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Mitawyn
Caldari ALLIED TACTICAL TECHNOLOGIES The Chamber of Commerce
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Posted - 2009.06.22 17:43:00 -
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As a parent of only one child, a son, I feel deeply for your tragic loss. I wish peace for you and your family.
Mitawyn
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Whitehound
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Posted - 2009.06.22 18:34:00 -
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Another attempt to use the Internet for everything.
Dear OP, the Internet is hardly a place for grieving. Get real and share your sorrow with the friends and family close to you. Keep away from the Internet and games and everything else, which gives you joy and satisfaction. You cannot replace your loss or your sorrow with something else.
This thread sucks. -- If there is anything in your life you fear of losing, then keep your mouth shut once in a while. |
BlackDragonShadow
Caldari
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Posted - 2009.06.22 19:43:00 -
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Originally by: Whitehound Another attempt to use the Internet for everything.
Dear OP, the Internet is hardly a place for grieving. Get real and share your sorrow with the friends and family close to you. Keep away from the Internet and games and everything else, which gives you joy and satisfaction. You cannot replace your loss or your sorrow with something else.
This thread sucks.
Wow you're a *****. |
Whitehound
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Posted - 2009.06.22 20:14:00 -
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Edited by: Whitehound on 22/06/2009 20:16:43
Originally by: BlackDragonShadow Wow you're a *****.
I imagine that you feel sorrow with every death notice you read. You should read more of them though you will not find too many of them here on the EVE forum. -- If there is anything in your life you fear of losing, then keep your mouth shut once in a while. |
Llondon Hilton
Minmatar Evolution KenZoku
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Posted - 2009.06.23 05:50:00 -
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My sincerest condolences and prayers for strength and comfort to you and your family.
I have a 15 year old and 4 others behind her. Dreading those nights out. I hope your story saves other lives by alerting parents to be more protective and informed.
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BlackDragonShadow
Caldari
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Posted - 2009.06.23 06:03:00 -
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Originally by: Whitehound Edited by: Whitehound on 22/06/2009 20:16:43
Originally by: BlackDragonShadow Wow you're a *****.
I imagine that you feel sorrow with every death notice you read. You should read more of them though you will not find too many of them here on the EVE forum.
Granted death is a natural part of life and something every thing will eventually have to experience but to make light of it or insult it is rude and disrespectful. I'm sorry that you're jaded by death or feel no sorrow or sympathy for those that have lost someone but that doesn't really give you the right to be an *******. Didn't your mom ever teach you the wise old words of: If you can't say anything nice then don't say anything at all? |
Intense Thinker
Minmatar
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Posted - 2009.06.23 06:45:00 -
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Yeah,that's pretty low even by my standards... and that's saying a lot |
Whitehound
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Posted - 2009.06.23 09:46:00 -
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Edited by: Whitehound on 23/06/2009 09:51:33
Originally by: BlackDragonShadow Granted death is a natural part of life and something every thing will eventually have to experience but to make light of it or insult it is rude and disrespectful. I'm sorry that you're jaded by death or feel no sorrow or sympathy for those that have lost someone but that doesn't really give you the right to be an *******. Didn't your mom ever teach you the wise old words of: If you can't say anything nice then don't say anything at all?
Firstly, you insulted me, calling me a *****. How does this fit here? Now you go off into a rant and add more insult. Is this how you show your condolences? I need to ask, because, you know, I am the one who is low here.
If you want to give your condolences to everyone then I am sure will you find enough websites where one can get people's condolences from Russia, India, China, Brazil, Alaska, Africa and Europe. And with people dying every day will it allow you posting on the Internetz 24/7!
OOPE is not the appropriate place to mourn the dead. Just because we have the Internet does not mean that everything needs to go public. There are still things we keep private and how we mourn the dead is a very part of our culture. Posting it on the Internet sure is not part of my culture. That is what I have learned. The only exception to this is when the dead was an EVE player and somebody posts the player's name so that he or she can be missed. That appears not to be the case here.
