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Spr09
Purdue Engineering and Technology Talocan United
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Posted - 2011.12.16 02:20:00 -
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anyone else had the problem where someone thinks they're being funny and insulting you, and they cross the line and get other people to join in? i dont get mad easily, i can roll with the punches. but this guy needs a nosebleed and a broken rib for saying stuff he's said. and on top of that, this guy's such an idiot and so weak i dont want to beat him up because i feel sorry for the *******. anyone else get pissed from these people? |
Surfin's PlunderBunny
Sebiestor Tribe Minmatar Republic
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Posted - 2011.12.16 03:05:00 -
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A likely story.... |
Vicker Lahn'se
Eternity Inc
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Posted - 2011.12.16 03:13:00 -
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Spr09 wrote:anyone else had the problem where someone thinks they're being funny and insulting you, and they cross the line and get other people to join in? i dont get mad easily, i can roll with the punches. but this guy needs a nosebleed and a broken rib for saying stuff he's said. and on top of that, this guy's such an idiot and so weak i dont want to beat him up because i feel sorry for the *******. anyone else get pissed from these people?
To be quite frank, no, I do not have this problem. I don't give a rat's ass what other people think of me, and this is apparent to those around me. If someone insults me, either alone or with a group of people, they don't get the response that they want and the line of conversation quickly changes to something else.
I'm not saying this to be mean, but it sounds like your self confidence partly depends on the approval of those around you. The guy who insulted you and "crossed the line" knew this about you, and was getting his jollies by upsetting you. Before you let someone's comment get to you, ask your self if it really matters what they think of you.
If it really and truly doesn't matter to you what those people think of you, and they still insult you despite how you react, they probably aren't worthy of your time or anyone else's time. If this is the case, tell the first guy to his face that he's behaving like a child and hence is not worth spending time with, and then walk away without looking back. |
Shalia Ripper
The Elevens
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Posted - 2011.12.16 03:56:00 -
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People suck. Period. |
Renturu
Tribal Spirit Tribal Unity Alliance
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Posted - 2011.12.16 05:31:00 -
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Humans Suck! |
prwar desu
Shofixti Expedition
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Posted - 2011.12.16 08:51:00 -
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Spr09 wrote:anyone else had the problem where someone thinks they're being funny and insulting you, and they cross the line and get other people to join in? i dont get mad easily, i can roll with the punches. but this guy needs a nosebleed and a broken rib for saying stuff he's said. and on top of that, this guy's such an idiot and so weak i dont want to beat him up because i feel sorry for the *******. anyone else get pissed from these people?
WHAT DID HE SAY? |
Telegram Sam
The Drones Club
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Posted - 2011.12.16 15:02:00 -
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Sorry to hear that m8. Some primitive people just get their luz from trying to belittle other people. It's a sign of a small mind, you know. Basic primate behavior-- pack members showing aggression to each other to try to establish comparative rank. Luckily, there a few thinking people around who have transcended that sort of primal, primitive psychology. |
Zagam
Incompertus INC Fatal Ascension
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Posted - 2011.12.16 15:10:00 -
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So basically.. as Vicker Lahn'se mentioned... it sounds like someone crossed the line because you are easy to antagonize. I used to be the same way (easy to antagonize), but after a while, I got tired of it, and basically stopped caring. I became painfully blunt (which is an asset more often than not), and didn't give a flying **** what other people think.
Someone insults you, let it go, they are the idiot, and will go after "easier" targets. Someone talks smack about you, it will come back to them eventually. If you go "beat them up", all you are doing is sinking to their level, then taking the whole dispute to another level.... and possibly getting assault charges to boot.
tl;dr - Let it go, be the better man, and work on your self confidence. |
Astrid Stjerna
Teraa Matar
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Posted - 2011.12.16 16:14:00 -
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Spr09 wrote:anyone else had the problem where someone thinks they're being funny and insulting you, and they cross the line and get other people to join in? i dont get mad easily, i can roll with the punches. but this guy needs a nosebleed and a broken rib for saying stuff he's said. and on top of that, this guy's such an idiot and so weak i dont want to beat him up because i feel sorry for the *******. anyone else get pissed from these people?
I worked for two years in an environment that exposed me to that kind of person; I quickly learned to grow a thick skin and press on.
Unfortunately, it takes all kinds to run a world, and one of those kinds is of the Lawful A-Hole alignment. Not much you can do, sadly. |
SpaceSquirrels
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Posted - 2011.12.16 16:54:00 -
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I dunno need an example and setting. Best thing to do in those situations is sling the **** right back at em...Just be more clever.
OR!
Just let them continue so they look like a douchebag.
OR!
