
Coranor
Black Nova Corp Band of Brothers
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Posted - 2006.11.25 22:02:00 -
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Originally by: eleuthereus Edited by: eleuthereus on 25/11/2006 21:42:56 Many years ago, I remember seeing an Olympic swimming event that included a swimmer from an extremely poor country in Africa. He barely had qualified to be in the Olympics, and in fact, had never even partcipated in a swimming event that was as long as the one he was going to swim in competition, on TV, before the entire world. The starting gun sounded, and the swimmers took off. He IMMEDIATELY started falling behind - more, and more and more.
Finally, the winner touched the wall, second place, and third, then the rest of the field, all of whom got out of the pool -- all except the lone swimmer from Africa who was two full pool lengths behind. He kept swimming, and swimming, so exhausted that it looked like he was almost flailing in the water, hardly moving at all. No one else was even in the pool, the other swimmers, in fcat, were already drying off with their towels. He was still swimming. No one could believe he was so far behind. But he kept going, suddenly pulling the notice of the commentators and the crowd who started cheering and chering and cheeering -- until atlast he finished, utterly spent, barely able to even climb out of the pool.
Was he a good swimmer? No. Could he have ever beat anyone? No. Did he deserve respect? Yes - without a doubt, yes. He showed integrity, fortitude, courage, perseverance, and true spirit of competition. In fact, I respected him EVEN MORE than the winners because of the odds against him that he had to face.
So, this is all my way of saying, there are all kinds of respect -- both earned (as in when a person performs well, or as in when a person shows fortitude), as well as unearned (as in the respect every person/player should receive by the sheer fact that they are fellow human beings and fellow players).
When dealing with such issues, we muct avoid mixing categories and nuanced definitions of certain concepts like respect. My two cents
eleuthereus
Yes he earned respect. He put himself out there, gave it his all and did'nt quit. Thats how to earn respect. Put yourself out there and have a go and don't give up. Its the same in any competition and its the same in EVE.
We see people dock and hide everyday. We see people refuse to stand up for themselves, their corpmates, their alliance and their friends. Why should these guys receive our respect in this kind of environment. I've watched people put everything they had in EVE on the line for what they believed in and some of them have lost everything. But they stood up to be counted, side by side with their corpmates and their alliance and they had a go. They did'nt dock and log off and hope that someone else would do the job for them.
Regardless of what some people might think EVE is a competition. Respect in a competitive environment has to be earned. It is not given.
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