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d1sTuRbIa
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Posted - 2009.07.20 20:27:00 -
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ok before i start this is not a troll, and i'm not sure why i am posting it on here but maybe it is because i will hopefully recieve a great deal of different ideas etc from many different people.A little background on me is that i'm 19 and i would go through hell for this girl.
ok so recently about 2 weeks ago my gf of about 7 months left me (she lives around 2 hours away from me by car), the main reasons were because i was obssessive and there were arguements between us a lot because of my family problems which include domestic violence.
i found myself shocked when she left me and i have just been suffering about it all(losing sleep, constantly thinking of it, looking a wreck etc etc) and everything i said to try and get back with her she would ignore and it was like talking to a brick wall. I then found out that a few days ago she has started to see another guy. this ofc shocked me beyond belief and i went down there with flowers and a letter, which ofc didnt work and the reply aws but i' seeing someone else so i cant go back.
a little background on the guy is that he is from her area and goes to the same college. so she can see him more often then me. I have been apart from her before for a few months and i tried everything to get over her and it simply did not work and she means so much to me.
does anyone have any idea how the hell i get her back?
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Rawr Cristina
Caldari
Liberi Fatalius
Exalted.
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Posted - 2009.07.20 20:30:00 -
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imo you're trying too hard
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Kurfin
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Posted - 2009.07.20 20:32:00 -
[3]
Sounds like a lost cause, sorry.
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goodby4u
Valor Inc.
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Posted - 2009.07.20 20:32:00 -
[4]
Unfortunately there is no fix for her thinking you are being obsessive, because the more you try the more she dislikes you.
So while this may be hard, you must move on... And if she wishes to come back to you she knows where to find you.
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d1sTuRbIa
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Posted - 2009.07.20 20:36:00 -
[5]
 thanks guys so far, just a few suggestions of what i could try for now would be nice after all trying wouldn't hurt, just have to make sure i don't come across as obssessive
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Awesome Possum
Insert Obscure Latin Name
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Posted - 2009.07.20 20:52:00 -
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*****es ain't **** but hoes and tricks
go to some place females congregate, be an *******, pick up rebound girl, treat her like ****, have her love you forever or until you upgrade to a better model.
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Xen Gin
Solar Excavations Ultd.
Black Sun Alliance
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Posted - 2009.07.20 21:04:00 -
[7]
Flunitrazepam?
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Malcanis
Vanishing Point.
The Initiative.
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Posted - 2009.07.20 21:09:00 -
[8]
 Originally by: d1sTuRbIa
thanks guys so far, just a few suggestions of what i could try for now would be nice after all trying wouldn't hurt, just have to make sure i don't come across as obssessive
The best way to engage her interest is to not call her and get another girlfriend.
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Blane Xero
Amarr
The Firestorm Cartel
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Posted - 2009.07.20 21:09:00 -
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If you have a "Memory box" or kin, including photos, then burn it and them. Or at least trash them.
Cry river, build bridge, get over it and then burn it for good measure. Thats my advice on the matter.
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Haruhiist since December 2008
Originally by: CCP Fallout
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THE L0CK
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Posted - 2009.07.20 21:30:00 -
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Take up heavy drinking and maybe ******* for a bit. Once you hit rehab and come out you'll have a brighter look in life and be able to start fresh.
Taking my advice is may not be healthy or wise. Please consult your physician before starting the binge. As always alcoholic depression is not for everybody including but not limited to pregnant women, the elderly, young children, and people with tourette syndrome.
Originally by: Whitehound
If I think, but I do not.
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Vinsurith Morteth
Minmatar
Hauptman Cartel
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Posted - 2009.07.20 21:33:00 -
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If she was willing to see someone else behind your back instead of being respectful then don't even bother. She's not worth it and it will only come back to bite her in the a**. Deal with your own life and find somebody worth spending time with. She's a *****.
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Whitehound
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Posted - 2009.07.20 21:36:00 -
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- Call her on the phone every 5 minutes.
- Throw little rocks at her window every night and throughout the entire night.
- Play love songs on a portable music box, again, at night.
- Send her and her mother lots of flowers.
- Give her father wine, whiskey and cigars.
- Mow the lawn of her garden, wash her and her parent's cars.
- Paint her parents' house with a fresh, new colour.
- Follow every of her foot steps and carry her books at college.
- Beat up her boyfriend and every other boy she talks to.
- Run naked through a football station and shout her name.
- Find out what sport her new boy-friend plays and beat him at them, too.
- Find a dead cat and tell her your cat died, that you feel terribly sad about it and show the cat to her.
- Tell her you have become gay to make her feel guilty and so she tries to turn you around again.
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Rawr Cristina
Caldari
Liberi Fatalius
Exalted.
