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Be'lanna
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Posted - 2007.08.15 18:29:00 -
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ok, before you read this...you should know, i really am a female IRL! lol anyway...
I have a big time crush on a corp mate (but he lives in a different country) ... Disaster waiting to happen? what do you guys think?
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DubanFP
Caldari
Four Rings
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Posted - 2007.08.15 18:30:00 -
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 Originally by: Be'lanna
ok, before you read this...you should know, i really am a female IRL! lol anyway...
I have a big time crush on a corp mate (but he lives in a different country) ... Disaster waiting to happen? what do you guys think?
Quite simply... He lives in another country, what do you have to lose?
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Patch86
Di-Tron Heavy Industries
Atlas Alliance
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Posted - 2007.08.15 18:34:00 -
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Well, what are you asking? If you should "ask him out"?
Well, that'd depend on one, and only one, factor: Would you be willing to have a relationship with someone who lives in another country, hours and hours of expensive travel away?
Or are you just wanting to...er..."cyber" with him or whatever it is the crazy kids are doing these days? Because distance is no barrier to eLuvvin' 
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Tarminic
Black Flame Industries
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Posted - 2007.08.15 18:36:00 -
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Long distance relationships are very hard to make work, but another thing to consider is that if you and he don't work out, you'll still have to be around him if you're both in the same corporation.
But if that doesn't dissuade you, go for it! 
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Be'lanna
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Posted - 2007.08.15 18:38:00 -
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Originally by: Patch86
Well, what are you asking? If you should "ask him out"?
Well, that'd depend on one, and only one, factor: Would you be willing to have a relationship with someone who lives in another country, hours and hours of expensive travel away?
Or are you just wanting to...er..."cyber" with him or whatever it is the crazy kids are doing these days? Because distance is no barrier to eLuvvin'
lol! well, i'd like to ask him out...but i don't know if he'd be down with something like that. and i'm almost scared to ask him. But honestly, how many guys are going to be into the idea of dating a girl who lives in a different country? :)
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mamolian
M. Corp
M. PIRE
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Posted - 2007.08.15 18:46:00 -
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Let me direct you to a post to explain my response to your thread.
Keep this kind of **** off the forums and preferably to yourself thanks. Eve-o is not a dating or adult meeting website.
http://oldforums.eveonline.com/?a=topic&threadID=572784&page=3#77
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Be'lanna
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Posted - 2007.08.15 18:49:00 -
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Originally by: mamolian
Let me direct you to a post to explain my response to your thread.
Keep this kind of **** off the forums and preferably to yourself thanks. Eve-o is not a dating or adult meeting website.
http://oldforums.eveonline.com/?a=topic&threadID=572784&page=3#77
You don't look like a board moderator to me, so why don't you keep **** to yourself thanks?
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Patch86
Di-Tron Heavy Industries
Atlas Alliance
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Posted - 2007.08.15 18:50:00 -
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Well, my GF is at Uni and spends 10 days in the fortnight a couple of hours travel time away. And I can tell you- it's not exactly huge fun. I mean we make it work well enough, but it's not exactly convenient only seeing your GF on weekends and having to spend 2 hours travelling there, and again back.
We had the massive benefit of having been together a year and a half when she went away, and the fact that I spent some of it a jobless bum with plenty of time to travel back and forth. But I wouldn't have fancied doing it from day 1.
So I say: probably best to steer clear of your corpie.
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SoftRevolution
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Posted - 2007.08.15 18:50:00 -
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Originally by: Be'lanna
ok, before you read this...you should know, i really am a female IRL! lol anyway...
I have a big time crush on a corp mate (but he lives in a different country) ... Disaster waiting to happen? what do you guys think?
Potentially bad. Depends how important your corp is to you (i.e. would you want to run the risk of fouling it up for yourself) and how able / willing you'd be to travel.
Also, people who spend a lot of time on the internet can be a bit maladjusted and socially deficient (god knows, I am). He might be a total basketcase IRL.
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Be'lanna
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Posted - 2007.08.15 18:52:00 -
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Originally by: SoftRevolution
Originally by: Be'lanna
ok, before you read this...you should know, i really am a female IRL! lol anyway...
