Kitoba Minmatar Legion of Dynamic Discord	Posted - 2008.08.28 12:02:00 - [16] Originally by: Bob Stuart I would like my friend to put on a particular accent when we engage in erotic activity. Don't worry, just find a Matar Shaman and let him fix you some herb tea... it'll care about your little problem with that active speech centre. Ah, and while you're there, don't forget the raspberry sauce.
Carcosa Hali Naqam Exalted.	Posted - 2008.08.28 12:50:00 - [17] You know, girls like courage in a guy. nods surely They do. -------------- Sometimes you lose it all... Sacrifice: The Sansha War
Vaden Khale Amarr the united	Posted - 2008.08.28 13:19:00 - [18] *While perusing GalNet and sipping his ever present red wine, Vaden inadvertently spurts the wine from his mouth upon hearing Stuart's request. He immediately opens channel.* May I drown in blood...What in the name of God is wrong with you? Are you truly thinking that a false accent is deviancy in Amarr? What would God care if she adopts a different accent? If you want what the Amarr would call deviancy, then you should turn to me as an example. *Vaden stands back, revealing Sani Sabik symbols and scriptures etched on his holder's robe.* By normal Amarrian standards, I am a deviant, although the only practice, beyond my normal religious beliefs, that would offend them is the sharing of blood between lovers. A gentle slice, and we drink from our lover's wrists as we make love. That is deviancy in Amarr. *Vaden adopts a different tone to mock another on this channel.* Isn't that right, Mr. Blake? Hold my beer while I nail your sister.
Inara Subaka Caldari the united	Posted - 2008.08.28 13:34:00 - [19] audio only channel opens Originally by: Bob Stuart I would like my friend to put on a particular accent when we engage in erotic activity. However, I am concerned that this would be against her religion. Does the Amarr religion or its priests consider that to be deviancy? Well my initial reaction has already been covered by the lovely Pilot Rendar... Originally by: Kimochi Rendar Out of interest, what accent specifically? Good luck, and have fun! Accents are a rather tame fetish though, you should consider looking into some more creative things. Originally by: Camperific Installing a dancing pole in your station quarters, Not my personal favorite, but it works for some people. Originally by: Camperific Getting her to dress as a Khanid schoolgirl, Never got the whole schoolgirl thing, but it does seem to be somewhat popular. Originally by: Camperific Achura cord bondage, If I turned the video feed on... let's just say that I agree with him on this point. Originally by: Camperific Kruul's book of '10001 positions you can't do without dislocation' His writings are quite amusing, but rather impractical for the untrained "deviant". I would suggest something simpler to start with... say Kruul's Sexual Exploration for Beginners. It covers the basics, as well as giving you a small survey to help you determine what fetishes will suit you more in the future. Originally by: Verone If you think putting on a voice when you're down and dirty having some fun is even remotely close to deviancy, then your life in that respect must be very timid indeed. I tend to agree with Pilot Verone on this point... loosen up a bit. Originally by: Verone ...taking care of her needs to make sure you know how to get her going and keep her satisfied is the sure key to success. Talk with her about it... The most intelligent thing I think I've ever seen him say... Originally by: Jaliaah Women generally don't like it if you talk about their "bedroom-stuff" to others, much less the whole GalNET. Ignore her, she could be a closet exhibitionist... Maybe she's reading these words right now, knowing that there are possibly millions of people reading about her most intimate life, and maybe she's getting "hot and bothered" by it. You should really go talk to her, if you need neutral territory to try stretching your wings with your "friend", I offer one of the spare houses on my planetside estate... I only ask you leave the recording equipment alone. Originally by: Carcosa Hali You know, girls like courage in a guy. nods surely They do. I prefer mine to be on the submissive side. I have yet to meet a man that can make me submit properly... You might consider that as well, maybe she wants to tie you down and have her way with you and she's just afraid of how you'll react. All in all, you and your friend just need to have a heart to heart. Probably with many bottles of wine or spirits to loosen your tongues, and discuss openly the things that stimulate each other.
