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ReaperOfSly
Gallente Lyrus Associates
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Posted - 2007.09.24 11:05:00 -
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Ask a forum of internet spaceships players for advice  --------------------------------------------------------------------
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Sir Heavy
Dragonian Freelancers Academy
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Posted - 2007.09.24 12:04:00 -
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Originally by: ReaperOfSly Ask a forum of internet spaceships players for advice 
Does that say alot about yourself? 
Real Social Dynamics is a good start, and if you dig deeper into the subject, you'll learn there's a whole world you didn't know off, that has been studied by these guys, and it works!
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Brujo Loco
Amarr Brujeria Teologica
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Posted - 2007.09.24 17:22:00 -
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As a psychologist that treats a lot of people of different backgrounds, specially those that have odd jobs, kids, whatever, that takes away time from social "chores", I have found out that the Net itself is the biggest party full of women out there, and I have to debate the well known phrase of "no girls exist on the net". I know that Online Dating can be seen as crap by some, but honestly I have had some positive experiences on people looking out for women or men to date, when they go to these sites. ONLY real problem here is that people pretend to find their soul mate in less than a week, get depressed again and come to my office and tell me "You sux, Im depressed again". I then go OMG double u tee efff!!!
Problem with most people trying to find a partner is that they either try too hard at it or simply fail in setting realistic goals about what they want in a partner.
As someone mentioned out earlier, if you simply want "to find a hot babe to go out with" that really seems to be incrogruent with what you seem to define as a partner for your life atm (as I interpreted from your post anyway). That hot babe can be a call girl or perhaps a one night stand every night or a "sex buddy"
Other options already mentioned here are good, specially due to the fact that they correlate to your personal interests as potential grounds for meeting people with same interests. But honestly, even before setting out to find a partner, you better sit down, meditate hard and honestly specify to yourself what kind of partner you want/need, within realistically feasible and achievable limits of reality. We all want to go out with HOT BABES, AMAZON WOMEN FROM VENUS, but that set of mind has a lot of gaps :/ . Honestly that's why I prefer sending people to the net, If they stick to it for a while, and after suffering the first shocks of rejection/disaproval and failed dates, they usually get a better picture of what they REALLY want, not what they THINK they want. Patience is a key virtue here in this "Game". Problem is not many people have the will to keep up playing and end up either with whatever life throws at them or totally lost within themselves. You also need to be ready for the totally oddball women you might meet. Usually, as a side note, and a quick glance of man to man info, as someone posted a while ago, women with children are more open to stable relationships if aproached correctly.
Just my 2 coppers worth
Cheers!
PD: you owe me 60k of our national currency for counseling, wich translated to ISK is about 20 Million ISK, I take pie and doughnuts as payment too 
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Steneskoj
Minmatar Intercommercial Aerospace Retail United Stations
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Posted - 2007.09.24 19:55:00 -
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I think you have a pretty healthy attitude towards the problem already, if you know what I mean. You are obviously a quite nice fellow since this chick you are really good friends with seem to like you, and you also have a few other friends. I mean there is nothing wrong with you, when you get a job, and thus get an own apartment, you will meet loads of people! Just give it time. I suppose you could speed things up a little by doing what someone else said in this thread, join that theater thingie.
And also, the internet is actually a really good place to meet chicks, although I haven't tried it myself. Join a dating site or something if you feel the need for some more romantic relationships? Living with your parents won't be a big obstacle using that method I think, just go out for a coffee with a few people and see what they're like. If you don't like each other in that romantic sort of way you may become very good friends.
Good luck!
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Sir Heavy
Dragonian Freelancers Academy
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Posted - 2007.09.24 22:36:00 -
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Originally by: Brujo Loco Honestly that's why I prefer sending people to the net, If they stick to it for a while,
There's about 110 Million singles in America, 60% stated they've tried internet dating. 
If you don't know howto begin: talking to a girl, smalltalk, behave, state to intend (don't wanna be friends!) how are you supposed to build comfort, attraction. lolz for Kino (light touching) and Bodylanguage on the net.
And yet, psychologists like you keep telling them: "BE YOURSELF" (wich is the biggest bull**** invented by women telling men how to behave to become their pets, not lovers)
A psychologist like you should know what the Alpha male is, right? should know how that can lead to attraction in our animal kingdom: Humanity, right?
You've had some positive experiences with people doing internet dating and get depressed back in your office. Can you not tell them the truth, that they're gonna have to INTERACT DIFFERENTLY in order to get some succes? And that's all it is isn't it, INTERACTION + BEHAVIOUR = psychology. to me it is anyway. 
