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Gavriel Black Amarr Beer Guzzling Clowns With Blasters The SUdden Death Squad	Posted - 2006.12.06 12:14:00 - [1] I'm actually being serious for once when I say, I have a problem and it's the fact that i am completely addicted to eve. Another person posted a similar thread earlier, but i wanted to see how other people place eve in their lives. I have lost two jobs because of EVE, once because I stayed up so late I didn't get up in the morning, and the second time because I was playing eve and just couldn't leave it to go to work. I've never had a very good relationship with my father, and now i've moved back home I seem to be placing EVE above him, even though we really need to patch things up. Luckily though, I can play EVE all day and get paid for it. But I'm interested to know, does EVE affect anyone else this badly? I know I don't have much will power anyway, maybe they should but a warning on the box, lol. ---------------- "eve is a brutal, harsh universe where nobody loves you" -One of the devs
Uggster Caldari FinFleet Lotka Volterra	Posted - 2006.12.06 12:15:00 - [2] Very No (let the masses taste the sweet sweet poison) _______________________________________________ Sig removed as inappropriate- Tirg Story of my life that one :(
Wild Rho Amarr Black Omega Security	Posted - 2006.12.06 12:19:00 - [3] The problems are with the person not Eve. When you get right down to it Eve is nothing more than a game. The fact that it's become more than that to someone is not the fault of the game. Take responsibilty for your situation and do somthing about it. Don't try to deflect the blame onto somthing else becuase in the end you're just kidding yourself. I have the body of a supermodel. I just can't remember where I left it.
Banana Torres The Green Banana Corporation	Posted - 2006.12.06 12:20:00 - [4] Originally by: Gavriel Black maybe they should but a warning on the box, lol. What box? I never got no box. I was addicted to Zork on a PDP 11, nearly cost me my degree. Putting a warning on computer games would be like putting "May contain nuts" on a packet of peanuts. A bit silly really.
Deitre Cibrus Chickens with an Attitude	Posted - 2006.12.06 12:20:00 - [5] It's the genre of MMORPG's... You can't win.. You can just keep playing.. If there was an endgame it wouldn't be as addictive :) ----------- Originally by: Santiago Cortes Please don't derail your own thread. What is this sig missing?
Deitre Cibrus Chickens with an Attitude	Posted - 2006.12.06 12:21:00 - [6] Originally by: Banana Torres .. would be like putting "May contain nuts" on a packet of peanuts. A bit silly really. It happens lol ----------- Originally by: Santiago Cortes Please don't derail your own thread. What is this sig missing?
Gavriel Black Amarr Beer Guzzling Clowns With Blasters The SUdden Death Squad	Posted - 2006.12.06 12:21:00 - [7] Originally by: Gavriel Black I know I don't have much will power anyway... yes, i have already admitted it was my lack of will power, and now I am quite happily running my own business and doing well... And still able to play eve in the mean time. ---------------- "eve is a brutal, harsh universe where nobody loves you" -One of the devs
Nyfrayou Eternal Rampage	Posted - 2006.12.06 12:21:00 - [8] Know the feeling, I have a uni paper that I have to do, and right now I'm reading the forums. What does that tell you? But I've never lost a job cuz of eve tho. --------------- Looking for a T2 componant suppler. Mail me or convo me in game.
