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Xenuria
Marcabian 5th Invasion Fleet
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Posted - 2012.08.15 19:24:00 -
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After a lengthy discussion with Arancia Detto I have decided to form Trans Gamers of EvE, a community for anybody who identifies as Trans. Just as WGoE has and will continue to provide a safe place for Women who play eve so shall the Trans Gamers of Eve sister channel. The public channel will be open to all people who can show respect to others and behave in a mature, civilized fashion. The private channel will be open only to people who identify as trans and have gone through a simple interview process. Both the public and private channel will be administrated by me, I will elect moderators if the need arises. We do have some very basic rules for both channels, they are as follows.
Show respect at all times No spamming or soliciting No posting or discussing illegal content Anything else I decided to add later depending on how things go.
Below you will find the channel name as well as the official twitter page where updates and fun things to discuss will be posted. In-game Channel (Public): TGoE Official Twitter Account: TGoEvE Xenuria CSM 8 |

Sarik Olecar
Royal Amarr Institute Amarr Empire
154
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Posted - 2012.08.15 19:27:00 -
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Uhh, good luck I guess. Hows my posting? Call 1-800-747-7633 to leave feedback. |

Adalynne Rohks
Suddenly Ninjas Tear Extraction And Reclamation Service
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Posted - 2012.08.15 19:31:00 -
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I understand that being transgendered is rough, n'all, and it's good to have a group of people to get along with, but really...
I don't care what your gender is. |

Jim Era
Viziam Amarr Empire
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Posted - 2012.08.15 19:33:00 -
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:s |

Xenuria
Marcabian 5th Invasion Fleet
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Posted - 2012.08.15 19:33:00 -
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Adalynne Rohks wrote:I understand that being transgendered is rough, n'all, and it's good to have a group of people to get along with, but really...
I don't care what your gender is.
I would not have done this if there was not already significant demand for it. Xenuria CSM 8 |

Tiberious Thessalonia
True Slave Foundations Shaktipat Revelators
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Posted - 2012.08.15 19:33:00 -
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I support the idea for all my trans friends.
Someone else should probably run it. |

Charles Baker
Federal Mineral Acquisition VORTEX RISING
201
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Posted - 2012.08.15 19:36:00 -
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Tiberious Thessalonia wrote:I support the idea for all my trans friends.
Someone else should probably run it.
+1'ing |

Corina Jarr
Spazzoid Enterprises Purpose Built
1225
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Posted - 2012.08.15 19:36:00 -
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Only bit I'm curious about...
Is this for those who are transgendered biologically (either through choice or not) or psychologically, or would you consider these equally under the purview of this new channel?
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Yoshitaka Moromuo
Distant Light Galactic Apocalypse Now.
5
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Posted - 2012.08.15 19:37:00 -
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Tiberious Thessalonia wrote:I support the idea for all my trans friends.
Someone else should probably run it. Tibs, you've got a penchant for getting me to agree with you. I'm not sure whether I should tell you to keep it up, or stop :P |

Lilliana Stelles
Mindstar Technology Executive Outcomes
532
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Posted - 2012.08.15 19:38:00 -
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This feels like a cry for attention.
Or sounds like some guy who wanted into Wgoe wasn't allowed.
What's next, atheist vegetarians of Eve? |

Acac Sunflyier
Eternal Phoenix Rises
193
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Posted - 2012.08.15 19:38:00 -
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In before narrow minded troll post! There just isn't anything intresting on the front page of the GD anymore. Yawn! |

James Amril-Kesh
4S Corporation RAZOR Alliance
497
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Posted - 2012.08.15 19:41:00 -
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I get the feeling that most transpeople in this game aren't exactly out. I know of at least one who isn't.
I predict this channel will be you, Jade Constantine, and a handful of others, and you'll eventually get bored with it and stop using the channel. EVE's 4th of July Fireworks |

Xenuria
Marcabian 5th Invasion Fleet
598
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Posted - 2012.08.15 19:51:00 -
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Corina Jarr wrote:Only bit I'm curious about...
Is this for those who are transgendered biologically (either through choice or not) or psychologically, or would you consider these equally under the purview of this new channel?
Gender is not biological, sex is. Gender is a social construct. Xenuria CSM 8 |

Adalynne Rohks
Suddenly Ninjas Tear Extraction And Reclamation Service
202
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Posted - 2012.08.15 19:52:00 -
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Well alrighty. But since we're all here, I gotsta ask...
Is there a general trans opinion on Lady Gaga? Hero? Bad example? Not related?
I swear that she's not a standardized "girl", but I couldn't really blame someone for not coming out and saying so. Rough situation to have to learn to deal with. |
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ISD Dorrim Barstorlode
ISD Community Communications Liaisons
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Posted - 2012.08.15 19:52:00 -
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Moving this from General Discussion to My EVE.
Fantastic idea, by the way. ISD Dorrim Barstorlode Ensign Community Communication Liasions (CCLs) Interstellar Services Department |
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Whadafool
Universal Might
22
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Posted - 2012.08.15 19:52:00 -
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3/10, pretty funny Free EvE wallpapers
https://forums.eveonline.com/default.aspx?g=posts&find=unread&t=110114 |

Xenuria
Marcabian 5th Invasion Fleet
598
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Posted - 2012.08.15 19:55:00 -
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Adalynne Rohks wrote:Well alrighty. But since we're all here, I gotsta ask...
Is there a general trans opinion on Lady Gaga? Hero? Bad example? Not related?
I swear that she's not a standardized "girl", but I couldn't really blame someone for not coming out and saying so. Rough situation to have to learn to deal with.
The idea of a "standard" for how a "girl" should act or behave is something that is heavily influenced by culture and religion. Somebody from another country might think of lady gaga in one way in terms of female gender roles and somebody from yet another country or area may have a different opinion.
I do not speak for everybody, so I can not make a statement about lady gaga and claim that all trans people have the same opinion because trans is an umbrella term that encompasses a diverse group of people. Xenuria CSM 8 |

Lilliana Stelles
Mindstar Technology Executive Outcomes
532
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Posted - 2012.08.15 19:56:00 -
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Xenuria wrote:Corina Jarr wrote:Only bit I'm curious about...
Is this for those who are transgendered biologically (either through choice or not) or psychologically, or would you consider these equally under the purview of this new channel?
Gender is not biological, sex is. Gender is a social construct.
This is false. Gender is the state of your sex, eg. male, female, or other. Gender identity can be defined yourself and your society. But gender has a definite value. |

Xenuria
Marcabian 5th Invasion Fleet
598
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Posted - 2012.08.15 19:57:00 -
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Lilliana Stelles wrote:Xenuria wrote:Corina Jarr wrote:Only bit I'm curious about...
Is this for those who are transgendered biologically (either through choice or not) or psychologically, or would you consider these equally under the purview of this new channel?
Gender is not biological, sex is. Gender is a social construct. This is false. Gender is the state of your sex, eg. male, female, or other. Gender identity can be defined yourself and your society. But gender has a definite value.
Incorrect.
Gender is not the same as your assigned sex, Gender is not static either. Female "gender" roles in the middle east for example are not the same as Female "gender" roles in the united states. Xenuria CSM 8 |

Shalua Rui
FEROX AQUILA
2276
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Posted - 2012.08.15 20:02:00 -
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While I never would attend a "special" channel based on my RL person, be it gender, sexuality, social standing or whatever, I can understand why people feel the need to find other people "like them" in a virtual community like EVE... so, good luck, by all means... just make sure you know what you are doing... In my opinion, a gaming community should never be a forum to discuss or, worse consult about possible psychological conditions... that's what therapists are for.
If all you are planning to achieve is a place where transgendered people can talk about topics that concearn them besides EVE... well, I guess there will be no harm in that...
Sidenote: Beeing transgendered is NO sickness in any meaning of the word... "I wish to have no Connection with any Ship that does not Sail fast for I intend to go in harm's way."
Captain John Paul Jones, 16 November 1778 |

