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Plastic Psycho
Necro-Economics
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Posted - 2014.01.15 17:13:00 -
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Reaver Glitterstim wrote:If a woman shares her body openly with me, that's a really sweet thing of her to do, and I'll try my best to make her happy about that. Good attitude. You'll go far.
Quote:I've always seen sex portrayed as two lovers joining together in a writhing mass of hands and lips. I assume real sex can't be so different, but I find such an act unattractive and a little frightening. Not so much, no. It's both more prosaiic, and at the same time, much more fun. Don't be afraid to be playful, and don't be afraid to slow the action down, and ask questions such as "what do you want me to do?" or "whould you do this for me?"
Sex comes in a lot of flavors - almost none of it is "Hollywood," "****," or "Romance Novel" flavorsed though. Unless you get REALLY lucky. Which does happen. Rarely. And seriously, who would *want* sex like that all the time?
Quote: I imagine sex as a slow and glamorous process of discovery for both parties, as each one shows off their body to the other. My idea of sex doesn't happen in the dark or under the covers, but in bright light. Please tell me I'm not alone in this. Not so often, here, either, though you're working towards a better idea. Sex can be fast, slow, soft, violent, gentle, hard, serious, silly, or all of the above. And then some. It *is* a communication, and ideally should be a partnership. But just like you don't always talk about the same subject, you don't always screw in the same mood or way, either.
Reaver Glitterstim wrote:Why would I want to check her pulse during sex? Seems invasive. I bet she would feel turned off by that, unless she had a fetish about being monitored. Heh! There are many pulse-points. And many ways to check them... Lips are incredibly sensitive - Kiss a pulse point and you can generally get a good idea of what's going on. If you can seperate her pulse from yours... CCP, debuff Barges, or buff Ganking. Either will do for me, but we need more Yaaar! in this game lest it become WoW in Spaaaaace! -á~ Me |
Plastic Psycho
Necro-Economics
670
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Posted - 2014.01.15 17:32:00 -
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Cherry-picking (heh!) some cosmic truths, here.
Sebastor Cane wrote: 4. Sex is a two way process and you keep refining it working out what they like and what they dont. you keep at it and your sex life will go through the roof
5. (biggest noob mistake ever) just because it feels good to you does not mean it will feel good to them
6. Never ever talk about your sex life with anyone. Have respect for your partners
8. Communication is everything and at the sexual level it will bring you closer.
Seriously. This. ^^
Quote: MMF is never good. If you look at each other then its instant boner killer
Personally agree, but I know some folks that kink that way. No "absolutes" in sex - it's a continuum.
Quote:MFF is an exercise in logistics (if you want to please them both)
MFF women can get jealous of each other (back to logistics) Communicate, communicate, communicate. Never stop communicating. Also: Negotiate. In advance. Who gets to do what, to whom, when? What are the Safe Words?(slow down, stop, and Go!) What there the no-go points? How will you bail out gracefully if things get too weird? Oh, and are you communicating?
It sounds... Unromantic. Having been there though, lemme tell ya - done right, and you'll float for days afterwards - and so will your partners. Done wrong, and you'll ruin a perfectly good relationship (or two).
Quote: There is no difference racially between women
Yup. Turn out the light, and they all look the same. Treat 'em differently because of skin color, and you'll wake up on the floor wondering who hit you, and how many times. Treat 'em right, and you may still get the stuffing slapped out of you, but it won't be for *that* reason. CCP, debuff Barges, or buff Ganking. Either will do for me, but we need more Yaaar! in this game lest it become WoW in Spaaaaace! -á~ Me |
Khergit Deserters
Crom's Angels
2613
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Posted - 2014.01.15 18:22:00 -
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Eurydia Vespasian wrote:in this thread: much testosterone and aggrandizing of "knowledge" on the part of males. stay tuned for more revelations which may be insightful or total bullshit. only time can tell. EV, are you saying that this thread belongs over in "New Players Q&A"? |
Reaver Glitterstim
Dromedaworks inc Test Alliance Please Ignore
850
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Posted - 2014.01.15 19:01:00 -
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I think Eevee was saying that the responses are coming from men. I believe the point is that the veiws expressed will fail to cover the bases when they don't include the views from both sides. Fit a warfare link to your tech 1 battlecruiser. Train Wing Commander. Get in the Squad Commander or Wing Commander position. Your fleets will be superior to everyone else's. (had this sig BEFORE Odyssey BC rebalance) And bring back the missile Inquisitor!! |
Plastic Psycho
Necro-Economics
674
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Posted - 2014.01.15 20:02:00 -
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Khergit Deserters wrote:Eurydia Vespasian wrote:in this thread: much testosterone and aggrandizing of "knowledge" on the part of males. stay tuned for more revelations which may be insightful or total bullshit. only time can tell. EV, are you saying that this thread belongs over in "New Players Q&A"? "New Playas"... Heh.
CCP, debuff Barges, or buff Ganking. Either will do for me, but we need more Yaaar! in this game lest it become WoW in Spaaaaace! -á~ Me |
Slade Trillgon
Brutor Tribe Minmatar Republic
1251
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Posted - 2014.01.16 00:25:00 -
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Onyx Nyx wrote:Was she at least tattooed on her lower back so she could offer you something to read?