Veron Daerth Amarr Blood Meridian	Posted - 2008.08.28 14:23:00 - [20] <The channel opens, Veron Daerth sits in his office.> Ahh, Pilot Subaka. I havent heard anything from you for some time. I had begun to suspect the worst. Your comments, as always, provide fascinating reading material. I never know exactly what your going to say next. Pilot Stuart. What happens in the bedroom should stay in the bedroom. Quite frankly, how her priest would come to know of what you may or may not have done together is something that worries me, not so much what might be deviant. The accent should not be "deviant" by any means at any rate. However, remember that it is highly improper to discuss such a private thing as your sexual relationship in public. At least your young lady probably looks at it so. May God grant you all wisdom, Pilots.

Sakura Nihil Stimulus	Posted - 2008.08.28 14:40:00 - [21] Originally by: Bob Stuart I would like my friend to put on a particular accent when we engage in erotic activity. Kinky. Football? Hell yes.
Scagga Laebetrovo Ammatar Free Corps	Posted - 2008.08.28 14:51:00 - [22] If you don't need to know, don't ask. "I had a read of the General discussion section. Part of my empathy to my fellow man died."
Inara Subaka Caldari the united	Posted - 2008.08.28 15:01:00 - [23] video feed is active this time and a rather exhausted Inara is shown sitting in a robe Originally by: Veron Daerth Ahh, Pilot Subaka. I havent heard anything from you for some time. I had begun to suspect the worst. Your comments, as always, provide fascinating reading material. I never know exactly what your going to say next. I assure you, I have simply been busy and no ill has befallen me. Between work and pleasure maneuvers the camera to show a body passed out and half covered, freshly loosened ropes strewn about I haven't had a chance to visit GalNet recently. Originally by: Veron Daerth Pilot Stuart. What happens in the bedroom should stay in the bedroom. Quite frankly, how her priest would come to know of what you may or may not have done together is something that worries me, not so much what might be deviant. Why should it stay in the bedroom? Outside, or in a workshop, the kitchen is always fun, one of my closer servants has shown particular aptitude when in the weight room (he's quite creative), not to mention those quick exploits in public areas where there is the thrill of someone walking in on you or looking under the table at the restaurant. Perhaps they have asked their priest to join them... a man with that many years of pent up frustration without release would be an animal shivers at the thought as a wide grin crosses her face. I wonder if Archie dearest is busy? I might need to make a trip to Amarrian HiSec, or offer him an invitation to visit me for a day... As a holder himself, maybe he has the fortitude to make me submit... doubtful, but I can always hope. Originally by: Veron Daerth However, remember that it is highly improper to discuss such a private thing as your sexual relationship in public. At least your young lady probably looks at it so. Why the taboo on sex? We all do it (unless there is something fundamentally wrong with you), I believe your God himself described it as one of his most precious gifts to humanity. Besides, if sex was a bad thing, why does it feel so inexplicably wonderful?
Vaden Khale Amarr the united	Posted - 2008.08.28 18:21:00 - [24] *Vaden shakes his head as his colleage exposes her exploits.* First off, I believe our time in Gallente space has infected you with their hedonism. Second, I do pray that is not one of your slaves you recently...exhausted. And finally, please try to refrain from doing one of your exploits at a company meeting. Lady Door would be most put off. *Vaden closes comm channel with a jovial grin, one strangely absent of malice.* Hold my beer while I nail your sister.
Zapp Brenigan Caldari Ishukone Black Watch	Posted - 2008.08.28 18:49:00 - [25] Tying her to a bulkhead in your ship, then getting a Slaver Hound to lick her while 12 Sebiestor midgets chant the Pax Amarria and tickle her with feathers, while you smear nanite paste all over yourself would probably be considered 'deviant'. Talking in a funny voice is just lack of imagination.