Lilliana Stelles
Mindstar Technology Executive Outcomes
533
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Posted - 2012.08.15 20:05:00 -
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Xenuria wrote:Lilliana Stelles wrote:Xenuria wrote:Corina Jarr wrote:Only bit I'm curious about...
Is this for those who are transgendered biologically (either through choice or not) or psychologically, or would you consider these equally under the purview of this new channel?
Gender is not biological, sex is. Gender is a social construct. This is false. Gender is the state of your sex, eg. male, female, or other. Gender identity can be defined yourself and your society. But gender has a definite value. Incorrect. Gender is not the same as your assigned sex, Gender is not static either. Female "gender" roles in the middle east for example are not the same as Female "gender" roles in the united states.
Proof? Gender is from the latin root Genus, meaning "kind". It's a taxonomic classification, regardless of what any group defines themselves as. You can call yourself female or male and not be. The only thing that makes you is wrong.
Now, you can have a gender identity that doesn't match your gender. Or, you can physically change your gender.
But gender is not a matter of opinion.
Your gender role may change as you travel abroad, but your gender will not. |

Xenuria
Marcabian 5th Invasion Fleet
598
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Posted - 2012.08.15 20:10:00 -
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Shalua Rui wrote:While I never would attend a "special" channel based on my RL person, be it gender, sexuality, social standing or whatever, I can understand why people feel the need to find other people "like them" in a virtual community like EVE... so, good luck, by all means... just make sure you know what you are doing... In my opinion, a gaming community should never be a forum to discuss or, worse consult about possible psychological conditions... that's what therapists are for.
If all you are planning to achieve is a place where transgendered people can talk about topics that concearn them besides EVE... well, I guess there will be no harm in that...
Sidenote: Beeing transgendered is NO sickness in any meaning of the word...
I understand where you are coming from. I do want the channel to have topics including but not limited to topics of interest to the trans community. I might post a link on the twitter about a legal case or some legislation, or I may post something about fashion or what kind of clothes are really nice. It all depends on what I find/ what people suggest to me.
This channel is not going to be some rigid little box where people are forced to talk about specific things. I would hope it would be just the opposite. I want to obviously provide suggestions for topics of discussion but these will be suggestions not mandatory topics.
Xenuria CSM 8 |

Shalua Rui
FEROX AQUILA
2283
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Posted - 2012.08.15 20:23:00 -
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As I said, I trust that you know what you are doing... it takes all sorts, as they say. 
I really don't see any harm in having "special" (silly wording, I know) channels like that.
and @Lilliana: Sorry, but you aren't entirerly correct there... in some cases, gender is neither defined by the birth physis, nor psychological background or social conditioning...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Transgender "I wish to have no Connection with any Ship that does not Sail fast for I intend to go in harm's way."
Captain John Paul Jones, 16 November 1778 |
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ISD Dorrim Barstorlode
ISD Community Communications Liaisons
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Posted - 2012.08.15 20:24:00 -
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Keep it civil folks. No personal attacks or trolling. ISD Dorrim Barstorlode Ensign Community Communication Liasions (CCLs) Interstellar Services Department |
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FluffyDice
Psykotic Meat Fatal Ascension
221
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Posted - 2012.08.15 20:24:00 -
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Xenuria wrote:I would not have done this if there was not already significant demand for it. Yes you would have. You are a confused attention ***** who wants to be in the spotlight. |

Lilliana Stelles
Mindstar Technology Executive Outcomes
533
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Posted - 2012.08.15 20:41:00 -
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This is exactly what I was afraid of.
It would appear you have trouble tolerating other viewpoints (including the dictionary's), yet you wish to run a clearly controversial channel. And claim that someone quoting almost directly from the dictionary is ignorant?
Again, This seems like an attention thing, or a response to someone who identified as female but actually wasn't being denied access to wgoe.
I'm not trying to persecute you or accuse you, yet you're being defensive against my quoting the commonly accepted.
So let me, for the sake of example, be defensive: In which case, allow me to express my own opinion. I find this channel degrading to women, due to it's similar nature to WGOE. To blindly draw an analog between "sex" as you call it (what wgoe is founded upon, and is a hard classification) and a social construct (what tgoe is founded on) lessens the meaning of the hard classification. Anyone can change their social image, but very few people have the resources to change their actual "sex", or gender, as the rest of the world refers to it.
So forgive me, but I'm offended by the grouping together of WGOE and TGOE, as it makes WGOE sound cheap and invalid.
But, that's just my /opinion/. |

Shalua Rui
FEROX AQUILA
2283
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Posted - 2012.08.15 20:41:00 -
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FluffyDice wrote:Yes you would have. You are a confused attention ***** who wants to be in the spotlight.
...so are you for even posting here.
Even IF that was the case, who cares? I don't get you people sometimes...  "I wish to have no Connection with any Ship that does not Sail fast for I intend to go in harm's way."
Captain John Paul Jones, 16 November 1778 |

James Amril-Kesh
4S Corporation RAZOR Alliance
497
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Posted - 2012.08.15 20:42:00 -
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Lilliana Stelles wrote:So let me, for the sake of example, be defensive: In which case, allow me to express my own opinion. I find this channel degrading to women, due to it's similar nature to WGOE. To blindly draw an analog between "sex" as you call it (what wgoe is founded upon, and is a hard classification) and a social construct (what tgoe is founded on) lessens the meaning of the hard classification. Anyone can change their social image, but very few people have the resources to change their actual "sex", or gender, as the rest of the world refers to it.
So forgive me, but I'm offended by the grouping together of WGOE and TGOE, as it makes WGOE sound cheap and invalid.
But, that's just my /opinion/. That's bullshit. EVE's 4th of July Fireworks |

Lilliana Stelles
Mindstar Technology Executive Outcomes
534
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Posted - 2012.08.15 20:49:00 -
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Shalua Rui wrote:@Lilliana: Sorry, but you aren't entirerly correct there... in some cases, gender is neither defined by the birth physis, nor psychological background or social conditioning... http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Transgender http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmedhealth/PMH0002495/
It really depends on your source. The US library of medicine clearly states that gender is defined at birth.
James Amril-Kesh wrote:That's bull****
It's an opinion. Most of them are. |

Xenuria
Marcabian 5th Invasion Fleet
598
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Posted - 2012.08.15 20:50:00 -
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James Amril-Kesh wrote:Lilliana Stelles wrote:So let me, for the sake of example, be defensive: In which case, allow me to express my own opinion. I find this channel degrading to women, due to it's similar nature to WGOE. To blindly draw an analog between "sex" as you call it (what wgoe is founded upon, and is a hard classification) and a social construct (what tgoe is founded on) lessens the meaning of the hard classification. Anyone can change their social image, but very few people have the resources to change their actual "sex", or gender, as the rest of the world refers to it.
So forgive me, but I'm offended by the grouping together of WGOE and TGOE, as it makes WGOE sound cheap and invalid.
But, that's just my /opinion/. That's bullshit. Agreed.
Getting back on track I would say that the idea to start this channel was not my own but that of Arancia Detto. She spoke with me at length about the benefit a channel like the one I created could have and how it would be great for the two channels to be connected to each other in function. I jumped at the idea because I have a heavy background in psychology as well as gender studies. So we both felt like I was the natural choice to start something like this. Xenuria CSM 8 |
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ISD Dorrim Barstorlode
ISD Community Communications Liaisons
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Posted - 2012.08.15 20:50:00 -
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Keep this up and I will have to lock the thread. Keep it civil, please. ISD Dorrim Barstorlode Ensign Community Communication Liasions (CCLs) Interstellar Services Department |
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Xenuria
Marcabian 5th Invasion Fleet
598
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Posted - 2012.08.15 20:54:00 -
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In effort to avoid having the thread locked I am going to just ignore all the trolls and flames. I would advise everybody else to do the same, for the sake of this thread. Xenuria CSM 8 |

