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Danton Marcellus
Nebula Rasa Holdings
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Posted - 2009.07.21 01:30:00 -
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Originally by: The Wintersmith Bottle of Whiskey and a funnel tbh.
Don't get sad, get angry 
I think getting angry has been his social heritage gone wrong in the past, he need no encouragement to repeat it.
Should/would/could have, HAVE you chav!
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Akita T
Caldari Navy Volunteer Task Force
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Posted - 2009.07.21 03:18:00 -
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Originally by: d1sTuRbIa i'm 19 and i would go through hell for this girl [...] about 2 weeks ago my gf of about 7 months left me [...] because i was obssessive [...] arguements between us a lot [...] everything i said to try and get back with her she would ignore and it was like talking to a brick wall. I then found out that a few days ago she has started to see another guy.
And yeah, she's right, you're obsessive. Work on that. To CORRECT it, not make it worse. Give up already. Seriously. 7 months might seem like a lot at your age, but it's basically peanuts in the grand scheme of things. You're 19, you'll dump or be dumped by a lot more girls before you find the one you'll actually marry, have kids with, and most likely get a divorce from. You know, if you won't have kids without getting married, or if you'll ever find a girl that will tolerate you. And that's up to you ... either find one that's "damaged goods" enough to tolerate you as you are, or GET BETTER and find a decent one instead.
It might sound unusually cluel, harsh or downright malicious of me to say all of this... but it's sadly only realistic.
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soldieroffortune 258
Gallente Trinity Council Ethereal Dawn
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Posted - 2009.07.21 03:37:00 -
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I know how you feel kinda man.
Best thing is to just stop talking to her, and yes, move on. Seems impossible now but hang out with friends, check out other girls, be YOURSELF for a while, you'll begin to feel a whole lot better within a month or so. Please re-size your signature to a maximum of 400 x 120 with the file size not exceeding 24000 bytes.Applebabe
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Tef42
Gallente Monsters
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Posted - 2009.07.21 04:27:00 -
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Honestly dude, you're only 19. You should be out meeting lots of girls and not just settle for one or be hung up on one. Its hard to get a girl or keep her if you appear weak and insecure. Be a man, be fun, be confident.
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Tara Moss
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Posted - 2009.07.21 07:18:00 -
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This!
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ceaon
Gallente
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Posted - 2009.07.21 08:22:00 -
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Originally by: d1sTuRbIa does anyone have any idea how the hell i get her back?
you only have to increase your value
also if u are a "testosterone guy" try to remember when she got the period woman prefer heavy testosterone guy when are ovulating.
gl
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d1sTuRbIa
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Posted - 2009.07.21 12:11:00 -
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thanks for all the advice so far guys, i've left it few days now since i contacted her. my mate has invited her to his party so guess i'll see what happens but i went down few days ago and when i was talking to her it was as if we were going out again. were going to see how it goes with her and if it's fine i'm going to talk to her about it all because i still haven't in person. i've spoken to a few of my mates and they think its still worth a go and it can't do any harm for now. any more advice would be helpful, once again thanks guys
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Iasius
Mercurialis Inc. Wildly Inappropriate.
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Posted - 2009.07.21 12:29:00 -
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Edited by: Iasius on 21/07/2009 12:28:59 Women in their late teens are energetic but like all late teens dont have a well developed sense of humour and think they know everything. Those that go to uni from straight laced areas are up rampant sex and some lesbian experimentation.
Women in their 20's are more experienced but are 'me me me'. A lot of them have a drink problem more so then men.
Women in their 30's are a lot more mellow and worldly.
As you get older the sex gets better but the hangovers worse  Please resize image to a maximum of 400 x 120, not exceeding 24000 bytes. ~Saint |

TraininVain
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Posted - 2009.07.21 13:38:00 -
[39]
She's gone. Move on.
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Tallaran Kouros
Caldari Sc0rched Earth
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Posted - 2009.07.21 14:05:00 -
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Originally by: Iasius Edited by: Iasius on 21/07/2009 12:28:59 Women in their late teens are energetic but like all late teens dont have a well developed sense of humour and think they know everything. Those that go to uni from straight laced areas are up rampant sex and some lesbian experimentation.
Women in their 20's are more experienced but are 'me me me'. A lot of them have a drink problem more so then men.
Women in their 30's are a lot more mellow and worldly.
As you get older the sex gets better but the hangovers worse 
Bang on the button, every single word.
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Ombey
Mirkur Draug'Tyr Ushra'Khan
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Posted - 2009.07.21 14:10:00 -
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Afraid I have to agree with the majority here- she's moved on, you need to also. It's twee and a cliche, but time does heal.
