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Tarminic
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Posted - 2007.09.05 16:17:00 -
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Originally by: Crimson Pearl oh i did talk to her.
it was quite awkward for me i approached her. she looked like she was expecting this to happen. so i said hello and she just smiled and said hi in a really flirty voice. i talked about stuff and 20 minutes later i asked her out. she said yes so we are going to something on friday.
Hey, way to go man! I'm guessing based on your previous posts that you don't have a whole lot of experience with girls. When going on a date, remember these extremely important things: 1. Be honest - girls are generally much better than guys at figuring out whether someone is being honest, so be yourself. She'll know if you're trying to do otherwise anyway 2. Don't be too aggressive - there's a difference between being confident and being arrogant or creepy 3. If you kiss her, don't shove your tongue down her throat...an extremely soft, subtle kiss can get a girl hotter than the wettest tonsil hockey, trust me  4. Listen to her, be sincerely interested in what she has to say (I imagine you already have this since you like the girl) 5. Don't expect to "get lucky" on the first couple of dates, and especially don't pressure her in any way - if she's the kind of girl to sleep with you after one date, you should reconsider your affections anyway 6. If the date goes well, call her within 48 hours of the date (generally). That was the hardest part about my first girlfriend, I hate talking on the phone and it took alot of psyching up to call her the first couple of times
Hope this helps.  ------------ Whiners - Unite! | Posting and You Tarminic - Forum Warfare Specialist. |

Tarminic
Black Flame Industries
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Posted - 2007.09.05 16:29:00 -
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Originally by: Micheal Dietrich
Originally by: Mahkla
Originally by: Crimson Pearl i will post what happen on Friday right after i get back or if i get lucky saturday morning.
thx for the support.
You may want to be careful. She may flip out if she finds that you're telling 20,000 people what happened on your first date. 
Like people don't do that already on myspace and blogs and stuff.
It should be fine as long as he doesn't reveal any names, honestly. ------------ Whiners - Unite! | Posting and You Tarminic - Forum Warfare Specialist. |

Tarminic
Black Flame Industries
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Posted - 2007.09.05 18:35:00 -
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I think that this thread is going to become epic this weekend. I can't wait.  ------------ Whiners - Unite! | Posting and You Tarminic - Forum Warfare Specialist. |

Tarminic
Black Flame Industries
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Posted - 2007.09.06 15:06:00 -
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Edited by: Tarminic on 06/09/2007 15:09:39
Originally by: Cornucopian dude, your breaking the illusion and making me think this is a hoax, try to make it sound more believeable..... Tell you what, before you go out on this date, find a secluded spot on the beach and get a fire ready there, don't light it, just get it ready. Bring some sort of picnic hamper to the movie, and a bottle of wine. maybe a chilled white. Also be sure to take some sort of comforter with you: women always get cold.
once the movie is done, take the girl to your secluded beach spot, light the fire, give her the comforter, open the bottle of wine, dont talk about games, EVE, computer stuff, but talk about HER. you should do fine.
Quoted for unusually high amounts of truth. Seriously, some of the best advice in this thread.  You don't even need wine really, especially if you're underage. Just bring a couple of cokes or something (find out what kind she liks beforehand, possibly from her friends).
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Originally by: Mindlles Edited by: Mindlles on 06/09/2007 15:03:08
Originally by: Tarminic - if she's the kind of girl to sleep with you after one date, you should reconsider your affections anyway
Why in the world schould he reconsidere his affection if they have sex on their first date??.
Is she a bad girl becouse she decied to have sex with a person that she might like. Or just have a sexual intresst in?.
I hope to cu in space and pod ur medivel arse =)
Ps. The other parts off ur encouring post was pretty nice actully =)
You're right and I shouldn't generalize, but I've only had one experience with a girl like that and it turned out that the sex ended up being much more important than the actual relationship. It didn't end very well.  Perhaps I'm just naturally cautious, but unfortunately behavior like that tends not to be an independant event, but an indicator of alot of other underlying issues. Also, I live in low-sec so if you're inclined you can come out and harrass me.  ------------ Whiners - Unite! | Posting and You Tarminic - Forum Warfare Specialist. |

Tarminic
Black Flame Industries
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Posted - 2007.09.06 15:17:00 -
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Originally by: Crimson Pearl i dont want to be an overly romantic cliche. but i want to havea good time.
i think a restaurnt is too formal. but otherwise its not romantic.
argghhhh!!!!!
It doesn't have to be an especially formal restaurant, somewhere simple like Ruby Tuesdays or Fridays would be fine. ------------ Whiners - Unite! | Posting and You Tarminic - Forum Warfare Specialist. |

