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N3oXr2ii
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Posted - 2008.09.06 16:52:00 -
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Does anyone else have the problem of their half half moaning about eve i mean its like i'm cheating lol
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N3oXr2ii
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Posted - 2008.09.06 16:52:00 -
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Does anyone else have the problem of their half half moaning about eve i mean its like i'm cheating lol
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Yarrick
Amarr Phantom Squad G00DFELLAS
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Posted - 2008.09.06 17:10:00 -
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If EVE is getting in the way of a meaninful relationship with your partner, I strongly suggest you take a step back from the game and reassess the whole situation. If you don't do this, you could regret it in the future.
Just my 2 pence :D _____________________________________________
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N3oXr2ii
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Posted - 2008.09.06 17:13:00 -
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I been playing eve b4 i met her and when she here i only play when she watching her soaps she is jealous of a game its a bit childish tbh
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Slade Trillgon
Siorai Iontach
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Posted - 2008.09.06 17:26:00 -
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Originally by: N3oXr2ii its a bit childish tbh
This comment is a red flag in my mind. If she has a problem she has a problem. If you can not work these out with communication with her then the relationship is doomed. IMO.
Marriages and lesser relationships have been split due to cheating, bad habits, changes in feelings, drinking habits, betting habits, as well as online games. So if she rationalizes your amount of game play as a form of cheating it is pretty valid.
Slade
Originally by: Crumplecorn NerfBat is now known as the WaveMachine.
DesuSigs
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Bei Bao
Caldari Honey Cluster
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Posted - 2008.09.06 17:46:00 -
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Originally by: Slade Trillgon So if she rationalizes your amount of game play as a form of cheating it is pretty valid.
Slade
I see she pretty much broke you allready. What the wife says a man does aye. ****in stand up for yourself, its a hobby like she prolly has hobbies aswell, tell her to get frikking over it!
p.s. With my former gf it was the same, i tell ya they shouldnt have given it a girls name because it makes it easier for gf/wifes to villify the game imo
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Arvald
Caldari Ninjas N Pirates Pirate Coalition
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Posted - 2008.09.06 18:20:00 -
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almost happened to my bro when his gf got pregnant(but with wow) he convinced her to play.....she now has a level 70 warrior and a level 65 warlock.....
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Wired
Caldari Provisions
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Posted - 2008.09.06 18:41:00 -
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Originally by: Arvald .....she now has a level 70 warrior and a level 65 warlock.....
They grow up so fast =============================================
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N3oXr2ii
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Posted - 2008.09.06 19:37:00 -
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lol na she been told like it or lump it she in a mood but she accepts it she put up with me cheating she can put up with a game lol
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Spaztick
Canadian Imperial Armaments EVESpace
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Posted - 2008.09.06 19:43:00 -
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If they can't enjoy EVE with you, it was never meant to be. Of course it's not as addicting as WoW, so be sure your significant other likes excell and numbers. But seriously, more people should have some type of spacer in their sigs to show it's not part of the post.
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Kaeten
Hybrid Syndicate
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Posted - 2008.09.06 20:17:00 -
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rl > eve
nuff said ________________________ I'M POOR
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The TX
Gallente Pulsar Combat Supplies Alternative Realities
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Posted - 2008.09.06 20:20:00 -
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I'm lucky, my GF is quite tolerant of me.
I mean, she puts up with the constant....
- Farting - Nose picking - Eating stuff off the floor - Toenail clipping - Laziness - Rick Rolling - Poor timing in the bedroom (if you catch my drift) :-P - And computer gaming.
Actually, she plays games too. She plays Age of Empires, CounterStrike - she'd probably play EVE too if she had time after clearing up after me ;-P
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MotherMoon
Huang Yinglong
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Posted - 2008.09.06 21:04:00 -
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It's strange I've never had any of these problems in my relationship other than telling the same stories to people that haven't heard them before but with stephanie in the room.
that one gets on her nerves :P
But hobbies? Are you kidding we love spending time apart from each other, why would you want to be with someone all the time? It's great to have someone to cook with, clean with, watch movies with, cuddle together, sleep at night with, be there for when things get bad, make big choices with, love.
but be with them ALL THE TIME. that's madness, hell when we finally buy a house were already planning on building any extra rooms needed so we have separate art/personal space studios.
I guess we've never though of our hobbies as getting in the way of what's important. Unless that hobbie is something dangerous it shouldn't be an issue in a sane relationship.
so basicly like others have said stick up for yourself, but don't be mean about it, just tell her some times you want to be alone and do your own thing, and that she is allowed to do her own thing.
Just don't blow off dates,bill paying,important talks, family members, romantic dinners,ect for your hobbies. You should learn when to turn the game off.
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Sakura Nihil
Stimulus
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Posted - 2008.09.06 22:50:00 -
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Give a mouse a cookie, and she's going to want a glass of milk...
Give her a glass of milk, and she's going to want a napkin...
... et cetera...
I'm not saying you should say "pfft" to her jealousy, but rather that if you give up EVE to please her, the next time she doesn't like something you do, she may expect you to give into her more easily.
If you don't give it up though, it may cause undue stress on your relationship. I don't know, just evaluate what's more important to you and go from there (if you do give it up, milk it for all its worth so she remembers that you've sacrificed for the relationship).