Don't contact her at all and, as a poster earlier said, if you have lots of stuff that reminds you of her, box it all up and dispose of it. If you can't bear to do that, at least stick it in the loft/ basement out of sight.
Good luck mate.
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Iasius
Mercurialis Inc. Wildly Inappropriate.
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Posted - 2009.07.21 14:24:00 -
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By far tbe best way to move on from relations with a woman is to move on to another. When your young its easy to think that a particular woman is the best it can be. But you can get a unique majic with another that suits you.
Often the grass is greener on the other side if your single or have been with a partner for a long time. Men with partners often say to single men your so lucky. Single men often envy men in relationships.
And some women are obsessed with text messaging. Why send 10 texts in a day when a 5 minute phone chat will suffice.
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Drunk Driver
Gallente Aliastra
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Posted - 2009.07.21 15:14:00 -
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Hookers.
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Grez
Neo Spartans Laconian Syndicate
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Posted - 2009.07.21 15:46:00 -
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She's gone. Surround yourself with friends and stuff you like doing.
You'll probably feel lonely for a few months, but it'll get better.
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ceaon
Gallente
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Posted - 2009.07.21 16:07:00 -
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Originally by: Drunk Driver
Hookers.
girls hook you, you hook them  
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Drunk Driver
Gallente Aliastra
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Posted - 2009.07.21 16:39:00 -
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Originally by: ceaon
Originally by: Drunk Driver
Hookers.
girls hook you, you hook them  
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mamolian
North Eastern Swat
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Posted - 2009.07.21 20:07:00 -
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Your going to die alone.
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Dzil
Caldari Deep Core Mining Inc.
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Posted - 2009.07.21 21:27:00 -
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Gonna go with every other serious response on this thread and say let her be. What does a girl that has no interest in a future with you have to do with a better future for you? Even if you get her back, so to speak, it doesn't sound like she'd be very happy.
Lots of other women out there. Beautiful women. Intelligent women. Good hearted women. I'd recommend taking a walk along a college campus on a nice sunny day.
But before you get involved in a new relationship, you need to find a center that defines YOU. Who you are, where you are headed in life, what principles you uphold should be decided before you start trying to commit to long term relationships. If religion, meditation and your parents haven't given you a good foundation here, I'd stick with the basic healthy wealthy and wise: keep in shape and clean, get a job and be thrifty, and commit to continual education and learning. You'll do fine, and success tends to bring the girls without trying.
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Barakkus
Caelestis Iudicium
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Posted - 2009.07.21 21:56:00 -
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Go get a lap dance, drink and be merry, don't bother being serious about a woman until you're close to 30, all the ones under 30 aren't even worth it.
Just say to yourself "**** her" and get on with it, there's 1,000,000 more just like her out there, trust me.
I dunno about the being "clean, get a job and be thrifty" part, I've had more women want to sleep with me when I was all drugged out, dirty and broke than responsible, clean and upstanding lol...just make sure you keep up with the education so you can actually make some money some day.
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Kessiaan
Minmatar MicroFunks
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Posted - 2009.07.21 23:28:00 -
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They're all mostly the same, just get another one.
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FOl2TY8
Revolutionary United Front Paxton Federation
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Posted - 2009.07.21 23:34:00 -
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Text her pictures of your junk covered in hersheys syrup. Chicks love chocolate and wieners.
I can honestly say that I would never go through hell for any girl, not even my wife. If she went to hell it would probably be her fault. She does love the occasional choco schlong though. ---------- This post brought to you by the worst PVP'er in Eve |

Alfred Lichtenstein
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Posted - 2009.07.22 15:26:00 -
[52]
sleep with her mate/sister/mum!
Problem solved!
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CAPSLOCKBROKE
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Posted - 2009.07.22 16:06:00 -
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Originally by: d1sTuRbIa thanks for all the advice so far guys, i've left it few days now since i contacted her. my mate has invited her to his party so guess i'll see what happens but i went down few days ago and when i was talking to her it was as if we were going out again. were going to see how it goes with her and if it's fine i'm going to talk to her about it all because i still haven't in person. i've spoken to a few of my mates and they think its still worth a go and it can't do any harm for now. any more advice would be helpful, once again thanks guys
FAIL
She dumped you. It might have felt like "it was if we were going out again", but its not. Here's the plan:
Go to said party. Hook up with another chick, and screw her in your car. Make sure the X knows. Make her jealous.
