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Admai Sket
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Posted - 2006.11.16 01:07:00 -
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First GF, and I broke up with her today.
I wanna be old and married and taxed to death with her one day, but I can't settle down. I'm only 20, and I need to be on my own for some time, as a young and single bloke before I leave uni at the end of this academic year. So, with great regret, I've asked her to have a semi-permanant split with me, while I 'find myself' or whatever.
It's a bit upsetting, but I think I'll be ok. She won't for a few weeks though :S
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Taaketa Frist
The Praxis Initiative Interstellar Starbase Syndicate
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Posted - 2006.11.16 01:25:00 -
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It was just never ment to be... Eve is your real mistress... and what a cruel one she is.... --------------
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Dee Ellis
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Posted - 2006.11.16 01:49:00 -
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People are people..
Although gold dust is precious, when it gets in your eyes, it obstructs your vision.
It is better to travel well than to arrive.
If you love someone set her free...
You can explore the universe looking for somebody who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, and you will not find that person anywhere.
And so forth, I dunno..
Find yourself, make yourself into what you need, if she's still what you want, heck why not. Just don't be afraid to change. Sig removed does not contain your name, email [email protected] if you have any questions - Xorus |

Jin Jemai
Caldari Nightgliders
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Posted - 2006.11.16 02:47:00 -
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Go out, get some bum, and you'll feel a whole lot better =D ----- Im in ur Chicago wearing dresses at night. |

Dee Ellis
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Posted - 2006.11.16 15:13:00 -
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Originally by: Jin Jemai Go out, get some bum, and you'll feel a whole lot better =D
you sig makes so much sense now Sig removed does not contain your name, email [email protected] if you have any questions - Xorus |

Lanfear's Bane
Shih Yang Tong Pirate Coalition
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Posted - 2006.11.16 15:23:00 -
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This thread needs pics.
Lanfear's Bane. _ _ _
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slothe
Caldari Forsaken Empire
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Posted - 2006.11.16 15:47:00 -
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how many times id wanted to stay in and polay eve rather than go out with g/f.
you dont need her  
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Agent Li
Galactic Defence Consortium
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Posted - 2006.11.16 15:59:00 -
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Originally by: Lanfear's Bane This thread needs pics.
Lanfear's Bane.
Indeed. I'm getting tired of "I broke up" threads that don't have the link to the youtube video of the gf acting hot.
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Treher
Minmatar Locust Syndicate Interstellar Alcohol Conglomerate
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Posted - 2006.11.16 16:39:00 -
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You'll be sleeping with her by tomorrow. I predict a 6 month breakup where you regret it in 7 months after she has hooked up with twice as many people as you and/or has met a new guy that goes at her like a rabbit. ______________________________________________________ I forget which station container has my memory implants. |

Alowishus
Shadow Company Alektorophobia
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Posted - 2006.11.16 16:46:00 -
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Yes, these things always seem like a good idea until she is dating someone else seriously in a month and all you've done is go on some semi-horrible first dates. The moderators here are excellent at policing signatures. |
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Peter Armstrong
Caldari 5punkorp Interstellar Starbase Syndicate
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Posted - 2006.11.16 16:58:00 -
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Originally by: Dee Ellis People are people..
Although gold dust is precious, when it gets in your eyes, it obstructs your vision.
It is better to travel well than to arrive.
If you love someone set her free...
You can explore the universe looking for somebody who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, and you will not find that person anywhere.
And so forth, I dunno..
Find yourself, make yourself into what you need, if she's still what you want, heck why not. Just don't be afraid to change.
nice words there m8! To OP sadly its called life. It be hard but best thing is to go out hang out with ur m8 and have fun!
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Araxmas
Caldari Imperial Space Corporation
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Posted - 2006.11.16 18:17:00 -
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Originally by: Peter Armstrong
Originally by: Dee Ellis People are people..
Although gold dust is precious, when it gets in your eyes, it obstructs your vision.
It is better to travel well than to arrive.
If you love someone set her free...
You can explore the universe looking for somebody who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, and you will not find that person anywhere.
And so forth, I dunno..
Find yourself, make yourself into what you need, if she's still what you want, heck why not. Just don't be afraid to change.
nice words there m8! To OP sadly its called life. It be hard but best thing is to go out hang out with ur m8 and have fun!
Replace mate with ú20 an hour hooker. --------
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Deathhawk
Quam Singulari Lotka Volterra
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Posted - 2006.11.16 19:27:00 -
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theres only 2 things you need now and thats BEER and SEX WITH FAT BIRDS 
you ll be the happiest bloke in the world with both of those I ROCK - DH
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Peter Armstrong
Caldari 5punkorp Interstellar Starbase Syndicate
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Posted - 2006.11.16 19:29:00 -
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Originally by: Deathhawk theres only 2 things you need now and thats BEER and SEX WITH FAT BIRDS 
you ll be the happiest bloke in the world with both of those
WOW dont forget EVE as well 
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Deathhawk
Quam Singulari Lotka Volterra
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Posted - 2006.11.16 19:31:00 -
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Originally by: Peter Armstrong
Originally by: Deathhawk theres only 2 things you need now and thats BEER and SEX WITH FAT BIRDS 
you ll be the happiest bloke in the world with both of those
WOW dont forget EVE as well 
i dont think youll be able to see much with the bird on top I ROCK - DH
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Admai Sket
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Posted - 2006.11.18 14:59:00 -
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Not meaning to bring up an old thread, but I've been afk for a few days.
Thanks for all your inputs, believe it or not, they help.
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Subaru Yakamitsukamosuki
Caldari
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Posted - 2006.11.18 15:11:00 -
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Originally by: Admai Sket She won't for a few weeks though :S
I doubt it. She'll be straight out on the lash and will jump on the first pole she can get.
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dennyreborn
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Posted - 2006.11.18 15:47:00 -
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go to Holland get high/drunk and get a hooker. to be honest i question your friends for not already doing this. to be honest when my gf of 2 year broke up with me my friends kidnapped me to the land of pot and prostitutes post haste.
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Laythun
Cutting Edge Incorporated RAZOR Alliance
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Posted - 2006.11.18 16:42:00 -
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dude lets be real.
U shoulda just stayed with her, i done the exact same thing 5months ago, and im still regretting it.
Undercover Brothers It's great being Amarr, aint it?Ö |