Shalua Rui
FEROX AQUILA
2283
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Posted - 2012.08.15 21:05:00 -
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Agreed... I said what I had to say.
Good luck again!  "I wish to have no Connection with any Ship that does not Sail fast for I intend to go in harm's way."
Captain John Paul Jones, 16 November 1778 |

Adalynne Rohks
Suddenly Ninjas Tear Extraction And Reclamation Service
204
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Posted - 2012.08.15 22:07:00 -
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Xenuria wrote:Adalynne Rohks wrote:Well alrighty. But since we're all here, I gotsta ask...
Is there a general trans opinion on Lady Gaga? Hero? Bad example? Not related?
I swear that she's not a standardized "girl", but I couldn't really blame someone for not coming out and saying so. Rough situation to have to learn to deal with. The idea of a "standard" for how a "girl" should act or behave is something that is heavily influenced by culture and religion. Somebody from another country might think of lady gaga in one way in terms of female gender roles and somebody from yet another country or area may have a different opinion. I do not speak for everybody, so I can not make a statement about lady gaga and claim that all trans people have the same opinion because trans is an umbrella term that encompasses a diverse group of people.
I wasn't referring to the how he or she acted. I just think she moves like a guy, and looks like a guy that's had work done. And I was just curious as to if she was a sort of symbol for some people. Like how gay people gravitated to Cher (for whatever reason...) |

Xenuria
Marcabian 5th Invasion Fleet
600
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Posted - 2012.08.15 22:13:00 -
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Adalynne Rohks wrote:Xenuria wrote:Adalynne Rohks wrote:Well alrighty. But since we're all here, I gotsta ask...
Is there a general trans opinion on Lady Gaga? Hero? Bad example? Not related?
I swear that she's not a standardized "girl", but I couldn't really blame someone for not coming out and saying so. Rough situation to have to learn to deal with. The idea of a "standard" for how a "girl" should act or behave is something that is heavily influenced by culture and religion. Somebody from another country might think of lady gaga in one way in terms of female gender roles and somebody from yet another country or area may have a different opinion. I do not speak for everybody, so I can not make a statement about lady gaga and claim that all trans people have the same opinion because trans is an umbrella term that encompasses a diverse group of people. I wasn't referring to the how he or she acted. I just think she moves like a guy, and looks like a guy that's had work done. And I was just curious as to if she was a sort of symbol for some people. Like how gay people gravitated to Cher (for whatever reason...)
I think alot of that is intentional and part of her style, just like walking and turning with as little wasted energy as possible is my style. In practice however I look like an agent from the matrix with the way I move and walk so I try to tone that down and make my movements more fluid while still using minimal amounts of energy in comparison to a normal person. Xenuria CSM 8 |

Laktos
Gunpoint Diplomacy
182
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Posted - 2012.08.16 03:57:00 -
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Cool idea. Good luck with the channel.
Also props to ISD Dorrim for keeping the thread clean of little children :) Latest PVP Video: Perseverance
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Capqu
Love Squad Confederation of xXPIZZAXx
8
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Posted - 2012.08.16 10:58:00 -
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if you want to support such a radical viewpoint as having a ***** and not being a man/male, you should probably be tolerant of people with the viewpoint that who have a ***** are men/male
just saiyan, intolerance works both ways Xenuria you massive hypocritical bigot |

Adam Junior
Protus Correction Facility Inc.
28
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Posted - 2012.08.16 23:08:00 -
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Capqu wrote:if you want to support such a radical viewpoint as having a ***** and not being a man/male, you should probably be tolerant of people with the viewpoint that who have a ***** are men/male
just saiyan, intolerance works both ways Xenuria you massive hypocritical bigot
"whaa whaa why doesn't everyone conform to my worldview"
I for one endorse more safe spaces in online communities, anyone who's offended really needs to find better things to be upset about, like say, transphobia? |

Meridith Akesia
Stimulus Rote Kapelle
131
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Posted - 2012.08.17 15:18:00 -
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Heh. Xenuria threads. |

Nex apparatu5
Fweddit I Whip My Slaves Back and Forth
332
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Posted - 2012.08.18 03:04:00 -
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What we really need is a channel where transphobic people can gather and express themselves without being discriminated against. It's kind of sad how their viewpoints are looked down upon these days. |

Xolani1990
Di-Tron Heavy Industries Test Alliance Please Ignore
105
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Posted - 2012.08.18 03:24:00 -
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Why is Xenuria the one forming this group instead of, you know, transpeople forming a group for themselves? It seems kind of inappropriate for someone who, as far as I am aware, is a cisgendered male to be taking leadership of a transgender group for himself. |

Sophaya Fortelleren
PonyWaffe Test Alliance Please Ignore
3
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Posted - 2012.08.18 03:30:00 -
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Because he's basically a clagnut whose existence in EVE is mere inches from the status of Daley. Verily I do attest to his migraine inducing attempts at being worth air as he got kicked from TEST on account of being too terrible even for us. The man doth try to be visible but his greasy spots that crater his chubby jowls like the blotchy surface of mars doth so obscure him from our eyes. |

Xolani1990
Di-Tron Heavy Industries Test Alliance Please Ignore
105
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Posted - 2012.08.18 03:34:00 -
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If Xenuria is forming this group for the right reasons he will quickly choose between the most responsible of the members and hand over leadership to them, fading out of relevance in the group and allowing them to stand for themselves. He has no business leading this group and claiming recognition for it unless he has a massive Moses complex. |

Lilliana Stelles
Mindstar Technology Executive Outcomes
576
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Posted - 2012.08.18 07:30:00 -
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Obviously it has nothing to do with winning the support of niche groups' votes for CSM.  Incarna from 2009. 3 Years later and what we have doesn't look half as good as this.http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n41s1Iox18A |

Xolani1990
Di-Tron Heavy Industries Test Alliance Please Ignore
105
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Posted - 2012.08.18 10:49:00 -
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Lilliana Stelles wrote:Obviously it has nothing to do with winning the support of niche groups' votes for CSM. 
The couple of dozen or so who might vote based on this are sure to swing the polls. |

Nex apparatu5
Fweddit I Whip My Slaves Back and Forth
332
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Posted - 2012.08.18 18:46:00 -
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Xolani1990 wrote:Lilliana Stelles wrote:Obviously it has nothing to do with winning the support of niche groups' votes for CSM.  The couple of dozen or so who might vote based on this are sure to swing the polls.
Listen buddy, just because non-cis gendered people are not a majority in this game doesn't mean they're any less important. I suggest you check your cis privilege at the door. You don't know how hard it is to be anything other than a straight white male in today's society. |