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4rc4ng3L
Gallente Aliastra
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Posted - 2008.09.06 23:30:00 -
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....millions of girls in the world, but only ONE eve
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Rawrior
Gallente Neo Spartans
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Posted - 2008.09.07 00:07:00 -
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dump da hoe \o/ marry me baby
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Amandin Adouin
Minmatar
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Posted - 2008.09.07 01:20:00 -
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Originally by: N3oXr2ii lol na she been told like it or lump it she in a mood but she accepts it she put up with me cheating she can put up with a game lol
... yeah this guy's just a troll. I hope none of you think you're actually giving advice to this creep. I think this low life just wanted everyone to know or think he had a girlfriend. cute.
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Irulan S'Dijana
Amarr Imperial Academy
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Posted - 2008.09.07 01:24:00 -
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1) Take girlfriend to "surprise night out" 2) Take girlfriend to strip bar. Pay for lots of lap dances, private viewings, get sloshed. 3) After girlfriend gets you home but before she castrates you, ask her if she would prefer you to play EVE or go to strip bars, because those are the only two choices of entertainment you like. 4) ??? (<- survival not guaranteed) 5) Profit!
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Ulecese
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Posted - 2008.09.07 01:33:00 -
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Give her a choice between you playing EvE, or watching hardcore **** off the internet with the volume all the way up while she watches the soaps...
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Rawr Cristina
Caldari Omerta Syndicate
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Posted - 2008.09.07 01:37:00 -
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Originally by: Rawrior dump da hoe \o/ marry me baby
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Sara Alexandra
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Posted - 2008.09.07 12:47:00 -
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Marriages and lesser relationships have been split due to cheating, bad habits, changes in feelings, drinking habits, betting habits, as well as online games. So if she rationalizes your amount of game play as a form of cheating it is pretty valid.
No, it's not. If your girlfriend is taking you playing a computer game in the same way as you sleeping with another girl, she's the one with problems, not you. Yes, spend time with her, yes, prioritize real life over a stupid game, but if she has a problem with you playing eve on a regular basis, grow a backbone and let her know that isn't acceptable
Yes, women are great to have in your life, but if you're needing to bend over backwards to please them, no matter what they ask, you need to get some self esteem. Partnerships are a two way street, don't get fooled into thinking you've got to put in everything for her to take out.
Luckily, my partner is fine with me doing whatever I want when it comes to my free time. It might help that we live together, and thus see each other for 12ish hours a day, but you've got to have a life outside of a relationship. I've seen the kinds of guys that don't, and I pity them.
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Royaldo
Gallente Amarr Border Defense Consortium Curatores Veritatis Alliance
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Posted - 2008.09.08 23:57:00 -
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Seriously... theres something like 3billion women in on earth.
Now, if you cant find 1 of them who doesnt mind that you play eve then you are doing something wrong.
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Nadija
House of Tempers
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Posted - 2008.09.09 00:09:00 -
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My g/f never really minded me playing eve, when she comes over i'm not on it long Suppling razor blades to Emos everywhere since 2006Ö |
Kaeten
Hybrid Syndicate
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Posted - 2008.09.09 00:14:00 -
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Originally by: Nadija My g/f never really minded me playing eve, when she comes over i'm not on it long
too true ________________________ I'M POOR
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Vabjekf
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Posted - 2008.09.09 03:53:00 -
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your gilfriend's wife's boyfriend?
So.. is that you? Are you the boyfriend of your girlfriends wife?
I don't understand, but if you are i think you my friend are in quite a lucky situation.
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Sicil Fioet
Minmatar
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Posted - 2008.09.09 08:26:00 -
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Originally by: N3oXr2ii she put up with me cheating she can put up with a game lol
may be she didn't quite "put up with it" and now the game is her way of getting back at you ... enjoy
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CliveMerric
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Posted - 2008.09.09 08:43:00 -
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Its hard but its important to keep in mind that at the end of the day Eve is unfortunately not as important as RL. I quit EVE for a month to prove to my girl that Im not addicted to the game, that showed her that i valued her over the game. And i monitor the time i spend in game so im not really tired for the times we hang out. ( Playing till 6am on a roaming op really makes the next day terrible for you and your significant other ) But in the end it just comes down to priorities. And its up to you if you want to have a meaningful relationship or play EVE all you want. Clives BPC shop, Great deals!! |
Boba TehFett
Amarr Anarchy Unleashed
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Posted - 2008.09.09 08:49:00 -
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Edited by: Boba TehFett on 09/09/2008 08:50:12 Well, i havent read every post here, but i gotta say "RL > Games" is a nice thing when i comes to not loose your house / job / dont fail at exams or whatever.
But people tend to forget that Computergames are a hobby like having a band or anything else (killing people to steal their Ears is not a hobby !). Ofc you can overdo it (playing 24/7 as well as drinking 24/7 with your drummer -.-), but looking at it from the "normal dosage" point of view -> Do you really want to be with someone who doesnt like it when you do what you like ? I mean..thats like not liking what you are imho Oo
Im lucky to have a girlfriend that likes playing games as much as i do <3
edit: If you want to remember yourself to switch skill and have a reminder on your cellphone going *ringtone* and showing "Eve" on your screen, your girl might ask you who eve is ;P actually happened to a friend xD
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