Your numbers are terribly inaccurate

Time to destruction
Destroyer will destroy your Hulk in less than 4 minutes maybe 3 Minutes

DPS
4.Destroyer cat 1000+dps or Damage per second!
5.Battlecruiser Talos 5000+dps or Damage per second!

I suspect you meant Damage per Volley, not per second.

Can someone tell me how to fit a Catalyst for 1k+ dps plox?

Thats a better ratter than a battleship due to such a small sig, and on par with my carriers DPS output.

Suggestions
DonGÇÖt Mine!

As I have never Ganked or been Ganked, please could Gankers/PVPers post their optimum Kill rate/ stats/DPS and fits to validate claims, I have only used estimates on DPS/time and EHP. All stats that I have used are only ESTIMATES!!!

DPS is completely irrelevant. As soon as a ganker shoots his guns, he'll be jammed, neuted, webbed and scrammed by concord by the time his second round is loaded and ready to be fired.

So, what to do? Simple, get a ship with the highest Alpha (first-strike) you can fit. No tank, no fancy modules, just alpha increasing mods, guns and ammo. A catalyst usually flies with a full rack of guns with only 1 or 2 rounds of ammo loaded, mids usually empty save a sensor booster and lows are all gyrostabilizers and tracking enhancers. Hell, even the rigs, if fitted, will be to improve damage.

Lock, fire your guns, die in a fire and laugh at the expensive tanked exhumer that just died, costing you almost no money.

As long as the Alpha (first-strike) is enough, even logistic backup won't help you. Yes, increasing your EHP and resists will make for the gankers to need to team up to be able to beat said exhumer.

For 0.0 or low-sec without concord, all the above simply doesn't apply as the ganker doesn't get shot by Concord and will come with a completely different setup.

HUGELY inaccurate...

2 minutes? Is it happy hour at the donut stand?

Time to destruction
Destroyer will destroy your Hulk in less than 4 minutes maybe 3 Minutes
Battlecruiser trier 3 will destroy your Hulk in less than 2 minutes
2.GÇ£Logi supportGÇ¥ Gank logi first 1 minute;
3.Gank Hulk second as above 2-4 minutes

Good news, everyone: OP has proven that it is impossible to suicide-gank hulks. Now everyone can go back to whatever they were doing.

Battlecruiser Talos 5000 per volley

DPS is completely irrelevant. As soon as a ganker shoots his guns, he'll be jammed, neuted, webbed and scrammed by concord by the time his second round is loaded and ready to be fired.

So, what to do? Simple, get a ship with the highest Alpha (first-strike) you can fit. No tank, no fancy modules, just alpha increasing mods, guns and ammo. A catalyst usually flies with a full rack of guns with only 1 or 2 rounds of ammo loaded, mids usually empty save a sensor booster and lows are all gyrostabilizers and tracking enhancers. Hell, even the rigs, if fitted, will be to improve damage.

Lock, fire your guns, die in a fire and laugh at the expensive tanked exhumer that just died, costing you almost no money.

As long as the Alpha (first-strike) is enough, even logistic backup won't help you. Yes, increasing your EHP and resists will make for the gankers to need to team up to be able to beat said exhumer.

For 0.0 or low-sec without concord, all the above simply doesn't apply as the ganker doesn't get shot by Concord and will come with a completely different setup.

HUGELY inaccurate...

One word: Blasters

Tank
1.Hulk EHP 20,000+ varies on skills and fits eg ..heavy armour plates and extended cargp holds will slow you down also warping, even if your aligned correctly.

Time to destruction
Destroyer will destroy your Hulk in less than 4 minutes maybe 3 Minutes
Battlecruiser trier 3 will destroy your Hulk in less than 2 minutes
2.GÇ£Logi supportGÇ¥ Gank logi first 1 minute;
3.Gank Hulk second as above 2-4 minutes

Note any carebear that runs missions should realize you canGÇÖt tank this much DPS even if youGÇÖre NOT afk.
Other factors
Most of the time you canGÇÖt warp off because they fit warp scramblers.
CONCORD will NOT get there in time, most of the time.

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As I have never Ganked or been Ganked, please could Gankers/PVPers post their optimum Kill rate/ stats/DPS and fits to validate claims, I have only used estimates on DPS/time and EHP.
All stats that I have used are only ESTIMATES!!!