Annya Avishnaya
Quantum Industries Prime Orbital Systems
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Posted - 2006.11.18 18:50:00 -
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Originally by: Laythun dude lets be real.
U shoulda just stayed with her, i done the exact same thing 5months ago, and im still regretting it.
qft
If you love her then get back with her before it's too late. IMO of course.
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Admai Sket
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Posted - 2006.11.18 18:55:00 -
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Originally by: Annya Avishnaya
Originally by: Laythun dude lets be real.
U shoulda just stayed with her, i done the exact same thing 5months ago, and im still regretting it.
qft
If you love her then get back with her before it's too late. IMO of course.
I know what you're saying. But this unknown 'world' to me is tearing me apart. I dont wanna get to 30 and cheat on her then. I'd rather take a break now, get it over with.
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Trioxis
Caldari Mining Bytes Inc.
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Posted - 2006.11.18 19:01:00 -
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Originally by: Admai Sket
Originally by: Annya Avishnaya
Originally by: Laythun dude lets be real.
U shoulda just stayed with her, i done the exact same thing 5months ago, and im still regretting it.
qft
If you love her then get back with her before it's too late. IMO of course.
I know what you're saying. But this unknown 'world' to me is tearing me apart. I dont wanna get to 30 and cheat on her then. I'd rather take a break now, get it over with.
If you really love her, you would never cheat on her. Really, just get back together with her. You're going to regret it. The thing is, once you leave her, there's a big chance you will never get her back. Me personally would never take such a risk, I just love my GF to much for that.
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Scoundrelus
Finite Horizon The Red Skull
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Posted - 2006.11.18 19:33:00 -
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I really hope your not asking for GF advice from a bunch of EVE players... =============================================== And Scoundrelus walked the Forums once again, and all was turned to flame... |

Trioxis
Caldari Mining Bytes Inc.
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Posted - 2006.11.18 19:37:00 -
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Originally by: Scoundrelus I really hope your not asking for GF advice from a bunch of EVE players...
Hey! I've got a gf for nearly 2 weeks now! 
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Scoundrelus
Finite Horizon The Red Skull
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Posted - 2006.11.18 19:57:00 -
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Originally by: Trioxis
Originally by: Scoundrelus I really hope your not asking for GF advice from a bunch of EVE players...
Hey! I've got a gf for nearly 2 weeks now! 
I watched the fanfest video and saw the fanfest pictures. I stand by my statement. =============================================== And Scoundrelus walked the Forums once again, and all was turned to flame... |

Lithalnas
Amarr Hadean Drive Yards
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Posted - 2006.11.18 21:46:00 -
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v7D6yilMBQs
Comedians make it all better, fast forward to 2:00 and you get to the relevant part. ------------- Cadet Lithalnas - Logistics Division - Hadean Drive Yards
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Roxanna Kell
BURN EDEN
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Posted - 2006.11.18 22:02:00 -
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you are going to hell, Why people make Relationships such a big deal. OH i need time for my self Oh i need soem space oh iam not ready for this.
Hell, its simple, your GF, is a Friend, treat her like one, see her when you see her, and stop being so stereotype.
Well have fun Breathing heavy air for the next 6 months or so. you may thing poets and writers were jsut making s**t up, but its true, thats how it feels.
Quote: "Don't touch the RED butt
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oodin
Euphoria Released Euphoria Unleashed
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Posted - 2006.11.21 00:20:00 -
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Originally by: Scoundrelus
Originally by: Trioxis
Originally by: Scoundrelus I really hope your not asking for GF advice from a bunch of EVE players...
Hey! I've got a gf for nearly 2 weeks now! 
I watched the fanfest video and saw the fanfest pictures. I stand by my statement.

