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Lolfast
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Posted - 2009.01.26 01:51:00 -
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Edited by: Lolfast on 26/01/2009 01:57:12 Edited by: Lolfast on 26/01/2009 01:54:43 Okay, so I figure all you pirate types are great intuitive judges of character, seeing as you have to figure ransoms all the time.
So I just asked the girl I like out. We've been friends for a while, and I just very directly told her I like her and wanted to go to dinner! SOMETIME IN THE WEEK!
It was ****ing awkward for a second, she then told me," I don't really ever do more than just friends, but I'm willing to try anything."
And now we're getting sushi.
Did I get rejected, or accepted?
Keep in mind, this one is pretty boyish, as in, she's usually my wingman when we go to bars.
It's a total mind**** right now, and TBH, I need the EVE C&P communities help.
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oodin
Beyond Divinity Inc
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Posted - 2009.01.26 02:00:00 -
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your getting laid 
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Mickey Simon
Noir.
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Posted - 2009.01.26 02:01:00 -
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I can't tell if you're all fo reels or not. If yes, then ****ed if I know. She sounds bat**** insane or lesbian and doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Only thing you can do is try your best and see how it goes I guess  Meanwhile, on the other side of town . . . |

Gregor Vernof
Minmatar Suddenly Ninjas Tear Extraction And Reclamation Service
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Posted - 2009.01.26 02:04:00 -
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Edited by: Gregor Vernof on 26/01/2009 02:04:06 It means you've already established yourself as just a friend, not a romantic prospect.
Moving from one mental designation to another is always a potentially difficult and risky endeavor. Be ready to lose all and go down in flames, however if this is something that you feel strongly about go for it. Just be sure that the possible romantic outcome is what you want and is of greater concern to you than the potential loss of a friend.
And now this thread should be moved to "Out of Pod Experience"
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FatFreddy
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Posted - 2009.01.26 02:16:00 -
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Edited by: FatFreddy on 26/01/2009 02:16:11 First thing you have to do is to web and disrupt her so she can't run away.
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Lolfast
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Posted - 2009.01.26 02:41:00 -
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Edited by: Lolfast on 26/01/2009 02:41:10 I think that's called ****.
edit: seriously? R.A.P.E is a curse? |

Artemis Rose
Sileo In Pacis Mean Coalition
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Posted - 2009.01.26 02:53:00 -
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Man, does this forum ever get good threads?
You got rejected but invited somewhere special. Get an Armageddon ASAP. |

BallistaII
Genos Occidere
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Posted - 2009.01.26 03:07:00 -
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proof.
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Sniper Wolf18
Gallente A Pretty Pony Princess
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Posted - 2009.01.26 03:08:00 -
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This By the way, does it annoy you when you didnt realise that you were reading my sig? |

Lord Windu
Echelon Holdings Echelon.
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Posted - 2009.01.26 04:13:00 -
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I became friends with a lass from work and when I let her know I wanted more than friendship she said the whole "sorry but I see you as such a good friend blah blah", so I ended up shagging another bird from work instead, oh the jealousy. So when I dumped my second choice my first choice came running as she must have realised what she was missing. 
4 years that relationship lasted so when they say about just being friends, it's bull****. Find someone else and she will come running, if not then who cares, you're getting laid anyway.  |

Dirk Magnum
Royal Hiigaran Navy
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Posted - 2009.01.26 04:19:00 -
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Edited by: Dirk Magnum on 26/01/2009 04:19:57
Originally by: Lolfast " I don't really ever do more than just friends, but I'm willing to try anything."
On the one hand the two parts of that sentence are entirely contradictory. On the other hand, lesbian |

Misanth
RABBLE RABBLE RABBLE Black Legion.
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Posted - 2009.01.26 04:21:00 -
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Stick to boys. Xbox makes for better foreplay, you can have as much beer as you want, and you know he'll only cheat on you for a good pair of boobs - much more acceptable reason than doing your best pal because he was there listening to her (moaning, x2) when you were watching sports.
MMmmmmen.  |

Grill'd
Imperial Academy
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Posted - 2009.01.26 04:36:00 -
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she will lead you on for weeks then tell you shes a lesbian |

Lolfast
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Posted - 2009.01.26 05:32:00 -
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She's definately not a lesbian. I know her fairly well.
We're both college age, and she's never had a boyfriend before, just fooled around with a bunch of her other friends.
I'm hopeful it'll amount to something. But even if it doesn't, with any luck i'll still be able to get in, flip her can, and get out.
Wow i'm horrible. |