Lilliana Stelles
Mindstar Technology Executive Outcomes
577
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Posted - 2012.08.18 20:41:00 -
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Nex apparatu5 wrote:Xolani1990 wrote:Lilliana Stelles wrote:Obviously it has nothing to do with winning the support of niche groups' votes for CSM.  The couple of dozen or so who might vote based on this are sure to swing the polls. Listen buddy, just because non-cis gendered people are not a majority in this game doesn't mean they're any less important. I suggest you check your cis privilege at the door. You don't know how hard it is to be anything other than a straight white male in today's society.
Are you really going to play the race card?
If you say you're proud to be straight, or proud to be white, everyone gets offended and everyone views you as a supremacist.
If you say you're proud to be part of any minority, trans, black, etc, people think you're some sort of equality activist. The last 50 years haven't just seen civil rights and equality, but also exploiting the majority's guilt has taken it several steps to far. Minority communities don't deserve any special treatment.
That's why groups like this annoy me. Having a trans group seems equivalent to having a straight and white group. Wouldn't that bother you? Incarna from 2009. 3 Years later and what we have doesn't look half as good as this.http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n41s1Iox18A |

Transmaritanus
Autocannons Anonymous Late Night Alliance
7
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Posted - 2012.08.19 02:19:00 -
[48] - Quote
God damnit, my alliance sent me here and told me it was a fan club for my pvp awesomeness.
I just realized it was for transsexuals. |

Poetic Stanziel
Autocannons Anonymous Late Night Alliance
1063
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Posted - 2012.08.19 04:36:00 -
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Nex apparatu5 wrote:non-cis gendered people] Non-cis what?
I'm Canadian. To each their own. I'm glad my country allows same-sex marriage ... but what is with all the acronyms?
Someone should form a group for those people that identify as metrosexual. The STAIN Travel Bookmark Collection - 451 Bookmarks |

Xolani1990
Di-Tron Heavy Industries Test Alliance Please Ignore
105
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Posted - 2012.08.19 10:05:00 -
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Lilliana Stelles wrote: If you say you're proud to be straight, or proud to be white, everyone gets offended and everyone views you as a supremacist.
If you are straight and white, you haven't grown up to experience any additional life hurdles related to institutionalised shaming of who you are. You haven't grown up being made to feel a sense of "otherness" about yourself, and thus you can't relate. To quote Eric Zorn in the Chicago Tribune, "the expression "Straight Pride" can only be read as a gratuitous and contemptuous response to the suggestion that gay people not be marginalized."
Quote: If you say you're proud to be part of any minority, trans, black, etc, people think you're some sort of equality activist. The last 50 years haven't just seen civil rights and equality, but also exploiting the majority's guilt has taken it several steps to far. Minority communities don't deserve any special treatment.
Equal treatment isn't special treatment. See, again, you're unable to relate because you've never grown up with the hurdles you encounter if you're minority. Ethnic minorities still often encounter hate crime. LGBT people still encounter institutionalised discrimination in the form of bullying in schools (which is endemic and teachers often fail to deal with), denial of legal recognition of relationships and the rights that go with it, and stigmatisation and ostracism in public up to and including the threat of violence if it's apparent you're a same-sex couple or a transsexual.
Quote: That's why groups like this annoy me. Having a trans group seems equivalent to having a straight and white group. Wouldn't that bother you?
Yes, because I'll repeat it, "the expression "Straight Pride" can only be read as a gratuitous and contemptuous response to the suggestion that gay people not be marginalized."
The idea of a trans* group is great. But not led by Xenuria. |

Lilliana Stelles
Mindstar Technology Executive Outcomes
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Xolani1990 wrote:Lilliana Stelles wrote: If you say you're proud to be straight, or proud to be white, everyone gets offended and everyone views you as a supremacist.
If you are straight and white, you haven't grown up to experience any additional life hurdles related to institutionalised shaming of who you are. You haven't grown up being made to feel a sense of "otherness" about yourself, and thus you can't relate. To quote Eric Zorn in the Chicago Tribune, "the expression "Straight Pride" can only be read as a gratuitous and contemptuous response to the suggestion that gay people not be marginalized." Quote: If you say you're proud to be part of any minority, trans, black, etc, people think you're some sort of equality activist. The last 50 years haven't just seen civil rights and equality, but also exploiting the majority's guilt has taken it several steps to far. Minority communities don't deserve any special treatment.
Equal treatment isn't special treatment. See, again, you're unable to relate because you've never grown up with the hurdles you encounter if you're minority. Ethnic minorities still often encounter hate crime. LGBT people still encounter institutionalised discrimination in the form of bullying in schools (which is endemic and teachers often fail to deal with), denial of legal recognition of relationships and the rights that go with it, and stigmatisation and ostracism in public up to and including the threat of violence if it's apparent you're a same-sex couple or a transsexual. Quote: That's why groups like this annoy me. Having a trans group seems equivalent to having a straight and white group. Wouldn't that bother you?
Yes, because I'll repeat it, "the expression "Straight Pride" can only be read as a gratuitous and contemptuous response to the suggestion that gay people not be marginalized." The idea of a trans* group is great. But not led by Xenuria.
Ultimately, this seems to be a nice big post of you trying to justify why minorities are entitled to special treatment. How about we judge people based on their merits or accomplishments instead? Honestly, you can't say that straight white people haven't experienced any additional hurdles related to institutionalized shaming, because that just isn't the case. It's entirely possible for minorities to be raised in supporting environments, and it's entirely possible for a straight white child to be hated for any number of reasons. Some parents just hate their kids. Some kids just hate other kids. You don't have to have any specific skin color, income bracket, or sexual preference to be bullied or hated.
I can say, specifically, that saw a great deal of bullying growing up. Your point on bullying is entirely invalid, since non-LGBT people encounter it too. Maybe you were one of the luck few to never get your head slammed into a locker or shoved down the stairs. Lucky you.
What I can say about bullying though, was it was occasionally directed at students of various sexuality, but usually it was just directed at whoever didn't fit in, regardless of their sexual orientation or skin color. More often than not it'd be based on your parent's income or the clothing you wore, not your race or your sexuality. Kids pick out what's most obvious, and schools today are far too integrated for race to be a factor. If they were 99% white it'd be one thing... but in my state Caucasians are only 66% of the population, and african americans are 28%. There's virtually no distinguishable difference between being raised one or the other. If 2/3rds of the class in highschool is white, 1/3rd is black, and no one knows anyone's sexual orientation (because most people don't care to parade what they do in bed), then kids are just going to pick on whoever sticks out the most. Usually, that's based on what someone wears, how they talk, or who their friends are. Things that visibly make them unpopular.
In cities near where I live it's also become common place for hate crimes to occur against rich straight white individuals. You're obviously not familiar with "yuppie hate crime" as it's referred to, but there's just as much, if not more discrimination against the straight white group, particularly the wealthier ones. I'm not sure what type of rose-colored shades you're wearing to pretend that there isn't just as much hate crime against straight white people.
I also don't know what type of background you came from the claim that you faced "additional life hurdles", because frankly, most minorities and people of alternative sexual preference flat out won't. They'll grow up the same as anyone else. I had friends of other races, and friends of other sexual preferences, and quite a few of them had significantly less trouble than I did. So don't tell me I can't relate. All you're doing is justifying special treatment for LGBT and minorities that flat out isn't deserved. I guarantee you that if we sat down and compared how "difficult" our lives were, that we both had our hardships... and combined, no one in this thread suffered anything remotely serious, given by the fact that we're here today, literate, and have internet access, and $15 a month to spend on EVE (which puts us all in the world's wealthiest 1%).
So I'll say it again: Why can't their be a straight gamers of eve group? What's wrong with straight pride? If gay people or trans people can be proud of who they are, why can't straight people make a group where they take pride in themselves? There's no contemptuousness there; it has nothing to do with disdain or scorn of others; pride is an inward-emotion in this case, about feeling good about one's self. Gay pride and straight pride are no different; it's about feeling that what you are is fine, accepted, and needn't be changed. Incarna from 2009. 3 Years later and what we have doesn't look half as good as this.http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n41s1Iox18A |

