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Isiskhan
Gnostic Misanthropy
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Posted - 2008.07.30 14:32:00 -
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 Originally by: Ghaylente 7864
... Is it just me ... ?
Buddy, you're screwed.
Can't wait to read the threads you'll make once you two move in together.
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Isiskhan
Gnostic Misanthropy
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Posted - 2008.07.31 21:39:00 -
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Originally by: Dantes Revenge
Yup, sounds like pretty much every woman I've ever dated. There are various stages they often try to get their way.
Moody
Offering you a good time
Crying
Implying that you are the selfish one
Temper tantrums
Threatening to leave you
While many women will try to pull off these sort things, there are effective ways to handle and neutralize them. Basically, once your partner realizes that this sort of emotional blackmail is useless - or even counter-productive - on yourself, you'll see a whole lot less of it.
It's like with the trolling on online forums: the way to minimize it is to simply not nourish that sort of attitude. |
Isiskhan
Gnostic Misanthropy
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Posted - 2008.08.01 04:23:00 -
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Originally by: Victor Valka
Honestly, a woman trying to pull any of the above is a valid reason to terminate a relationship. You can't change a person.
That may be your experience - certainly not mine.
And it's not just with women: no one is going to learn to respect you as long as you don't respect yourself. If they manage to walk all over you, is because you're letting them to. The way people will act towards you is greatly influenced by how you act towards them, it's simple as that.
While there are of course many valid reasons to terminate a relationship - hell, I broke up with my last girlfriend because she claimed I would have to get rid of my Death Metal collection if we were to have children (that's of course an over-simplification) - if you can't properly handle your partner's shit, then perhaps you're not ready for relationships. Because in the end, that's one of the things that matter: the ability and willingness to properly handle each other's particular brand of shit.
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Isiskhan
Gnostic Misanthropy
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Posted - 2008.08.01 13:30:00 -
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Originally by: Victor Valka
'Shit' being 'unreasonable and/or abusive behavior'. If I get 'shit', of which common examples were listed in the post above, I will terminate the relationship.
You think a woman being "moody", "crying" or having "temper tantrums" is "abusive behaviour" and cause for terminating a relationship?
Good luck finding a woman who doesn't do that at one point or another, they are genetically programed to act that way - particularly every 28 days 
The question is how you're able to handle those, and thinking they are abusing you somehow everytime they cry or sulk is victimizing yourself.
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Isiskhan
Gnostic Misanthropy
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Posted - 2008.08.01 16:53:00 -
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Originally by: ivar R'dhak
Originally by: Victor Valka
Originally by: Isiskhan
You think a woman being "moody", "crying" or having "temper tantrums" is "abusive behavior" and cause for terminating a relationship?
No. But they are all too often used as an excuse for. Poor wording on my part in the previous post.
This.
PMS has also the magic ability of instantly vanishing when mom or best girlfriend calls up.
If you are both feeling "psychologically abused" by standard-fare female-*****iness you both need to grow thicker skins. You are only being "abused" because you are allowing them to or making yourself susceptible to it.
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Isiskhan
Gnostic Misanthropy
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Posted - 2008.08.01 19:15:00 -
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Originally by: Victor Valka
Make up your bloody mind and review your stance and arguments! Right now, you're not making any sense.
Hey, it's not rocket science.
But then I gather from all your yada-yada about "psychological abuse" that either you're a wuss who cries all the way back to mommy's house whenever your bitch acts up (or makes a thread on some internet forums about it like the OP) instead of properly putting her back in her place, or that you simply don't have much experience with the opposite sex.
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Isiskhan
Gnostic Misanthropy
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Posted - 2008.08.01 21:16:00 -
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Edited by: Isiskhan on 01/08/2008 21:20:34
Originally by: Amandin Adouin
Okay sorry for the edits but I just have to say something about this and I have absolutely no idea what to say. I don't know whether to make a joke (something about Ike Turner keeps going through my head) or ... cry 
Pfft... Ike Turner was a professional asshole, an exploiter, and a cheating junkie low-life who did all the wrong drugs.
At least I do the right drugs.
ps: just kidding ;)
pps: well, not about the drugs. I do smoke a lot of home-grown prime-grade weed.
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