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dennyreborn
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Posted - 2006.11.21 01:08:00 -
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look dude. im guessing you haven't been with someone else. You rich the point where you wonder shoot do i want to have only been with one girl or not. you want to experience other people then go experience it BUT realize that she most likely will not be there when your done. women are not things they don't sit and wait in the closet why you go do your own thing. so if it is worth it then stay broken up... if the idea that you wont date her again would drive you crazy then get back with her.
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Shin Ra
BURN EDEN
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Posted - 2006.11.21 02:20:00 -
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<words of wisdom>
Look I am experienced enough to give others advice 
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pushdogg
Minmatar The BlackSail Corp
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Posted - 2006.11.21 05:23:00 -
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Edited by: pushdogg on 21/11/2006 05:24:21 look, this is so easy, the same thing happened to me about 5 months ago(only i had been with her much longer than that), you just go out and have FUN, something im sure you havent had in some time, go call your firends that you havent talked to in months and just go out, and have a great time ie.booze at the bar, strip club, and a hearty house party....this will break you of everything you have been trained to do by your ex, this worked for me and im fine now......and still single, which im not sure how thats workin out, just make sure are sober enough to rememeber the girls' names
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Admai Sket
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Posted - 2006.11.22 00:14:00 -
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Originally by: dennyreborn look dude. im guessing you haven't been with someone else.
Correct.
Originally by: dennyreborn you want to experience other people then go experience it BUT realize that she most likely will not be there when your done. women are not things they don't sit and wait in the closet why you go do your own thing.
I understand and accept all of this part.
Originally by: dennyreborn if the idea that you wont date her again would drive you crazy then get back with her.
I do want to be with her - I'm 99.9999999999% sure she's 'the one', but i don't want to get old only having been with one person. I've also been with her for the majority of my 'social life' (aged just under 18 until now, 3years later). In my last year of uni now, so this is my last chance to be a young person who is also 'free'. I have to be myself and be myself on my own for a few months. I can't reach 30 having not done that.
Thanks for your support guys - nice lot of replies.
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Digitalfox
Central Defiance Ushra'Khan
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Posted - 2006.11.22 01:38:00 -
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Quote: I do want to be with her - I'm 99.9999999999% sure she's 'the one', but i don't want to get old only having been with one person. I've also been with her for the majority of my 'social life' (aged just under 18 until now, 3years later). In my last year of uni now, so this is my last chance to be a young person who is also 'free'. I have to be myself and be myself on my own for a few months. I can't reach 30 having not done that.
If your that sure, then leaving her was the worst thing you could do. You should take her back and quick before its to late.
If you dont feel your are "free" with her then she is not the one. And if you want my advice get married but dont have kids yet. Save that till your 30. Spend time with her and you. Tour the world and build some memories. When you have kids then your not free.
I came very close to losing the person I care about over this last week. There are a million songs and storys out there that will tell you how it feels when you realise just how dumb it is to leave one you love.
I leave you with a fine quote from "clerks"
"There's a million fine chicks out there. But the wont all bring you lasagna, most of em just cheat on you."
Dont lose a great thing. -------------------------------------------------------------------- Central Defiance is always recruiting, check out or movie DEFY |