One of the individuals where I work, pool rehab facility, had a tattoo across her shoulders.
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Eurydia Vespasian wrote:in this thread: much testosterone and aggrandizing of "knowledge" on the part of males. stay tuned for more revelations which may be insightful or total bullshit. only time can tell.
Any other contribution other than your first response? Your first post was a spot on, but your last 2-3 posts makes me wonder what your angle is....
Reaver Glitterstim wrote:I think Eevee was saying that the responses are coming from men. I believe the point is that the veiws expressed will fail to cover the bases when they don't include the views from both sides.
Which is true but VE's responses actually make me feel like she is a women that is refusing to respond and instead choses to patronize a little instead. I could be completely and totally wrong though |
Reaver Glitterstim
Dromedaworks inc Test Alliance Please Ignore
855
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Posted - 2014.01.16 00:32:00 -
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Not my first guess but I wouldn't say that's not the case. Fit a warfare link to your tech 1 battlecruiser. Train Wing Commander. Get in the Squad Commander or Wing Commander position. Your fleets will be superior to everyone else's. (had this sig BEFORE Odyssey BC rebalance) And bring back the missile Inquisitor!! |
Eurydia Vespasian
Storm Hunters
4916
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Posted - 2014.01.16 01:59:00 -
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I might be purposefully giving you a bit of a hard time...and also being entertained at some of the responses. As far as responding to the direction this convo has taken since it was revealed to be a troll attempt, well, it's not a topic I generally delve into detail about publically lol.
I'd say there have been a few bullet points I agree with and a few that have made me laugh a bit. Some of the things put forth could possibly have come out of grocery store romance novels or something lol. Reading the boasts and banter of guys when the topic turns to sex is pretty much always entertaining.
that is my angle. if it can be called such. |
Slade Trillgon
Brutor Tribe Minmatar Republic
1251
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Posted - 2014.01.16 03:16:00 -
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Fair enough.
*self medit*
EDIT: TBH the only reason I responded in the first place is because I was trying to prevent someone from being maximally hurt. I was raised by a mother and two sisters and I always put that into my mind when ever relationships and women are 'on'...for better or worse. |
Rain6637
Team Evil
8219
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Posted - 2014.01.16 06:56:00 -
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hey one more thing, if you ask someone if they like it rough they could say no. but fact is, everyone likes it rough Rainfleet on Twitch |
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Reaver Glitterstim
Dromedaworks inc Test Alliance Please Ignore
856
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Posted - 2014.01.16 09:50:00 -
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I don''t like it rough, and that's a fact. But I see the point you are making. Some people may like it rough and not be willing to say so, or might not know it yet. Fit a warfare link to your tech 1 battlecruiser. Train Wing Commander. Get in the Squad Commander or Wing Commander position. Your fleets will be superior to everyone else's. (had this sig BEFORE Odyssey BC rebalance) And bring back the missile Inquisitor!! |
Onyx Nyx
Euphoria Released Triumvirate.
606
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Posted - 2014.01.16 10:29:00 -
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Reaver Glitterstim wrote:I don''t like it rough, and that's a fact. But I see the point you are making. Some people may like it rough and not be willing to say so, or might not know it yet.
Well, if it isn't rough, it isn't fun. I kill kittens, and puppies and bunnies. I maim toddlers and teens and then more. |
Reaver Glitterstim
Dromedaworks inc Test Alliance Please Ignore
856
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Posted - 2014.01.16 10:48:00 -
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I think the best sex is somewhere between a hang-out night with no TV and an art exhibition involving no paintings and two sculptures. Fit a warfare link to your tech 1 battlecruiser. Train Wing Commander. Get in the Squad Commander or Wing Commander position. Your fleets will be superior to everyone else's. (had this sig BEFORE Odyssey BC rebalance) And bring back the missile Inquisitor!! |
Rain6637
Team Evil
8230
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Posted - 2014.01.16 15:18:00 -
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ok i just saw the updated op. 1 yes, you've misjudged how common this is, and 2 stick to your guns next time/you're doing it wrong Rainfleet on Twitch |
Eurydia Vespasian
Storm Hunters
4919
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Posted - 2014.01.16 15:45:00 -
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Onyx Nyx wrote:Reaver Glitterstim wrote:I don''t like it rough, and that's a fact. But I see the point you are making. Some people may like it rough and not be willing to say so, or might not know it yet. Well, if it isn't rough, it isn't fun.
I guess that would depend on what qualifies as "rough." Used in this context it could have a plethora of different meanings. |
Slade Trillgon
Brutor Tribe Minmatar Republic
1377
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Posted - 2014.01.16 16:02:00 -
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Eurydia Vespasian wrote:Onyx Nyx wrote:Reaver Glitterstim wrote:I don''t like it rough, and that's a fact. But I see the point you are making. Some people may like it rough and not be willing to say so, or might not know it yet. Well, if it isn't rough, it isn't fun. I guess that would depend on what qualifies as "rough." Used in this context it could have a plethora of different meanings.
