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Kaeten
Hybrid Syndicate
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Posted - 2009.02.25 12:32:00 -
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Edited by: Kaeten on 25/02/2009 12:40:17
This happens to like every single girl I meet. I always fall for the same type... Then again I should probably blame myself, last 2 girls I've been with had boyfriends and one of them i was actully dating(WHILE she was together with her boyfriend, behind his back)
Bottem line: We're(you) too nice and comfortable. Girls want to be treated like ****. Why? Because when they see that WE(you) don't think that much of them thats when they want us. they want someone to look up to aswell. It bores them to be in a "nice guy" relationship(at such a young age, dunno how old yous are, I'm 21 so)..
Anyway I've been too nice for too long now, now i just **** it. nothing surprises me anymore when it comes to people and relationships. It's all ****.
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Giannamichaels
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Posted - 2009.02.25 13:05:00 -
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Edited by: Giannamichaels on 25/02/2009 13:05:29
 Originally by: Rondo Gunn
She's just not that into you.
This im afraid, move on and learn from it, sounds like you were a stop gap or a time filler and shes found someone else im afraid. Some women cant just be alone inbetween relationships they need regular pen1s etc as they are fragile and insecure.
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Kaeten
Hybrid Syndicate
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Posted - 2009.02.25 13:12:00 -
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Originally by: Giannamichaels
Edited by: Giannamichaels on 25/02/2009 13:05:29
Originally by: Rondo Gunn
She's just not that into you.
This im afraid, move on and learn from it, sounds like you were a stop gap or a time filler and shes found someone else im afraid. Some women cant just be alone inbetween relationships they need regular pen1s etc as they are fragile and insecure.
marked with bold = not you, probably a guy who treats her not as nicly as you for example. You've lawys gotta think -> WHY does THAT guy get THAT girl..
However you are who you are, you can't exatcly change yourself.. Unless your "fake". And oooo boy.. there are alot of fake people out there..
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Giannamichaels
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Posted - 2009.02.25 13:27:00 -
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Op seems like a good guy and i hope he finds the right one by the way.
i also love this corny line i heard in a movie or something
Optimist:
If you love someone,
Set her free ...
Don't worry, she will come back.
Suspicious:
If you love someone,
Set her free ...
If she ever comes back, ask her why
Impatient:
If you love someone,
Set her free ...
If she doesn't come back within some time
forget her.
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Kaiser Sorano
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Posted - 2009.02.25 13:36:00 -
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Originally by: Bullageddon
Cry, rage, drink, punch crap, get over it.
Life is pain.
What a pessimistic outlook. I suggest chalking it up to experience and having a whale of a time instead.
You won't feel as silly for being such a drama queen either
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Jin Entres
Sharks With Frickin' Laser Beams
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Posted - 2009.02.25 14:06:00 -
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Originally by: Calvin Firenze
Originally by: Hyper Drive
- Just coming out of a long-term relationship
- Falling head over heels in love with me quite quickly
- She might not live up to an image she thought I had of her on a pedestal (WTF?)
- She was becoming a person she didn't like
- Didn't want to be unfair to me when she *wasn't sure*
If a woman gave me any one of those reasons, I'm not going to let myself get hurt, because I've been a stupid, stupid man and I've done it before.
This reminds me of something I heard once: when someone gives you several reasons, they're looking for one that will satisfy you. In other words, it can be a sign of dishonesty. For whatever reason, they don't want to give you the real reason so they throw excuses at you until you accept one. Of course, this doesn't mean that all cases where several reasons are presented would indicate dishonesty but rather than you should always be suspicious when people explain too much.
In any case, I suppose I would advise you to give her a call after a while and ask if she wants to talk. If she doesn't, it's probably best to let go. If she does, you can find out where you both stand and go from there. Relationships require work and people are not always aware of that; even small failures can create uncertainty and misattributions. It goes without saying that people are rarely too rational about their relationships and feeling based judgments can be shortsighted.
Personally I think that the importance of attributions is not often recognised. For instance, a study by Hewstone & Fincham (1996) found that in a happy relationship, the other partner's responsibility of positive events is accentuated and negative ones understated while in unhappy relationships a partner's positive behaviour is more easily attributed to temporary, external and selfish factors and negative behaviour to internal factors (internal factors refer namely to permanent characteristics and intentions).
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Michayel Lyon
Gallente Mercantile Exchange
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Posted - 2009.02.25 17:34:00 -
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Even if you didn't notice it, chances are she was thinking about breaking up way before she actually did it. That doesn't mean she has to show it to you, right?
This also means she has most likely already made up her mind, and trying to convince her to come back to you, trying to "win her back" will only alienate her and make you hurt more.
And even if it's true that her friends somehow "convinced" her to break up with you... Are you sure you want to be with someone that lets her friends decide who she dates?
Basically, get over it, she wasn't the one for you, there's an even hotter and even more compatible girl waiting for you somewhere.
Good luck.
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Larg Kellein
Caldari
Agony Unleashed
Agony Empire
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Posted - 2009.02.27 19:41:00 -
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Yeah, like others have said, it's time to cut her loose. Ideally, you should have done so the first time it didn't work out. Going back to someone that didn't work out will just come back to haunt you. I've finally grown enough of a pair to cut connections with this girl I could never quite get over, but who "couldn't risk our friendship". It sucks, but you have to look out for yourself.
Also, to buff up the old armor a bit for next time, some mandatory reading. The Ladder Theory
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Yoshite McLulzypants
Gallente
THE INTERNET.
Goodfellas.
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Posted - 2009.02.27 23:35:00 -
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tl;dr. Have to ask, was it because she found out you play a girl that flies spaceships on the internet?
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Dantes Revenge
Caldari
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Posted - 2009.02.28 14:22:00 -
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Originally by: Giannamichaels
i also love this corny line i heard in a movie or something
Optimist:
If you love someone,
Set her free ...
Don't worry, she will come back.
Suspicious:
If you love someone,
Set her free ...
If she ever comes back, ask her why
Impatient:
If you love someone,
Set her free ...
If she doesn't come back within some time
forget her.
Realistic:
If you love someone,
Set her free...
Find someone else who deserves your love more.
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Originally by: CCP Whisper
No it is not an official statement. Not everything surrounded by blue bars is an official statement which can be quoted as fact until the end of time. Deal with it.
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BlackMail
Caldari
Vale Heavy Industries
Molotov Coalition
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Posted - 2009.02.28 20:48:00 -
[71]
Try Dudes?
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Blackmail
Vale Heavy Industry
All Around Good Guy
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