Xolani1990
Di-Tron Heavy Industries Test Alliance Please Ignore
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Posted - 2012.08.19 16:27:00 -
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Oh nice, the forums ate my post.
Lilliana Stelles wrote:Ultimately, this seems to be a nice big post of you trying to justify why minorities are entitled to special treatment. How about we judge people based on their merits or accomplishments instead? Honestly, you can't say that straight white people haven't experienced any additional hurdles related to institutionalized shaming, because that just isn't the case. It's entirely possible for minorities to be raised in supporting environments, and it's entirely possible for a straight white child to be hated for any number of reasons. Some parents just hate their kids. Some kids just hate other kids. You don't have to have any specific skin color, income bracket, or sexual preference to be bullied or hated. I can say, specifically, that saw a great deal of bullying growing up. Your point on bullying is entirely invalid, since non-LGBT people encounter it too. Maybe you were one of the luck few to never get your head slammed into a locker or shoved down the stairs. Lucky you.
It would be invalid if it weren't for the fact that suicide rates among LGBT youth wasn't almost an order of magnitude higher than non-LGBT youth. I work in youth services, I see bullying every day, and there simply is no form of bullying in schools today that isn't as emdemic or ingrained against a specific group of people as homophobic/transphobic bullying. Stonewall in the UK has a lot of research about it, you should read it here.
Quote: In cities near where I live it's also become common place for hate crimes to occur against rich straight white individuals. You're obviously not familiar with "yuppie hate crime" as it's referred to, but there's just as much, if not more discrimination against the straight white group, particularly the wealthier ones. I'm not sure what type of rose-colored shades you're wearing to pretend that there isn't just as much hate crime against straight white people.
Show me a single peer-reviewed document demonstrating this is an endemic problem and I'll take you seriously.
Quote: I also don't know what type of background you came from the claim that you faced "additional life hurdles", because frankly, most minorities and people of alternative sexual preference flat out won't. They'll grow up the same as anyone else. I had friends of other races, and friends of other sexual preferences, and quite a few of them had significantly less trouble than I did. So don't tell me I can't relate. All you're doing is justifying special treatment for LGBT and minorities that flat out isn't deserved. I guarantee you that if we sat down and compared how "difficult" our lives were, that we both had our hardships... and combined, no one in this thread suffered anything remotely serious, given by the fact that we're here today, literate, and have internet access, and $15 a month to spend on EVE (which puts us all in the world's wealthiest 1%).
Yes, anyone who can afford to play EVE obviously has never had any kind of serious hardship in their life, I totally agree. |

Laktos
Gunpoint Diplomacy
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Posted - 2012.08.19 17:23:00 -
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Lilliana Stelles wrote:
:snip:
Your naivety is astounding.
In a perfect world there would be no need for any sort of "gay pride" or "black pride" group, because there would be no discrimination.
But we don't live in that world, we live in a world that is flooded with discrimination and hate based on race, gender and sexuality, and almost none of it is directed at straight white males. Sure there is some retaliatory discrimination, but in a country like the US or Australia (where I am from) it is far from anything that would be considered a problem. Straight, white men do not need a "straight white man pride" group because they have not been the targets of discrimination on any serious scale in recent western history, they have been the ones doing the discriminating. A primary school history education can tell you that.
Btw, how do you think African Americans gained the rights they have in the USA in the first place? Oh yeah, they formed a protest group based on their race.
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God's Apples
The Tuskers
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Posted - 2012.08.19 20:18:00 -
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Considering after the first page the thread has nothing to do wtih the channel or EvE in anyway, shouldn't this be moved to OOPE or just locked? |

Lilliana Stelles
Mindstar Technology Executive Outcomes
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Posted - 2012.08.19 23:33:00 -
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According the FBI hate crime statistics for 2010: http://www.fbi.gov/about-us/cjis/ucr/hate-crime/2010/narratives/hate-crime-2010-victims I'm not going to copy/paste the whole thing here, but I'd like to point out some of the hate crimes against commonly accepted groups:
Quote:Racial bias Among the single-bias hate crime incidents in 2010, there were 3,949 victims of racially motivated hate crime. A closer examination of these victim data showed that:
70.0 percent were victims of an offenderGÇÖs anti-black bias. 17.7 percent were victims of an anti-white bias.
Quote:Religious bias Of the 1,552 victims of an anti-religion hate crime:
4.2 percent were victims of an anti-Catholic bias. 3.0 percent were victims of an anti-Protestant bias.
Quote:Sexual-orientation bias Of the 1,528 victims targeted due to an offenderGÇÖs sexual-orientation bias:
1.4 percent were victims of an anti-heterosexual bias. 1.9 percent were victims of an anti-bisexual bias.
How is this not a problem?
You're calling me naive? There are hard statistics here. You don't have to be transgender, of a minority skin color, or of an alternative sexual preference for people to hate you. People just hate each other. Whites, straights, christians, etc, deserve just as much special treatment as any other group, because they're just as subject to hate crimes. There may be less of them, at current, for any number of reasons, but they still exist and are quite frequent. No group deserves to have more pride or to feel persecuted that much more, as long as hate crimes are being targeted at everyone.
So I'll ask, once again, what makes this group any more valid than the straight group, or a white group? Incarna from 2009. 3 Years later and what we have doesn't look half as good as this.http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n41s1Iox18A |

Laktos
Gunpoint Diplomacy
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Posted - 2012.08.20 06:15:00 -
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I never said white straight christians were never victims of hate, I said they aren't subjected to hate based on their ethnicity, sexuality, gender or religion nearly enough to warrant forming a "straight white christian pride" group or some such thing. And those statistics you just linked seem to back up exactly what I'm saying.
"70.0 percent were victims of an offenderGÇÖs anti-black bias." "17.7 percent were victims of an anti-white bias."
"67.0 percent were victims of an offenderGÇÖs anti-Jewish bias." "12.7 percent were victims of an anti-Islamic bias." "9.1 percent were victims of a bias against other religions (anti-other religion)." "4.2 percent were victims of an anti-Catholic bias." "3.0 percent were victims of an anti-Protestant bias."
"57.3 percent were victims of an offenderGÇÖs anti-male homosexual bias." "27.5 percent were victims of an anti-homosexual bias." "11.8 percent were victims of an anti-female homosexual bias." "1.9 percent were victims of an anti-bisexual bias." "1.4 percent were victims of an anti-heterosexual bias."
You want to know why a gay pride group is more valid than a straight pride group?
Because when (according to the FBI's crime statistics, it's not an academic sociological study but it's what you seem to want to work with to back up your argument) 98.5% of all hate crimes based on sexual orientation are targeted at people who are homosexual or bisexual, and only 1.4% is targeted at heterosexuals, to form a straight pride group is an insult to the LBGT community. It demeans the group they have formed to try to fight the oppression they face and tries to make a mockery of it.
The hate white, straight, christian men face is incredibly low compared to minority groups. Just about all of recent history tells you that. To deny that fact based on your own personal, subjective experience is both anti-scientific and anti-intellectual. Latest PVP Video: Perseverance
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Lilliana Stelles
Mindstar Technology Executive Outcomes
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Posted - 2012.08.20 07:24:00 -
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Sure, hate crimes against the LGBT community are more common, that doesn't make them more significant, and it certainly doesn't make them more important. It certainly don't think we can invalidate any concern or hate crime just because it's less frequent.
There were still 21 hate crimes against heterosexuals, 111 hate crimes against Christians, and a staggering 699 hate crimes against whites in the US during 2010. Just because there were more hate crimes against other groups doesn't make the crimes that were committed against these groups any less important.
If one of those 21 straight individuals to a stand for himself, or herself, would you really tell them not to seek support from a group, because showing any "pride" would belittle the validity of LGBT groups? If anything, what you're suggesting is demeaning to LGBT groups, simply because you're painting them as inconsiderate of the issues that effect straight people.
Besides, the OP didn't say "Persecuted trans gamers of Eve", so your requirement that a group face additional hardship to be valid is somewhat moot in the first place. There are plenty of people who could potentially join TGOE who may have had a perfectly cushy life with no gender-identity related persecution whatsoever. So them getting an exclusive pride group while straight people can't certainly doesn't make sense.
Additionally, my point in posting these statistics was to prove that these hate crimes are a very real issue; not to compare "who has the bigger issue", because hate crimes are an issue regardless of how frequent they're occurring, simply by the fact that they are occurring.
If you really want to tell those 699 white people that the crimes committed against them don't matter as much as the crimes committed against another community, then go right ahead. But you really don't have the right to make that call.
These aren't incredibly low numbers. Comparing 7.2% (christian) to 12.7% Islam or 9.1% other, these numbers are all relatively close to each other on the overall scale... are you going to say that Christians or Muslims suffering persecution don't have the right to stand up for themselves simply because MORE Jewish people suffer persecution? That doesn't seem fair.
Sure, there's only one hate crime against whites in the US for every 3-4 hate crimes against blacks... but that's still within an order of magnitude. White's are still the second-most persecuted race within the US. And they have every bit as much pride as any other group. Incarna from 2009. 3 Years later and what we have doesn't look half as good as this.http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n41s1Iox18A |

