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mercyonman Caldari Perkone	Posted - 2010.03.09 23:04:00 - [1] so, i really like this girl and her and i have both gone on around 4 dates together. she says she really likes me. and i asked her friend and her friend said that she is falling in love with me. well here is the problem. she doesn't want to be in a "relationship" or be "official" so to speak. so i agree to it. thats the start to the major issue. (we are both 17) we had a play one weekend. and we were both on tech crew. so after the last showing. we went to an after party. this other guy (one of the lead roles in the play) tagged along. one of her good friends.(i thought the guy was really cool too. he is also a senior about to go to college.) so we are at the party having a good time and so we three sit down on stairs together. well the guy the ENTIRE night was around the girl i was dating (lets call her Y). and he would rub her arms and stuff and she did NOTHING about it even though i was sitting RIGHT THERE. so im like alright this was his last performance and he wont see her for a while after this school year. well it keeps happening. we finally go home. then the next day we were supposed to go on a date. well ends up it was a nice day outside and she said it wouldn't be right to be stuck in the theater's so i agree. and then the guy shows up also. do the same thing as at the party. always around her, and rubbing her arms. so im confused at this point. cause he doesn't know that her and i are going on dates. and i promised girl Y that i wouldn't basically get defensive over her or claim her. well the voice at the back of my head started screaming warnings. so i confronted it to her after school. and she basically got mad and yelled "BOYS ARE ****ING STUPID" and i just stood there. i didn't know what to do. i wasn't just going to yell back. and i don't want to loose her. but considering breaking it off as a nuclear option. despite countless grammatical errors what should i do. thanks OOP When you crash your car, then jump out running down the street to save your pod. Then you're playing way too much eve - MacGrowler III
Atomos Darksun The Maverick Navy IT Alliance	Posted - 2010.03.09 23:11:00 - [2] ditch the sexist girleh, go with the one you genuinely clicked with? at least this isn't as bad as AI alice Originally by: Amoxin My vent is talking to me in a devil voice... Linkification, Baby.
Merin Ryskin Peregrine Industries	Posted - 2010.03.09 23:13:00 - [3] There can only be one solution: threesome with her and the other guy. -----------
Trustworthy Joe Minmatar	Posted - 2010.03.09 23:15:00 - [4] Originally by: Merin Ryskin There can only be one solution: threesome with her and the other guy. want a sig? thats great! post it in response to my posts!
Iva Posavec Posavec Innovations Takhar Matari	Posted - 2010.03.09 23:28:00 - [5] Originally by: Merin Ryskin There can only be one solution: threesome with her and the other guy. Iva Posavec CEO of Posavec Innovations & Takhar Matari Leader
justin666	Posted - 2010.03.09 23:28:00 - [6] she dont sound worth being with mate if she treats you like that and says **** to you like that she loves you but dont want to be in a relationship with you...if i was you id just leave her before she hurts you man
hired goon	Posted - 2010.03.10 00:32:00 - [7] Girls like this are dangerous to get involved with. Don't do it - you will spend the entire 'relationship' paranoid and depressed, while lying to yourself you are happy. Don't put up with the bull**, especially at your age - the pain may taint you and make you bitter. The real lesson you want to teach yourself when you are this young is that you can get any girl you want and are a prize - not that you have to crawl over broken glass for some *** who wants to have your cake and eat it. The saying that applies here is "Never make someone your priority, if they only make you an option" Put your foot down with this girl. Don't take **** from her. Tell her how you feel and if she still gives you crap, walk away. The most important part is to have confidence in yourself and your ability to do better - because you can, and you have plenty of time to do it. If she's really falling in love with you like her friend says, she'll come running after you. Putting your foot down and being assertive makes you very attractive to women, as opposed to placating her on ridiculous demands. She'll just keep pushing. Just to qualify my advice, I was in love with a girl who did the same to me. I hung around because I thought i was happy, when in fact i was obsessed. It was only after i was able to tear myself away that I realized I was much happier without her. Now I am in a much happier relationship with a girl who respects me as much as I respect her. Plus she has huge boobs -omg-