Gavriel Black Amarr Beer Guzzling Clowns With Blasters The SUdden Death Squad	Posted - 2006.12.06 12:22:00 - [9] Originally by: Banana Torres Originally by: Gavriel Black maybe they should but a warning on the box, lol. What box? I never got no box. I was addicted to Zork on a PDP 11, nearly cost me my degree. Putting a warning on computer games would be like putting "May contain nuts" on a packet of peanuts. A bit silly really. lol, btw, in the UK, look at the back of packets of nuts. It does actually say "may contain traces of nuts" ---------------- "eve is a brutal, harsh universe where nobody loves you" -One of the devs
Alitha Maru Hidden Agenda Deep Space Engineering	Posted - 2006.12.06 12:24:00 - [10] Originally by: Gavriel Black I'm actually being serious for once when I say, I have a problem and it's the fact that i am completely addicted to eve. Another person posted a similar thread earlier, but i wanted to see how other people place eve in their lives. I have lost two jobs because of EVE, once because I stayed up so late I didn't get up in the morning, and the second time because I was playing eve and just couldn't leave it to go to work. I've never had a very good relationship with my father, and now i've moved back home I seem to be placing EVE above him, even though we really need to patch things up. Luckily though, I can play EVE all day and get paid for it. But I'm interested to know, does EVE affect anyone else this badly? I know I don't have much will power anyway, maybe they should but a warning on the box, lol. Just out of curiosity, how long time have you beenn playing EVE for? I've been playing EVE since the end of beta and from launch. For me it is addictive at times, but then after I while I kinda get fed up with something and take a break. Usually I still keep the sub, and train skills but some times I haven't aswell. I have 3 accounts, whom I play seperately. Roleplaying if you wish. I have never lost a job to EVE though, and frankly if it came to that I would seriously moderate myself. I played a lot of Planetarion back in the day when it was new, in big alliances and we won many times. Then I played 12-16 hours a day some times, because I was in University. Which kind of made me do very very bad at studying, and I did not do all that great. Looking back on it now, I wish I had studied more and played less. But hey, it was fun too. I guess the clue here is balance, but not everyone can moderate themselves at any point in their life. Maybe you can never moderate yourself, or maybe you will find some other motivating factor in your life that will make you play less or take breaks too. But I think I speak for most of us when I say we love EVE, even though we say we hate it some times. We will always come back, but maybe not always in a hardcore fashion
Banana Torres The Green Banana Corporation	Posted - 2006.12.06 12:25:00 - [11] Originally by: Gavriel Black lol, btw, in the UK, look at the back of packets of nuts. It does actually say "may contain traces of nuts" I knows this, I nearly choked on the nuts when I read it. Those notices should be removed, they could kill someone.
Strength Cow	Posted - 2006.12.06 12:25:00 - [12] Originally by: Gavriel Black I have lost two jobs because of EVE, I've never had a very good relationship with my father John Locke would stand up and yell at you for being pathetic. I hate it whne people post RL SOB stories here, even if they are EVE relatedish. (Note, just as you have the right to post your opinions here, so do I) Originally by: Gavriel Black Luckily though, I can play EVE all day and get paid for it. O rly? How? Originally by: Gavriel Black I know I don't have much will power anyway, maybe they should but a warning on the box, Do everyone a favor and put a warning in your own mind. Maybe the problem is not EVE, but you?
The Snowman Gallente Center for Advanced Studies	Posted - 2006.12.06 12:26:00 - [13] not really, its addictive for about 3 months when your learning everything and its all new and intersting, but then you realise, like most mmo's its just a grind fest. <------------> Poker RPG 60 jumps 'Flop' by..
Gavriel Black Amarr Beer Guzzling Clowns With Blasters The SUdden Death Squad	Posted - 2006.12.06 12:27:00 - [14] Edited by: Gavriel Black on 06/12/2006 12:28:50 Edited by: Gavriel Black on 06/12/2006 12:27:05 Originally by: Strength Cow Originally by: Gavriel Black I have lost two jobs because of EVE, I've never had a very good relationship with my father John Locke would stand up and yell at you for being pathetic. I hate it whne people post RL SOB stories here, even if they are EVE relatedish. (Note, just as you have the right to post your opinions here, so do I) Originally by: Gavriel Black Luckily though, I can play EVE all day and get paid for it. O rly? How? Originally by: Gavriel Black I know I don't have much will power anyway, maybe they should but a warning on the box, Do everyone a favor and put a warning in your own mind. Maybe the problem is not EVE, but you? Maybe you should read the rest of the posts before coming out with some attitude? And btw, i lost those jobs 2 years ago when i was 18. When I didn't give a sh!t, just like alot of other teenagers. ---------------- "eve is a brutal, harsh universe where nobody loves you" -One of the devs
Telemicus Thrace Thrace Inc Ushra'Khan	Posted - 2006.12.06 12:27:00 - [15] Originally by: Wild Rho The problems are with the person not Eve. When you get right down to it Eve is nothing more than a game. The fact that it's become more than that to someone is not the fault of the game. Take responsibilty for your situation and do somthing about it. Don't try to deflect the blame onto somthing else becuase in the end you're just kidding yourself. Wise words. I play Eve maybe a couple of hours an evening if I am lucky (either side of DT) Friday night and Saturday night I get a few hours in and sleep in the next morning. The rest of the time I am Mr Joe Average. I work, brew beer, raise a family, do weights, drink beer, watch the SciFi channel, pay mortgage - rinse / repeat. Eve is no more addictive than any other game. If you are as hooked as the OP then you have an addiction problem. If you got cut off from Eve you would likely get hooked on something else. Don't blame the game and think restricting access to it will help you. You need to help yourself handle your addictions, all of them. To do that you need to take control of your life, the work and the recreation. Or not. >> RECRUITING <<
ArtemisEntreri Art of War Anarchy Empire	Posted - 2006.12.06 12:28:00 - [16] You have a problem, you need help. No it should not be on the box just like a McDonald's doesn't need to tell people that their food may cause weight problems.