Bret Caliaro
Fortuna inc.
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Posted - 2009.01.26 05:51:00 -
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Originally by: Lolfast She's definately not a lesbian. I know her fairly well.
We're both college age, and she's never had a boyfriend before, just fooled around with a bunch of her other friends.
I'm hopeful it'll amount to something. But even if it doesn't, with any luck i'll still be able to get in, flip her can, and get out.
Wow i'm horrible.
now i understand why this is in crime and punishment.
_________________________________________________ CTDing while scrambled, possibly the most fun I've ever had in my life. |

Silent Sins
Deliciously Vicious
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Posted - 2009.01.26 08:25:00 -
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Originally by: Lolfast
Keep in mind, this one is pretty boyish, as in, she's usually my wingman when we go to bars.
A good wingman is something you can't put a price on. |

Dirk Magnum
Royal Hiigaran Navy
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Posted - 2009.01.26 08:41:00 -
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So she has a history of one night stands with her friends, and she says she never does anything long term. If you're interested in something long term then you need to see those things as the giant RED FLAGS that they should obviously be.
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Silent Sins
Deliciously Vicious
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Posted - 2009.01.26 08:47:00 -
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Originally by: Dirk Magnum So she has a history of one night stands with her friends, and she says she never does anything long term. If you're interested in something long term then you need to see those things as the giant RED FLAGS that they should obviously be.
this. ------------------------------ ******************** ------------------------------ |

Omara Otawan
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Posted - 2009.01.26 08:56:00 -
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Originally by: Dirk Magnum So she has a history of one night stands with her friends, and she says she never does anything long term. If you're interested in something long term then you need to see those things as the giant RED FLAGS that they should obviously be.
If you're just after some fun though, thats exactly what you want to hear ;)
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Tefkros
The Dead Pod Society Chain of Chaos
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Posted - 2009.01.26 09:34:00 -
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Originally by: Lolfast Edited by: Lolfast on 26/01/2009 01:57:12 Edited by: Lolfast on 26/01/2009 01:54:43
So I just asked the girl I like out. We've been friends for a while
I stopped reading right here. Well ok, I read about the dinner proposal as well.
Just as Gregor said, once you have put yourself in the friend zone, you need extremely tight game to dig yourself out of it.
Also, dinner dates are boring. Every chump and loser takes a chick to dinner.
Basically, you are about to be tested and rejected.
You need to be extremely confident and assertive to win this one. She will try every test in the book to test what a man you are. She will try to bring friends along, be late, and the ultimate test she will say "I¦d like to be just friends". If you ***** out and fail any of these tests, you are gone and there is no return.
Is she late? Leave and go to the gym. Is she bringing someone along? Leave her have dinner with her friend because you are offended by this attitude. "Let¦s just be friends"? Honey, I¦m sure you have enough girlfriends, and the only way I¦ll fall into that category is when I¦m gay. Now follow me, we are going bowling.
You get the point.
Get back to us with what happened :) And send me like 200mill isk, people pay like $3000 for one weekend of what I told you ;)
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Kaya Valda
Caldari Neo Spartans
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Posted - 2009.01.26 12:29:00 -
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Pictures or it didn't happen.
But IMO you're in there. - Read My Blog
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Alowishus
the united Negative Ten.
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Posted - 2009.01.26 13:07:00 -
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Here's the series of fatal mistakes guys make which continually lands them in the friend zone:
1) You like a girl who is, or is presumed to be out of your league. A more decisive male would either a) not think she's out of his league, b) pass her over immediately and move on.
2) You make the mistake of not showing interest immediately so as not to "scare her off" falsely believing that your chances are better if she "gets to know you." This is a huge mistake. If she did initially have an interest in you it quickly subsides if she believes it's not going to be reciprocated. It's very difficult to ever get that back.
3) You've already shown her you're not interested. Now you're going to spend a lot of time proving what a great guy you are (to be friends with).
4) In the process of slowly proving your worth as a partner you begin showing her your flaws, vulnerabilities and other features which may make sleeping with you undesirable- you're supposed to show a woman these things after you sleep with her, if ever. In other words now not only do you have a "great friendship that should not be ruined", you also are even further from being desired by her than you ever were before!
5) Instead of rethinking the strategy and being smart about getting with her you "can't take it any longer" and instead blurt out your "true" feelings. I put "true" in quotes because you're true feelings are that you want to **** her, what you'll probably tell her is something like, "I'm madly in love with you," or something that's actually worse than just saying you want to **** her. At this point she'll either "need some time to think" or she'll just come out and say she isn't interested but wants to remain friends.
6) Instead of doing what you're supposed to, moving on and never speaking to her again, you'll either a) try the friendship thing out- which is STUPID- or b) continue working on your plot to bed her, leading to a potential repeat of steps 4 and 5. Please note that "a" will probably still lead to "b".
If you find yourself continually taking this path, stop it.  |