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Posted - 2009.07.20 21:37:00 -
[13]
you shouldn't ever put your life on hold for one person
life goes on whether you're with her or not, just move on - it's not the end of the world 
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Posted - 2009.07.20 21:43:00 -
[14]
Give her a free ticket to Venezuela, I hear the kidnapping business goes well there.
That's the idea how to get her back, if you don't like that, then forget it.
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TimMc
Gallente
Brutal Deliverance
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Posted - 2009.07.20 21:52:00 -
[15]
Totally this
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Wendat Huron
Stellar Solutions
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Posted - 2009.07.20 22:23:00 -
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Obsessive ey with a family history of domestic violence? That's a smart girl. If you care anything about her you'd let her keep running.
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Cat o'Ninetails
Rancer Defence League
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Posted - 2009.07.20 22:44:00 -
[17]
she is probably a pirate anyway
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Louis deGuerre
Gallente
Azure Horizon Federate Militia
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Posted - 2009.07.20 22:55:00 -
[18]
Just forget it man, there'll be plenty of other girls.
And there are plenty of girls who like an obsessive chap, I know 
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hired goon
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Posted - 2009.07.20 22:59:00 -
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According to classic Mystery Method, you must sleep with ten other women to help you get over her.
-omg-
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Mr Reeth
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Posted - 2009.07.20 23:04:00 -
[20]
Originally by: TimMc
I damn near ****!! 
To the OP, you know how you have feelings, thoughts, inner pain and stuff? KEEP THEM TO YOURSELF!!! Girls don't want to deal with your ****. They want to unload their **** on you.
And remember the golden rule of dealing with women... treat a ***** like a lady and a lady like a *****.
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Iasius
Mercurialis Inc.
Wildly Inappropriate.
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Posted - 2009.07.20 23:07:00 -
[21]
Where love or hate is not in the game woman is a medicore player.
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Irida Mershkov
Gallente
War is Bliss
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Posted - 2009.07.20 23:18:00 -
[22]
Edited by: Irida Mershkov on 20/07/2009 23:18:59
Originally by: d1sTuRbIa
19 and i would go through hell for this girl.
Don't waste your time. Quite simply, isn't worth it, move on.
Alternatively, dress up in a ghillie suit and follow her reciting poetry.
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Intense Thinker
Minmatar
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Posted - 2009.07.20 23:29:00 -
[23]
Originally by: Irida Mershkov
Edited by: Irida Mershkov on 20/07/2009 23:18:59
Originally by: d1sTuRbIa
19 and i would go through hell for this girl.
Don't waste your time. Quite simply, isn't worth it, move on.
Alternatively, dress up in a ghillie suit and follow her reciting poetry.
And film it
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Cipher7
Slag Industries
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Posted - 2009.07.20 23:36:00 -
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Go sleep with 10 other women, you'll feel better I promise.
Never EVER put your life on hold least of all for a woman.
Your boat is always sailing, whether she gets on or off, it sails.
Your first priority is health. Your second priority is money. She's #589690977890769 on your priority list right below video games.
Approach women everywhere. Dress well, smell good. Practice your bedroom voice.
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Lunas Whisper
Minmatar
The Centurions
Eternus Imperium Alliance
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Posted - 2009.07.21 00:03:00 -
[25]
Originally by: d1sTuRbIa
ok before i start this is not a troll, and i'm not sure why i am posting it on here but maybe it is because i will hopefully recieve a great deal of different ideas etc from many different people.A little background on me is that i'm 19 and i would go through hell for this girl.
ok so recently about 2 weeks ago my gf of about 7 months left me (she lives around 2 hours away from me by car), the main reasons were because i was obssessive and there were arguements between us a lot because of my family problems which include domestic violence.
i found myself shocked when she left me and i have just been suffering about it all(losing sleep, constantly thinking of it, looking a wreck etc etc) and everything i said to try and get back with her she would ignore and it was like talking to a brick wall. I then found out that a few days ago she has started to see another guy. this ofc shocked me beyond belief and i went down there with flowers and a letter, which ofc didnt work and the reply aws but i' seeing someone else so i cant go back.
a little background on the guy is that he is from her area and goes to the same college. so she can see him more often then me. I have been apart from her before for a few months and i tried everything to get over her and it simply did not work and she means so much to me.
does anyone have any idea how the hell i get her back?
Not a darn thing you can do now.
Your key words on this she left because of your family history and you acting obsessive. ie her bullcrap quotient has been reached and she's made up her mind. Whinging at her with flowers an poetry like they do in the movies only reinforces the fact she sees you as obsessive.