Tarminic
Black Flame Industries
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Posted - 2007.09.07 15:43:00 -
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Originally by: Crimson Pearl it was a fantastic day. probably the best day of my life.
i picked her up at her house then we went to the movies. Ratatouille. it was pretty impressive, definitely exceeded my expectation. but that is not important. what is, is the coziness afforded by the dark and slightly cold cinema. so we got a spot, right at the back so no one can see us. i was planning to get really close and my heart was racing with excitement.
so the movie started. 20 minutes in and i hadnt been paying much attention to the movie. what i had been doing was trying not to look to my left. but it was really hard because she was very pretty in the glowing hue reflected from the screen. she looked back at me sometimes smiling. i was contemplating "the move".
We demand updates!  ------------ Whiners - Unite! | Posting and You Tarminic - Forum Warfare Specialist. |

Tarminic
Black Flame Industries
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Posted - 2007.09.07 16:24:00 -
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Originally by: Hellraiza666
Originally by: Tarminic
the sex ended up being much more important than the actual relationship. 
you say that as if its a bad thing
Yeah, it's fine as long as you're the one she's having sex with.
It wasn't really an issue until I left to go to college. I stopped having sex as a result of that, but it didn't seem to stop her...with six other people.  ------------ Whiners - Unite! | Posting and You Tarminic - Forum Warfare Specialist. |

Tarminic
Black Flame Industries
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Posted - 2007.09.07 16:59:00 -
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Originally by: Arron S I got used by a girl, I selpt with her, then I realized she was only using me to do her excel assignments as she become un interested in me after I had done it for her.. I wont fall for that scheme again, and somone is going to fail their computer classes now haha...
If your a geek, your not going to get any girls unless they are going to use you, unless your really lucky.. Women only like Jocks and drunktards sadly.
Not true unless you're referring specifically to high school girls or sorority girls. I never had a girlfriend in High School and I appear to be in relatively high demand now, despite being just as ugly and nerdy. Give them time.  ------------ Whiners - Unite! | Posting and You Tarminic - Forum Warfare Specialist. |

Tarminic
Black Flame Industries
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Posted - 2007.09.07 18:16:00 -
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Originally by: Micheal Dietrich I never even got sex out of the deal but according to one of the guys who is still my friend he said it wasn't worth it.
Weird how that works, doesn't it? Half the time the girls that sleep around the most are the worst at it.  ------------ Whiners - Unite! | Posting and You Tarminic - Forum Warfare Specialist. |

Tarminic
Black Flame Industries
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Posted - 2007.09.07 18:20:00 -
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Originally by: Micheal Dietrich
Originally by: Tarminic
Originally by: Micheal Dietrich I never even got sex out of the deal but according to one of the guys who is still my friend he said it wasn't worth it.
Weird how that works, doesn't it? Half the time the girls that sleep around the most are the worst at it. 
His exact words were 'it's like tossing a hotdog down a hallway'
I'm so glad I wasn't drinking anything when I read that.  ------------ Whiners - Unite! | Posting and You Tarminic - Forum Warfare Specialist. |

Tarminic
Black Flame Industries
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Posted - 2007.09.08 01:50:00 -
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Originally by: Cornucopian this is MADNESS!!!
THIS...IS...SPAAAARTAAAAAAAH! *Kicks Cornucopian down a random well*
You couldn't have expected me to pass up that opportunity.  ------------ Whiners - Unite! | Posting and You Tarminic - Forum Warfare Specialist. |

Tarminic
Black Flame Industries
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Posted - 2007.09.08 01:55:00 -
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Originally by: Crimson Pearl .... i was contemplating the move but then i thought it was a bit cheesy. it felt ripped from like some stupid TV sitcom so instead i just leaned towards her and whispered in her ear "can i hold your hand". she just looked at me with a coy smile and nodded. so i moved in to hold her hand. i got my fingers in between hers and squeeze her hand a bit. she squeezed back. now my heart was racing again but after a while i settled into the closeness that we are sharing. her hand was so soft and smooth.
Please continue. The world wants to know. I get the feeling you're teasing us with your updates.  ------------ Whiners - Unite! | Posting and You Tarminic - Forum Warfare Specialist. |
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