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Helferin
Gallente Bookmarkers on weed
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Posted - 2007.02.13 19:23:00 -
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Hello people!
Since i am pretty new to the game i finally wanted to try out the EO forums. Now im not posting bull&/$º here it is very, very serious actually. Here it is:
Yesterday ( monday ) i met a girl @ a party, short clearify here: I am 17 and havent got much experience with well... girls..., well so i met her, she came to me and asked me to dance. Sure i said and so we danced, it came that we had loads of fun n stuff. So i asked her for a second date, now i rode into something... It came that i remembered last night earlier this morning ( thursday ).. that i invited her to a date. I was pretty upset about this because i just dont know what to do to impress her. I have her number on a small piece of paper here, and i really WANT TO date her, not only because she is hot...which is not rly important to me actually, but i kinda like her.. well to much talk here.. my actualy problem is:
what the hell shall i do with her on the 1st date?
normal stuff like: - eating ice - cinema - shopping mmh nah, thats to boring for such a girl, so i looked into the forums and found that, what i found out also is that 2nd life peeps and Online gamers have to pretty good ideas... So please please please pleaaaaaaaase help me out... i would really appreciate this!!!!
Please post your ideas for the 1st date here!!!
thx in advance, helf
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Ice9
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Posted - 2007.02.13 19:42:00 -
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Make sure to tell her all about EVE and how long you play it and what its like and all the cool and funny things people say on teh forums and alll about your character and ships you can fly and stuff.
Girls love that kind of thing.
No really!
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DarkMatter
Amarr Mineral Aquisition Group
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Posted - 2007.02.13 19:43:00 -
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Well, don't beat yourself up over "what to do"
Movie, miniature golf, bowling, etc, there is a ton of stuff...
I'm 33, so probably out of the loop as to what teenagers do this day in age, but I will tell you this.
If you are really into each other, it won't matter what you are doing, you'll have fun together.
On the other hand, if she does not seem to be having fun, or is upset at the venue that you chose, best option is to just end the date short and move on...
I'm sure some of the younger EVE players here can give you better ideas on where to take her, what's a cool thing to do these days... My GF and I watch movies at her place a lot of times, but we are old and past the partying stage...
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Deathhawk
Caldari Provisions
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Posted - 2007.02.13 19:43:00 -
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i wouldnt eat ice, that might numb your mouth so you cant talk
Do something that you can both enjoy like ice skating ( alot of touchy feely if she/you cant skate) and its a really good laugh. and youll get to know each other whilst laughing and having a good time.. then you could prolly go for a meal or to the movies...
enjoy
I ROCK - DH
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Jenny Spitfire
Caldari Northern Intelligence SMASH Alliance
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Posted - 2007.02.13 19:46:00 -
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Edited by: Jenny Spitfire on 13/02/2007 19:43:49
Originally by: Helferin what the hell shall i do with her on the 1st date?
normal stuff like: - eating ice - cinema - shopping
Normal stuffs at 17 are fun. Ice skating would be as good as cinema. Just be yourself and do not try too hard to impress. --------- Technica impendi Caldari generis. Pax Caldaria!
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DarkMatter
Amarr Mineral Aquisition Group
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Posted - 2007.02.13 19:50:00 -
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Quote: Just be yourself and do not try too hard to impress
Exactly!
If you snort when you laugh, then do it!
Don't try to change yourself for her, that is the worst way to go about it!
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sugark
Blackguard Brigade
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Posted - 2007.02.13 19:51:00 -
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Find a balance between having time to talk if you want (which kind of excludes the cinema, though it is a classic - but if you do, let her pick the movie) and having something to fill potential silent moments. So I would go for ice-skating, an exhibition, a cd store, a country fair with rollercoasters, a museum, mini-golf, a book store, taking her to your place and cooking together...things like that. It gives you something to talk about but doesn¦t require too much attention. Oh, and be yourself. (Yeah, I know...easier said than done) Good luck ___________________________________________________
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Arabian Goggle
The Dirty Dozen
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Posted - 2007.02.13 20:01:00 -
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Originally by: DarkMatter
Quote: Just be yourself and do not try too hard to impress
Exactly!
If you snort when you laugh, then do it!
Don't try to change yourself for her, that is the worst way to go about it!
