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Epegi Givo Amarr Araja clan	Posted - 2010.04.08 21:27:00 - [1] So, there is this girl I like, and she has dropped some subtle signs that the feeling is mutual. Now, I only pass her in the hallway about once a day. I am trying to ask her out, but every time I pass her I can make eye contact, but always get way to nervous to actually stop her. What tricks do you guys know to not be very nervous. __________________________ My other alt is A Ferrari
Jin Nib Resplendent Knives	Posted - 2010.04.08 21:29:00 - [2] Cut off your balls and you'll have nothing to worry about. -Jin Nib Trading on behalf of Opera Noir since: 2009.03.02 03:53:00
Khors Amtek Inc	Posted - 2010.04.08 21:30:00 - [3] Disconnect from your senses, stop thinking, just do it. -
Arvald Caldari The Lumberjacks	Posted - 2010.04.08 21:34:00 - [4] just do it, if she rejects you then you wont be nervous anymore, if she accepts then you will feel ****ing awesome
AdmiralJohn The Unknown Bar and Pub Elysium Alliance	Posted - 2010.04.08 21:42:00 - [5] Think about how much time you're wasting by not asking her right now. And that if she says no, it's only awkward about once a day in the hallway, so no biggie.
Barakkus Caelestis Iudicium	Posted - 2010.04.08 21:52:00 - [6] Do what a friend of mine did to break the ice with women. He got a rooster in a chef's outfit hanging from a noose tatooed on his leg (he was a short order cook), he would walk up to chicks and say "Wanna see my **? It hangs below my knees." Then he'd show them is tatoo...ing hell if I know why it worked all the time... Otherwise, just be like "hey *** get on my horse" (j/k). Don't worry about the rejection, just say hey, wanna go 'blah blah blah tomorrow' <insert place/day>.
Merin Ryskin Peregrine Industries	Posted - 2010.04.08 23:12:00 - [7] Let me put it this way: you can either: 1) Grow some balls, stop looking at girls as some mythical creatures that are totally different from you (a pretty creepy attitude, BTW), and talk to her just like you would talk to a guy. She might say yes, she might say no, but at least you can move on if you get rejected. OR 2) Keep avoiding actually asking her out because it would risk destroying this wonderful fantasy of her that you have, meanwhile she is busy having wild furniture-breaking sex with her boyfriend and is completely oblivious to the fact that you exist. And since you are still obsessed with this girl (again, creepy), you miss out on all the other potential girls you could be with. Years later, still lost in fantasies about her, you see her with her boyfriend and are so heartbroken that you kill yourself after leaving an emo goodbye letter about how cruel the world is not to recognize the undeniable destiny that the two of you should be together. Of course given that you "only pass her in the hallway about once a day", these "subtle signs" are most likely purely in your imagination, and she is busy having wild furniture-breaking sex with her boyfriend and barely even notices that you exist. -----------
Sidus Isaacs Gallente	Posted - 2010.04.08 23:26:00 - [8] Originally by: Epegi Givo So, there is this girl I like, and she has dropped some subtle signs that the feeling is mutual. Now, I only pass her in the hallway about once a day. I am trying to ask her out, but every time I pass her I can make eye contact, but always get way to nervous to actually stop her. What tricks do you guys know to not be very nervous. Talk to her, learn from the experience, be a wiser man afterwards. Bonus if she likes you. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- http://desusig.crumplecorn.com/sigs.html
Skippermonkey	Posted - 2010.04.08 23:36:00 - [9] forget girls...study!
Epegi Givo Amarr Araja clan	Posted - 2010.04.08 23:39:00 - [10] I didn't mention that I also have 1 class with her. And i can talk to her just fine, its just the actual asking out part that gets me. And i was thinking of trying to just ignore emotions, but i didn't know if it was likely to backfire completely. I only pass her once a day where she isn't surrounded by her friends. __________________________ My other alt is A Ferrari
Tuellan Bach	Posted - 2010.04.09 00:11:00 - [11] Rule 1: Don't ask gamers advise about the opposite sex/dating/having sex/romance of any kind. There is a reason we are gamers. Rule 2: See rule 1 Actually, there has been some pretty good advise presented to you. Don't let fear rule your life.
Barakkus Caelestis Iudicium	Posted - 2010.04.09 00:13:00 - [12] Originally by: Tuellan Bach Rule 1: Don't ask gamers advise about the opposite sex/dating/having sex/romance of any kind. There is a reason we are gamers. Rule 2: See rule 1 Actually, there has been some pretty good advise presented to you. Don't let fear rule your life. Speak for yourself lol. First rule, don't approach it like you're trying to get a "date". If you come off as not trying to get a date and you don't tell yourself "I really wanna date this chick" you'll get her to go out with you. Easiest way to get rejected is to act like you're trying to get a date. Just look at it as hanging out with her. Originally by: CCP Dropbear rofl edit: ah crap, dev account. Oh well, official rofl at you sir.
