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pushdogg Minmatar The BlackSail Corp	Posted - 2006.11.21 05:23:00 - [31] Edited by: pushdogg on 21/11/2006 05:24:21 look, this is so easy, the same thing happened to me about 5 months ago(only i had been with her much longer than that), you just go out and have FUN, something im sure you havent had in some time, go call your firends that you havent talked to in months and just go out, and have a great time ie.booze at the bar, strip club, and a hearty house party....this will break you of everything you have been trained to do by your ex, this worked for me and im fine now......and still single, which im not sure how thats workin out, just make sure are sober enough to rememeber the girls' names
Admai Sket	Posted - 2006.11.22 00:14:00 - [32] Originally by: dennyreborn look dude. im guessing you haven't been with someone else. Correct. Originally by: dennyreborn you want to experience other people then go experience it BUT realize that she most likely will not be there when your done. women are not things they don't sit and wait in the closet why you go do your own thing. I understand and accept all of this part. Originally by: dennyreborn if the idea that you wont date her again would drive you crazy then get back with her. I do want to be with her - I'm 99.9999999999% sure she's 'the one', but i don't want to get old only having been with one person. I've also been with her for the majority of my 'social life' (aged just under 18 until now, 3years later). In my last year of uni now, so this is my last chance to be a young person who is also 'free'. I have to be myself and be myself on my own for a few months. I can't reach 30 having not done that. Thanks for your support guys - nice lot of replies. --------- NEED A SIG PLEASE.
Digitalfox Central Defiance Ushra'Khan	Posted - 2006.11.22 01:38:00 - [33] Quote: I do want to be with her - I'm 99.9999999999% sure she's 'the one', but i don't want to get old only having been with one person. I've also been with her for the majority of my 'social life' (aged just under 18 until now, 3years later). In my last year of uni now, so this is my last chance to be a young person who is also 'free'. I have to be myself and be myself on my own for a few months. I can't reach 30 having not done that. If your that sure, then leaving her was the worst thing you could do. You should take her back and quick before its to late. If you dont feel your are "free" with her then she is not the one. And if you want my advice get married but dont have kids yet. Save that till your 30. Spend time with her and you. Tour the world and build some memories. When you have kids then your not free. I came very close to losing the person I care about over this last week. There are a million songs and storys out there that will tell you how it feels when you realise just how dumb it is to leave one you love. I leave you with a fine quote from "clerks" "There's a million fine chicks out there. But the wont all bring you lasagna, most of em just cheat on you." Dont lose a great thing. -------------------------------------------------------------------- Central Defiance is always recruiting, check out or movie DEFY
Lanfear's Bane Shih Yang Tong Pirate Coalition	Posted - 2006.11.22 10:24:00 - [34] Yeah well, I am still waiting on the pics. Lanfear's Bane. _ _ _
Gariuys Evil Strangers Inc.	Posted - 2006.11.22 11:32:00 - [35] Pics good... And I really think you're a fool. Being a free young single is highly overrated. And experience only tells you what's lacking and makes you into unappreciative whiner. If it's good it's good, and if you're feeling that you don't have enough freedom in a relationship talk about it ( unless that freedom involves ******* others, then just end it straight up, she's worth better ). Ending a good thing cause of this is just about the dumbest thing you can do... couple of months of freedom don't compare to a lifetime of happiness!!!
Admai Sket	Posted - 2006.11.22 11:54:00 - [36] This is really quite a strange anomanomaly. So far, the majority of every 'group' i've asked advice for on this, have said that I am doing the right thing. But almost everyone here has said I'm a fool. --------- NEED A SIG PLEASE.