Totally agree - Don't hold back
As for things to do, many suggest movies/cinema. While this is sometimes a good idea, you do realize that you spend 2+ hours sitting there not saying anything to each other. The point of the first few dates is to get to know the person. What works for me is to take her out to eat, get a drink, or go for a walk (with some kind of objective - ie. get icecream or walk the dog). Comedy clubs also work nicely.
Girls like to talk about people - their friends and families - this rule always holds. So talk about mutual friends and relationships.
Originally by: Benco97 Licking and small kisses are sometimes involved.
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Helferin
Gallente Bookmarkers on weed
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Posted - 2007.02.13 20:10:00 -
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Originally by: Deathhawk i wouldnt eat ice, that might numb your mouth so you cant talk
Do something that you can both enjoy like ice skating ( alot of touchy feely if she/you cant skate) and its a really good laugh. and youll get to know each other whilst laughing and having a good time.. then you could prolly go for a meal or to the movies...
enjoy
ice skating is a nice idea!!! thx hawk!!
thank you to the others too!!! and m8, no matter wether you are 33, maaan 33 is still young, youre in your best years buddy!!!!
still looking for other ideas m8's!!
helf
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Helferin
Gallente Bookmarkers on weed
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Posted - 2007.02.13 20:12:00 -
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Originally by: Jenny Spitfire Edited by: Jenny Spitfire on 13/02/2007 19:43:49
Originally by: Helferin what the hell shall i do with her on the 1st date?
normal stuff like: - eating ice - cinema - shopping
Normal stuffs at 17 are fun. Ice skating would be as good as cinema. Just be yourself and do not try too hard to impress.
yeah i thought so too... thx jenny!
well im really sorry for my newbyness but i really dont know anything about girls, well some stuff you can get on movies like American Pie or that kind of teeny films well thx for all the ideas again <3 you!!!
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Fazoli
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Posted - 2007.02.13 20:23:00 -
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Here's one from my own stash of secret date ideas.
Go extreme pogo sticking. It's pretty much just pogo sticking, but you do it down stairs and off ledges. A local park is usually the best place. I know it sounds ricockulous, but it's actually pretty fun and she'll probably remember it for a while.
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Liu Kaskakka
PAK
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Posted - 2007.02.13 20:32:00 -
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Do something totally out of the ordinary. That way it won't be like every other date.
King Liu is RIGHT!!
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TJ17
Gallente Dread Elite DREAD.
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Posted - 2007.02.13 20:38:00 -
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hmm brings me 2 years back when i first meet my girlfriend i was first learning how to skill and after making a fool of myself acouple time she approched me and offered to help me so one thing lead to another and here i am today 19 and still going steady with the same girl but anyways try skiing , snowtubing is fun ,iceskating, or bowling
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Mr Jay
Pre-nerfed Tactics
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Posted - 2007.02.13 20:40:00 -
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We're going for a drive thru and then we're doing it twice
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Helferin
Gallente Bookmarkers on weed
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Posted - 2007.02.13 20:42:00 -
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Originally by: Liu Kaskakka Do something totally out of the ordinary. That way it won't be like every other date.
thats what im looking for yeah, but "what", this is the question liu
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Helferin
Gallente Bookmarkers on weed
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Posted - 2007.02.13 20:43:00 -
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Originally by: TJ17 hmm brings me 2 years back when i first meet my girlfriend i was first learning how to skill and after making a fool of myself acouple time she approched me and offered to help me so one thing lead to another and here i am today 19 and still going steady with the same girl but anyways try skiing , snowtubing is fun ,iceskating, or bowling
yep iceskating is in my favorites atm... but please explain "try skiing", im not english, im from the swiss cheese land, sorry
... but you could aswell take a banana, a parking place and some random jewellery and put the thing in da mixer! .. |
Hypatia Iola
Caldari Warhounds
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Posted - 2007.02.13 20:52:00 -
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my suggestion: Comedy clubs.
1, it gets her laughing at someone other thatn you 2, between people you can chitchat, 3, they're one of the few clubs it's easy for a 17 year-old to get into (at least here in the States)
seriously though, my GF sort fell into my lap(interperet that how you will) so it was easy.
Coffee is another good start(keeps things mellow, but at the same time allows you to get in some "real talking")
and also, don't get too set on her, she may turn out to be a bit ditzy or whatever, plus it makes you look cool if ou're more indifferent(heh) ah the forums are fantastic and full of love
Originally by: Zions Child its not worth it. karn, you have VERY little social skill and regard for basic human beings. People like you, are what make the world a |
Helferin
Gallente Bookmarkers on weed
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Posted - 2007.02.13 21:14:00 -
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Originally by: Hypatia Iola my suggestion: Comedy clubs.