ArtemisEntreri Art of War Anarchy Empire	Posted - 2006.12.06 12:30:00 - [17] Btw what kind of business are you running that lets you make money while playing eve?
Gone'Postal Minmatar LuthorCorp Combat Division	Posted - 2006.12.06 12:30:00 - [18] it's addictive while your burning the small skills, after that the effect ends as every planet, jumpgate, mission, pvp encounter, fleet op, is the same, it then turns to a play with friends kinda game personaly. Never lost a job or anything to eve (the game) Eve (the forum game I came close) The man without a face... The company without a clue.
Gavriel Black Amarr Beer Guzzling Clowns With Blasters The SUdden Death Squad	Posted - 2006.12.06 12:30:00 - [19] Originally by: ArtemisEntreri Btw what kind of business are you running that lets you make money while playing eve? A lan center / cyber cafe ---------------- "eve is a brutal, harsh universe where nobody loves you" -One of the devs
Alis Aquilae	Posted - 2006.12.06 12:31:00 - [20] Edited by: Alis Aquilae on 06/12/2006 12:31:14 Interesting topic, and hard to navigate to the correct answer. I definitely agree that the majority of the problem lies in the individual that allows himself to become addicted. Lack of willpower=bad. That said, I also think MMORPGs cater to and are designed as games to be as addicting as possible, so they are also not absolutely blameless. In my opinion, EVE is much less addicting in other MMORPGs, though. When it comes to examples, I think WoW is a great example of a game that caters to an addicted lifestyle with its PvP ranking system (I know, it changed yesterday, don't yell at me) and its raiding system. To be competitive in doing well in the old pvp system required more then 8+ hours a day, and 16+ hours a day to get to the top ranks. I understand a person who allows themselves to play that much has a self-control problem, but there is no need to design a system like that in the first place, and research should be done to avoid situations like it in my opinion.
Ralara Caldari Reunited O X I D E	Posted - 2006.12.06 12:33:00 - [21] Originally by: Gavriel Black I'm actually being serious for once when I say, I have a problem and it's the fact that i am completely addicted to eve. Another person posted a similar thread earlier, but i wanted to see how other people place eve in their lives. I have lost two jobs because of EVE, once because I stayed up so late I didn't get up in the morning, and the second time because I was playing eve and just couldn't leave it to go to work. I've never had a very good relationship with my father, and now i've moved back home I seem to be placing EVE above him, even though we really need to patch things up. Luckily though, I can play EVE all day and get paid for it. But I'm interested to know, does EVE affect anyone else this badly? I know I don't have much will power anyway, maybe they should but a warning on the box, lol. I play far, far too much. Way more hours than I should and it's probably unhealthy. But I dont risk my job over it!! It's not Eve's fault or CCP's fault you lost your jobs, its because you have no self-control. Delete your characters and uninstall it. If you do not do that, you have no one to blame but yourself.