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ry ry
StateCorp The State
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Posted - 2007.09.25 09:44:00 -
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Edited by: ry ry on 25/09/2007 09:45:53
Quote: There's about 110 Million singles in America, 60% stated they've tried internet dating. Shocked
If you don't know howto begin: talking to a girl, smalltalk, behave, state to intend (don't wanna be friends!) how are you supposed to build comfort, attraction. lolz for Kino (light touching) and Bodylanguage on the net.
And yet, psychologists like you keep telling them: "BE YOURSELF" (wich is the biggest bull**** invented by women telling men how to behave to become their pets, not lovers)
A psychologist like you should know what the Alpha male is, right? should know how that can lead to attraction in our animal kingdom: Humanity, right?
You've had some positive experiences with people doing internet dating and get depressed back in your office. Can you not tell them the truth, that they're gonna have to INTERACT DIFFERENTLY in order to get some succes? And that's all it is isn't it, INTERACTION + BEHAVIOUR = psychology. to me it is anyway.
you guys give this too much thought.
if you genuinely feel the need to approach such monumentally difficult tasks as 'having a chat' and 'saying hello' with a premeditated pseudo-psycho-analytical checklist you should be seriously looking into euthanasia right now.
when people say "just be your self" what they're actually saying is "pretending not to be socially retarded doesn't make you any less socially retarded. deal with it.".
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Derovius Vaden
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Posted - 2007.09.25 15:41:00 -
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Originally by: ry ry Edited by: ry ry on 25/09/2007 09:45:53
Quote: There's about 110 Million singles in America, 60% stated they've tried internet dating. Shocked
If you don't know howto begin: talking to a girl, smalltalk, behave, state to intend (don't wanna be friends!) how are you supposed to build comfort, attraction. lolz for Kino (light touching) and Bodylanguage on the net.
And yet, psychologists like you keep telling them: "BE YOURSELF" (wich is the biggest bull**** invented by women telling men how to behave to become their pets, not lovers)
A psychologist like you should know what the Alpha male is, right? should know how that can lead to attraction in our animal kingdom: Humanity, right?
You've had some positive experiences with people doing internet dating and get depressed back in your office. Can you not tell them the truth, that they're gonna have to INTERACT DIFFERENTLY in order to get some succes? And that's all it is isn't it, INTERACTION + BEHAVIOUR = psychology. to me it is anyway.
you guys give this too much thought.
if you genuinely feel the need to approach such monumentally difficult tasks as 'having a chat' and 'saying hello' with a premeditated pseudo-psycho-analytical checklist you should be seriously looking into euthanasia right now.
when people say "just be your self" what they're actually saying is "pretending not to be socially retarded doesn't make you any less socially retarded. deal with it.".
Some people just don't like having conversations with other people; moreover, some people just don't like other people period. I happen to be one of these people.
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ry ry
StateCorp The State
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Posted - 2007.09.25 15:46:00 -
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Originally by: Derovius Vaden I happen to be one of these people.
me too. i tried to start a club for people who hate people to come and talk about it, but no ****** wanted to come.
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Derovius Vaden
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Posted - 2007.09.25 15:51:00 -
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Originally by: ry ry
Originally by: Derovius Vaden I happen to be one of these people.
me too. i tried to start a club for people who hate people to come and talk about it, but no ****** wanted to come.
I would have hated to come.
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Cornucopian
Gallente Orias Fringe Enterprises United Freemen Alliance
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Posted - 2007.09.25 19:22:00 -
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Originally by: Arron S
Originally by: Daelorn
Originally by: Arron S Edited by: Arron S on 24/09/2007 02:34:13 Booo whooo booooooo whooooo... emo
If I made this post, everyone would call me an emo.
You emo.
**** you and your main charater you flithy alt
your avatr even has those big emo puppt eyes!!!! U AR EMO ----------------------------------------------- "post with your main. delete your alt, you sad little exploiting metagamer."
Originally by: Royaldo
complete win by Cornucopian!
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Derovius Vaden
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Posted - 2007.09.25 19:40:00 -
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Originally by: Cornucopian
Originally by: Arron S
Originally by: Daelorn
Originally by: Arron S Edited by: Arron S on 24/09/2007 02:34:13 Booo whooo booooooo whooooo... emo
If I made this post, everyone would call me an emo.
You emo.
**** you and your main charater you flithy alt
your avatr even has those big emo puppt eyes!!!! U AR EMO
Says the Gallente who paints his face like a woman. You're both EMO, now STFU and get off my OOP.