Xolani1990
Di-Tron Heavy Industries Test Alliance Please Ignore
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Posted - 2012.08.20 08:50:00 -
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Lilliana Stelles wrote:Sure, hate crimes against the LGBT community are more common, that doesn't make them more significant, and it certainly doesn't make them more important. It certainly don't think we can invalidate any concern or hate crime just because it's less frequent.
There were still 21 hate crimes against heterosexuals, 111 hate crimes against Christians, and a staggering 699 hate crimes against whites in the US during 2010. Just because there were more hate crimes against other groups doesn't make the crimes that were committed against these groups any less important.
Of course nobody is saying that these crimes should be treated as any less serious on an individual basis, but to pretend they are part of a pervasive problem on the same scale as hate crimes against minorities is either delusional or disingenuous. If you are a straight, white male you almost certainly don't have to live your daily life afraid of being a victim of hate crime. This isn't to say people never get attacked because of anti-white bias or whatever, but the rate at which it occurs, and the proportion of white people who experience it, is far lower than the minority groups for whom hate crime legislation was introduced in the first place.
Quote: If one of those 21 straight individuals to a stand for himself, or herself, would you really tell them not to seek support from a group, because showing any "pride" would belittle the validity of LGBT groups? If anything, what you're suggesting is demeaning to LGBT groups, simply because you're painting them as inconsiderate of the issues that effect straight people.
What issues, on a societal level, do straight people experience on the basis of them being straight? This is absurd.
Quote: Besides, the OP didn't say "Persecuted trans gamers of Eve", so your requirement that a group face additional hardship to be valid is somewhat moot in the first place. There are plenty of people who could potentially join TGOE who may have had a perfectly cushy life with no gender-identity related persecution whatsoever. So them getting an exclusive pride group while straight people can't certainly doesn't make sense.
Transgendered people experience additional hardships in life, independent of persecution from others. It just so happens that persecution from others is usually also an ingredient in those hardships. Your ignorance of this is reflective of your broader and profound ignorance of LGBT issues in general.
Quote: Additionally, my point in posting these statistics was to prove that these hate crimes are a very real issue; not to compare "who has the bigger issue", because hate crimes are an issue regardless of how frequent they're occurring, simply by the fact that they are occurring.
Your refusal to acknowledge endemic problems of bigotry and bias in society is astounding.
Quote: If you really want to tell those 699 white people that the crimes committed against them don't matter as much as the crimes committed against another community, then go right ahead. But you really don't have the right to make that call.
These aren't incredibly low numbers. Comparing 7.2% (christian) to 12.7% Islam or 9.1% other, these numbers are all relatively close to each other on the overall scale... are you going to say that Christians or Muslims suffering persecution don't have the right to stand up for themselves simply because MORE Jewish people suffer persecution? That doesn't seem fair.
Sure, there's only one hate crime against whites in the US for every 3-4 hate crimes against blacks... but that's still within an order of magnitude. White's are still the second-most persecuted race within the US. And they have every bit as much pride as any other group.
The proportion of whites experiencing hate crimes is also far lower, due to blacks being a minority group. If you are black, or gay, or Jewish, or transgendered, you are far more likely to experience hate crime, simply due to the fact that there are fewer of you in the population but more hate crimes occurring against your group. |

Capqu
Love Squad Confederation of xXPIZZAXx
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Posted - 2012.08.20 16:35:00 -
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Xolani1990 wrote: The proportion of whites experiencing hate crimes is also far lower, due to blacks being a minority group. If you are black, or gay, or Jewish, or transgendered, you are far more likely to experience hate crime, simply due to the fact that there are fewer of you in the population but more hate crimes occurring against your group.
ah don't worry mr straight, white, christian man. you may have been a victim of a horrific hate crime, but at least it's not commonplace! lets tackle the real issues here, a small group of people want to go against nature and biology are being called freakish for promoting their views in public! |

Capqu
Love Squad Confederation of xXPIZZAXx
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Posted - 2012.08.20 16:39:00 -
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Adam Junior wrote:Capqu wrote:if you want to support such a radical viewpoint as having a ***** and not being a man/male, you should probably be tolerant of people with the viewpoint that who have a ***** are men/male
just saiyan, intolerance works both ways Xenuria you massive hypocritical bigot "whaa whaa why doesn't everyone conform to my worldview" That is to say, contrary to popular belief, that lots of opinions are wrong. I for one endorse more safe spaces in online communities, anyone who's offended really needs to find better things to be upset about such as transphobia.
im not asking you to conform to my world view you absolute ham sandwich
im asking you to tolerate it, and not shove your lgbt drivel down my throat |

Laktos
Gunpoint Diplomacy
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Posted - 2012.08.20 17:03:00 -
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Capqu wrote:Xolani1990 wrote: The proportion of whites experiencing hate crimes is also far lower, due to blacks being a minority group. If you are black, or gay, or Jewish, or transgendered, you are far more likely to experience hate crime, simply due to the fact that there are fewer of you in the population but more hate crimes occurring against your group.
ah don't worry mr straight, white, christian man. you may have been a victim of a horrific hate crime, but at least it's not commonplace! lets tackle the real issues here, a small group of people want to go against nature and biology are being called freakish for promoting their views in public!
Nature and Biology has no purposeful will, nor intent. You cannot go "against" something that has no actual purpose or will in the first place.
Btw, you and Lilliana are missing the entire picture here. We are talking about a group formed to support a minority that faces extreme levels of intolerance on a large scale. Of course any hate crime is just as important as another hate crime no matter who the victim is, even if they were a white straight man... on a personal level. We're not talking about the personal here, we are talking about societal wide issues. 1.4% of sexuality related hate crime targeted at heterosexuals (as referenced from the FBI statistics) is hardly a societal issue.
People don't form gay pride or "TGoE" groups because a small number of them were victims of hate. They are formed because a lot of LBGT people face discrimination in some form or another every day.
Besides, TGoE isn't even a protest group, its merely a chat channel. So the idea that this is somehow hostile and offensive towards non-transexual people is utterly ridiculous. Latest PVP Video: Perseverance
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Capqu
Love Squad Confederation of xXPIZZAXx
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Posted - 2012.08.20 17:41:00 -
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yeah laktos i understand what you are saying, and if it was as you say, i would have no problem with it.
but the people in that channel have extreme intolerance towards any view outside of their own. i've tried to explain how some people don't accept the idea of having a ***** and not being male, and i got shouted down and told i was being a bigot. that kind of hypocrisy and irony makes me hella mad, and is the main reason i probably appear to have an agenda against these people. when a group that strives so hard to be tolerated is completely intolerant of the majority of peoples views, they honestly don't deserve the time of day |