So have you been obsessive and have you been leaning toward your family history? I don't need to know you do. If so, find practical conflict resolution techniques and I don't mean the ones that say express your feelings. Your a guy, you need more concrete methods then crying is ok.
Your 19, if you and her are meant to be it will happen later on. She knows yalls' ages. Go and experience life for crying out loud. Find out what you did wrong or right in this relationship and try not to do the bad things in the next one and continue the good things. In short learn and grow. But the girl has made her mind up and you can't change it, your going to have to accept her choices. No if's and or butts.
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Thuranni
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Posted - 2009.07.21 00:07:00 -
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Originally by: d1sTuRbIa
the main reasons were because i was obssessive
I wonder how the hell she got that idea.
It's a lost cause. She's seeing someone else. Forget about it.
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Jin Nib
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Posted - 2009.07.21 00:15:00 -
[27]
Just try panting in front of her and lick her face. Works for dogs.
-Jin Nib
Trading on behalf of Opera Noir since:
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The Wintersmith
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Posted - 2009.07.21 00:25:00 -
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Bottle of Whiskey and a funnel tbh.
Don't get sad, get angry 
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Sniper Wolf18
Gallente
A Pretty Pony Princess
General Tso's Alliance
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Posted - 2009.07.21 00:46:00 -
[29]
Put your hand on ice, run to the hospital and hope that they can reattach it, if they can, you've got your "girl" back 
And to finish, thank you for reading my sig
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rValdez5987
Amarr
Imperial Guard.
Soldiers of Solitude
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Posted - 2009.07.21 01:15:00 -
[30]
Originally by: d1sTuRbIa
ok before i start this is not a troll, and i'm not sure why i am posting it on here but maybe it is because i will hopefully recieve a great deal of different ideas etc from many different people.A little background on me is that i'm 19 and i would go through hell for this girl.
ok so recently about 2 weeks ago my gf of about 7 months left me (she lives around 2 hours away from me by car), the main reasons were because i was obssessive and there were arguements between us a lot because of my family problems which include domestic violence.
i found myself shocked when she left me and i have just been suffering about it all(losing sleep, constantly thinking of it, looking a wreck etc etc) and everything i said to try and get back with her she would ignore and it was like talking to a brick wall. I then found out that a few days ago she has started to see another guy. this ofc shocked me beyond belief and i went down there with flowers and a letter, which ofc didnt work and the reply aws but i' seeing someone else so i cant go back.
a little background on the guy is that he is from her area and goes to the same college. so she can see him more often then me. I have been apart from her before for a few months and i tried everything to get over her and it simply did not work and she means so much to me.
does anyone have any idea how the hell i get her back?
Forget about her. 7 months for a relationship isn't a very long time. I would sort out your own problems first then put yourself back on the market.
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Danton Marcellus
Nebula Rasa Holdings
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Posted - 2009.07.21 01:30:00 -
[31]
Originally by: The Wintersmith
Bottle of Whiskey and a funnel tbh.
Don't get sad, get angry
I think getting angry has been his social heritage gone wrong in the past, he need no encouragement to repeat it.
Should/would/could have, HAVE you chav!
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Akita T
Caldari Navy Volunteer Task Force
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Posted - 2009.07.21 03:18:00 -
[32]
Originally by: d1sTuRbIa
i'm 19 and i would go through hell for this girl [...] about 2 weeks ago my gf of about 7 months left me [...] because i was obssessive [...] arguements between us a lot [...] everything i said to try and get back with her she would ignore and it was like talking to a brick wall. I then found out that a few days ago she has started to see another guy.
And yeah, she's right, you're obsessive. Work on that. To CORRECT it, not make it worse.
Give up already. Seriously. 7 months might seem like a lot at your age, but it's basically peanuts in the grand scheme of things.
You're 19, you'll dump or be dumped by a lot more girls before you find the one you'll actually marry, have kids with, and most likely get a divorce from.
You know, if you won't have kids without getting married, or if you'll ever find a girl that will tolerate you. And that's up to you ... either find one that's "damaged goods" enough to tolerate you as you are, or GET BETTER and find a decent one instead.
It might sound unusually cluel, harsh or downright malicious of me to say all of this... but it's sadly only realistic.
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soldieroffortune 258
Gallente
Trinity Council
Ethereal Dawn
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Posted - 2009.07.21 03:37:00 -
[33]
I know how you feel kinda man.
Best thing is to just stop talking to her, and yes, move on. Seems impossible now but hang out with friends, check out other girls, be YOURSELF for a while, you'll begin to feel a whole lot better within a month or so.
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Tef42
Gallente
Monsters
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Posted - 2009.07.21 04:27:00 -
[34]
Honestly dude, you're only 19. You should be out meeting lots of girls and not just settle for one or be hung up on one. Its hard to get a girl or keep her if you appear weak and insecure. Be a man, be fun, be confident.