Gavriel Black Amarr Beer Guzzling Clowns With Blasters The SUdden Death Squad	Posted - 2006.12.06 12:36:00 - [22] Originally by: Ralara I play far, far too much. Way more hours than I should and it's probably unhealthy. But I dont risk my job over it!! It's not Eve's fault or CCP's fault you lost your jobs, its because you have no self-control. Delete your characters and uninstall it. If you do not do that, you have no one to blame but yourself. Yes, read the rest of the posts, i have already said it was my fault not ccp's, i have already said i was a teenager when it happened when i didn't give a monkeys about losing jobs. ---------------- "eve is a brutal, harsh universe where nobody loves you" -One of the devs
Ralara Caldari Reunited O X I D E	Posted - 2006.12.06 12:36:00 - [23] Originally by: Alitha Maru Originally by: Gavriel Black I played a lot of Planetarion back in the day when it was new, in big alliances and we won many times. o/ hey me too, I was there since Round 2 :) (played 2-6). Were you part of Fury / Legion / Nos / Wolfpack / BT / Concordium ? :) I ended up in Deus Ex Machina and helped take down... I cant remember now, Virus or Legion... whoever it was :) I know we killed Fury that round hehe
Ralara Caldari Reunited O X I D E	Posted - 2006.12.06 12:36:00 - [24] Originally by: Gavriel Black Originally by: Ralara I play far, far too much. Way more hours than I should and it's probably unhealthy. But I dont risk my job over it!! It's not Eve's fault or CCP's fault you lost your jobs, its because you have no self-control. Delete your characters and uninstall it. If you do not do that, you have no one to blame but yourself. Yes, read the rest of the posts, i have already said it was my fault not ccp's, i have already said i was a teenager when it happened when i didn't give a monkeys about losing jobs. Then what is your thread for?
Alitha Maru Hidden Agenda Deep Space Engineering	Posted - 2006.12.06 12:39:00 - [25] Originally by: Ralara Originally by: Alitha Maru Originally by: Gavriel Black I played a lot of Planetarion back in the day when it was new, in big alliances and we won many times. o/ hey me too, I was there since Round 2 :) (played 2-6). Were you part of Fury / Legion / Nos / Wolfpack / BT / Concordium ? :) I ended up in Deus Ex Machina and helped take down... I cant remember now, Virus or Legion... whoever it was :) I know we killed Fury that round hehe I have been part of Concordium, Fury and for a short time WP, to name a few. Yeah, those where they days. Especially BT-day
Crumplecorn Gallente Aerial Boundaries Inc. Interstellar Starbase Syndicate	Posted - 2006.12.06 12:39:00 - [26] Edited by: Crumplecorn on 06/12/2006 12:43:32 I have a cough somewhat addictive personality, I ~~never~~ rarely let games get in the way of work, but I do let them get in the way of doing other, more productive, things with my free time. On the flipside, when I get fixated on the more productive things, I abandon gaming completely. The only difference for me with Eve was that I set a new record for spending all my free time playing 1 game (I think it was 2-3 months before I actually did anything else with a measureable portion of my time after starting eve), and that it is so dynamic (due to being massively mutiplayer) that I always come back to it if I 'burn out' (all other games I abandon for at least a few months after playing them every free minute for a few days/weeks. Aside from that it's really no different from any other game. YMMV ofc. Incidentally I don't see a problem with playing games 24/7 if that's what you want to do and it doesn't impact the really important stuff. If it's what you want to spend your time doing, I think it's fine as long as it doesn't adversly affect anything else. My personal concern is that I do have other stuff I want to spend my time doing, but always get drawn back to games. Come to think of it, the 'other stuff' I do is websites about games. OMG save me! ---------- IBTL \o/ EVE is upside down! WTZ+Slower Warp=Win
Alis Aquilae	Posted - 2006.12.06 12:39:00 - [27] Originally by: Ralara Then what is your thread for? It says in the OP ;) I would advise reading the last few lines again! Quote: But I'm interested to know, does EVE affect anyone else this badly?
Ralara Caldari Reunited O X I D E	Posted - 2006.12.06 12:44:00 - [28] Edited by: Ralara on 06/12/2006 12:43:54 He admits in the OP that its getting in the way of his family. "I seem to be placing EVE above him, even though we really need to patch things up." My advice then is to uninstall the game if its that bad he's lost 2 jobs and is now losing family memebrs over it. His reply is along the lines of a polite "STFU DONT TELL ME WHAT TO DO". That's fine. He can go and waste his entire existance if he wants to. Come in here, starting a thread about it, gets the advice he knows is right but doesn't want to hear, and then acts high and mighty about it. shrug.
Alis Aquilae	Posted - 2006.12.06 12:48:00 - [29] lol, people are so hostile here. Forum PvP isn't going to help him, and probably ultimately distracts from what is best.