Lanfear's Bane
Shih Yang Tong Pirate Coalition
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Posted - 2006.11.22 10:24:00 -
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Yeah well, I am still waiting on the pics.
Lanfear's Bane. _ _ _
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Gariuys
Evil Strangers Inc.
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Posted - 2006.11.22 11:32:00 -
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Pics good...
And I really think you're a fool. Being a free young single is highly overrated. And experience only tells you what's lacking and makes you into unappreciative whiner.
If it's good it's good, and if you're feeling that you don't have enough freedom in a relationship talk about it ( unless that freedom involves ******* others, then just end it straight up, she's worth better ).
Ending a good thing cause of this is just about the dumbest thing you can do... couple of months of freedom don't compare to a lifetime of happiness!!!
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Admai Sket
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Posted - 2006.11.22 11:54:00 -
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This is really quite a strange anomanomaly.
So far, the majority of every 'group' i've asked advice for on this, have said that I am doing the right thing.
But almost everyone here has said I'm a fool.
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Buzzmong
Gallente Raptus Regaliter Pride - Honor - Duty
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Posted - 2006.11.22 12:31:00 -
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Originally by: Admai Sket This is really quite a strange anomanomaly.
So far, the majority of every 'group' i've asked advice for on this, have said that I am doing the right thing.
But almost everyone here has said I'm a fool.
We care.
That, and the general age consensus of eve is all over the shop, but generally not dropping down too low into the double digits, so most people have...err..alot...of experience, decades of it.
Or as some of the posts were in dt, I'd say everyone has time to actually think about a response while waiting for their fix.
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Admai Sket
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Posted - 2006.11.22 12:44:00 -
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So it's nothing to do with the player base thinking mainly about teh short-term sex life life issues that not-having-a-gf entails?
:P
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Digitalfox
Central Defiance Ushra'Khan
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Posted - 2006.11.22 13:27:00 -
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Edited by: Digitalfox on 22/11/2006 13:48:58 Never ever build a relationship around sex, as fun and awsome as sex is, it will only take a relationship so far. It todays world sex is easy to get. It has nothing to do with it. Sex can do alot to strengthen a relationship but it can do alot to destroy one also.
Try to keep sex from being a deciding factor, though yes it will be a factor, it should never be the deciding factor. Sex will fade, as you get older you will have less and less of it. Until your popping Viagra to keep it up. Build a relationship somthing that will not fade but will grow stronger as you the two of you grow older. So the day your not having sex you can still enjoy your life with the person your with.
Finding someone you enjoy being around and that makes you truely happy is a very hard thing. Do not take it for granted because you feel like you might be getting jyped when it come to the bed room. Sex is easy to come by but a strong relationship based on love is rare indeed.
Again I leave you with a movie quote, because some one always said is better, this time from high fidelity,
"I can see now that I never really commited to laura. I always had one foot out the door waiting for something better, and thats suicide man, by little bits" -------------------------------------------------------------------- Central Defiance is always recruiting, check out or movie DEFY |
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Jiekon

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Posted - 2006.11.22 14:21:00 -
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Originally by: Digitalfox Edited by: Digitalfox on 22/11/2006 13:48:58 Never ever build a relationship around sex, as fun and awsome as sex is, it will only take a relationship so far. It todays world sex is easy to get. It has nothing to do with it. Sex can do alot to strengthen a relationship but it can do alot to destroy one also.
Try to keep sex from being a deciding factor, though yes it will be a factor, it should never be the deciding factor. Sex will fade, as you get older you will have less and less of it. Until your popping Viagra to keep it up. Build a relationship somthing that will not fade but will grow stronger as you the two of you grow older. So the day your not having sex you can still enjoy your life with the person your with.
Finding someone you enjoy being around and that makes you truely happy is a very hard thing. Do not take it for granted because you feel like you might be getting jyped when it come to the bed room. Sex is easy to come by but a strong relationship based on love is rare indeed.
Again I leave you with a movie quote, because some one always said is better, this time from high fidelity,
"I can see now that I never really commited to laura. I always had one foot out the door waiting for something better, and thats suicide man, by little bits"
Quoted for truth.
Imho (and from someone who's been on the receiving end of what you did ), it's not worth losing a soulmate for just so you can spread some lovin. ___________________________ ~Jiekon
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Ethidium Bromide
ZEALOT WARRIORS AGAINST TERRORISTS Curatores Veritatis Alliance
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Posted - 2006.11.22 14:40:00 -
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Originally by: Digitalfox
Again I leave you with a movie quote, because some one always said is better, this time from high fidelity,
"I can see now that I never really commited to laura. I always had one foot out the door waiting for something better, and thats suicide man, by little bits"
exactly what happened to me, and the worst thing is that after it's over you realize you had the best you can get allready but lost it
Originally by: George Petsch Nochricht: Dei schwarer StroinlSser trifftn Karli[Baatzis] und ruiniert erm so richtig de Dosn, 1343.7 schhodn, oida.
My sig is blue not pink although i can't argue with the slave part - Xorus wth whats this blue stuff all of a sudden? Did I miss a mail? -eris Bwahahahaha!11 Immy was here
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Lanfear's Bane
Shih Yang Tong Pirate Coalition
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Posted - 2006.11.22 14:43:00 -
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Well screw all this touchy feely crap, I am shallow and STILL WANT PICS.