Sol'Kanar
Minmatar SRIUS BISNIS
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Posted - 2009.01.26 13:58:00 -
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Edited by: Sol''Kanar on 26/01/2009 13:58:39
Originally by: Lolfast So I just asked the girl I like out. We've been friends for a while, and I just very directly told her I like her and wanted to go to **ANAL**! SOMETIME IN THE WEEK!
It was ****ing awkward for a second, she then told me," I don't really ever do more than just friends, but I'm willing to try anything."
Would have been much more interesting had you asked per my edit above. |

Irida Mershkov
Gallente Noir.
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Posted - 2009.01.26 14:12:00 -
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Originally by: Lolfast Edited by: Lolfast on 26/01/2009 01:57:12 Edited by: Lolfast on 26/01/2009 01:54:43 pretty boyish,
lol, you're gonna get pegged. haha. |

Leiara Knight
Gallente The Oblivion Guard
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Posted - 2009.01.26 14:32:00 -
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What do you mean I'm 'pretty boyish?' Is it my large hands?
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Moloch Baal
Amarr
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Posted - 2009.01.26 14:37:00 -
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Originally by: Alowishus Here's the series of fatal mistakes guys make which continually lands them in the friend zone:
1) You like a girl who is, or is presumed to be out of your league. A more decisive male would either a) not think she's out of his league, b) pass her over immediately and move on.
2) You make the mistake of not showing interest immediately so as not to "scare her off" falsely believing that your chances are better if she "gets to know you." This is a huge mistake. If she did initially have an interest in you it quickly subsides if she believes it's not going to be reciprocated. It's very difficult to ever get that back.
3) You've already shown her you're not interested. Now you're going to spend a lot of time proving what a great guy you are (to be friends with).
4) In the process of slowly proving your worth as a partner you begin showing her your flaws, vulnerabilities and other features which may make sleeping with you undesirable- you're supposed to show a woman these things after you sleep with her, if ever. In other words now not only do you have a "great friendship that should not be ruined", you also are even further from being desired by her than you ever were before!
5) Instead of rethinking the strategy and being smart about getting with her you "can't take it any longer" and instead blurt out your "true" feelings. I put "true" in quotes because you're true feelings are that you want to **** her, what you'll probably tell her is something like, "I'm madly in love with you," or something that's actually worse than just saying you want to **** her. At this point she'll either "need some time to think" or she'll just come out and say she isn't interested but wants to remain friends.
6) Instead of doing what you're supposed to, moving on and never speaking to her again, you'll either a) try the friendship thing out- which is STUPID- or b) continue working on your plot to bed her, leading to a potential repeat of steps 4 and 5. Please note that "a" will probably still lead to "b".
If you find yourself continually taking this path, stop it. 
this.
Once you're in the friend zone, its a real ***** to get out of there. I once pulled it of, but that was basicaly cuz I promptly started something with another girl and cuz it was pretty mutual.
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Deathhawk
mensajero de muerte
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Posted - 2009.01.26 14:41:00 -
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two words: bum sex.
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Nexus Kinnon
Genos Occidere
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Posted - 2009.01.26 14:59:00 -
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Not enough info, pictures required |

Chomin H'ak
Integrated Takeovers
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Posted - 2009.01.26 17:52:00 -
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People have sex still? When did this happen??? 
Originally by: Frenden Dax My heart hopes that people aren't that stupid, but my experiences thus far suggest otherwise.
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Sol'Kanar
Minmatar SRIUS BISNIS
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Posted - 2009.01.26 19:20:00 -
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Originally by: Chomin H'ak
People have sex still? When did this happen??? 
I dunno. I've been married for 10 years. Sex is for single people. |
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