I have a big time crush on a corp mate (but he lives in a different country) ... Disaster waiting to happen? what do you guys think?
Potentially bad. Depends how important your corp is to you (i.e. would you want to run the risk of fouling it up for yourself) and how able / willing you'd be to travel.
Also, people who spend a lot of time on the internet can be a bit maladjusted and socially deficient (god knows, I am). He might be a total basketcase IRL.
lol! that is true. but i really feel like there is a connection between us. i don't wanna rush into anything but i can't help the way i feel either!
being a women is so fun (not :P)
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defiler
Mad Hermit
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Posted - 2007.08.15 19:12:00 -
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What Patch86 said... Are you thinking about a simple e-relationship or do you already plan on visiting each other IRL if you do go for it? The former can be kind of fun but also quite frustrating in the long run in that it never leads anywhere... *ahem*. If you're anything like me you'll just sit back and let whatever happens happen and see how it develops.
I'd think twice about meeting up IRL though. Not because he might turn out to be a psycho, but you're VERY likely to meet a totally different person than the one you know/thought you knew. Most people behave differently online, whether they realize it or not.
Just be prepared to go your separate ways, one of you would have to leave the corp and relocate if things don't work out as planned... And that's just the EVE aspect of it...
Relationships are complicated.  Don't listen too much to what people say, and that goes double for this post.
Mad Hermit corporation
Minding our own business since 2004
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Tarminic
Black Flame Industries
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Posted - 2007.08.15 19:21:00 -
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Originally by: defiler
I'd think twice about meeting up IRL though. Not because he might turn out to be a psycho, but you're VERY likely to meet a totally different person than the one you know/thought you knew. Most people behave differently online, whether they realize it or not.
This is true, I'd advise talking to the guy on the phone or through a webcam before you even consider meeting up in real life - it's easier to gauge someone's personality and general nature that way, and you'll be able to connect better when and if you meet up.
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Relationships are complicated. Don't listen too much to what people say, and that goes double for this post.
Indeed. Hell, I've barely been able to figure out one woman after being with her for four years. 
One major advantage of long distance relationships, however: The sex is never bad. 
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Derovius Vaden
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Posted - 2007.08.15 19:25:00 -
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Originally by: Tarminic
One major advantage of long distance relationships, however: The sex is never bad.
When can one say that sex is ever bad as a guy? Really now?
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Be'lanna
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Posted - 2007.08.15 19:29:00 -
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LOL! you guys give really good advice :)
Thank you all so much for responding to me. I will def take what you all have said to heart. I hope things work out! :) thanks again guys!
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Patch86
Di-Tron Heavy Industries
Atlas Alliance
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Posted - 2007.08.15 19:42:00 -
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Originally by: Be'lanna
LOL! you guys give really good advice :)
Thank you all so much for responding to me. I will def take what you all have said to heart. I hope things work out! :) thanks again guys!
EVE-O: We can be helpful when we want to be
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Mercurye
Gallente
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Posted - 2007.08.15 19:51:00 -
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What Mamolian said...You shouldnt measure with two sizes mods 
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Tarminic
Black Flame Industries
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Posted - 2007.08.15 19:55:00 -
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Originally by: Derovius Vaden
Originally by: Tarminic
One major advantage of long distance relationships, however: The sex is never bad.
When can one say that sex is ever bad as a guy? Really now?
Fair enough.
Then let me say that the quality of the sex makes up for it's infrequency.
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Mercurye
Gallente
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Posted - 2007.08.15 20:11:00 -
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The same Be'lanna that made a post not so long ago about herself and the desperate need of contact ingame...I really found it silly afterwards I mailed her, and I shouldnt have done it. All this attention seeking
You also need to point out your a real life female.Wooohoooo...thats so special and noteworthy!
PS :( Snide, snide) Look at your avatar...a shame that brown jacket, it really is..
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ry ry
StateCorp
The State
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Posted - 2007.08.16 11:34:00 -
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Originally by: Be'lanna
ok, before you read this...you should know, i really am a female IRL! lol anyway...
I have a big time crush on a corp mate (but he lives in a different country) ... Disaster waiting to happen? what do you guys think?
DeValhubert, is that you?
for the last time; i'm not going on a date with you. i know you're a bloke.