Xolani1990
Di-Tron Heavy Industries Test Alliance Please Ignore
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Posted - 2012.08.20 18:11:00 -
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Capqu wrote:yeah laktos i understand what you are saying, and if it was as you say, i would have no problem with it.
but the people in that channel have extreme intolerance towards any view outside of their own. i've tried to explain how some people don't accept the idea of having a ***** and not being male, and i got shouted down and told i was being a bigot. that kind of hypocrisy and irony makes me hella mad, and is the main reason i probably appear to have an agenda against these people. when a group that strives so hard to be tolerated is completely intolerant of the majority of peoples views, they honestly don't deserve the time of day
The thing is, you're going into their space, that they've set up to be apart from the daily bullshit they have to go through where people invalidate their identity and tell them they aren't really men, or aren't really women, to impose your view on them there. There are times and places for that kind of debate, but going into someone's home turf for it isn't the best approach, surely you can understand that. |

Transmaritanus
Autocannons Anonymous Late Night Alliance
12
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Posted - 2012.08.20 20:34:00 -
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Xolani1990 wrote: Equal treatment isn't special treatment. See, again, you're unable to relate because you've never grown up with the hurdles you encounter if you're minority. Ethnic minorities still often encounter hate crime. LGBT people still encounter institutionalised discrimination in the form of bullying in schools (which is endemic and teachers often fail to deal with), denial of legal recognition of relationships and the rights that go with it, and stigmatisation and ostracism in public up to and including the threat of violence if it's apparent you're a same-sex couple or a transsexual. .
That's bullshit. People have been bullied and had hurdles long before this was ever an issue. People aren't going to accept other ideas if they're shoved down their throat. I'm a damn minority IRL and I hate how everyone bitches about how it's hard and whatever complaints are used as an excuse.
There's violence on both sides, it's just no one wants to ever bring the minority side because then you're seen as "racist " or "homophobic" or "intolerant" or whatever it's popular to not be these days
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Laktos
Gunpoint Diplomacy
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Posted - 2012.08.21 05:09:00 -
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Transmaritanus wrote:Xolani1990 wrote: Equal treatment isn't special treatment. See, again, you're unable to relate because you've never grown up with the hurdles you encounter if you're minority. Ethnic minorities still often encounter hate crime. LGBT people still encounter institutionalised discrimination in the form of bullying in schools (which is endemic and teachers often fail to deal with), denial of legal recognition of relationships and the rights that go with it, and stigmatisation and ostracism in public up to and including the threat of violence if it's apparent you're a same-sex couple or a transsexual. .
That's bullshit. People have been bullied and had hurdles long before this was ever an issue. People aren't going to accept other ideas if they're shoved down their throat. I'm a damn minority IRL and I hate how everyone bitches about how it's hard and whatever complaints are used as an excuse. There's violence on both sides, it's just no one wants to ever bring the minority side because then you're seen as "racist " or "homophobic" or "intolerant" or whatever it's popular to not be these days
1. This isn't about bullying and having hurdles, it's about discrimination that is ingrained at a cultural level and has been for a long long time.
2. How is somebody forming a chat channel for Transexual people to communicate with each other in a safe environment "shoving ideas down other peoples throats".?
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Transmaritanus
Autocannons Anonymous Late Night Alliance
13
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Posted - 2012.08.21 06:30:00 -
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I am the original Trans. Stop confusing people seeking my awesomeness with your life choices. You should change your channel to the "Trans, hero of Minmatar FW Foar Gret Justice" Appreciation Channel |