If it's passive aggressive non sense directly confront them because they wont have the real balls for confrontation as they're an insecure douchebag. |
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Bodrul
Future Dynamics Needless Friends
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Posted - 2011.12.16 17:00:00 -
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I work in customer service,
the amount of Miserable cunts i serve is not funny so yes most people suck Gaminging Reviews Win Two Months Sub to Eve Online or a game of your choice |
Zagam
Incompertus INC Fatal Ascension
304
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Posted - 2011.12.16 17:27:00 -
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Bodrul wrote:I work in customer service,
the amount of Miserable cunts i serve is not funny so yes most people suck Reason #497 I no longer work in customer service.
"Oh, you have a problem with your thingymajig? Go fly a kite."
"You want us to refund your money AND send you a new one? Shove it up your ****" |
F'lix
Shockwave Innovations
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Posted - 2011.12.16 18:00:00 -
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Having started working in my youth in construction, I acquired quite a thick skin (and ****ing filthy dialect...). Difference here is that if somebody actually didn't like you, they were up front about it. If insults were just being thrown back and forth, that was our way of... socializing.
Like others said, it's likely that he's getting a rise out of you, and he gets a boner for it. Or something like that. I'd pity him, personally. |
Dunbar Hulan
The Flaming Sideburn's Art of War Alliance
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Posted - 2011.12.16 19:15:00 -
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Spr09 wrote:anyone else had the problem where someone thinks they're being funny and insulting you, and they cross the line and get other people to join in? i dont get mad easily, i can roll with the punches. but this guy needs a nosebleed and a broken rib for saying stuff he's said. and on top of that, this guy's such an idiot and so weak i dont want to beat him up because i feel sorry for the *******. anyone else get pissed from these people?
Life is full of knobs mate, they're everywhere, just one of those things to deal with. Take a look round some of the threads in the forums, some guy writes something or asks a question and before you know it, some knob comes along acts like a d1ck. Sometimes wonder why people act like this to be honest. -áThe Sideburns- Always Outnumbered- Never Outgunned. |
Surfin's PlunderBunny
Sebiestor Tribe Minmatar Republic
162
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Posted - 2011.12.16 19:21:00 -
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Dunbar Hulan wrote:Spr09 wrote:anyone else had the problem where someone thinks they're being funny and insulting you, and they cross the line and get other people to join in? i dont get mad easily, i can roll with the punches. but this guy needs a nosebleed and a broken rib for saying stuff he's said. and on top of that, this guy's such an idiot and so weak i dont want to beat him up because i feel sorry for the *******. anyone else get pissed from these people? Life is full of knobs mate, they're everywhere, just one of those things to deal with. Take a look round some of the threads in the forums, some guy writes something or asks a question and before you know it, some knob comes along acts like a d1ck. Sometimes wonder why people act like this to be honest.
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Christopher AET
Segmentum Solar Rolling Thunder.
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Posted - 2011.12.16 20:38:00 -
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I am in the armed forces and the banter can get a bit ,shall we say "excessive". However it's all part of the culture and it's how we joke around. However one of my mates was bantering around and one of the civilian cleaners makes a little "haha yeah" comment.
The immediate silence and daggerlike glares he received made him leave the room rather quickly. It's not so much what you say but what you say to who. |
Herzog Wolfhammer
Sigma Special Tactics Group
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Posted - 2011.12.16 21:47:00 -
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In every case where I have had my balls busted, everybody was heavily armed, but oddly enough, nobody ever thought of hurting anybody.
You'd (if you were conditioned by television and school) think the opposite would happen.
(Note: this was not in a police or military setting either - so we are not state-paid exalted ones who many foolish people would trust as the only people to bear arms ) |
Surfin's PlunderBunny
Sebiestor Tribe Minmatar Republic
162
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Posted - 2011.12.16 21:50:00 -
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Herzog Wolfhammer wrote:In every case where I have had my balls busted, everybody was heavily armed, but oddly enough, nobody ever thought of hurting anybody.
You'd (if you were conditioned by television and school) think the opposite would happen.
(Note: this was not in a police or military setting either - so we are not state-paid exalted ones who many foolish people would trust as the only people to bear arms )
Michigan Militia huh? |
Herzog Wolfhammer
Sigma Special Tactics Group
309
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Posted - 2011.12.16 23:00:00 -
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Surfin's PlunderBunny wrote:Herzog Wolfhammer wrote:In every case where I have had my balls busted, everybody was heavily armed, but oddly enough, nobody ever thought of hurting anybody.
You'd (if you were conditioned by television and school) think the opposite would happen.
(Note: this was not in a police or military setting either - so we are not state-paid exalted ones who many foolish people would trust as the only people to bear arms ) Michigan Militia huh?