Slade Trillgon Endless Possibilities Inc. Ushra'Khan	Posted - 2010.03.10 01:24:00 - [8] What hired goon said above. Similar thing happened when I was 16. I broke free when I was 17 luckily. But yeah you are 17, don't look to settle down yet, have some fun. Slade Originally by: Niccolado Starwalker Please go sit in the corner, and dont forget to don the shame-on-you-hat! ≡v≡
Akita T Caldari Caldari Navy Volunteer Task Force	Posted - 2010.03.10 01:33:00 - [9] Edited by: Akita T on 10/03/2010 01:33:19 You're 17. Do whatever you want, it doesn't really matter. Well, as long as nobody gets pregnant or catches some other STD, that is. Just have fun, avoid "drama", unless that's what you're after. For sexual needs, if in dire straits due to "avoidance of drama", use the time-honoured services of Rosy the Palm. Realistically speaking, chances are probably well over 90% you won't even know/see her at all one or two years from now, when "college time" comes around (or soon after, if you're still together for some reason). So, yeah, whatever you do, it doesn't really matter much. _ Beginner's ISK making guide \| Manufacturer's helper \| All about reacting _
Danton Marcellus Nebula Rasa Holdings	Posted - 2010.03.10 02:18:00 - [10] Holy wall of text! You got worse problems than girls, you got paragraph issues son! Should/would/could have, HAVE you chav! Also Known As
Rylie Gayle	Posted - 2010.03.10 03:43:00 - [11] Everything is kinda one sides as far as we can see, dont see her side. In my opinion, You shouldn't have 'confronted' her. Maybe just jokingly say "looks like I got competition" next time he did somethin like that. May be able to save if you want to what whatever was there between you and her by joking and sayin somethin like you were just jokin around and she kinda didnt get the joke and end with "but I did think I have some competition" You don't need to break it off because theres nothin to break off. You arent in a relationship, you stated that yourself. Also, bear in mind her 'friend' could be messin with you sayin she's fallin
soldieroffortune 258 Gallente Trinity Council	Posted - 2010.03.10 03:51:00 - [12] Dude, just whoop his ass.
UVPhoenix2 Gallente Brotherhood of Heart and Steel Iron Heart Brotherhood	Posted - 2010.03.10 04:11:00 - [13] Originally by: soldieroffortune 258 Dude, just whoop his ass. I know how you feel. Material of this nature affect us all in different ways. What you need to do is learn from this. And this is just my sig.
mercyonman Caldari Perkone	Posted - 2010.03.10 04:47:00 - [14] i would first like to thank everyone in OOP. but i think my hand is hovering over the nuke right now. i talked to her on the phone before i went to wrestling practice. and i started by asking how she was doing. and how her track practices were. then immediately after went to biz. i said to start that i felt like she over reacted. and was thinking irrationally. and think there should be an apology. she then said "I'm not apologizing for ****." i ignored that then kept talking. so later on after i talked to her for about 10 minutes i learned that before i confronted her. the guy asked her to prom. she said yes. and she didn't want to go with me cause she wants to be driven there. and i don't have my driver's license till may. so i felt really really bad that i couldn't provide to her. and i said that the only guy i wouldn't mind her going to prom with is the guy. and he asked her. so then she started to put words in my mouth. saying i was accusing her of hitting on the guy. and she told me she doesn't like him like that. so im like alright ok. then i had to go. so went to wrestling practice. and when i got finished. i got a txt from her saying "I'm sorry. i shouldn't have gotten as mad as i did. you don't deserve that. i did overreact. you hit a nerve, im sorry." so i called her 5 minutes after i got home. one ring then it went straight to voice mail. so i leave a msg on how she's fine i should have asked. and how i cant wait to see her tomorrow. but i couldnt take using the nuke. i dont want to ruin things. i really like her almost love her. and to see her in passing periods would murder me. so i will give it another day. and by 2300 zulu. tomorrow i will have my decicion. what should i do OOP? When you crash your car, then jump out running down the street to save your pod. Then you're playing way too much eve - MacGrowler III
Epegi Givo Amarr Araja clan	Posted - 2010.03.10 05:28:00 - [15] Drop the nuke and stay with the "official" girl. __________________________ My other alt is A Ferrari
Wuff Wuff Deep Core Mining Inc.	Posted - 2010.03.10 05:31:00 - [16] Nuke them both from orbit. - Wuffles
Zyck Dark-Rising IT Alliance	Posted - 2010.03.10 05:57:00 - [17] Originally by: Wuff Wuff Nuke them both from orbit. - Wuffles Confirming this is the ideal solution to all of life's problems.