Lanfear's Bane. _ _ _
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dennyreborn
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Posted - 2006.11.22 15:25:00 -
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Originally by: Admai Sket This is really quite a strange anomanomaly.
So far, the majority of every 'group' i've asked advice for on this, have said that I am doing the right thing.
But almost everyone here has said I'm a fool.
Everyone WHO loves is a fool.
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Laythun
Cutting Edge Incorporated RAZOR Alliance
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Posted - 2006.11.22 15:41:00 -
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failing all this wonderful advice...u can lead a double life for a while, but you'll soon realis that 'experiencing' the world means nothing, its just sex, and dude u can train your GF to do ANYTHING in bed, cos she loves u.
Seriously im living it now, and so regretting it, its not even funny, u 'may' have a fun single life but i think u should see this chick out until u either hate each other or u get married and have kids.
ALWAYS see a relationship through to the end, it may turn out better than u thought.
oh yeah, i KNOW, ive 'been' around for a bit, and random chicks get so boring.seriously.
Undercover Brothers It's great being Amarr, aint it?Ö |

Laythun
Cutting Edge Incorporated RAZOR Alliance
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Posted - 2006.11.22 15:42:00 -
[45]
Originally by: Scoundrelus
Originally by: Trioxis
Originally by: Scoundrelus I really hope your not asking for GF advice from a bunch of EVE players...
Hey! I've got a gf for nearly 2 weeks now! 
I watched the fanfest video and saw the fanfest pictures. I stand by my statement.
You couldnt have seen me...im so **** sexy its not funny
Undercover Brothers It's great being Amarr, aint it?Ö |

Admai Sket
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Posted - 2006.11.23 00:08:00 -
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Ok - pictures to come. lol.
I fear that I will just get flamed for being a moron and leaving her though...
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Admai Sket
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Posted - 2006.11.23 00:24:00 -
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I am not at my own computer, so I can't upload any decent pictures, but from where I am, I have been able to find a picture of her in a fast food place in my home town.
'tis her. --------- NEED A SIG PLEASE. |

Safaomae
Amarr Viziam
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Posted - 2006.11.23 01:12:00 -
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Edited by: Safaomae on 23/11/2006 01:18:34 Edited by: Safaomae on 23/11/2006 01:16:23
Originally by: Admai Sket Ok - pictures to come. lol.
*looks at picture*
Originally by: Admai Sket I fear that I will just get flamed for being a moron and leaving her though...
QFT 
... I'll have her if you dont want her 
I've just been through something very similar actually, the (only) girl I've ever been with and I just broke up after 4+ years. but not because one of us wanted to go and play, but it still hurts, especially when neither of you are sure whether or not breaking up is the right thing to do or not. unfortunately despite us both loving each other lots, other things started to deteriorate, perhaps beyond repair. and it's being dragged out it seems, and it hurts but I guess there has to be a first time for everything.
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Kharakan
Amarr GREY COUNCIL Breidablik
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Posted - 2006.11.23 07:17:00 -
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Originally by: Admai Sket I am not at my own computer, so I can't upload any decent pictures, but from where I am, I have been able to find a picture of her in a fast food place in my home town.
'tis her.
Together! With! Get Back! Now! Afore I find you and steal her myself.
Originally by: Joshua Foiritain (to Dark Shikari) HAHAHA I KNOW YOUR ACCOUUNT NAME TIME TO DIE
this signature space is claimed in the name of eris, haha I got to him first. neeneer
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space emperor
Amarr Stallion Enterprise
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Posted - 2006.11.23 08:30:00 -
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Originally by: Scoundrelus I really hope your not asking for GF advice from a bunch of EVE players...
I would say, EVE m8s are just the same as RL friends and people you have met. Att least most of them tho .
You spend almost more time in EVE than you do in RL loads of times. Or just equal time.
And if you compare 1 video from an eve gathering, where the ultimate eve lovers meet, well. if you have 100 000 subscriders on the game, and 700 meet upp, you have wery little eyevision on the real world.
Back to the point, The chances to meet someone in life wich you get married to and have kids and live happily ever after, is wery small. So if you allready now have met someone who shares your view and future . Your making a mistake.
Quote: The grass is never greener on the other side. My 2 cents.
Regards. Space Emperor.
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Special Eddy
Deep Core Mining Inc.
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Posted - 2006.11.23 09:04:00 -
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Hmmm to be honest, from my perspective your making a very big mistake.
If you believe shes the one then you should be with her.
Also you mentioned getting back together after a few mnoths... Are you really going to be happy going back after shes been with a few other guys?, will she be happy after you have done the same.
As somebody who has been out with the same person twice in 2 long term relationships i honestly believe that it truly does not work.
Either choose to be with her now, or not at all. There are no half measures.
And as somebody posted b4 (the great truth), its always worth seeing something through to the end, weather you end up hating/resenting/marrying/cheating on her.... at least it ended & there will be no doubts....
Thats my opinion anywho...
But if you want to take advice from somebody called special eddy then on your head be it ;)
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Admai Sket
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Posted - 2006.11.23 12:00:00 -
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Edited by: Admai Sket on 23/11/2006 12:22:40
Originally by: The Eve-Online Forum-Goers I'll have her if you dont want her
Get back! Get back! Back away from the (ex)gf!
I actually thought that when I read all the responses. So I must still feel attached in some way......
Lanfear's, this just for you: 
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Steven Gerrard
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Posted - 2006.11.23 12:26:00 -
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Admai Sket
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Posted - 2006.11.23 12:28:00 -
[54]
Originally by: Steven Gerrard Ignore all previous advice and sleep with hookers
lol. seriously? i know thats a bit tongue-in-cheek, but seriously? Should I go to Amsterdam for a long weekend? hehe
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Nova Z
Agony Unleashed
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Posted - 2006.11.23 12:29:00 -
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If she's definitely your soul mate then get back with her - she's not worth losing just so you can go play around. When I started uni I had the option to split up with my guy - 1 degree, 1 Masters and 6 years later, I'm happy I made the right choice. :) .
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Invader Skooge
Minmatar Minmatar Dope Heads
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Posted - 2006.11.23 12:34:00 -
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i shall offer u 50million isk for her..hehe but seriously dude...follow ur heart..unless its running off a high cliff or building top _______________________________________________ -Behind This Mask There Is More Than Flesh, Behind This Mask Is An Idea Mr. Creedy...And Ideas Are Bulletproof- |