No. |
Lady Spank
GET OUT NASTY FACE
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Posted - 2011.12.17 00:28:00 -
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Some drunken bellend on the bus nearly puked all down my back but just barely missed. I'm happy my cat like reflexes got me out of the danger zone in time. Stupid people. (a¦á_a¦â) ~ http://getoutnastyface.blogspot.com/ ~ (a¦á_a¦â) |
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KaarBaak
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Posted - 2011.12.17 15:10:00 -
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Herzog Wolfhammer wrote:Surfin's PlunderBunny wrote:Herzog Wolfhammer wrote:In every case where I have had my balls busted, everybody was heavily armed, but oddly enough, nobody ever thought of hurting anybody.
You'd (if you were conditioned by television and school) think the opposite would happen.
(Note: this was not in a police or military setting either - so we are not state-paid exalted ones who many foolish people would trust as the only people to bear arms ) Michigan Militia huh? No.
A group of ladies with surrogate phalluses standing around teasing each other.
Sounds titillating.
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Citizen20100211442
Carebear Evolution AEQUITAS.
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Posted - 2011.12.17 17:03:00 -
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Spr09 wrote:anyone else had the problem where someone thinks they're being funny and insulting you, and they cross the line and get other people to join in? i dont get mad easily, i can roll with the punches. but this guy needs a nosebleed and a broken rib for saying stuff he's said. and on top of that, this guy's such an idiot and so weak i dont want to beat him up because i feel sorry for the *******. anyone else get pissed from these people?
If you are black, call him racist and sue for hate speech.
If you are jew, call him anti-semite and sue for hate speech.
If you are white.. oh well...just keep your head down One Nation , One Race One Folk, One Faith! |
Lyrrashae
Crushed Ambitions Reckless Ambition
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Posted - 2011.12.18 07:34:00 -
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I used to be an HGV driver, so I know that type all too well, and not being able to do anything about it lest you jeopardise your job
My particular un-favourite however, remains emotionally-parasitic female "friends" who remain your "friend" only as long as you are a reliable crutch for them, and if not useful as such, show their true colours whilst discarding you like a piece of rag they'd use to wipe their arse...All of a sudden, you are just not good enough
Basically, people = shite, and that's all there is to it. I A/F/K cloak in Jita. Does that count? |
BLACK-STAR
262
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Posted - 2011.12.18 09:45:00 -
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confirming depression thread. [img]http://www.imgbox.de/users/S7AR/star.png[/img] |
Dorian Tormak
P0ON
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Posted - 2011.12.19 00:05:00 -
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Citizen20100211442 wrote:If you are black, call him racist and sue for hate speech.
If you are jew, call him anti-semite and sue for hate speech.
If you are white.. oh well...just keep your head down This is the dumbest thing I've ever heard. We don't live in New Eden.
What you should do is simply banter right back at him, do to him exactly what he does to you only twice as bad. See if you can sleep with his mom or girlfriend or something.
"Hey, you're an ugly piece of ****."
"Yeah, well I ****** your mother."
This is real-life PvP. Don't be passive agressive, be more like agressively defensive. Defend yourself and counter-strike everything he says with something better. You want to win, but you don't want to look like an ******* in front of everyone else - you especially want to make him look like the ******* around others (especially his wife/girlfriend; if he doesn't have one make fun of his hooker or call him a virgin or some other **** like that). They might nod with him and laugh at first - and that's what you should do too... an easy thing to do is to hang out with him at a party - most jerks like that can easily be made to look incredibly foolish when drunk because they are so gung-ho and easy to **** off (not to mention goofy and easy to beat in a fight if they decide to attack). Also they tend to be homophobes so implying that he is a *** will really **** him off lmao
Just look for weaknesses in this person and exploit them. Worse comes to worst ignore him. I'M JUST LOOKING FOR AN A55 TO MOUNT!
...."and I've been fighting back ever since...." |
Herzog Wolfhammer
Sigma Special Tactics Group
315
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Posted - 2011.12.19 01:55:00 -
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KaarBaak wrote:Herzog Wolfhammer wrote:Surfin's PlunderBunny wrote:Herzog Wolfhammer wrote:In every case where I have had my balls busted, everybody was heavily armed, but oddly enough, nobody ever thought of hurting anybody.
You'd (if you were conditioned by television and school) think the opposite would happen.
(Note: this was not in a police or military setting either - so we are not state-paid exalted ones who many foolish people would trust as the only people to bear arms ) Michigan Militia huh? No. A group of ladies with surrogate phalluses standing around teasing each other. Sounds titillating.
Oh look, you're so trendy and cool.
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