Veron Daerth Amarr Blood Meridian	Posted - 2008.08.28 18:52:00 - [26] Pilot Subaka, you must understand that what goes on between my wife and myself is a private thing between us. I do not share my exploits and actions with others and I trust that she does not do the same. Of course, we both come from rather rigid cultures (Amarrian and Jin-Mei) where propriety and public composure is ... encouraged. I would never suggest that sex is in any way improper, only that it is a matter of personal privacy between the persons involved. If the young lady is likely or even remotely inclined to find the, frankly, small matter, of an accent to be offensive... I highly doubt she would appreciate having the "play" she and her lover engage in broadcast here or anywhere. It isnt a matter of secrets, only a matter of impropriety. Frankly, many Amarrians engage in acts of... dubious morality, I suppose you could say, when it comes to sex. Look at the late Chamberlain Karsoth's activities, or perhaps some of the indiscretions of Ariticio Kor-Azor. Undoubtedly, there is "deviancy" in all walks of life in the Empire when it comes to sex. Just as undoubtedly, sex is considered a "private" matter, and intruding on a matter of someone else's privacy is taboo. It is improper. After all, everyone knows it is the hedonistic Gallente that seek to pry into every neighbors affairs, who revel in the public scandals of their elite, their holo-stars and politicians and their wealthy. <Veron Daerth smiles ironically> And we mustn't be like the Gallente, now can we. At any rate, Pilot Stuart, I was a bit pressed for time earlier, so I was a bit short with your answer, but I would suggest asking her openly what she thinks. I have found that openness and a bit of forthright bluntness can be... refreshing and that when you treat someone as an adult capable of making an informed decision, they usually respond better. Be blunt, but not tactless, ask her, sir, what she thinks. You might be surprised. One other thing Pilot Subaka, I have never seen in any scripture or canon law that prevents a priest from marrying or even having sex. The priests that serve most of my Holds have wives. They are expected to give advice on marital issues, how can they understand these issues without any experience of the state of marriage, or with dealing with a spouse? It would be quite like asking a man that has never had any experience whatsoever with running a ship to captain one. Just my thoughts, take them as you will. May the Light of God guide you in times of Darkness and Doubt, Pilots.
Bob Stuart D. S. Radioactive Sheep Farm	Posted - 2008.08.28 18:54:00 - [27] Some replies first Originally by: Verone If you think putting on a voice when you're down and dirty having some fun is even remotely close to deviancy, then your life in that respect must be very timid indeed. It's not what I consider deviancy that's the problem, it's what she considers that's important. I'm just not that good with words, and find it hard to phrase the question "What sort of depravity are you into?" in the right way. Originally by: BloodBird I think it's sweet how he would risk the ire of the Amarr's collective faithful in public instead of risking to hurt his girlfriend, honestly, I do. Thats just the way I am, I guess. Originally by: Veron Daerth Quite frankly, how her priest would come to know of what you may or may not have done together is something that worries me, not so much what might be deviant. I was under the impression that priests can see all, that everything wrong that you have ever done is visible to a trained priest, much like a thought balloon in a flatpic comic strip. Anyway, I met her and confessed all. She was amused, enough so that she only destroyed my ship, not my capsule.
Avel Kereka Amarr The Aegis Militia Aegis Militia	Posted - 2008.08.28 18:57:00 - [28] Originally by: Bob Stuart I would like my friend to put on a particular accent when we engage in erotic activity. However, I am concerned that this would be against her religion. Does the Amarr religion or its priests consider that to be deviancy? It's deviancy for her to be sleeping with a Gallente in the first place. As far as the devout are concerned your harlot can wear a collar and bark like a dog since she's doomed to hellfire anyway.
Bob Stuart D. S. Radioactive Sheep Farm	Posted - 2008.08.28 19:35:00 - [29] Originally by: Avel Kereka harlot I have to ask you to retract that.
Vieve Tisserand Gallente Stimulus	Posted - 2008.08.28 20:33:00 - [30] Originally by: Zapp Brenigan you smear nanite paste all over yourself I would not recommend this. It itches. ------------------------- Humanist. Meritocrat. Devil's Advo ... er, Secretary.

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