Admai Sket
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Posted - 2006.11.23 13:00:00 -
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Originally by: Invader Skooge 50million isk
Actually....
*starts bidding at 1Bill*
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Xurx
Minmatar Flemish Industries
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Posted - 2006.11.23 13:25:00 -
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You an idiot, and not worthy of such a girlfriend, especially after putting her pics on the internet.... 
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Admai Sket
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Posted - 2006.11.23 13:27:00 -
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Originally by: Xurx You an idiot, and not worthy of such a girlfriend, especially after putting her pics on the internet.... 
******* flamers.
BACK UP YOUR STORY OF **** OFF!
******* flamers.
I don't know if you've noticed- but there are billions of photos of billions of people all over the world, viewed billions of times every day. 4 pictures of my (ex)gf won't hurt.
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Sakura Nihil
Tabula Rasa Systems The Star Fraction
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Posted - 2006.11.23 13:34:00 -
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Edited by: Sakura Nihil on 23/11/2006 13:34:53 I paraphrase the Ladies' Man on this one:
"Think with your heart, not with your wang, baby."
Stay with her, besides, one can always get better at sex. Its like a sport, that being said, can you get better at really loving her?
Originally by: Xurx You an idiot, and not worthy of such a girlfriend, especially after putting her pics on the internet.... 
Oh, quiet you.
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Smagd
Encina Technologies Namtz'aar k'in
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Posted - 2006.11.23 13:58:00 -
[61]
Originally by: Ethidium Bromide
Originally by: Digitalfox
Again I leave you with a movie quote, because some one always said is better, this time from high fidelity,
"I can see now that I never really commited to laura. I always had one foot out the door waiting for something better, and thats suicide man, by little bits"
exactly what happened to me, and the worst thing is that after it's over you realize you had the best you can get allready but lost it
Here's a stiff drink, old man. Here's to hoping she'll do what Laura did, and which I won't. Smagd downs his glass, all of it. --
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Trioxis
Caldari Mining Bytes Inc.
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Posted - 2006.11.23 14:00:00 -
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Really, get back to her.. you're a mad man letting a girl like that go...
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Admai Sket
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Posted - 2006.11.23 14:31:00 -
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Originally by: Trioxis Really, get back to her.. you're a mad man letting a girl like that go...
Like what? See - you're all thinking with your little brains, not the big ones.
I've spoken on many a forum about my problem, and general consensus is that I should do what I need to do, and then settle down, otherwise I will always be wondering, and never able to settle.
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Diamos Kunos
Minmatar Zaros Industry Inc.
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Posted - 2006.11.23 15:20:00 -
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Although I agree with you on getting out there, you are still wasting a perfectly good relationship. I see no valid reason to leave her. Believe me, life as a single man (been single for over 5 years) doesn't cut it. It all sounds like the best time of your life (which it is, for the first few months) but you'll only get disappointed.
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Nelix Trist
Caldari Nostromo Industries
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Posted - 2006.11.23 15:35:00 -
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Originally by: Diamos Kunos Although I agree with you on getting out there, you are still wasting a perfectly good relationship. I see no valid reason to leave her. Believe me, life as a single man (been single for over 5 years) doesn't cut it. It all sounds like the best time of your life (which it is, for the first few months) but you'll only get disappointed.
QTF!!11 - Talking about being single for a long time... It really does screw with your emotions when you find someone who shows affection back, and then dumps ya .... That hurts. Emm?"Cant touch this" den der der dum, der dum der dum KILLING THE BUG'S, BEFORE THEY KILL YOU Un-nerfing you sig is bad mmmmkay - Xorus RAWRRR!111 - Immy-Poos
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Jebidus Skari
Amarr Rampage Eternal Ka-Tet
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Posted - 2006.11.23 15:40:00 -
[66]
fap
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Kazim
The Collective Against ALL Authorities
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Posted - 2006.11.23 16:23:00 -
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You know OP, sorry for your girl trouble and all that...
But you just shared some provocative pics of your ex- girlfriend with some lonely eve nerds (not all of course).
You can quote me on this, many of them have problaby slapped the monkey over them  
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Admai Sket
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Posted - 2006.11.23 17:09:00 -
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Originally by: Kazim You know OP, sorry for your girl trouble and all that...
But you just shared some provocative pics of your ex- girlfriend with some lonely eve nerds (not all of course).
You can quote me on this, many of them have problaby slapped the monkey over them  
You were included in the term 'them', weren't you? :P
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Digitalfox
Central Defiance Ushra'Khan
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Posted - 2006.11.23 17:41:00 -
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Quote: I've spoken on many a forum about my problem, and general consensus is that I should do what I need to do, and then settle down, otherwise I will always be wondering, and never able to settle.
This is foolish advice, and your startting to play the what if game. Yes if you decide to get back with her now and never experiment you could be sitting on your back poarch with the grandkids over one day, with a person you have spent many wonderful years with and look back and say "I wonder what if I had met someone else. Would I be sitting on this poarch watching the kids play enjoying the company of, this very lovley woman whom I have done very wonderful things with?"
Thats the way it could look if you go back, Conversly if you wanna keep playing the what if game you could, and I'll take worse case scenario here, be sitting in your one bedroom apartment in the dark finishing off the last of a botttle of 151 and pondering what if I had seen it though with her?
I cant express enough how hard it is to find a good woman, and I dont mean a woman who is pretty, because thats easy to find, I mean somone who reaches out to you that is everything your looking for. And to throw that away when you arnt haveing any real kind of problems is just stupid. Just remember we all sit around and play the what if game, thats life just dont forget to look at both side of the what if? Its very easy to just see the good parts of leaving.
In all seriouness you really should get her back before its to late.
I have no movie quote for you this time, but from somone who knows, dont blow this one man -------------------------------------------------------------------- Central Defiance is always recruiting, check out or movie DEFY |