Harmonie Minmatar Slurm Industries	Posted - 2006.12.06 12:50:00 - [30] Originally by: Gavriel Black Edited by: Gavriel Black on 06/12/2006 12:28:50 Edited by: Gavriel Black on 06/12/2006 12:27:05 Originally by: Strength Cow Originally by: Gavriel Black I have lost two jobs because of EVE, I've never had a very good relationship with my father John Locke would stand up and yell at you for being pathetic. I hate it whne people post RL SOB stories here, even if they are EVE relatedish. (Note, just as you have the right to post your opinions here, so do I) Originally by: Gavriel Black Luckily though, I can play EVE all day and get paid for it. O rly? How? Originally by: Gavriel Black I know I don't have much will power anyway, maybe they should but a warning on the box, Do everyone a favor and put a warning in your own mind. Maybe the problem is not EVE, but you? Maybe you should read the rest of the posts before coming out with some attitude? And btw, i lost those jobs 2 years ago when i was 18. When I didn't give a sh!t, just like alot of other teenagers. Well, then the loss of your jobs cannot be solely attributed to your playing Eve, but must also be due to your immature attitude towards work at the time. Also, I believe it is misleading of you to say in your original post that you "can play Eve all day and get paid for it". You do not get paid for playing Eve, you get paid for the job of running the lan/cyber cafe. You can play Eve while you do this (legitimately or not, i don't know) but your pay is not linked to this. To be honest I agree with the poster who said this is really about the person not the game - and in my opinion connected to this it comes down to how much else you have going on in your life. I used to play WoW far too much - until I got a new job which I love to bits and woke up to the fact there are other things to do with my time. Now I play Eve but usually only when I can't find something else to do - or because I feel like playing - not because I can't stop myself. Either way Gavriel, I hope that you can get some other focus and enjoy your life more - because the tone of your OP suggests you aren't very happy with how things are right now. Good luck in getting some new direction!
Aaron Static Igneus Auctorita	Posted - 2006.12.06 13:09:00 - [31] Originally by: Deitre Cibrus It's the genre of MMORPG's... You can't win.. You can just keep playing.. If there was an endgame it wouldn't be as addictive :) No endgame!?!??! and here I was waiting for the final cutscene! quits ps. who wants my stuff? - Igneus Auctorita Video -
Zimi Vlasic F.R.E.E. Explorer EVE Animal Control	Posted - 2006.12.06 14:09:00 - [32] To me, Eve is kind of a hangout place. I have been gaming with some of the people in my corp for upwards of around 7 years so we all know each-other pretty well. It's pretty much a glorified chatroom for old friends. Hell even when we're out on ops we're talking smack to each-other. We don't usually talk smack to the enemy...we save it for ourselves! Find Roid, Examine, and Excavate Explorer
HostageTaker Black Nova Corp Band of Brothers	Posted - 2006.12.06 14:22:00 - [33] The EvE gamebox actually does have a warning on it. "WARNING! Your new life may be too addictive to leave." >>> EvE-Online Wallpapers <<<
MrTripps Gallente	Posted - 2006.12.06 14:39:00 - [34] Originally by: Gavriel Black maybe they should but a warning on the box, lol. Ms. Tripps sure thinks so. Last time I saw her... :) Really, there are a number of psychological conditions that can make a person fixate too much on Eve. There is OCD, ADHD, Schizoid Personality Disorder, etc. If it is causing negative consequences in your life you should do something about it. If it wasn't Eve it would be something else. I had a college roommate that nearly failed out because of an addiction to Civilization for DOS. Most people would sooner die than think; in fact, they do so. - Bertrand Russell
Professor Wilkins	Posted - 2006.12.06 14:56:00 - [35] make sure you have done the most important thing of the day, get out of bed, have a shower, have breakfast and keep your home tidy. If you need to stock the freezer go shopping, then you can play eve. Also if you desperate to dump a loved one, then just mention you playing eve, that will pretty much do that. Seriously it is a game afterall, enjoy but remember there is a real life.