1, it gets her laughing at someone other thatn you 2, between people you can chitchat, 3, they're one of the few clubs it's easy for a 17 year-old to get into (at least here in the States)
seriously though, my GF sort fell into my lap(interperet that how you will) so it was easy.
Coffee is another good start(keeps things mellow, but at the same time allows you to get in some "real talking")
and also, don't get too set on her, she may turn out to be a bit ditzy or whatever, plus it makes you look cool if ou're more indifferent(heh)
that sounds nice now! but unfortunately i dont think we have something like this in the swiss , really now, i heard of them, but not here in swiss, but thx god im living 20mins from germany *researches i-net for comedy clubs*
thx m8!!!
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Nero Scuro
Caldari Jejaikaro Corporation
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Posted - 2007.02.13 21:28:00 -
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What you're doing doesn't matter, so long as lots of alcohol is involved. Guaranteed. ___
"have u seen my employ history? u better go as i have more friends in thisgame then in my real life" |
DarkMatter
Amarr Mineral Aquisition Group
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Posted - 2007.02.13 21:36:00 -
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Originally by: Nero Scuro What you're doing doesn't matter, so long as lots of alcohol is involved. Guaranteed.
Dude, that's like the worst advice...
OP: if you guys can have fun without drinking, that's even better IMO...
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Hypatia Iola
Caldari Warhounds
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Posted - 2007.02.13 21:41:00 -
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one thing tho, don't expect every performer to be dynamite if it's open mic nite, people usually think they're funnier than they are. except me, i'm exactly as funny as i think i am. JOIN THE AMISH REPUBLICAN ARMY! WE'RE FROM THE REAL OLD SKOOL!
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Aaron Zebulun
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Posted - 2007.02.13 22:15:00 -
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whoever said alcohol isnt fun is wrong imo Anyways my idea would be do more than 1 thing, trust me 3 hours in a cafe gets boring, unless shes totally kinky and does stuff under the table i still think the most fun i have is out in town with a big group of friends at night, but just focus on her the whole time, and if your lucky at the end you being the good person you are, walk her home etc, ie score
Yes im a man-***** to all my girly friends, so get used to it
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Constantine Arcanum
IMPERIAL SENATE Pure.
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Posted - 2007.02.13 22:26:00 -
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1 word:
chloroform.
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Patch86
Di-Tron Heavy Industries Freelancer Alliance
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Posted - 2007.02.13 22:30:00 -
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Originally by: Constantine Arcanum 1 word:
chloroform.
Anyhow, don't over think it matey. Pick a film, take her out for a pizza or something similarly casual then crash in the cinema. It has the added benefit that you don't have to be on "awkward conversation" mode all night- you get a couple of hours off to regroup. Enjoy the food, enjoy the film, so on and so forth.
Don't muck around trying to impress someone, its the easiest way to make yourself look like a monstrous weirdo. People can always tell when you're putting on too much of an "effort"........ -----------------------------------------------
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Araxmas
Black Lance Against ALL Authorities
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Posted - 2007.02.13 22:57:00 -
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Take her to a water purification facility than push her in the cesspit. Hey she will remember that day which is what you want. --------
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Sweet instigator
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Posted - 2007.02.13 23:38:00 -
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Originally by: Patch86
Originally by: Constantine Arcanum 1 word:
chloroform.
Anyhow, don't over think it matey. Pick a film, take her out for a pizza or something similarly casual then crash in the cinema. It has the added benefit that you don't have to be on "awkward conversation" mode all night- you get a couple of hours off to regroup. Enjoy the food, enjoy the film, so on and so forth.
I'm sure you suck at first dates
NEVER EVER TAKE A GIRL TO A CINEMA on a first date.
1. It could be a bad movie, or even average, only if its really good, you can talk hours about it, and put some real life links in the CONVERSATION afterwards
2. You don't speak in a cinema, watching a movie 1.5 hrs, wondering what the person next to you thinks off you (same goes for her) KILLS any good grounds to start a relationship
3. What's the second date gonna be?
RIGHTO... Things I've done and are perfect for first dates
1. 2hrs of chat, 1/2 hr walking. at the pub, see if you're on the same level of intelligence, intrests, if that works out, walk her home, to her car, but make sure you make a little detour, and that's when you first kiss, not at her doorstep. I allways vein(sp?) I'm not really good at this but..... And that's when it hits ya, either on the cheeck with her left hand, or your mouth. No tongue, you greedy git.