I just want to point out some obvious circumstances for you that Gankers know but those miners that think they can still mine in a barge donGÇÖt.
1.Ganker collateral loss est. 1 mill loss at cost for destroyer not including mods - probably 4 mill for a max fitted catalyst.
2.Miner collateral loss est. 250 mill at cost for hulk not including mods, loss of ore - probably 300 + mods + ore + pod (because so many people are still AFK or not paying attention )
3.Miner collateral loss est. 150mil at cost for tier 3 battleship not including mods, loss of ore

DPS

3.Destroyer cat 1000 per volley - max fitted catalyst with great skills and great mods = ~650 dps on average
4.Battlecruiser Talos 5000 per volley - Talos average = ~1500 dps

Tank
1.Hulk EHP 20,000+ varies on skills and fits eg ..heavy armour plates and extended cargp holds will slow you down also warping, even if your aligned correctly. - Fitting a Hulk with tank midslots and maybe a rig or 2 gets nearer to 25,000 - skills make up a lot of this figure. Train fitting and EHP skills up :) Max skills and great mods can put a Hulk beyond any solo ganker ship (excess of 33,000 EHP) but this isn't easily achievable.

Time to destruction
Destroyer will destroy your Hulk in less than 4 minutes maybe 3 Minutes - CONCORD response time in a 0.5 security system is around 20 seconds, so that's how long they have. Not any minutes at all.
Battlecruiser trier 3 will destroy your Hulk in less than 2 minutes
2.GÇ£Logi supportGÇ¥ Gank logi first 1 minute;
3.Gank Hulk second as above 2-4 minutes

Note any carebear that runs missions should realize you canGÇÖt tank this much DPS even if youGÇÖre NOT afk.
Other factors
Most of the time you canGÇÖt warp off because they fit warp scramblers. - which is why you should be passive aligned at all times, and active aligned if you smell a gank on DSCAN for instan warp out.
CONCORD will NOT get there in time, most of the time. - tank fitted Hulks can almost always last long enough against solo efforts for CONCORD to show up and violence them to death for you. Multiple pilot Gank squads you aren't going to beat anyway, so it doesn't matter.
They know where to find you - make them work for it. Sitting in a belt AFK 2 jumps from Jita is asking for a podding.
You donGÇÖt know they are coming! previous Ganker characters can sometimes be irrelevant and they create new characters each time, you havenGÇÖt been war decGÇÖd so the likely hood of you seeing them in local is small. - DSCAN! look out for Catalysts, Taloses, Tornados and SCAN PROBES - set up your overview with a scanning tab showing ships and probes for the DSCAN 'use current overview settings' option and spam that mutha.

Suggestions
DonGÇÖt Mine! - in easily predictable places such as where you got ganked before, anywhere AFK, at the warp in point in a belt, where the map shows you there's been lots of ship kills lately etc...
Gank them before they Gank you GÇ£unlikelyGÇ¥ - ECM boats can do a very good job of this - by 'ganking' their gank and locking them down helpless till the cops show up.
Form a PVP defence squad to shield the miner, but you need a few PVPers as the Ganker will bring more friends the larger your squad is. - might get some pretty entertaining fights out of this. This is a good thing.
Mine in a battleship, not practical because of the small cargo hold but it is mining, or use orca support or giant containers - Orcas make very attractive gank targets that get the attention of multiple member roaming gank squads. Be careful with them.
Mine in missions - yep
Mine in gravimetric sites - yep
Ninja Mine - use AFK miners or suspected botters as a shield / more attractive target.
Mine into a giant container with a disposable mining ship like an Osprey. - takes far too long to get anywhere. Use a Covetor, or even a Retriever if you're short on money or skills for proper mining ships
Mine in a T1 Mining barge with insurance but expect to get Ganked. - yep. The market manipulation of technetium and Hulk prices means they're not really economically viable for risky mining ops in belts.

Facts
These arenGÇÖt new facts, donGÇÖt fool yourself.
This is a war that miners cannot win as most characters mine alone in Hi sec, but you might not get seen for a while, thereGÇÖs always a chance.
This isnGÇÖt your fault even a Ganker couldnGÇÖt save a Hulk against another Ganker.

Failure to assume responsibility for ones own personal safety is a large part of the problem. 'Entitlement' players who fail to grasp that ganking is an integral part of EvE whine the loudest and give the rest of the industrialists a bad name.

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As I have never Ganked or been Ganked, please could Gankers/PVPers post their optimum Kill rate/ stats/DPS and fits to validate claims, I have only used estimates on DPS/time and EHP.
All stats that I have used are only ESTIMATES!!!