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Tara Moss
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Posted - 2009.07.21 07:18:00 -
[35]
This!
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ceaon
Gallente
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Posted - 2009.07.21 08:22:00 -
[36]
Originally by: d1sTuRbIa
does anyone have any idea how the hell i get her back?
you only have to increase your value
also if u are a "testosterone guy" try to remember when she got the period woman prefer heavy testosterone guy when are ovulating.
gl
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d1sTuRbIa
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Posted - 2009.07.21 12:11:00 -
[37]
thanks for all the advice so far guys, i've left it few days now since i contacted her. my mate has invited her to his party so guess i'll see what happens but i went down few days ago and when i was talking to her it was as if we were going out again. were going to see how it goes with her and if it's fine i'm going to talk to her about it all because i still haven't in person. i've spoken to a few of my mates and they think its still worth a go and it can't do any harm for now. any more advice would be helpful, once again thanks guys
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Iasius
Mercurialis Inc.
Wildly Inappropriate.
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Posted - 2009.07.21 12:29:00 -
[38]
Edited by: Iasius on 21/07/2009 12:28:59
Women in their late teens are energetic but like all late teens dont have a well developed sense of humour and think they know everything. Those that go to uni from straight laced areas are up rampant sex and some lesbian experimentation.
Women in their 20's are more experienced but are 'me me me'. A lot of them have a drink problem more so then men.
Women in their 30's are a lot more mellow and worldly.
As you get older the sex gets better but the hangovers worse
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TraininVain
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Posted - 2009.07.21 13:38:00 -
[39]
She's gone. Move on.
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Tallaran Kouros
Caldari
Sc0rched Earth
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Posted - 2009.07.21 14:05:00 -
[40]
Originally by: Iasius
Edited by: Iasius on 21/07/2009 12:28:59
Women in their late teens are energetic but like all late teens dont have a well developed sense of humour and think they know everything. Those that go to uni from straight laced areas are up rampant sex and some lesbian experimentation.
Women in their 20's are more experienced but are 'me me me'. A lot of them have a drink problem more so then men.
Women in their 30's are a lot more mellow and worldly.
As you get older the sex gets better but the hangovers worse
Bang on the button, every single word.
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Ombey
Mirkur Draug'Tyr
Ushra'Khan
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Posted - 2009.07.21 14:10:00 -
[41]
Afraid I have to agree with the majority here- she's moved on, you need to also. It's twee and a cliche, but time does heal.
Don't contact her at all and, as a poster earlier said, if you have lots of stuff that reminds you of her, box it all up and dispose of it. If you can't bear to do that, at least stick it in the loft/ basement out of sight.
Good luck mate.
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Iasius
Mercurialis Inc.
Wildly Inappropriate.
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Posted - 2009.07.21 14:24:00 -
[42]
By far tbe best way to move on from relations with a woman is to move on to another. When your young its easy to think that a particular woman is the best it can be. But you can get a unique majic with another that suits you.
Often the grass is greener on the other side if your single or have been with a partner for a long time. Men with partners often say to single men your so lucky. Single men often envy men in relationships.
And some women are obsessed with text messaging. Why send 10 texts in a day when a 5 minute phone chat will suffice.
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Drunk Driver
Gallente
Aliastra
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Posted - 2009.07.21 15:14:00 -
[43]
Hookers.
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Grez
Neo Spartans
Laconian Syndicate
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Posted - 2009.07.21 15:46:00 -
[44]
She's gone. Surround yourself with friends and stuff you like doing.
You'll probably feel lonely for a few months, but it'll get better.
Sorry.
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ceaon
Gallente
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Posted - 2009.07.21 16:07:00 -
[45]
Originally by: Drunk Driver
Hookers.
girls hook you, you hook them
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Drunk Driver
Gallente
Aliastra
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Posted - 2009.07.21 16:39:00 -
[46]
Originally by: ceaon
Originally by: Drunk Driver
Hookers.
girls hook you, you hook them
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mamolian
North Eastern Swat
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Posted - 2009.07.21 20:07:00 -
[47]
Your going to die alone.
Sorry.
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Dzil
Caldari
Deep Core Mining Inc.
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Posted - 2009.07.21 21:27:00 -
[48]
Gonna go with every other serious response on this thread and say let her be. What does a girl that has no interest in a future with you have to do with a better future for you? Even if you get her back, so to speak, it doesn't sound like she'd be very happy.
Lots of other women out there. Beautiful women. Intelligent women. Good hearted women. I'd recommend taking a walk along a college campus on a nice sunny day.