Then you have 3 options:
Use jealously to get back with said chick, and manipulate her into being with you I.E. being obsessive. Use jealously to get her to think you want her, then "dump her" and make yourself feel better I.E. being an ass. (my favorite) Realize its all stupid high school crap that you can't seem to get out of, grow up, go to college, let girl of your dreams come to you because you have a good job, don't suck, and have more practice so now your good in bed. (worked for me).
Protip: She sucks. Move on. Get good job. After that it is EZ MODE.
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Super Whopper
I can Has Cheeseburger
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Posted - 2009.07.22 16:14:00 -
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Originally by: Tallaran Kouros
Originally by: Iasius Edited by: Iasius on 21/07/2009 12:28:59 Women in their late teens are energetic but like all late teens dont have a well developed sense of humour and think they know everything. Those that go to uni from straight laced areas are up rampant sex and some lesbian experimentation.
Women in their 20's are more experienced but are 'me me me'. A lot of them have a drink problem more so then men.
Women in their 30's are a lot more mellow and worldly.
As you get older the sex gets better but the hangovers worse 
Bang on the button, every single word.
This is why I couldn't stand girls in their 20's when I was 15, let alone now. And this is why a lot of young guys go with older women, they're far more sane than young 'me, myself and I' morons.
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Barakkus
Caelestis Iudicium
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Posted - 2009.07.22 18:00:00 -
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Originally by: Super Whopper
Originally by: Tallaran Kouros
Originally by: Iasius Edited by: Iasius on 21/07/2009 12:28:59 Women in their late teens are energetic but like all late teens dont have a well developed sense of humour and think they know everything. Those that go to uni from straight laced areas are up rampant sex and some lesbian experimentation.
Women in their 20's are more experienced but are 'me me me'. A lot of them have a drink problem more so then men.
Women in their 30's are a lot more mellow and worldly.
As you get older the sex gets better but the hangovers worse 
Bang on the button, every single word.
This is why I couldn't stand girls in their 20's when I was 15, let alone now. And this is why a lot of young guys go with older women, they're far more sane than young 'me, myself and I' morons.
That's why my wife is 47 and i'm only 33 ;) Older women **** better anyways ;)
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Sokratesz
Rionnag Alba Against ALL Authorities
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Posted - 2009.07.22 19:33:00 -
[56]
I'm sorry to say but...not gonna work :(
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Achmed TheDead
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Posted - 2009.07.23 06:06:00 -
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lost cause. if she cant deal with a long distance relation ship, and then goes and becomes a Fbuddy for the closest guy.
don't deal with it, its going to turn out worse if you try.
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Calvin Firenze
Minmatar Demon Theory Wildly Inappropriate.
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Posted - 2009.07.23 06:07:00 -
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Women aren't exactly worth losing sleep or stressing over. Sorry to the women reading this thread, but its true. Deal with your issues and move on.
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Achmed TheDead
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Posted - 2009.07.23 06:21:00 -
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Originally by: Calvin Firenze Women aren't exactly worth losing sleep or stressing over. Sorry to the women reading this thread, but its true. Deal with your issues and move on.
amen, Even those who are happily married can agree to this. If you lose sleep over a woman, your going to have many stress related issues.
Ive had them, they are not fun. Ive just decided to quit caring, and then.. BOOM, beer tastes better.
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Munchees
Gallente
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Posted - 2009.07.23 06:23:00 -
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Edited by: Munchees on 23/07/2009 06:23:08 I think I'm gonna be sad, I think it's today, yeah. The girl that's driving me mad Is going away.
She's got a ticket to ride, She's got a ticket to ride, She's got a ticket to ride, But she don't care.
She said that living with me Was bringing her down yeah. She would never be free When I was around.
She's got a ticket to ride, She's got a ticket to ride, She's got a ticket to ride, But she don't care.
I don't know why she's ridin' so high, She ought to think twice, She ought to do right by me. Before she gets to saying goodbye, She ought to think twice, She ought to do right by me.
I think I'm gonna be sad, I think it's today yeah. The girl that's driving me mad Is going away, yeah.
She's got a ticket to ride, She's got a ticket to ride, She's got a ticket to ride, But she don't care.
I don't know why she's ridin' so high, She ought to think twice, She ought to do right by me. Before she gets to saying goodbye, She ought to think twice, She ought to do right by me
She heard that living with me, Was bringing her down, yeah. She would never be free When I was around.
Ah, she's got a ticket to ride, She's got a ticket to ride, She's got a ticket to ride, But she don't care.
My baby don't care, my baby don't care. My baby don't care, my baby don't care. My baby don't care. |
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