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Miss Scrumtous
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Posted - 2007.08.16 15:12:00 -
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I met a girl online...got talking to her on ventrillo and really liked her. She lived in Denmark and I lived in England.
This was one year ago.
Now I live in Denmark with the girl in a house we bought, planning for children and marriage.
So go for it.
PS - She still can't get me off the PC though 
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Atama Cardel
GoonFleet
GoonSwarm
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Posted - 2007.08.17 00:58:00 -
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well if things do work out, at least there won't be any misunderstandings about leaving a date early to "change a skill"
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me bored
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Posted - 2007.08.17 03:19:00 -
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Edited by: me bored on 17/08/2007 03:21:45
This is either a really bad troll or a really pathetic whore.
Enough with the histrionics this isn't your damn blog. |
Tarminic
Black Flame Industries
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Posted - 2007.08.17 03:24:00 -
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Originally by: me bored
Edited by: me bored on 17/08/2007 03:21:45
This is either a really bad troll or a really pathetic whore.
Enough with the histrionics this isn't your damn blog.
Bitter much?
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Liu Kaskakka
PAK
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Posted - 2007.08.17 05:35:00 -
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I think you should first compare genitals on webcam to ensure compatibility.
King Liu is RIGHT!!
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Arvald
Caldari
House of Tempers
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Posted - 2007.08.17 05:35:00 -
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Originally by: Be'lanna
Originally by: Patch86
Well, what are you asking? If you should "ask him out"?
Well, that'd depend on one, and only one, factor: Would you be willing to have a relationship with someone who lives in another country, hours and hours of expensive travel away?
Or are you just wanting to...er..."cyber" with him or whatever it is the crazy kids are doing these days? Because distance is no barrier to eLuvvin'
lol! well, i'd like to ask him out...but i don't know if he'd be down with something like that. and i'm almost scared to ask him. But honestly, how many guys are going to be into the idea of dating a girl who lives in a different country? :)
just tell him how you feel about him and see how it goes
- this message has been brought to you by Arvald, The Love master
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MattSB
Domination.
KIA Alliance
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Posted - 2007.08.17 07:52:00 -
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Edited by: MattSB on 17/08/2007 07:52:43
Well i know one couple that met through eve and did start living in 2 different coutries, one central Europe and the other the UK. They seem to have made it work BUT i think thats really down to her planning to move to the UK for ages anyway.
Just one note if you go for it it'll all be fine at first but if anything goes pear shaped in the relationship especially if either of you are peeved about it then one of you will have to leave your corp because well it's not pretty i've see the results of the spilling over of an e-relationship before and it aint pretty :P Also it's **** on mutual friends that you have in teh corp to.
One last thought it does provide some interest wrong window comments at times for your corpies such as:
HER> OMG IVE NEVER BEEN F**KED SO HARD
in corp chat, lets just say the entire corp ws wetting themselves laughing for hours after If she reads this to she'll prolly give me a kick in the nuts 
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Zaqar
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Posted - 2007.08.17 08:08:00 -
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Originally by: me bored
Edited by: me bored on 17/08/2007 03:21:45
This is either a really bad troll or a really pathetic whore.
Enough with the histrionics this isn't your damn blog.
stfu.
Mods must be asleep as usual...
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Kastar
Viziam
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Posted - 2007.08.17 08:37:00 -
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Never doubt the possibility for romance 
Go for it Tiger ... Just make sure his wife doesn't discover 
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me bored
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Posted - 2007.08.17 08:57:00 -
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Edited by: me bored on 17/08/2007 09:00:00
Originally by: Tarminic
Originally by: me bored
Edited by: me bored on 17/08/2007 03:21:45
This is either a really bad troll or a really pathetic whore.
Enough with the histrionics this isn't your damn blog.
Bitter much?
If you aren't then you lack experience with women.
I've seen it a thousand times before. She doesn't really need advice and is most likely making the whole thing up because she's a vapid attention seeking slut who desperately craves approval. |
ry ry
StateCorp
The State
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Posted - 2007.08.17 09:01:00 -
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Edited by: ry ry on 17/08/2007 09:01:11
Or not really a woman at all, but somebody laying down some unconvincing back-story/post history.
edit: spelling continues to elude me.
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