Surfin's PlunderBunny Minmatar Fetish Nation	Posted - 2010.03.10 08:01:00 - [18] Originally by: Zyck Originally by: Wuff Wuff Nuke them both from orbit. - Wuffles Confirming this is the ideal solution to all of life's problems. It's the only way to be sure Originally by: Xen Gin Originally by: FOl2TY8 I know that some people like to have voluntary periods of abstinence. Yeah, I use that excuse too.
Merin Ryskin Peregrine Industries	Posted - 2010.03.10 08:06:00 - [19] Edited by: Merin Ryskin on 10/03/2010 08:06:38 Originally by: mercyonman i really like her almost love her. You aren't even dating her, you don't love her. You may love your imaginary version of her, but that is not the same thing. Quote: what should i do OOP? Threesome with her and the other guy. She obviously doesn't like you, so the only way you're getting into bed with her is if you're willing to let her watch some hot guy-on-guy action. Allow me to summarize: You have no clue about relationships and couldn't write a coherent paragraph to save your life. She doesn't like you. He is probably having sex with her right now. You're all immature and deserve every bit of the drama you make for yourselves. Any other questions? -----------
Xeross155 Minmatar Fusion Death Inc. Intrepid Crossing	Posted - 2010.03.10 08:24:00 - [20] Originally by: Surfin's PlunderBunny Originally by: Zyck Originally by: Wuff Wuff Nuke them both from orbit. - Wuffles Confirming this is the ideal solution to all of life's problems. It's the only way to be sure Agrees --------------------------------------------- Xeross' ventures into EVE
Alchemist's Alt Gallente Hysteria Nexus	Posted - 2010.03.10 08:39:00 - [21] I stopped reading after 17, <sigh> FIRST!!
Tallaran Kouros Caldari	Posted - 2010.03.10 08:59:00 - [22] Originally by: mercyonman she doesn't want to be in a "relationship" or be "official" so to speak. so i agree to it. Quote: well the guy the ENTIRE night was around the girl i was dating (lets call her Y). and he would rub her arms and stuff and she did NOTHING about it even though i was sitting RIGHT THERE. So you agree not to go out with her or to be in a relationship, then you get mad that some other guy was sniffing around the girl you then think you are dating? If you didn't like the situation, you shouldn't have agreed to it. I sympathise, but given the circumstances you don't really have a reason to get mad at her - she didn't really do anything wrong.
Whiff	Posted - 2010.03.10 09:20:00 - [23] Bag of lime and a spade.
William Walker Amarr Skies Tis Moiras	Posted - 2010.03.10 09:33:00 - [24] He is going to the prom with her (there is no you in that sentence). It's over bub. Over 'fore it started (Great song from Caesar's Palace btw). ________________________________________________
Sidewayzracer Caldari Corax. New Eden Retail Federation	Posted - 2010.03.10 09:38:00 - [25] Did AI Alice get banned and is this his new alt... We shall know as this progresses.