But before you get involved in a new relationship, you need to find a center that defines YOU. Who you are, where you are headed in life, what principles you uphold should be decided before you start trying to commit to long term relationships. If religion, meditation and your parents haven't given you a good foundation here, I'd stick with the basic healthy wealthy and wise: keep in shape and clean, get a job and be thrifty, and commit to continual education and learning. You'll do fine, and success tends to bring the girls without trying.
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Barakkus
Caelestis Iudicium
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Posted - 2009.07.21 21:56:00 -
[49]
Go get a lap dance, drink and be merry, don't bother being serious about a woman until you're close to 30, all the ones under 30 aren't even worth it.
Just say to yourself "**** her" and get on with it, there's 1,000,000 more just like her out there, trust me.
I dunno about the being "clean, get a job and be thrifty" part, I've had more women want to sleep with me when I was all drugged out, dirty and broke than responsible, clean and upstanding lol...just make sure you keep up with the education so you can actually make some money some day.
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Kessiaan
Minmatar
MicroFunks
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Posted - 2009.07.21 23:28:00 -
[50]
They're all mostly the same, just get another one.
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FOl2TY8
Revolutionary United Front
Paxton Federation
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Posted - 2009.07.21 23:34:00 -
[51]
Text her pictures of your junk covered in hersheys syrup. Chicks love chocolate and wieners.
I can honestly say that I would never go through hell for any girl, not even my wife. If she went to hell it would probably be her fault. She does love the occasional choco schlong though.
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Alfred Lichtenstein
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Posted - 2009.07.22 15:26:00 -
[52]
sleep with her mate/sister/mum!
Problem solved!
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CAPSLOCKBROKE
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Posted - 2009.07.22 16:06:00 -
[53]
Originally by: d1sTuRbIa
thanks for all the advice so far guys, i've left it few days now since i contacted her. my mate has invited her to his party so guess i'll see what happens but i went down few days ago and when i was talking to her it was as if we were going out again. were going to see how it goes with her and if it's fine i'm going to talk to her about it all because i still haven't in person. i've spoken to a few of my mates and they think its still worth a go and it can't do any harm for now. any more advice would be helpful, once again thanks guys
FAIL
She dumped you. It might have felt like "it was if we were going out again", but its not. Here's the plan:
Go to said party.
Hook up with another chick, and screw her in your car. Make sure the X knows.
Make her jealous.
Then you have 3 options:
Use jealously to get back with said chick, and manipulate her into being with you I.E. being obsessive.
Use jealously to get her to think you want her, then "dump her" and make yourself feel better I.E. being an ass. (my favorite)
Realize its all stupid high school crap that you can't seem to get out of, grow up, go to college, let girl of your dreams come to you because you have a good job, don't suck, and have more practice so now your good in bed. (worked for me).
Protip: She sucks. Move on. Get good job. After that it is EZ MODE.
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Super Whopper
I can Has Cheeseburger
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Posted - 2009.07.22 16:14:00 -
[54]
Originally by: Tallaran Kouros
Originally by: Iasius
Edited by: Iasius on 21/07/2009 12:28:59
Women in their late teens are energetic but like all late teens dont have a well developed sense of humour and think they know everything. Those that go to uni from straight laced areas are up rampant sex and some lesbian experimentation.
Women in their 20's are more experienced but are 'me me me'. A lot of them have a drink problem more so then men.
Women in their 30's are a lot more mellow and worldly.
As you get older the sex gets better but the hangovers worse
Bang on the button, every single word.
This is why I couldn't stand girls in their 20's when I was 15, let alone now. And this is why a lot of young guys go with older women, they're far more sane than young 'me, myself and I' morons.
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Barakkus
Caelestis Iudicium
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Posted - 2009.07.22 18:00:00 -
[55]
Originally by: Super Whopper
Originally by: Tallaran Kouros
Originally by: Iasius
Edited by: Iasius on 21/07/2009 12:28:59
Women in their late teens are energetic but like all late teens dont have a well developed sense of humour and think they know everything. Those that go to uni from straight laced areas are up rampant sex and some lesbian experimentation.
Women in their 20's are more experienced but are 'me me me'. A lot of them have a drink problem more so then men.
Women in their 30's are a lot more mellow and worldly.
As you get older the sex gets better but the hangovers worse
Bang on the button, every single word.
This is why I couldn't stand girls in their 20's when I was 15, let alone now. And this is why a lot of young guys go with older women, they're far more sane than young 'me, myself and I' morons.
That's why my wife is 47 and i'm only 33 ;)
Older women **** better anyways ;)
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Sokratesz
Rionnag Alba
Against ALL Authorities
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Posted - 2009.07.22 19:33:00 -
[56]
I'm sorry to say but...not gonna work :(
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Achmed TheDead
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Posted - 2009.07.23 06:06:00 -
[57]
lost cause.
if she cant deal with a long distance relation ship, and then goes and becomes a Fbuddy for the closest guy.
don't deal with it, its going to turn out worse if you try.