This thread sucks, and mourning the dead shall be against the rules, just like posting about politics or religion is. -- If there is anything in your life you fear of losing, then keep your mouth shut once in a while. |
Forgeman
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Posted - 2009.06.23 14:05:00 -
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To Hariya and Whitehound: How would you behave if you lost someone you deeply loved? I suspect it would be by seeking comfort from your friends and community, as Calgorac did. Whether this was the right place to post or not doesn't even remotely come into question. Tragedy such as this overrides all rules utterly, and I believe you will understand this some day.
To Calgorac: Heartfelt sympathy and condolences. As a (distant) member of this community of which we are both part, and as a father, although I cannot ameliorate your pain, I can and do share it.
God be with you. |
Mynxee
Minmatar Hellcats
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Posted - 2009.06.23 14:28:00 -
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Edited by: Mynxee on 23/06/2009 14:33:31 My heart goes out to you, Cal. Please consider grief counseling...it has been instrumental in helping two of my friends not become overwhelmed by the tragic accidental deaths of their own teenage children. Many sympathies for your own tragic loss.
As for those who suggest these forums are not an appropriate place to post death notices, keep in mind that the grieving process is different for everyone. If Cal finds support from the EVE community comforting, then it's no one else's place to tell him that his actions in posting about his stepson's death are inappropriate. Would be nice in relation to serious RL stuff if people could have the decency to say nothing at all if they can't say something supportive.
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Whitehound
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Posted - 2009.06.23 16:21:00 -
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Originally by: Forgeman To Hariya and Whitehound: How would you behave if you lost someone you deeply loved?
It does not concern you!
I know most people do not think about the post. They read the subject, and snap, post their condolences because it is what they were trained to do. But who sees that the OP writes more about himself than about the boy?
Now we know about the f'cked up family situation the boy was in, that he moved away from his step father and how he died, but nothing about the boy himself. And in a forum called "out of pod experience". You think it is not creepy? -- If there is anything in your life you fear of losing, then keep your mouth shut once in a while. |
FOl2TY8
Tribal Liberation Force
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Posted - 2009.06.23 16:48:00 -
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Originally by: Forgeman To Hariya and Whitehound: How would you behave if you lost someone you deeply loved?
I wouldn't post on a video game forum, but that's just me.
Quote: and before anyone asks... No this will have no bearing on CCMS2/CCMS3 Dividend payments and eventual shutdown
Also I'm glad he posted this because you know, his step-son died but this TOTALLY matters. ---------- This post brought to you by the worst PVP'er in Eve |
Kyguard
Amok. Minor Threat.
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Posted - 2009.06.23 17:17:00 -
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Just use the 'report' button, ignore the mental psycho and wait for the ban. -
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BiggestT
Caldari Oz Space Diggers
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Posted - 2009.06.23 17:18:00 -
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Originally by: Whitehound
Originally by: Forgeman To Hariya and Whitehound: How would you behave if you lost someone you deeply loved?
It does not concern you!
I know most people do not think about the post. They read the subject, and snap, post their condolences because it is what they were trained to do. But who sees that the OP writes more about himself than about the boy?
Now we know about the f'cked up family situation the boy was in, that he moved away from his step father and how he died, but nothing about the boy himself. And in a forum called "out of pod experience". You think it is not creepy?
A) If you dont like it, then ignore it! You hate on someone who posts this, saying theres no point when there is seriously NO point in you complaining about it!
B) If he wants to post this he damn well can. Theres nothing wrong with expressing yourslf on a forum or w/e, at least it shows people in game that hes not 100% so that if/when he plays they will know whats wrong.
To the OP, may God be with your son and family.
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FOl2TY8
Tribal Liberation Force
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Posted - 2009.06.23 17:40:00 -
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Originally by: BiggestT
A) If you dont like it, then ignore it! You hate on someone who posts this, saying theres no point when there is seriously NO point in you complaining about it!
B) If he wants to post this he damn well can. Theres nothing wrong with expressing yourslf on a forum or w/e, at least it shows people in game that hes not 100% so that if/when he plays they will know whats wrong.
