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Gladiator Jonny
Omniscient Order Privateer Alliance
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Posted - 2008.01.26 10:07:00 -
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Cutting a possible essay short, a series of events and some alcohol made me do something i would never really do.
I got told some stuff i didnt want to hear through a text (i actually read it wrong it was good news not bad), combined with drink, feeling ill and a friend pushing his luck with alittle fun provoking a fight (not serious at all it turns out)
Basically i hit him, only scratched his right eye with my left hand (im right handed) and he was initially ok with it.. i said sorry and tried to sort it out.
Shortly after it showed he was in a sop/depressed so i went to say sorry again.. he wasnt having any of it. I explaned the situation, what happened before and he still wasnt having it. I then offered him a pint, or a one off chance to hit me straight in the face without getting pounded after and he told me to fk off.
As my friends dont like him much, they were trying to rally a fight. They knew i wasnt having any of it so they went to work on him (he hasnt got a chance tbh) and he refused also.. but i still think hes really ****y about it.
Is their any way to fix this? i mean seriously, if he did what i did to me, i would of had a fight and got it out of the way. or listened to what i said and sorted it out instead of walking away in tears..
Question is: What to do next! 
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Oddball
Caldari Caldari Provisions
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Posted - 2008.01.26 12:08:00 -
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Short term: When you're both sober and not hung-over, have a talk. Straighten things out. You can't fix this kind of crap while drunk.
Long term: Stop drinking. You don't seem very good at it.
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Patch86
Di-Tron Heavy Industries Atlas Alliance
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Posted - 2008.01.26 12:16:00 -
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Give it a few days and see if he calms down. If he doesn't, then he is clearly far too much effort.
Seriously though, get better at being drunk. ------
Originally by: CCP Prism X There's no such thing as playing too much EvE! You all obviously need more accounts!
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SoftRevolution
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Posted - 2008.01.26 12:32:00 -
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Are you a violent drunk? EVE RELATED CONTENT |

Auraurious
Quam Singulari The Church.
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Posted - 2008.01.26 12:47:00 -
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screw him to be honest, me and my group of friends usualy get into some bother since there is usualy about 10/15 of us absolutly smashed so someone is sure to fck someone else off, nobody ever makes any deal of it in the morning when everyone is sober again. but if he cant accept your apollogy then leave just leave him to be an ass.
Perfection.
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Gladiator Jonny
Omniscient Order Privateer Alliance
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Posted - 2008.01.26 15:40:00 -
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Originally by: SoftRevolution Are you a violent drunk?
I wasnt actually drunk, was omw.
This is the first time ive ever hit a friend, and im hardly ever in fights ^-^ im a friendly guy.
Just tonight i had alot of things going on, i was pisd off to the max and he just pushed the button at the wrong time wrong place.
I barely hit him but, i said sorry... i said all i could. All my other mates heard me say it, they can clarify i wasnt drunk its just hes making a big deal out of what i would call nothing... and i hate having people annoyed at me
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ReaperOfSly
Gallente Lyrus Associates Enuma Elish.
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Posted - 2008.01.26 15:57:00 -
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Originally by: Gladiator Jonny Cutting a possible essay short, a series of events and some alcohol made me do something i would never really do.
I got told some stuff i didnt want to hear through a text (i actually read it wrong it was good news not bad), combined with drink, feeling ill and a friend pushing his luck with alittle fun provoking a fight (not serious at all it turns out)
Basically i hit him, only scratched his right eye with my left hand (im right handed) and he was initially ok with it.. i said sorry and tried to sort it out.
Shortly after it showed he was in a sop/depressed so i went to say sorry again.. he wasnt having any of it. I explaned the situation, what happened before and he still wasnt having it. I then offered him a pint, or a one off chance to hit me straight in the face without getting pounded after and he told me to fk off.
As my friends dont like him much, they were trying to rally a fight. They knew i wasnt having any of it so they went to work on him (he hasnt got a chance tbh) and he refused also.. but i still think hes really ****y about it.
Is their any way to fix this? i mean seriously, if he did what i did to me, i would of had a fight and got it out of the way. or listened to what i said and sorted it out instead of walking away in tears..
Question is: What to do next! 
Sounds like your friend is a wuss.
I was pratting around when drunk couple weeks back with a group of friends. It ended up with a guy called Gary (I think) giving me a particularly hard shove towards a parking meter. Nearly broke my fracking jaw. I think he still feels guilty, but I tell him not to worry about it. The jaw is almost back to normal now anyway.  --------------------------------------------------------------------
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Ryan Scouse'UK
omen. Triumvirate.
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Posted - 2008.01.26 19:04:00 -
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Originally by: Gladiator Jonny
Originally by: SoftRevolution Are you a violent drunk?
I wasnt actually drunk, was omw.
This is the first time ive ever hit a friend, and im hardly ever in fights ^-^ im a friendly guy.
Just tonight i had alot of things going on, i was pisd off to the max and he just pushed the button at the wrong time wrong place.