Crumplecorn Gallente Aerial Boundaries Inc. Interstellar Starbase Syndicate	Posted - 2006.12.06 14:59:00 - [36] Warning: This game is amazingly good Actually, why don't they put that on the box? ---------- IBTL \o/ EVE is upside down! WTZ+Slower Warp=Win
50freefly Caldari Purify	Posted - 2006.12.06 15:16:00 - [37] EVE? Addictive? /me stops kidding himself and cries in a corner Anyways, I do find myself playing EVE in all my spare time, but that's just because EVE reduces stress and I am often stressed when I get any free time. But yeah I need to cut down. No it should not have a warning, though a 'This game rocks' warning would be acceptable, as that's true and would help sell the game. Originally by: Eight Ace For reasons that have been lost in the mists of time all caldari ships are designed by two people. One does the left hand side and the other does the right. And they never meet.
Waut 0utbreak	Posted - 2006.12.06 15:35:00 - [38] Eve has destroyed my life In Soviet EVE, roids pop YOU
Crumplecorn Gallente Aerial Boundaries Inc. Interstellar Starbase Syndicate	Posted - 2006.12.06 15:50:00 - [39] Originally by: Waut Eve has destroyed my life You know how games/movies/books/whatever often have one liners from people who've reviewed them on them? This is Eve's one. ---------- IBTL \o/ EVE is upside down! WTZ+Slower Warp=Win
Dra0cht	Posted - 2006.12.06 15:53:00 - [40] EVE is one mofo of a MMO, and for all the niggles (lag, dodgy GMs, occasional boredom etc) the thing is, its still top of my list of spare time eaters Now, if work is not important to you, then I say, so what if you don't impress other peeps and their opinions on what you 'should' be doing with YOUR life! Put it this way, IF you think you have an obcession with EVE, or an addiction (or whatever disempowering label you choose to apply to yourself) then I'd say, that if you choose to apply your attention/skills to another activity, you will be most excellent at it So EVE is not A problem, or THE problem, its usually got to do with others putting their expectation onto you, and if thats the case then its best to be who you really are, and tell others to go do what they want to, and wish them the best of good luck! If there are things you are not doing, and you think its because of EVE, then I say to you, do those other things, and you'll probably find that EVE is even more enjoyable than it is already, and for gawds sake be happy with what your doing, life is'ent a rehearsal after all
Zantazar Caldari The Syndicate Inc Ascendant Frontier	Posted - 2006.12.06 16:13:00 - [41] Wow ... even for a post on what I regard as a neutral topic, the forum PvPers, or immature, pathetic, etc... cannot help slating the OP. Sometimes I wonder. Anyway, to the OP, I am completely addicted to EVE. Fortunately for me I do not have many commitments, other than my job. But I play every minute possible, but then before EVE I used to play DAOC, and I was the same there. The only reason I left was due to the lack of real development, and to me EVE is non stop development. The use of TS to speak to my corporation friends is fundamental too. I think that I know some of them better than my work friends. Signature removed due to incorrect size (400X120px and 24000 bytes). Please review the forum rules or e-mail us with any questions. You can view you signature here - Petwraith I would sell my soul, my body, and my entire family for a Navy Raven. (Just kidding .... my soul is not for sale)
Lord Artemis Filthy Wyrm	Posted - 2006.12.06 16:21:00 - [42] Knowledge is knowing that MMORPG's have an "ever dangling carrot effect on its players"(no endgame). Wisdom is knowing that your not going to get that carrot. _____________________________ ... this space for rent ...
Beringe Caldari Raptus Regaliter	Posted - 2006.12.06 16:23:00 - [43] /me borrows a line from Family Guy (yeah, I know) Eve killed my father...and raped my mother! ------------------------------------------- "Sarcasm and irony are not to be used by the uninitiated." --Daitan Beringe, honorary director in charge of bottles--
140	Posted - 2006.12.06 16:28:00 - [44] Looking from the outside, you could say im addicted to eve. I play literally all day. I know from the inside when im honest with myself that its not eve im addicted to, I simply use it as a distraction so I dont have to think about all the **** up ** thats going on in my head. If im concentrating on eve my brain doesnt seem to go there as much. From the OP it sounds like you have some personal problems to deal with too, and you play eve as a way to escape your real life. Im going to be a total hypocrite here and say try to prioritise fixing your problems if you are able to, or seek some professional guidance to at least get them off your chest so you can start to deal with them. I wish I was able to deal with mine.
das licht Gallente	Posted - 2006.12.06 16:34:00 - [45] So far, EVE has no negative side effect for my life. No game ever had.