Alchemist's Alt Gallente Hysteria Nexus	Posted - 2010.03.10 09:42:00 - [26] Originally by: Sidewayzracer Did AI Alice get banned and is this his new alt... We shall know as this progresses. hehe thats what I thought :D FIRST!!
RedClaws Amarr Dragon's Rage E C L I P S E	Posted - 2010.03.10 09:57:00 - [27] You're 17 ffs
justin666	Posted - 2010.03.10 12:26:00 - [28] Originally by: mercyonman i would first like to thank everyone in OOP. but i think my hand is hovering over the nuke right now. i talked to her on the phone before i went to wrestling practice. and i started by asking how she was doing. and how her track practices were. then immediately after went to biz. i said to start that i felt like she over reacted. and was thinking irrationally. and think there should be an apology. she then said "I'm not apologizing for ****." i ignored that then kept talking. so later on after i talked to her for about 10 minutes i learned that before i confronted her. the guy asked her to prom. she said yes. and she didn't want to go with me cause she wants to be driven there. and i don't have my driver's license till may. so i felt really really bad that i couldn't provide to her. and i said that the only guy i wouldn't mind her going to prom with is the guy. and he asked her. so then she started to put words in my mouth. saying i was accusing her of hitting on the guy. and she told me she doesn't like him like that. so im like alright ok. then i had to go. so went to wrestling practice. and when i got finished. i got a txt from her saying "I'm sorry. i shouldn't have gotten as mad as i did. you don't deserve that. i did overreact. you hit a nerve, im sorry." so i called her 5 minutes after i got home. one ring then it went straight to voice mail. so i leave a msg on how she's fine i should have asked. and how i cant wait to see her tomorrow. but i couldnt take using the nuke. i dont want to ruin things. i really like her almost love her. and to see her in passing periods would murder me. so i will give it another day. and by 2300 zulu. tomorrow i will have my decicion. what should i do OOP? man ditch her she sounds like a tart letting a another guy take her to a prom than you....trust me there plenty of fish in the sea and there are way better girls than her....women accuse us of being the vilians in relationships i say differnt and im sure others would agree but then again shes a women and this is what women are like ive had to put with my gf for the last 5 years and boy is it rocky sometimes but oh well hope this helps
Juwi Kotch Fiat Iustitia	Posted - 2010.03.10 13:12:00 - [29] Talk to her about that face to face and try to find a solution. If there is no solution you can live with, or if she does not want to talk to you about that in a civilized way, say good bye. You will survive it, in in a few years you will congratulate yourself that it's not you suffering from her exploits. Support the Bounty Hunter Profession!
hired goon	Posted - 2010.03.10 13:35:00 - [30] You have two options. 1. Nuke. If you do this, make sure you are FIRM with her in your breakup speech. Make her understand she is wrong, and don't let her bullcrap words dissuade you - if she feels like she has the upper hand and can see your doubt it will strengthen her position and she'll be able to persuade herself she is right. 2. This is a similar option, where you are very firm and put your foot down with her. STAND YOUR GROUND AND BE A MAN, don't pssy out to her. You have to be ready to walk* and she has to be able to sense this. If she really likes you she will come running after you, like above when she phoned you afterward to apologize. The fact she did this shows she doesn't want to lose you. Use that fact to push harder and get her in line. The crap she's trying to pull is completely unacceptable. And going with a guy who isn't you just because he has a car? Alarm bells are ringing mate. Realistically you should ditch her just for this. What you ABSOLUTELY DO NOT WANT TO DO is carry on being a pssy in this relationship, letting her walk all over you and do * with other guys while you chase after her and apologize for existing. If you go down that road you will become obsessed, become stuck, and at your age will change your outlook on women for the rest of your life. Putting yourself in such a position will actually damage your ability to competently deal with women later on.** Trust me, I've been through all this, and had to re-learn being a man after I was turned into a complete p*ssy. -omg-

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