I barely hit him but, i said sorry... i said all i could. All my other mates heard me say it, they can clarify i wasnt drunk its just hes making a big deal out of what i would call nothing... and i hate having people annoyed at me
punch him in the other eye & tell him to get a grip! lol *****! Tell him if he does not be ur friend you will lay the hurt on him!
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Surfin's PlunderBunny
Minmatar mUfFiN fAcToRy Sex Panthers
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Posted - 2008.01.26 19:07:00 -
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You mean you were drunk and hit "her" right? I assume so with the crying and all...
Originally by: Sharupak When you go to vote, you are voting on weather you want to bend over or get on your knees.
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Sister Impotentata
Elite Angels Of Death
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Posted - 2008.01.26 19:07:00 -
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Originally by: ReaperOfSly It ended up with a guy called Gary (I think) giving me a particularly hard shove towards a parking meter. Nearly broke my fracking jaw. I think he still feels guilty, but I tell him not to worry about it. The jaw is almost back to normal now anyway. 
This.
If the fellow is at all your friend this should all be forgotten for now and remembered later with laughs. The only proper way for this to play out is with you saying "Dude I'm sorry" and him saying "Naw man, don't worry" and then you keep apologizing until he says "Shut up! It's cool!". If he doesn't play like that, then he doesn't know proper etiquette. In which case you leave him be, because he does not know how to comport himself amongst reasonable people. ----- TANSTAAFL
Originally by: Professor Falken What you see here on these screens is a fantasy, a computer-enhanced hallucination! Those blips are not real missiles, they're phantoms!
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Shalia Ripper
Caldari Caldari Provisions
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Posted - 2008.01.26 19:56:00 -
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Originally by: Auraurious screw him to be honest
Some guys don't go for that kind of action.
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Max Nero
Endless Fury United Corporations Against Macros
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Posted - 2008.01.26 20:54:00 -
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Originally by: Surfin's PlunderBunny You mean you were drunk and hit "her" right? I assume so with the crying and all...
That ^ and he was provoking you in the first place right? Joking or not, he was asking for it and got a little lovetap. I do not see what he would be upset about it, unless it is a chick. In that case, buy her flowers and if she is buttugly and was not laid in a while - take one for the team.
Originally by: Niklo Game to become is more and more similar to prison for not aggressive people.
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Surfin's PlunderBunny
Minmatar mUfFiN fAcToRy Sex Panthers
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Posted - 2008.01.26 22:00:00 -
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AND... if you hit a woman I hate you and think you should ram a spork in your eye
Originally by: Sharupak When you go to vote, you are voting on whether you want to bend over or get on your knees.
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Gladiator Jonny
Omniscient Order Privateer Alliance
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Posted - 2008.01.26 22:41:00 -
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Hes no woman 
He is a southener, might explain it 
Besides.. if it was a girl i did hit, with contact it had she wouldnt of cried and i wouldnt be ever having kids.
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ry ry
StateCorp The State
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Posted - 2008.01.26 23:22:00 -
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man up and stop being such an emo about it. [IMAGE REMOVED] |

Arvald
Caldari Devilish Intentinos
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Posted - 2008.01.26 23:28:00 -
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if he is going to act like a nancy just forget about him, hell i remember when me and my best friend would be ****ed at eachother and beat the **** out of each other then we would be best friends after (actually made a few friends by getting into fights too )
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Sister Impotentata
Elite Angels Of Death
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Posted - 2008.01.27 00:00:00 -
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Originally by: Gladiator Jonny He is a southener, might explain it 
Wew you din't tew us i' was abou' ****in' southern fairys versus bloody northern monkeys.
----- TANSTAAFL
Originally by: Professor Falken What you see here on these screens is a fantasy, a computer-enhanced hallucination! Those blips are not real missiles, they're phantoms!
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Gladiator Jonny
Omniscient Order Privateer Alliance
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Posted - 2008.01.27 00:15:00 -
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Lol, it means nothin just alittle friendly banter we have.
Think ill let it die for a few days, next time we go out ill say sorry again.
If he has problems ill happily sort it out their and then, problem solved tbqh
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Sharupak
Minmatar Knights Of the Black Sun Brotherhood Of Steel
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Posted - 2008.01.27 15:25:00 -
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Oh jesus!
Tell him he is going to the bar with you to have a beer and if he refuses, you are gonna pound the **** out of him and drag him there anyways.
Sometimes you gotta do that. One time I was in Puerto with my buddies and I finished off that night with a yard margarita and a half a bottle of codine. I was so hung over the next morning, that I was going to lay in my room and die.
Long story short, I took a right cross to the face a couple of times and I was off to the bar. I was actually very thankful for that because after a couple pina coladas, I was in good spirits again. _______________________________________________ RuntimeError: ChainEvent is blocking by design, but you're block trapped. You have'll have to find some alternative means to do Your Thing, dude. |
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