Just like I think about most aspects of the human experience, liking rough with sex occurs on a spectrum that follows some form of a bell curve, in my opinion. And like all other things, the fun is in the exploration. Just like with most exploration diving in head first is rarely the best option......
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Plastic Psycho
Necro-Economics
688
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Posted - 2014.01.16 16:12:00 -
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Eurydia Vespasian wrote:I'd say there have been a few bullet points I agree with and a few that have made me laugh a bit. Some of the things put forth could possibly have come out of grocery store romance novels or something lol. Reading the boasts and banter of guys when the topic turns to sex is pretty much always entertaining. that is my angle. if it can be called such. Uh-huh. So - you're going to sit back and giggle, but not willing to put your two cents-worth on the line? I see.
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Rain6637
Team Evil
8230
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Posted - 2014.01.16 16:18:00 -
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Eurydia Vespasian wrote:Onyx Nyx wrote:Reaver Glitterstim wrote:I don''t like it rough, and that's a fact. But I see the point you are making. Some people may like it rough and not be willing to say so, or might not know it yet. Well, if it isn't rough, it isn't fun. I guess that would depend on what qualifies as "rough." Used in this context it could have a plethora of different meanings. rough as in ' you'll do as i say ' except i won't be saying anything Rainfleet on Twitch |
Reaver Glitterstim
Dromedaworks inc Test Alliance Please Ignore
864
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Posted - 2014.01.16 19:34:00 -
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I think intercourse should be the dessert after the meal--the meal being the art exhibition Fit a warfare link to your tech 1 battlecruiser. Train Wing Commander. Get in the Squad Commander or Wing Commander position. Your fleets will be superior to everyone else's. (had this sig BEFORE Odyssey BC rebalance) And bring back the missile Inquisitor!! |
Rain6637
Team Evil
8230
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Posted - 2014.01.16 19:45:00 -
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and i suppose you are concerned with things like names, and age, and marital status Rainfleet on Twitch |
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Eurydia Vespasian
Storm Hunters
4920
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Posted - 2014.01.16 20:03:00 -
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Plastic Psycho wrote:Eurydia Vespasian wrote:I'd say there have been a few bullet points I agree with and a few that have made me laugh a bit. Some of the things put forth could possibly have come out of grocery store romance novels or something lol. Reading the boasts and banter of guys when the topic turns to sex is pretty much always entertaining. that is my angle. if it can be called such. Uh-huh. So - you're going to sit back and giggle, but not willing to put your two cents-worth on the line? I see.
i'll express my two-cents and approvals through the dishing out of likes. |
Reaver Glitterstim
Dromedaworks inc Test Alliance Please Ignore
864
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Posted - 2014.01.16 20:20:00 -
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Rain6637 wrote:and i suppose you are concerned with things like names, and age, and marital status I like to have a way to refer to someone if I need to, though I have a habit of realizing that when I need it, and not before. I'm guilty more than once of getting deep into a relationship with a gal and not knowing her name. It didn't matter when we were alone with each other.
I think it is important for a sexual partner to be ready, able, willing, and uncoerced into a relationship. I think that folks who are too young simply haven't had time to be ready, but otherwise age is just a number that refers to little other than net experience and health, and it's not even an accurate measure of those things.
Marriage is an ancient tradition centered around forcing monogamy on naturally polygamous animals who get sexually jealous and territorial. It is an ancient governing strategy designed to keep short-sighted animals from destroying their own relationships with faulty instincts, and taking their civilization down along with their faults. I'll accept marriage as a necessary evil for some, but I know that educated and sexually liberated people can rise beyond that and not have a need for marriage.
So in answer to your comment, no I'm not really concerned with those things. Fit a warfare link to your tech 1 battlecruiser. Train Wing Commander. Get in the Squad Commander or Wing Commander position. Your fleets will be superior to everyone else's. (had this sig BEFORE Odyssey BC rebalance) And bring back the missile Inquisitor!! |
Rain6637
Team Evil
8245
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Posted - 2014.01.17 05:19:00 -
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k great then. problem solved. cuz like me you won't have a name or number to go on anyway Rainfleet on Twitch |
Reaver Glitterstim
Dromedaworks inc Test Alliance Please Ignore
866
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Posted - 2014.01.17 05:45:00 -
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I usually get the number before the name. The number is useful. Fit a warfare link to your tech 1 battlecruiser. Train Wing Commander. Get in the Squad Commander or Wing Commander position. Your fleets will be superior to everyone else's. (had this sig BEFORE Odyssey BC rebalance) And bring back the missile Inquisitor!! |
Rain6639
Team Evil
1197
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Posted - 2014.01.17 09:16:00 -
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without either is more of a thrill
i think you're just not doing it rite Rainf1337 on Twitch |
Hells Merc
mUfFiN fAcToRy The Marmite Collective
21
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Posted - 2014.01.18 16:31:00 -
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[Initiate compassionate mode]
If the +Ñ+ö-çߦëq spits what's the point ! Effort is a valuable commodity, speaking of which.......
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