Buzzmong Gallente Raptus Regaliter Pride - Honor - Duty	Posted - 2006.11.22 12:31:00 - [37] Originally by: Admai Sket This is really quite a strange anomanomaly. So far, the majority of every 'group' i've asked advice for on this, have said that I am doing the right thing. But almost everyone here has said I'm a fool. We care. That, and the general age consensus of eve is all over the shop, but generally not dropping down too low into the double digits, so most people have...err..alot...of experience, decades of it. Or as some of the posts were in dt, I'd say everyone has time to actually think about a response while waiting for their fix. --------------------------------- Member of Raptus Regaliter
Admai Sket	Posted - 2006.11.22 12:44:00 - [38] So it's nothing to do with the player base thinking mainly about teh short-term sex life life issues that not-having-a-gf entails? :P --------- NEED A SIG PLEASE.
Digitalfox Central Defiance Ushra'Khan	Posted - 2006.11.22 13:27:00 - [39] Edited by: Digitalfox on 22/11/2006 13:48:58 Never ever build a relationship around sex, as fun and awsome as sex is, it will only take a relationship so far. It todays world sex is easy to get. It has nothing to do with it. Sex can do alot to strengthen a relationship but it can do alot to destroy one also. Try to keep sex from being a deciding factor, though yes it will be a factor, it should never be the deciding factor. Sex will fade, as you get older you will have less and less of it. Until your popping Viagra to keep it up. Build a relationship somthing that will not fade but will grow stronger as you the two of you grow older. So the day your not having sex you can still enjoy your life with the person your with. Finding someone you enjoy being around and that makes you truely happy is a very hard thing. Do not take it for granted because you feel like you might be getting jyped when it come to the bed room. Sex is easy to come by but a strong relationship based on love is rare indeed. Again I leave you with a movie quote, because some one always said is better, this time from high fidelity, "I can see now that I never really commited to laura. I always had one foot out the door waiting for something better, and thats suicide man, by little bits" -------------------------------------------------------------------- Central Defiance is always recruiting, check out or movie DEFY

Jiekon	Posted - 2006.11.22 14:21:00 - [40] Originally by: Digitalfox Edited by: Digitalfox on 22/11/2006 13:48:58 Never ever build a relationship around sex, as fun and awsome as sex is, it will only take a relationship so far. It todays world sex is easy to get. It has nothing to do with it. Sex can do alot to strengthen a relationship but it can do alot to destroy one also. Try to keep sex from being a deciding factor, though yes it will be a factor, it should never be the deciding factor. Sex will fade, as you get older you will have less and less of it. Until your popping Viagra to keep it up. Build a relationship somthing that will not fade but will grow stronger as you the two of you grow older. So the day your not having sex you can still enjoy your life with the person your with. Finding someone you enjoy being around and that makes you truely happy is a very hard thing. Do not take it for granted because you feel like you might be getting jyped when it come to the bed room. Sex is easy to come by but a strong relationship based on love is rare indeed. Again I leave you with a movie quote, because some one always said is better, this time from high fidelity, "I can see now that I never really commited to laura. I always had one foot out the door waiting for something better, and thats suicide man, by little bits" Quoted for truth. Imho (and from someone who's been on the receiving end of what you did ), it's not worth losing a soulmate for just so you can spread some lovin. ___________________________ ~Jiekon Known Issues Bug Reporting ███████████████ ███████████████ ███████████████ ███████████████ ███████████████


Ethidium Bromide ZEALOT WARRIORS AGAINST TERRORISTS Curatores Veritatis Alliance	Posted - 2006.11.22 14:40:00 - [41] Originally by: Digitalfox Again I leave you with a movie quote, because some one always said is better, this time from high fidelity, "I can see now that I never really commited to laura. I always had one foot out the door waiting for something better, and thats suicide man, by little bits" exactly what happened to me, and the worst thing is that after it's over you realize you had the best you can get allready but lost it Originally by: George Petsch Nochricht: Dei schwarer StroinlSser trifftn Karli[Baatzis] und ruiniert erm so richtig de Dosn, 1343.7 schhodn, oida. My sig is blue not pink although i can't argue with the slave part - Xorus wth whats this blue stuff all of a sudden? Did I miss a mail? -eris Bwahahahaha!11 Immy was here
Lanfear's Bane Shih Yang Tong Pirate Coalition	Posted - 2006.11.22 14:43:00 - [42] Well screw all this touchy feely crap, I am shallow and STILL WANT PICS. Lanfear's Bane. _ _ _
dennyreborn	Posted - 2006.11.22 15:25:00 - [43] Originally by: Admai Sket This is really quite a strange anomanomaly. So far, the majority of every 'group' i've asked advice for on this, have said that I am doing the right thing. But almost everyone here has said I'm a fool. Everyone WHO loves is a fool.