Kharakan
Amarr GREY COUNCIL Breidablik
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Posted - 2006.11.23 17:57:00 -
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Originally by: Digitalfox
Quote: I've spoken on many a forum about my problem, and general consensus is that I should do what I need to do, and then settle down, otherwise I will always be wondering, and never able to settle.
This is foolish advice, and your startting to play the what if game. Yes if you decide to get back with her now and never experiment you could be sitting on your back poarch with the grandkids over one day, with a person you have spent many wonderful years with and look back and say "I wonder what if I had met someone else. Would I be sitting on this poarch watching the kids play enjoying the company of, this very lovley woman whom I have done very wonderful things with?"
Thats the way it could look if you go back, Conversly if you wanna keep playing the what if game you could, and I'll take worse case scenario here, be sitting in your one bedroom apartment in the dark finishing off the last of a botttle of 151 and pondering what if I had seen it though with her?
I cant express enough how hard it is to find a good woman, and I dont mean a woman who is pretty, because thats easy to find, I mean somone who reaches out to you that is everything your looking for. And to throw that away when you arnt haveing any real kind of problems is just stupid. Just remember we all sit around and play the what if game, thats life just dont forget to look at both side of the what if? Its very easy to just see the good parts of leaving.
In all seriouness you really should get her back before its to late.
I have no movie quote for you this time, but from somone who knows, dont blow this one man
There is nothing more to say.
Originally by: Joshua Foiritain (to Dark Shikari) HAHAHA I KNOW YOUR ACCOUUNT NAME TIME TO DIE
this signature space is claimed in the name of eris, haha I got to him first. neeneer
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DirtyHarry
Caldari Forsaken Empire
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Posted - 2006.11.23 19:45:00 -
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Posting your (ex)gf's pics on an internet gaming forum, your a real pro dude...
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corroded
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Posted - 2006.11.23 19:55:00 -
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honestly, ive never understood some guys sense of priority 
I always follow my heart in these matters, not my genitals.
Jumping through hoops just to have random sex with some strangers, no thanks
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Malicious Afterthought
Suffoco Noctis Atrocitas
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Posted - 2006.11.23 21:51:00 -
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Quote: Jumping through hoops just to have random sex with some strangers, no thanks
Flipper to the sea phone, please...
C'mon, you KNOW he traded on his celebrity.
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Laughlyn Vaughns
Gallente Lagos-Vaughn Industries
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Posted - 2006.11.24 00:01:00 -
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Edited by: Laughlyn Vaughns on 24/11/2006 00:06:05
Originally by: Admai Sket Edited by: Admai Sket on 23/11/2006 12:22:40
Originally by: The Eve-Online Forum-Goers I'll have her if you dont want her
Get back! Get back! Back away from the (ex)gf!
I actually thought that when I read all the responses. So I must still feel attached in some way......
Lanfear's, this just for you: 
Linkage1 Linkage2 Linkage3 WARNING: LINKAGE 4 CONTAINS NUDITY
will do u a swap, u can have my missus n i'll have ur's/ex swingin baby, the only way to fly lol
p.s i see a good idea of Eve-online wife swapping for isk coming up lol
edited with new linky
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Aenigma
Celestial Horizon Corp. Ascendant Frontier
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Posted - 2006.11.24 00:03:00 -