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Calvin Firenze
Minmatar
Demon Theory
Wildly Inappropriate.
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Posted - 2009.07.23 06:07:00 -
[58]
Women aren't exactly worth losing sleep or stressing over. Sorry to the women reading this thread, but its true. Deal with your issues and move on.
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Achmed TheDead
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Posted - 2009.07.23 06:21:00 -
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Originally by: Calvin Firenze
Women aren't exactly worth losing sleep or stressing over. Sorry to the women reading this thread, but its true. Deal with your issues and move on.
amen, Even those who are happily married can agree to this.
If you lose sleep over a woman, your going to have many stress related issues.
Ive had them, they are not fun. Ive just decided to quit caring, and then.. BOOM, beer tastes better.
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Munchees
Gallente
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Posted - 2009.07.23 06:23:00 -
[60]
Edited by: Munchees on 23/07/2009 06:23:08
I think I'm gonna be sad,
I think it's today, yeah.
The girl that's driving me mad
Is going away.
She's got a ticket to ride,
She's got a ticket to ride,
She's got a ticket to ride,
But she don't care.
She said that living with me
Was bringing her down yeah.
She would never be free
When I was around.
She's got a ticket to ride,
She's got a ticket to ride,
She's got a ticket to ride,
But she don't care.
I don't know why she's ridin' so high,
She ought to think twice,
She ought to do right by me.
Before she gets to saying goodbye,
She ought to think twice,
She ought to do right by me.
I think I'm gonna be sad,
I think it's today yeah.
The girl that's driving me mad
Is going away, yeah.
She's got a ticket to ride,
She's got a ticket to ride,
She's got a ticket to ride,
But she don't care.
I don't know why she's ridin' so high,
She ought to think twice,
She ought to do right by me.
Before she gets to saying goodbye,
She ought to think twice,
She ought to do right by me
She heard that living with me,
Was bringing her down, yeah.
She would never be free
When I was around.
Ah, she's got a ticket to ride,
She's got a ticket to ride,
She's got a ticket to ride,
But she don't care.
My baby don't care, my baby don't care.
My baby don't care, my baby don't care.
My baby don't care. |
rValdez5987
Amarr
Imperial Guard.
Soldiers of Solitude
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Posted - 2009.07.23 06:29:00 -
[61]
this thread can die now. Moral of the story, don't be obsessive, if she breaks up with you let her go. plenty of women out there. |
Artarius Bourn
Caldari
Archangels Assault Force
Drunk and Stoned
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Posted - 2009.07.23 09:12:00 -
[62]
rvaldez ya little bastar* wasssssup oh wait back to topic your 19, you were with her for 7 months, and she left you and is now dating another guy. My advice hang out with some friends, find a nice strip club, and just let it go, she is gone and not coming back and frankly a 7 month relationship is worth the crap your trying to do to get her back. Your young and will probably have many more relationships so live it up and stop acting miserable cause she may just be liking that.
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Munchees
Gallente
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Posted - 2009.07.23 09:27:00 -
[63]
Originally by: rValdez5987
this thread can die now. Moral of the story, don't be obsessive, if she breaks up with you let her go. plenty of women out there.
DON'T LISTEN TO PEOPLE LIKE HIM!
NEVER LET HER GO!!!! Stalk her! Beat up her boyfriend to so how much you love her! Burn down her house! KIDNAP HER!!!
Take it from me I'm currently serving a 20 year sentence for this! And I got my girlfriend back! She sends me pictures of the child I impregnated her with after I forced myself on her! |
Artarius Bourn
Caldari
Archangels Assault Force
Drunk and Stoned
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Posted - 2009.07.23 09:37:00 -
[64]
Daddy???
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xBLACKNOVAx
Black Nova Investments
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Posted - 2009.07.23 10:49:00 -
[65]
Send gifts to her on a regular basis. I find that sending hearts is always a nice touch and you can get them from your local butcher for a reasonable price. Nothing says I love you like a still warm heart.
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Navigator Killed my sig |
Munchees
Gallente
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Posted - 2009.07.23 10:54:00 -
[66]
Originally by: Artarius Bourn
Daddy???
**** he's found me |
Tiny Tove
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Posted - 2009.07.23 12:49:00 -
[67]
Ok. Firstly, save on to some of that dignity. You might need it later.
Secondly. The 7th time this happens to you, she'll be taking a lot more than your heart with her. But you'll be so use it you won't even care all that much.