Laythun Cutting Edge Incorporated RAZOR Alliance	Posted - 2006.11.22 15:41:00 - [44] failing all this wonderful advice...u can lead a double life for a while, but you'll soon realis that 'experiencing' the world means nothing, its just sex, and dude u can train your GF to do ANYTHING in bed, cos she loves u. Seriously im living it now, and so regretting it, its not even funny, u 'may' have a fun single life but i think u should see this chick out until u either hate each other or u get married and have kids. ALWAYS see a relationship through to the end, it may turn out better than u thought. oh yeah, i KNOW, ive 'been' around for a bit, and random chicks get so boring.seriously. Undercover Brothers It's great being Amarr, aint it?Ö
Laythun Cutting Edge Incorporated RAZOR Alliance	Posted - 2006.11.22 15:42:00 - [45] Originally by: Scoundrelus Originally by: Trioxis Originally by: Scoundrelus I really hope your not asking for GF advice from a bunch of EVE players... Hey! I've got a gf for nearly 2 weeks now! I watched the fanfest video and saw the fanfest pictures. I stand by my statement. You couldnt have seen me...im so **** sexy its not funny Undercover Brothers It's great being Amarr, aint it?Ö
Admai Sket	Posted - 2006.11.23 00:08:00 - [46] Ok - pictures to come. lol. I fear that I will just get flamed for being a moron and leaving her though... --------- NEED A SIG PLEASE.
Admai Sket	Posted - 2006.11.23 00:24:00 - [47] I am not at my own computer, so I can't upload any decent pictures, but from where I am, I have been able to find a picture of her in a fast food place in my home town. 'tis her. --------- NEED A SIG PLEASE.
Safaomae Amarr Viziam	Posted - 2006.11.23 01:12:00 - [48] Edited by: Safaomae on 23/11/2006 01:18:34 Edited by: Safaomae on 23/11/2006 01:16:23 Originally by: Admai Sket Ok - pictures to come. lol. looks at picture Originally by: Admai Sket I fear that I will just get flamed for being a moron and leaving her though... QFT ... I'll have her if you dont want her I've just been through something very similar actually, the (only) girl I've ever been with and I just broke up after 4+ years. but not because one of us wanted to go and play, but it still hurts, especially when neither of you are sure whether or not breaking up is the right thing to do or not. unfortunately despite us both loving each other lots, other things started to deteriorate, perhaps beyond repair. and it's being dragged out it seems, and it hurts but I guess there has to be a first time for everything.