To the OP, may God be with your son and family.
Oh I'm sorry you haven't been properly introduced. BiggestT, internet, internet, BiggestT. |
BiggestT
Caldari Oz Space Diggers
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Posted - 2009.06.23 17:51:00 -
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Originally by: FOl2TY8
Originally by: BiggestT
A) If you dont like it, then ignore it! You hate on someone who posts this, saying theres no point when there is seriously NO point in you complaining about it!
B) If he wants to post this he damn well can. Theres nothing wrong with expressing yourslf on a forum or w/e, at least it shows people in game that hes not 100% so that if/when he plays they will know whats wrong.
To the OP, may God be with your son and family.
Oh I'm sorry you haven't been properly introduced. BiggestT, internet, internet, BiggestT.
You're cool hey EVE history
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Blane Xero
Amarr The Firestorm Cartel
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Posted - 2009.06.23 18:08:00 -
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Originally by: FOl2TY8
Originally by: Forgeman To Hariya and Whitehound: How would you behave if you lost someone you deeply loved?
I wouldn't post on a video game forum, but that's just me.
Quote: and before anyone asks... No this will have no bearing on CCMS2/CCMS3 Dividend payments and eventual shutdown
Also I'm glad he posted this because you know, his step-son died but this TOTALLY matters.
It matters to Market Discussion, where this thread was originally. It was not intended for OOPE. |
Whitehound
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Posted - 2009.06.23 18:11:00 -
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Edited by: Whitehound on 23/06/2009 18:18:43
Originally by: BiggestT A) If you dont like it ...
I have a reason for posting. I think it disrespects the dead and I find it sick when somebody uses the Internet for this. What is your reason for posting? Hurt feelings? |
HankMurphy
Minmatar XERCORE Cult of War
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Posted - 2009.06.23 18:21:00 -
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attended a funeral of someone way too young to die this wkend. i knew her well but the real pain was seeing her parent's grief.
no parent should have to bury their child. i can't imagine your pain, but know that your not alone. ---------- Hey, sewer rat may taste like pumpkin pie, but I'd never know 'cause I wouldn't eat the filthy mother*****r |
BiggestT
Caldari Oz Space Diggers
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Posted - 2009.06.23 18:48:00 -
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Originally by: Whitehound Edited by: Whitehound on 23/06/2009 18:18:43
Originally by: BiggestT A) If you dont like it ...
I have a reason for posting. I think it disrespects the dead and I find it sick when somebody uses the Internet for this. What is your reason for posting? Hurt feelings?
My reason is that I think its sick to have a go at someone who just lost one of their kids. Bottle it in and show some respect sheesh EVE history
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Whitehound
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Posted - 2009.06.23 18:54:00 -
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Edited by: Whitehound on 23/06/2009 18:54:07
Originally by: BiggestT My reason is that I think its sick to have a go at someone who just lost one of their kids. Bottle it in and show some respect sheesh
I have no respect for people like you and the OP. I have respect for the dead boy and this is how I show it. Keep sucking it up. -- If there is anything in your life you fear of losing, then keep your mouth shut once in a while. |
BlackDragonShadow
Caldari
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Posted - 2009.06.23 19:11:00 -
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Originally by: Whitehound Edited by: Whitehound on 23/06/2009 10:20:08
Originally by: BlackDragonShadow Granted death is a natural part of life and something every thing will eventually have to experience but to make light of it or insult it is rude and disrespectful. I'm sorry that you're jaded by death or feel no sorrow or sympathy for those that have lost someone but that doesn't really give you the right to be an *******. Didn't your mom ever teach you the wise old words of: If you can't say anything nice then don't say anything at all?
Firstly, you insulted me, calling me a *****. How does this fit here? Now you go off into a rant and add more insult. Is this how you show your condolences? I need to ask, because, you know, I am the one who is low here.
If you want to give your condolences to everyone then I am sure will you find enough websites where one can get people's condolences from Russia, India, China, Brazil, Alaska, Africa and Europe. And with people dying every day will it allow you posting on the Internetz 24/7!