Harlot Hohannson
Eye on Wang Poo
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Posted - 2012.08.21 10:52:00 -
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Another pea-brained Xenuria venture.
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AlleyKat
The Unwanted.
327
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Posted - 2012.08.21 12:21:00 -
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two cents:
The channels of this game are for EVE online communication, and this crosses a morality line.
Not the morality of trans-gender, quite the opposite; but the segregation of individuals and exclusion of individuals based on either their belief system or physicality.
I do not think it is right to make special channels for anyone based on belief system or their physical appearance, and especially to exclude anyone who does not conform to a certain set of criteria.
You got away with the WGoE, barely, but this is getting out of hand.
If youGÇÖd like a for example, IGÇÖll give you one. If there was a channel for people who speak German, then this makes sense as the channels in this game are a communication tool and finding players who speak the same language as you would be a great help. The line would be drawn if there was a German-only channel, in that you must be German in origin, to join it and be GÇÿacceptedGÇÖ.
It literally staggers me that you donGÇÖt understand this.
Essentially, what I am saying is the ideology you have is warped.
You do NOT exclude people for any reason, because that is the kind of mind-set (at its core) that resulted in the deaths of 62 million people in World War 2, and, 100 million Native American Indians.
Create the channel by all means, but you have got to be realistic in the future as to what boundaries contradict the underlying essence of your intent.
A further discussion is required, I think overall, as to what and where the line is in computer games for overstepping the boundaries that bridge the real world and the game world, and the internal communication systems of a computer game should not be for the users to police and control to such ideologically perverted extremes.
In my humble opinion...
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Laktos
Gunpoint Diplomacy
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Posted - 2012.08.21 13:12:00 -
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RE: Alleykat.
I agree with much of what you have said on a level of principle.I think though, that there has to be some perspective in this debate.
Drawing a relationship between restrictions on who can join a chat channel to the horrors of WW2 is slightly far-fetched and unfair.
And if we are going to say that the standard is zero discrimination in chat channels, then how far is that going to go. Are you then going to stop people from recruiting for a corp based on specific timezones or nationalities? etc.
I think there is an important distinction to be made about these things based on their intent. If the intent of the channel is exclusion, then this is usually a bad thing. But I don't believe this is the intent of the channel.
You also have to take into account the situation surrounding the members of the channel. To be a transexual at this time is a dangerous thing. I would imagine many people that identify themselves as such do not reveal their sexuality in normal channels or with corp members for fear of bullying and harassment, or even that their friends might not treat them the same as before. This channels stated intent is not to act as an elitist group based on exclusivity, but rather a group that is inclusive of transexual people. Unfortunately because of the attitude many people have towards transexuals there is a strong argument to be made that a group that wants to be a safe inclusive place for transexuals must be exclusive of non-transexuals to achieve its aim.
Of course in a perfect world the TGoE channel would be set public and everyone would be invited. We don't live in that world though, and so a policy of zero discrimination allowed under any circumstances is unrealistic and unfair to those who discriminate on entry to a group in order to create a place they feel comfortable to be themselves in. Latest PVP Video: Perseverance
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AlleyKat
The Unwanted.
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Posted - 2012.08.21 15:36:00 -
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Laktos wrote:RE: Alleykat.
I agree with much of what you have said on a level of principle.I think though, that there has to be some perspective in this debate.
Drawing a relationship between restrictions on who can join a chat channel to the horrors of WW2 is slightly far-fetched and unfair.
And if we are going to say that the standard is zero discrimination in chat channels, then how far is that going to go. Are you then going to stop people from recruiting for a corp based on specific timezones or nationalities? etc.
I think there is an important distinction to be made about these things based on their intent. If the intent of the channel is exclusion, then this is usually a bad thing. But I don't believe this is the intent of the channel.
You also have to take into account the situation surrounding the members of the channel. To be a transexual at this time is a dangerous thing. I would imagine many people that identify themselves as such do not reveal their sexuality in normal channels or with corp members for fear of bullying and harassment, or even that their friends might not treat them the same as before. This channels stated intent is not to act as an elitist group based on exclusivity, but rather a group that is inclusive of transexual people. Unfortunately because of the attitude many people have towards transexuals there is a strong argument to be made that a group that wants to be a safe inclusive place for transexuals must be exclusive of non-transexuals to achieve its aim.
Of course in a perfect world the TGoE channel would be set public and everyone would be invited. We don't live in that world though, and so a policy of zero discrimination allowed under any circumstances is unrealistic and unfair to those who discriminate on entry to a group in order to create a place they feel comfortable to be themselves in.
Name me one person in EVE-Online that has acted in a bullying or harrasing way towards transexuals, and your point has merit.
I suspect you won't and can't, because you're tripping over your own perceptions which if being tactful, are woefully outdated and out-of-touch that it's embarrasing to read.
Maybe I'm naive, or maybe I was raised correctly, but discriminating someone for the reasons you've stated is offensive to my demeanour.
Being honest, If I were in that channel, I might not like the people in it - not because of their trans-genderism, but because I might not like them as human beings. In your mind, this might be perceived as agressive behaviour towards trans-gender.
A little bit like...not liking someone in the workplace because they steal your parking space, but because they are homosexual, you have to not have a go at them?
What about in war? Am I allowed to shoot enemy soliders? What about if they are female? Is it sexist to shoot them? Or is it sexist to NOT shoot them? (women should be treated equally)
Look, you are simply blowing this all out of proportion - if someone in the channel acts like an idiot - kick them, end of story, job done, INCLUDING those who are transgender, because all human beings know what is right and wrong, the thing which defines us is the action we take in spite of this.
Clear?
AK GÇ£You go into combat, and itGÇÖs NOT going to be WagnerGǪindustrial techno or really hard drum and bassGÇ¥ Reynir Hardarson, founding member of CCP Games, 2002.
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Laktos
Gunpoint Diplomacy
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Posted - 2012.08.21 16:37:00 -
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AlleyKat wrote:Name me one person in EVE-Online that has acted in a bullying or harrasing way towards transexuals, and your point has merit.
What? Do we even live in the same world? Many people are repulsed, offended and hateful towards someone who identifies as transexual and because of this they would discriminate against anyone they knew was transexual. I mean, ffs, look at the amount of discrimination that exists in our society against gays and lesbians, and you get some idea of what a lot (im not saying all) of transexuals would face, only ramped up to an even higher level.
I suppose next you are going to tell me that sexism and racism no longer exists and that I am out-dated for thinking so?
Quote: Being honest, If I were in that channel, I might not like the people in it - not because of their trans-genderism, but because I might not like them as human beings. In your mind, this might be perceived as agressive behaviour towards trans-gender.
A little bit like...not liking someone in the workplace because they steal your parking space, but because they are homosexual, you have to not have a go at them?
What about in war? Am I allowed to shoot enemy soliders? What about if they are female? Is it sexist to shoot them? Or is it sexist to NOT shoot them? (women should be treated equally)
Nice job putting words in my mouth. Care to explain exactly why I would think these things. This whole time I have been talking about discriminiation against transexual people because of their transexuality. Latest PVP Video: Perseverance
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AlleyKat
The Unwanted.
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Posted - 2012.08.21 18:34:00 -
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Laktos wrote:AlleyKat wrote:Name me one person in EVE-Online that has acted in a bullying or harrasing way towards transexuals, and your point has merit. What? Do we even live in the same world? Many people are repulsed, offended and hateful towards someone who identifies as transexual and because of this they would discriminate against anyone they knew was transexual. I mean, ffs, look at the amount of discrimination that exists in our society against gays and lesbians, and you get some idea of what a lot (im not saying all) of transexuals would face, only ramped up to an even higher level. I suppose next you are going to tell me that sexism and racism no longer exists and that I am out-dated for thinking so? Quote: Being honest, If I were in that channel, I might not like the people in it - not because of their trans-gender-ism, but because I might not like them as human beings. In your mind, this might be perceived as aggressive behavior towards trans-gender.
A little bit like...not liking someone in the workplace because they steal your parking space, but because they are homosexual, you have to not have a go at them?
What about in war? Am I allowed to shoot enemy soldiers? What about if they are female? Is it sexist to shoot them? Or is it sexist to NOT shoot them? (women should be treated equally)
Nice job putting words in my mouth. Care to explain exactly why I would think these things. This whole time I have been talking about discrimination against transsexual people because of their transexuality.
Someone made a false claim there was a bomb in my building - someones handbag needed detonating, ironically.
Sorry, I should have put analogously in front of some of those comments, but didn't think it would be necessary to do so. Shows what happens when you make assumptions, aye?
Again - I must ask you to name these racist, xenophobic or otherwise "people" that you claim to know exist in EVE Online, and then your argument has merit.
If not, then you need to rework your logic to suit something that has contention and until that fateful day, do NOT under any circumstances claim that certain people need protecting against bigotry that actually and genuinely exists when you have no evidence to prove it. You probably don't even have anything anecdotal.
I promise you this much: you get the names, and you get them banned within two clicks of the mouse - and if it was an open channel and someone behaved in the manner in which you believe is so prevalent in EVE Online; once again, they will be banned sharpish and that is your only guarantee.
Otherwise, you are constantly offending me - because I play EVE Online and have done for a very long time, and from what I can tell, you believe that I fall into this mythical existence that is only as real as your imagination.
Only thing that matters is this: when you are flying with other people, you do not care what they look like or what hairstyle they got, or what flavor of ice cream they like, you just care that someone is flying with you and they got your back as much as they know you got theirs.
That's it, washing my hands of this thread now - you want to form a bigot laden opinion of the world, that's your nightmare, not mine.
People are better than you give them credit for.
I pity you.
GÇ£You go into combat, and itGÇÖs NOT going to be WagnerGǪindustrial techno or really hard drum and bassGÇ¥ Reynir Hardarson, founding member of CCP Games, 2002.
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Viribus
Love Squad Confederation of xXPIZZAXx
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Posted - 2012.08.21 20:59:00 -
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Xenuria is always welcome in the PIZZAHOUSE |

Zach Donnell
The Tuskers
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Posted - 2012.08.22 00:24:00 -
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This thread is lol - The channel could have had much more credibility if it wasn't started by Xenuria. Sorry man, it's the truth.
(Lak is always down for debating social issues )
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Nex apparatu5
Fweddit I Whip My Slaves Back and Forth
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Posted - 2012.08.22 18:08:00 -
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So let's say a guy feels like they're actually a girl, and has some kind of surgery or pills or something to try to change that. Thinking and saying they're still a guy is an opinion, as is thinking and saying they're now a girl. Both are opinions, and both have equal merit. Now trying to force someone to accept that opinion if it differs from yours, now that's the real issue. |

Meryl SinGarda
Belligerent Underpayed Tactical Team
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Posted - 2012.09.20 13:33:00 -
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Sign me up! I have a long story, but in the wake of the aftermath of what I'd call an extremely enlightening experience, I am looking to connect with like-minded people.
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