Kharakan Amarr GREY COUNCIL Breidablik	Posted - 2006.11.23 07:17:00 - [49] Originally by: Admai Sket I am not at my own computer, so I can't upload any decent pictures, but from where I am, I have been able to find a picture of her in a fast food place in my home town. 'tis her. Together! With! Get Back! Now! Afore I find you and steal her myself. Originally by: Joshua Foiritain (to Dark Shikari) HAHAHA I KNOW YOUR ACCOUUNT NAME TIME TO DIE this signature space is claimed in the name of eris, haha I got to him first. neeneer
space emperor Amarr Stallion Enterprise	Posted - 2006.11.23 08:30:00 - [50] Originally by: Scoundrelus I really hope your not asking for GF advice from a bunch of EVE players... I would say, EVE m8s are just the same as RL friends and people you have met. Att least most of them tho . You spend almost more time in EVE than you do in RL loads of times. Or just equal time. And if you compare 1 video from an eve gathering, where the ultimate eve lovers meet, well. if you have 100 000 subscriders on the game, and 700 meet upp, you have wery little eyevision on the real world. Back to the point, The chances to meet someone in life wich you get married to and have kids and live happily ever after, is wery small. So if you allready now have met someone who shares your view and future . Your making a mistake. Quote: The grass is never greener on the other side. My 2 cents. Regards. Space Emperor. Boost the raven, stop nerfing it. Boost drone and missiles

Special Eddy Deep Core Mining Inc.	Posted - 2006.11.23 09:04:00 - [51] Hmmm to be honest, from my perspective your making a very big mistake. If you believe shes the one then you should be with her. Also you mentioned getting back together after a few mnoths... Are you really going to be happy going back after shes been with a few other guys?, will she be happy after you have done the same. As somebody who has been out with the same person twice in 2 long term relationships i honestly believe that it truly does not work. Either choose to be with her now, or not at all. There are no half measures. And as somebody posted b4 (the great truth), its always worth seeing something through to the end, weather you end up hating/resenting/marrying/cheating on her.... at least it ended & there will be no doubts.... Thats my opinion anywho... But if you want to take advice from somebody called special eddy then on your head be it ;)
Admai Sket	Posted - 2006.11.23 12:00:00 - [52] Edited by: Admai Sket on 23/11/2006 12:22:40 Originally by: The Eve-Online Forum-Goers I'll have her if you dont want her Get back! Get back! Back away from the (ex)gf! I actually thought that when I read all the responses. So I must still feel attached in some way...... Lanfear's, this just for you: Linkage1 Linkage2 Linkage3 WARNING: LINKAGE 4 CONTAINS NUDITY --------- NEED A SIG PLEASE.
Steven Gerrard	Posted - 2006.11.23 12:26:00 - [53] Ignore all previous advice and sleep with hookers
Admai Sket	Posted - 2006.11.23 12:28:00 - [54] Originally by: Steven Gerrard Ignore all previous advice and sleep with hookers lol. seriously? i know thats a bit tongue-in-cheek, but seriously? Should I go to Amsterdam for a long weekend? hehe --------- NEED A SIG PLEASE.
Nova Z Agony Unleashed	Posted - 2006.11.23 12:29:00 - [55] If she's definitely your soul mate then get back with her - she's not worth losing just so you can go play around. When I started uni I had the option to split up with my guy - 1 degree, 1 Masters and 6 years later, I'm happy I made the right choice. :) .
Invader Skooge Minmatar Minmatar Dope Heads	Posted - 2006.11.23 12:34:00 - [56] i shall offer u 50million isk for her..hehe but seriously dude...follow ur heart..unless its running off a high cliff or building top _______________________________________________ -Behind This Mask There Is More Than Flesh, Behind This Mask Is An Idea Mr. Creedy...And Ideas Are Bulletproof-
Admai Sket	Posted - 2006.11.23 13:00:00 - [57] Originally by: Invader Skooge 50million isk Actually.... starts bidding at 1Bill --------- NEED A SIG PLEASE.
Xurx Minmatar Flemish Industries	Posted - 2006.11.23 13:25:00 - [58] You an idiot, and not worthy of such a girlfriend, especially after putting her pics on the internet....
Admai Sket	Posted - 2006.11.23 13:27:00 - [59] Originally by: Xurx You an idiot, and not worthy of such a girlfriend, especially after putting her pics on the internet.... ***** flamers. BACK UP YOUR STORY OF OFF! ***** flamers. I don't know if you've noticed- but there are billions of photos of billions of people all over the world, viewed billions of times every day. 4 pictures of my (ex)gf won't hurt. --------- NEED A SIG PLEASE.
Sakura Nihil Tabula Rasa Systems The Star Fraction	Posted - 2006.11.23 13:34:00 - [60] Edited by: Sakura Nihil on 23/11/2006 13:34:53 I paraphrase the Ladies' Man on this one: "Think with your heart, not with your wang, baby." Stay with her, besides, one can always get better at sex. Its like a sport, that being said, can you get better at really loving her? Originally by: Xurx You an idiot, and not worthy of such a girlfriend, especially after putting her pics on the internet.... Oh, quiet you.



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