OOPE is not the appropriate place to mourn the dead. Just because we have the Internet does not mean that everything needs to go public. There are still things we keep private and how we mourn the dead is an important part of our culture. Posting it on the Internet sure is not part of my culture. That is what I have learned. The only exception to this is when the dead was an EVE player and somebody posts the player's name so that he or she can be missed. That appears not to be the case here.
This thread sucks, and mourning the dead shall be against the rules, just like posting about politics or religion is.
You say that calling you a ***** because of your complete disregard for the feelings of others is unreasonable? No it's not. I've already shown my condolences in a different part of this thread and now I'm merely commenting on how much of a jerk you're being. Eve is a community of people and one of our community has suffered a great lose and you don't think it's appropriate to grieve here? In fact you insult the person who is grieving? Yeah that's messed up man. |
Aya Otosaki
Titan Indurstrial
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Posted - 2009.06.23 19:27:00 -
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Edited by: Aya Otosaki on 23/06/2009 19:28:04 maybe he doesnt have a decent outlet for his pain. all i know is that people that use tragity like this as a platform to vomit their values on people like that white dude are imo scum.
sorry for your loss, when i lost my brother i wanted to scream all over the city. ----- Ignorance is my strength. |
Whitehound
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Posted - 2009.06.23 19:30:00 -
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Originally by: BlackDragonShadow You say that calling you a ***** because of your complete disregard for the feelings of others is unreasonable?
What? Can you repeat that for me so I can understand it? -- If there is anything in your life you fear of losing, then keep your mouth shut once in a while. |
Whitehound
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Posted - 2009.06.23 19:45:00 -
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Originally by: Aya Otosaki maybe he doesnt have a decent outlet for his pain.
So he logs onto the EVE forums and posts it into market discussions?
Quote: all i know is that people that use tragity like this as a platform to vomit their values on people like that white dude are imo scum.
vomit ... s****...? What values are these? You seem to have none. It must be pretty painful to learn some new values I suppose. -- If there is anything in your life you fear of losing, then keep your mouth shut once in a while. |
BlackDragonShadow
Caldari
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Posted - 2009.06.23 19:46:00 -
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Originally by: Whitehound
Originally by: BlackDragonShadow You say that calling you a ***** because of your complete disregard for the feelings of others is unreasonable?
What? Can you repeat that for me so I can understand it?
What needs explaining?
This sig was awesome but needs more EvE related content. - Mitnal
Fine. EVE Online |
Whitehound
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Posted - 2009.06.23 19:48:00 -
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Originally by: BlackDragonShadow What needs explaining?
Start with explaining your entire logic to me. -- If there is anything in your life you fear of losing, then keep your mouth shut once in a while. |
BlackDragonShadow
Caldari
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Posted - 2009.06.23 20:00:00 -
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Originally by: Whitehound
Originally by: BlackDragonShadow What needs explaining?
Start with explaining your entire logic to me.
1) You're a jerk to the op.
2) I call you a ***** for being a jerk.
3) You take offense to this. And try to defend your actions with logic as oppose to empathy.
4) I point out your BS and remind you that regardless of your reasons that's still no reason to be a jerk to someone in morning. |
Whitehound
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Posted - 2009.06.23 20:20:00 -
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Originally by: BlackDragonShadow 4) I point out your BS and remind you that regardless of your reasons that's still no reason to be a jerk to someone in morning.
No BS here. Your logic fails. It is all common sense. |
Marlona Sky
D00M. Triumvirate.
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Posted - 2009.06.23 21:37:00 -
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Edited by: Marlona Sky on 23/06/2009 21:37:10
Originally by: Whitehound
Originally by: BlackDragonShadow 4) I point out your BS and remind you that regardless of your reasons that's still no reason to be a jerk to someone in morning.
No BS here. Your logic fails. It is all common sense.
Go away.
And who's alt are you? Just seems like everytime someone has unfortunate events there is always someone like you ready to kick them while they are down. What kind of sickness drives people to be like you?
You know, don't bother answering, just go away.
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