2. I went shopping for 2 hours with one girl. Fashion is, in a way, your view on things, and be honest, and say what you like or dislike. Err no, don't flash your CC on the first date
3. Anything social really. You gotta talk to her or vice versa before the chemistry happens.
4. Ah: if she claims to be busy ! (gotta love this one) Scout the area around her house, look for benches, a park, a QUIET PUB, and vein(sp?) again to only steal her away for 30 minutes. Only if she picks the time and date! If she keeps rejective, don't bother, move on. Don't push things!
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Patch86
Di-Tron Heavy Industries Freelancer Alliance
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Posted - 2007.02.13 23:59:00 -
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Originally by: Sweet instigator
Originally by: Patch86
Originally by: Constantine Arcanum 1 word:
chloroform.
Anyhow, don't over think it matey. Pick a film, take her out for a pizza or something similarly casual then crash in the cinema. It has the added benefit that you don't have to be on "awkward conversation" mode all night- you get a couple of hours off to regroup. Enjoy the food, enjoy the film, so on and so forth.
I'm sure you suck at first dates
NEVER EVER TAKE A GIRL TO A CINEMA on a first date.
1. It could be a bad movie, or even average, only if its really good, you can talk hours about it, and put some real life links in the CONVERSATION afterwards
2. You don't speak in a cinema, watching a movie 1.5 hrs, wondering what the person next to you thinks off you (same goes for her) KILLS any good grounds to start a relationship
3. What's the second date gonna be?
RIGHTO... Things I've done and are perfect for first dates
1. 2hrs of chat, 1/2 hr walking. at the pub, see if you're on the same level of intelligence, intrests, if that works out, walk her home, to her car, but make sure you make a little detour, and that's when you first kiss, not at her doorstep. I allways vein(sp?) I'm not really good at this but..... And that's when it hits ya, either on the cheeck with her left hand, or your mouth. No tongue, you greedy git.
2. I went shopping for 2 hours with one girl. Fashion is, in a way, your view on things, and be honest, and say what you like or dislike. Err no, don't flash your CC on the first date
3. Anything social really. You gotta talk to her or vice versa before the chemistry happens.
4. Ah: if she claims to be busy ! (gotta love this one) Scout the area around her house, look for benches, a park, a QUIET PUB, and vein(sp?) again to only steal her away for 30 minutes. Only if she picks the time and date! If she keeps rejective, don't bother, move on. Don't push things!
Could be, I never claimed to be Cassanova here
Last first-date I went on I took her to the park for lunch (it was a nice sunny spring day), we talked for about 5 hours, went and had some food, then went and saw a film (Shawn of the Dead- best film I saw that year, so that was lucky ). Went to a bar near the cinema and chatted about the film for a few hours, then went home. Was a good date in my mind, I'm still with the girl now (3 years this April, w00t).
I guess the most important thing with first dates is do whatever the hell you think is a good idea. My idea of a good first date worked because me and my now-GF like the same kind of thing. If you think something sounds like an awful idea, it probably is for you
So what am I trying to say? I think basically my advice is- don't ask advice. Totally won't be useful -----------------------------------------------
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Sakura Nihil
Tabula Rasa Systems The Star Fraction
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Posted - 2007.02.14 00:01:00 -
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Just be confident, women seem to love it .
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Ebedar
Gallente Primary Intelligence
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Posted - 2007.02.14 00:12:00 -
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Drop your pants and show her your impression of a plum tree.
On a serious note, talk to her and listen to what she has to say (pay attention and be interested, don't fake it). Go to a place that gives you the opportunity to do that.
Don't try too hard. Be yourself. Remember that she is interested in you, otherwise she wouldn't have approached you or agreed to go out with you. That should give you confidence.
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Varalonia
Minmatar Darklite inc
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Posted - 2007.02.14 00:17:00 -
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"Show her the Guns!!"
Gotta love anchorman! Your signature exceeds the maximum allowed dimensions of 400x120 pixels -Petwraith ([email protected]) |
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