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Cornucopian
Gallente Orias Fringe Enterprises United Freemen Alliance
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Posted - 2007.09.25 21:05:00 -
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Originally by: Derovius Vaden
Originally by: Cornucopian
Originally by: Arron S
Originally by: Daelorn
Originally by: Arron S Edited by: Arron S on 24/09/2007 02:34:13 Booo whooo booooooo whooooo... emo
If I made this post, everyone would call me an emo.
You emo.
**** you and your main charater you flithy alt
your avatr even has those big emo puppt eyes!!!! U AR EMO
Says the Gallente who paints his face like a woman. You're both EMO, now STFU and get off my OOP.
dude! whats wrong with you man.....
did I beat you up in high school or something?
little known fact: if you google derovius in the images section of google, he appears very near to president bush and chimpanzees..... I see a pattern here relating to intelligence. ----------------------------------------------- "post with your main. delete your alt, you sad little exploiting metagamer."
Originally by: Royaldo
complete win by Cornucopian!
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Patch86
Di-Tron Heavy Industries Atlas Alliance
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Posted - 2007.09.25 21:15:00 -
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Originally by: Arron S
Originally by: Daelorn
Originally by: Arron S Edited by: Arron S on 24/09/2007 02:34:13 Booo whooo booooooo whooooo... emo
If I made this post, everyone would call me an emo.
Dude, is your avatar actually wearing dark mascara?  ------
Originally by: CCP Prism X There's no such thing as playing too much EvE! You all obviously need more accounts!
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Micheal Dietrich
Cynical Cartel
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Posted - 2007.09.25 21:19:00 -
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Originally by: Cornucopian
Originally by: Derovius Vaden
Originally by: Cornucopian
Originally by: Arron S
Originally by: Daelorn
Originally by: Arron S Edited by: Arron S on 24/09/2007 02:34:13 Booo whooo booooooo whooooo... emo
If I made this post, everyone would call me an emo.
You emo.
**** you and your main charater you flithy alt
your avatr even has those big emo puppt eyes!!!! U AR EMO
Says the Gallente who paints his face like a woman. You're both EMO, now STFU and get off my OOP.
dude! whats wrong with you man.....
did I beat you up in high school or something?
little known fact: if you google derovius in the images section of google, he appears very near to president bush and chimpanzees..... I see a pattern here relating to intelligence.
Whoooo, you likened him to an American president, that's like a double burn there. Now he's gonna wish a dumptruck will break it's pile of dirt upon you
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Patch86
Di-Tron Heavy Industries Atlas Alliance
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Posted - 2007.09.25 21:21:00 -
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Originally by: Micheal Dietrich
Whoooo, you likened him to an American president, that's like a double burn there. Now he's gonna wish a dumptruck will break it's pile of dirt upon you
Although funnily enough, he was actually telling the truth  ------
Originally by: CCP Prism X There's no such thing as playing too much EvE! You all obviously need more accounts!
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Micheal Dietrich
Cynical Cartel
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Posted - 2007.09.25 21:28:00 -
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Originally by: Patch86
Originally by: Micheal Dietrich
Whoooo, you likened him to an American president, that's like a double burn there. Now he's gonna wish a dumptruck will break it's pile of dirt upon you
Although funnily enough, he was actually telling the truth 
EPIC LOL!!!!
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Leora Nomen
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Posted - 2007.09.27 06:06:00 -
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Originally by: hellhathnofury Thanks also Leora. The problem has been most of those aren't available right now and college is all over and done with, not looking to get back into education for a while at least. I think some of the suggestions here are great though. Thanks.
I don't know your situation, but the college I went to offered many sports, art, and other classes that were open for anyone. It was mostly college students who did sign up so the average age was early 20s. I thought it was a good way to meet people with similar interests who are outside of one's friend circle. Most everyone who came didn't have friends in the group, so people would start chatting each other up, making new contacts, etc. Of course it was a huge place in highly populated urban area. Overall our campus was frequently visited by people who didn't go to college but went to local gym or ate lunch on campus. I got chatted up by random guys on few occasions at the coffee place and I had no idea if they were students or not - they just came for lunch there like me. But random chatting doesn't really strike it - people have to be doing something together and meeting for a few occasions to get to know each other better. Internet dating is a sure and guaranteed way of meeting new people. You kind of randomly meet people and both of you are clear that you came on a date, and then keep on meeting if it looks promising.
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Minuteman
Glittering Dust VooDoo Technologies
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Posted - 2007.09.30 15:12:00 -
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I hear the girls are ...
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