So suck it up. Because it's the only way you will get hard enough to deal with women properly instead of putting them on pedestals they're not really worthy of. |
rValdez5987
Amarr
Imperial Guard.
Soldiers of Solitude
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Posted - 2009.07.23 18:06:00 -
[68]
Originally by: Munchees
Originally by: rValdez5987
this thread can die now. Moral of the story, don't be obsessive, if she breaks up with you let her go. plenty of women out there.
DON'T LISTEN TO PEOPLE LIKE HIM!
NEVER LET HER GO!!!! Stalk her! Beat up her boyfriend to so how much you love her! Burn down her house! KIDNAP HER!!!
Take it from me I'm currently serving a 20 year sentence for this! And I got my girlfriend back! She sends me pictures of the child I impregnated her with after I forced myself on her!
STOP REVERSE TROLLING MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
I support and endorse Munchees idea you should totally do that. (do not do that it's so illegal) |
rValdez5987
Amarr
Imperial Guard.
Soldiers of Solitude
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Posted - 2009.07.23 18:06:00 -
[69]
Edited by: rValdez5987 on 23/07/2009 18:07:24
Originally by: Artarius Bourn
Daddy???
uh oh. I know you. You're my uncle.
Just saw your reply. How's it going mate. |
vulnevia
North Star Networks
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Posted - 2009.07.24 10:20:00 -
[70]
Forget her.
If I broke up with an obsessive boyfriend, got a new, nice guy, I would NOT appreciate my ex coming to my house with flowers, letters or trying to get me back. I'd be scared as hell.
I she still was single I'd say you could try, really carefully, not call her all the time, and not send flowers. Talk via MSN/ICQ is ok, it's less personal than contact IRL.
And as you say yourself; she's with someone else, respect it. Period. |
Milesp
Caldari
BLACK WATER MERCENARIES
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Posted - 2009.07.26 00:44:00 -
[71]
Man up a grow a pair, rofl.
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voogru
Gallente
Massive Damage
United Corporations Against Macros
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Posted - 2009.07.26 00:52:00 -
[72]
Here is a pie chart that should help you decide a good course of action.
Picture
I suggest the grey slice.
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rValdez5987
Amarr
Imperial Guard.
Soldiers of Solitude
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Posted - 2009.07.26 00:57:00 -
[73]
Originally by: voogru
Here is a pie chart that should help you decide a good course of action.
Picture
I suggest the grey slice.
Confirming that indeed works. |
Pyro Ninja
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Posted - 2009.07.26 02:37:00 -
[74]
Let her go man.. have fun finding a new GF and learn from what you did from your last relationship and try not to be like that with the next one. There are a lot of girls in the world.. obsessing over one is a wast of time, also asking for love advise on a gaming forum is also a wast of time..
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Whitehound
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Posted - 2009.07.26 12:39:00 -
[75]
Is she back yet?
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silly person
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Posted - 2009.07.26 14:54:00 -
[76]
Edited by: silly person on 26/07/2009 14:53:53
Every time I see the title of this thread, I misread it as 'getting a black girl'. Do you think I might be dyslexic?
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Lis Ariella
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Posted - 2009.07.26 15:07:00 -
[77]
Sounds like shes gone dude , only option left to you now is keeping her drugged up and locked in the cellar.
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Wired
Rising Ashes Inc.
SATRAPY
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Posted - 2009.07.26 15:21:00 -
[78]
Originally by: silly person
Edited by: silly person on 26/07/2009 14:53:53
Every time I see the title of this thread, I misread it as 'getting a black girl'. Do you think I might be dyslexic?
That's not as bad as mine, i see the thread title and keep thinking "S**t in her handbag"
Either way I think we both have some issues we need to work through.
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Takarina
GoonFleet
GoonSwarm
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Posted - 2009.07.26 20:22:00 -
[79]
why would you want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with you? Do you find it an attractive quality when someone hates on you? Why do you hate yourself?
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Jack Airron
Gallente
Setenta Corp
Libertas Fidelitas
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Posted - 2009.07.26 20:52:00 -
[80]
Originally by: d1sTuRbIa
ok before i start this is not a troll, and i'm not sure why i am posting it on here but maybe it is because i will hopefully recieve a great deal of different ideas etc from many different people.A little background on me is that i'm 19 and i would go through hell for this girl.
ok so recently about 2 weeks ago my gf of about 7 months left me (she lives around 2 hours away from me by car), the main reasons were because i was obssessive and there were arguements between us a lot because of my family problems which include domestic violence.
i found myself shocked when she left me and i have just been suffering about it all(losing sleep, constantly thinking of it, looking a wreck etc etc) and everything i said to try and get back with her she would ignore and it was like talking to a brick wall. I then found out that a few days ago she has started to see another guy. this ofc shocked me beyond belief and i went down there with flowers and a letter, which ofc didnt work and the reply aws but i' seeing someone else so i cant go back.
a little background on the guy is that he is from her area and goes to the same college. so she can see him more often then me. I have been apart from her before for a few months and i tried everything to get over her and it simply did not work and she means so much to me.
does anyone have any idea how the hell i get her back?