Joseph Boeing Team Machine Incorporated	Posted - 2006.12.06 22:55:00 - [46] Edited by: Joseph Boeing on 06/12/2006 23:00:04 Originally by: Gavriel Black Originally by: Ralara I play far, far too much. Way more hours than I should and it's probably unhealthy. But I dont risk my job over it!! It's not Eve's fault or CCP's fault you lost your jobs, its because you have no self-control. Delete your characters and uninstall it. If you do not do that, you have no one to blame but yourself. Yes, read the rest of the posts, i have already said it was my fault not ccp's, i have already said i was a teenager when it happened when i didn't give a monkeys about losing jobs. I am quite sure he read the rest of the posts. I see nothing in his comment that seems he isnt up to speed at the time he posted. What I do see is that you posted that you have a problem, asked others if they have the same problem or what their opinion is of your situation. Now ppl are giving you their opinion and you want to argue with them. Which leads me to what was the point of posting in the first place? Ppl aren't telling you its ok you have no willpower and self-control. Good. If you listened to them instead of arguing them it might do you some good, mate. Outside of that it certainly sounds like you are just drawing attention to yourself while wasting other's time, because there is no point to taking advice if you are just going to argue it. I'm sure this will just create more argument, but....My advice is, like there are many ways to play this game, there are many ways to live your life. If you own a lan center then your life revolves around gaming, at least somewhat. Having an addiction to Eve, for such a person, does not seem like a 'problem' at all, to me. Seems more like really liking what you do. You said before that when you lost your job over Eve, you were still a kid. Kids don't give a **** so yeah, who cares. I lost jobs because I wanted to go drink with friends, THAT DAY, when I was a kid. I never had anything bordering on a drinking problem. So that doesn't sound like a real problem either. What makes it a problem is that you SAY you have a problem. Which means the way in which you act is not acceptable to yourself. In which case, you have simply two choices. MAN UP and do something, or quit complaining and try to enjoy your life without the willpower and self-control it takes to live the way you want to live. Taking the second choice is actually the harder one to do, as it is impossible; you will never really be happy knowing you aren't in real control of your own life.. but you will never understand that until you manage to take the first path, at least once. And see that in the end, willpower is not a difficult thing to accomplish, if you just exercise it once in a while.
K1K1R1K1 Team Machine Incorporated	Posted - 2006.12.06 23:23:00 - [47] Here's what you do. 1.) Research some other hobbies (not other video games). 2.) Find one that will interest you. 3.) Keep playing eve the way you are. 4.) Start doing this other hobby. If possible, get some family/friends involved. 5.) Slowly start playing less and less eve and instead doing this hobby. 6.) By now hopefully this new hobby will have opened your eyes to other things you can do that are fun and more productive/socially healthy. You get the general idea. Ease yourself out of eve rather than the "delete eve and your characters" cold turkey deal others are suggesting. Figure out what you like so much about eve. Politics? Get caught up in keeping track of real politics. PvP? Join a sports team or club of some sort. Mining? um... try drilling for oil in your backyard? Don't know about that one. Just start doing something else you like and have it slowly take away from your eve time. Should open your eyse to some of the other fun things to do in life. Hope it helps. _______________________________________ Don't worry aboutit.
Hllaxiu Shiva Morsus Mihi	Posted - 2006.12.06 23:32:00 - [48] How many of you have actually seen the eve box? --- Our greatest glory is not in never failing, but in rising up every time we fail. - Emerson
Scouty McScouter	Posted - 2006.12.06 23:37:00 - [49] Edited by: Scouty McScouter on 06/12/2006 23:37:51 Originally by: Hllaxiu How many of you have actually seen the eve box? they phased them out VERY SOONÖ after the initial full release so i don't think more than a few hundred have Forum warriors are having a field day... EDIT: SOMEONE HELP ME FIND THE ENDGAME WHERE DO I GET EPIC GEAR??? I CANT STOP PLAYING WITHOUT FULL SET!!! SEND HELP!!! My my my. Oops I just died again. What a good pie rat you are!
DefJam101 Gallente Coreli Corporation Corelum Syndicate	Posted - 2006.12.07 00:15:00 - [50] ***
darklegionca	Posted - 2006.12.07 00:21:00 - [51] uh this game dont come in a box you just download it so uh ya ------------------------------------ darklegionca - One name. One legend.

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