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Since you posted this, it means you are still in doubt about what the consequences of your actions are.
Let me give you one advice: Call her right now, tell her what she means to you (hey you could tell us, why not her?) and get her back.
I can't think of many reasons to break up a perfectly healthy relationship. As a matter of fact i can think of none. You say you can't settle yet because you are only 20. Who actually decides whether you can settle or not at the age of 20? Your family? Your friends? Or is it you? I think you and your girl are the only ones making that decision. If your friends say otherwise, they aren't good friends. If your family says it, you might want to talk to your mother about your feelings towards your girlfriend.
Believe me, friend, that being single is a bore. It's not even fun for long (unless ending up drunk multiple times per week, playing EvE 23/7 (without being a Dev),or working 60-80 hours a week is your definition of fun; sure as hell, that ain't my definition). Being single and looking for a girlfriend is giving a lot of love and attention and receiving little in return. It's not actually that easy to find a new person that's right for you.
If you continue the split, you really will find yourself. And no, you won't like feeling alone. There'll indeed come a time when that feeling strikes you and makes you wish you actually could turn back time.
Don't go there, you are most likely to find more regrets than satisfaction. Call her, and tell her the way you really feel.
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Lanfear's Bane
Shih Yang Tong Pirate Coalition
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Posted - 2006.11.24 10:15:00 -
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Originally by: Admai Sket Edited by: Admai Sket on 23/11/2006 12:22:40
Originally by: The Eve-Online Forum-Goers I'll have her if you dont want her
Get back! Get back! Back away from the (ex)gf!
I actually thought that when I read all the responses. So I must still feel attached in some way......
Lanfear's, this just for you: 
Linkage1 Linkage2 Linkage3 WARNING: LINKAGE 4 CONTAINS NUDITY
Good man. I'll have a look when I get home, stupid work filter blocks photobucket.com. It also blocks logging into the EVE forums but I have a cookie :)
Lanfear's Bane. _ _ _
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Lanfear's Bane
Shih Yang Tong Pirate Coalition
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Posted - 2006.11.24 10:17:00 -
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Edited by: Lanfear''s Bane on 24/11/2006 10:17:17
Originally by: Laughlyn Vaughns my missus
I'd hit that.
Lanfear's Bane.
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Gariuys
Evil Strangers Inc.
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Posted - 2006.11.24 11:01:00 -
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Originally by: DirtyHarry Posting your (ex)gf's pics on an internet gaming forum, your a real pro dude...
DOn't ruin a good thing... this thread is fun.
HOwever I must reconcider my advice.... stay single... SHE's better of that way nubling!!
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Admai Sket
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Posted - 2006.11.24 13:12:00 -
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Originally by: Lanfear's Bane I'd hit that.
Nice.
lol.
This is turning into a post-pictures-of-your-girlfriend-and-see-who-think-she's-hot thread....
LMAO - Wife/Gf Swapping for ISK lmao. So if my bird's hotter than your bird, you owe me ISK? teehee.
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Huitzilopochtli Tlaloc
Forum Moderator Interstellar Services Department

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Posted - 2006.11.24 13:49:00 -
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I have removed the pictures from this thread and am going to lock this thread as it is disrespectfull to women.
Can i remind everyone that both sexes read these forums so please be respectfull to each other.
- Thanks Hutch. ____
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