Show your dominance as the alpha male and pee in this guys face then beat him with a club.
then you take the girl club her and drag her back to your cave.
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Eaers Secks
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Posted - 2009.07.26 21:53:00 -
[81]
Find a hotter girl(megan fox preferably) and just hang down thereand "accidently" bump into her t the local coffee shop : )
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TraininVain
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Posted - 2009.07.26 22:15:00 -
[82]
Honestly, she'd probably be pretty relieved 
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Fivetide
Amarr
Absolutely No Retreat
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Posted - 2009.07.26 22:47:00 -
[83]
Dont bother move on find someone else... you want to meet girls ? easy join a convent :P
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Enyalie
Minmatar
Militaris Industries
Ushra'Khan
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Posted - 2009.07.26 22:53:00 -
[84]
Originally by: d1sTuRbIa
thanks guys so far, just a few suggestions of what i could try for now would be nice after all trying wouldn't hurt, just have to make sure i don't come across as obssessive
Im sure it ****ing hurts; but stiff upper lip, forget about her and you will be grand in a few months.
Its all character building!
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Munchees
Gallente
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Posted - 2009.07.27 02:12:00 -
[85]
There's a reason us men have hands. To do manly things. Like use power tools. To feel things. To grab a hold of those things, and grip them firmly until satisfied with how it feels.
Originally by: Mr Reeth
Why is it every time I read somebody call all Americans stupid I hear it in a British accent and think of this |
Stil Harkonnen
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Posted - 2009.07.27 03:16:00 -
[86]
Just get used to getting over girls. Once you can get over a girl, life is a ton better. You don't have to worry about them and you feel alot better. Like somebody else said, why would you want a girl that doesn't like you? Why would I like somebody who doesn't like me?
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JordanParey
Minmatar
Suddenly Ninjas
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Posted - 2009.07.27 03:44:00 -
[87]
Originally by: Enyalie
Originally by: d1sTuRbIa
thanks guys so far, just a few suggestions of what i could try for now would be nice after all trying wouldn't hurt, just have to make sure i don't come across as obssessive
Im sure it ****ing hurts; but stiff upper lip, forget about her and you will be grand in a few months.
Its all character building!
He must not have trained Learning to 5 
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Zeba
Minmatar
Honourable East India Trading Company
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Posted - 2009.07.27 04:41:00 -
[88]
Originally by: rValdez5987
Originally by: voogru
Here is a pie chart that should help you decide a good course of action.
Picture
I suggest the grey slice.
Confirming that indeed works.
To add to this excellent advice I would say start going to sperm donor clinics until you are sure some chick has used it to get pregnant. Your duty to the continued existance of human beings done go have your ******* tied off then go crazy screwing everything in sight. Just imagine how much action you could get being a twenty something who shoots blanks. Thats like every horny girls dream guy.
Originally by: Vaden Khale
He's doing the moonwalk in HEE-hee-hell.
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Ombey
Mirkur Draug'Tyr
Ushra'Khan
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Posted - 2009.07.27 11:10:00 -
[89]
Originally by: Zeba
Just imagine how much action you could get being a twenty something who shoots blanks. Thats like every horny girls dream guy.
<action is getting hot and heavy>
Girl: "You got a condom?"
Guy: "No, I shoot blanks, it's all good, we don't need one"
Girl: "O RLY?"
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Eelis Kiy
Gallente
Shadows Of The Federation
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Posted - 2009.07.27 11:47:00 -
[90]
Move on, sounds like she already has.
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Discrodia
Gallente
Guardian Legion
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Posted - 2009.07.27 12:00:00 -
[91]
Hate to say this, but you're probably not gonna get her back OP. As far as I've seen, a lotta relationships get ruined either because of someone's family or someone's emotional quirks. So... if you could get rid of the problems with both try again. But tbh I doubt it.
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Sandrine Brousse
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Posted - 2009.07.27 18:33:00 -
[92]
My wife was gonna leave me once. She had met another guy, but I didn't know and was trying my arse off to change things. It wouldnt have worked.
I looked at her mobile phone account on internet and thats how I caught her out. What changed things around was her parents. They were close and they was disgusted with her which made her realise she was wrong. Thats the thing, I couldn't change her on my own, I needed help.
Forget this bird man, just find another :(.
Oh and this char is what my wife would have been called if she had married the other bloke.
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