Iva Posavec Posavec Innovations Takhar Matari	Posted - 2010.04.09 01:31:00 - [13] I used to hate asking lasses out so on a number of occasions I would keep putting it off until they had a boyfriend or i would just never get round to asking them. One time though I worked with a lass who was totally out of my league and she was always getting hit on by others, I didn't think I had a chance but just asked her out anyway. The following 4 years proved that asking her out was a very good choice (apart from when we split and she kept the **ing cat!). Just ask her out, don't try to plan what you are going to say and don't complicate things and remember that if you keep putting it off then you are going to regret it. Alliance Creation**
Tobias Xiaosen Gallente TX Holdings Company	Posted - 2010.04.09 01:40:00 - [14] Instead of writing a long winded post about my personal experiences, go ahead and read this and stop being a freaking wussy! Linkage ~ Originally by: Cthulhu ftghan Keyboards are destructible. Much more so when used as a projectile.
0bvious Alt	Posted - 2010.04.09 01:49:00 - [15] .....chloroform ?
Surfin's PlunderBunny Minmatar Anti Fundie Patrol	Posted - 2010.04.09 02:28:00 - [16] Originally by: Arvald just do it, if she rejects you then you wont be nervous anymore, if she accepts then you will feel **ing awesome FYI: Arvy has never experienced the latter so that's all theory at this point Originally by:** Xen Gin Originally by: FOl2TY8 I know that some people like to have voluntary periods of abstinence. Yeah, I use that excuse too.
Shameless Avenger	Posted - 2010.04.09 03:20:00 - [17] It doesn't matter what the girl answers... the adrenaline rush of asking is enough to make u feel good... even if rejected.
Lance Fighter Amarr	Posted - 2010.04.09 03:57:00 - [18] Originally by: Shameless Avenger It doesn't matter what the girl answers... the adrenaline rush of asking is enough to make u feel good... even if rejected. Hrm, never thought of it that way. OP needs to grab his trusty ceptor and try to tackle that girl the first 'kill' is always the hardest Originally by: CCP Shadow Have you ever wished you could have prevented a train wreck before it actually happened? I need to stop this one before the craziness begins.
Epegi Givo Amarr Araja clan	Posted - 2010.04.09 04:09:00 - [19] OK. Tomorrow there is a spot where I might pass her, but its not 100% guaranteed. As in, sometimes shes there and sometimes not. I'll try to accurately say what happens for future reference. __________________________ My other alt is A Ferrari
Stitcher Caldari ForgeTech Industries	Posted - 2010.04.09 11:46:00 - [20] Edited by: Stitcher on 09/04/2010 11:53:55 You're certainly not going to work up the courage by asking the Internet for its advice. Although tbh, the advice here is exactly right. You've nothing to lose and everything to gain from asking. There's nothing to be nervous about. Besides, anxiety is a state of mind. Try to cultivate a mindset that says "I am so awesome, she can't possibly say no!". Force yourself to have an ego. Look at yourself in the mirror and say "I rule" a few times until you're grinning. Put on an upbeat track you really like as you do it. Confidence is something that you can learn and train yourself into. Some people are blessed with more natural confidence than others, but even that just means that it's a little less effort to get into the right frame of mind. if you're naturally nervous, you'll just need more time and effort and practice to be able to get yourself into a self-assured frame of mind. Once you can manage it, though, you'll never need to start another thread like this. Good luck - Verin "Stitcher" Hakatain.
Iva Posavec Posavec Innovations Takhar Matari	Posted - 2010.04.09 11:54:00 - [21] Originally by: Stitcher There's nothing to be nervous about. Well, she could eventually take you for everything you own,trap you into having a kid, give you the clap or even worse she could leave you for a woman, now that would suck (hey I turned her into a lesbian, what did I do wrong). But yeah apart for those things there is nothing to be nervous about. Alliance Creation
Stitcher Caldari ForgeTech Industries	Posted - 2010.04.09 12:05:00 - [22] Originally by: Iva Posavec Well, she could eventually take you for everything you own,trap you into having a kid, give you the clap or even worse she could leave you for a woman, now that would suck (hey I turned her into a lesbian, what did I do wrong). But yeah apart for those things there is nothing to be nervous about. Considering that A) I don't own much anyway B) I want to be a father, C) I make a point of practising safe sex and D) this has actually happened to me (she was gay all along, didn't want to admit it, finally came to accept it with my help) I think I can legitimately claim that none of those things are anything to be worried about. - Verin "Stitcher" Hakatain.
Slade Trillgon Endless Possibilities Inc. Ushra'Khan	Posted - 2010.04.09 20:49:00 - [23] If you have no problem talking with her then it shold be no problem asking and being able to handle the rejection if it occurs. The next time you are talking with her and you are able to get her laughing. Ask her when she gets her breath back. If she is able to say no to you at that point then she is not worth your time, so move onto the next propesct. Slade :Signature Temporarily Disabled:
Sazkyen	Posted - 2010.04.09 23:09:00 - [24] You either gain a lover or a "friend".
Serenity Frye The Blue Suns	Posted - 2010.04.10 08:04:00 - [25] comon man, you play eve. fit some tackle and get her! 'Tis better to be a Lion for one day then be a sheep for a hundred years'
Surfin's PlunderBunny Minmatar Anti Fundie Patrol	Posted - 2010.04.10 08:23:00 - [26] Originally by: Serenity Frye fit some tackle Gamma-Hydroxybutyric Acid? Originally by: Xen Gin Originally by: FOl2TY8 I know that some people like to have voluntary periods of abstinence. Yeah, I use that excuse too.
Stanford Tapp	Posted - 2010.04.10 08:30:00 - [27] I was taught at university GHB can be extracted easily out of wind shield cleaner - "Why would they sell 5 liter canisters on eBay?!" They didn't provide details, tho ;)

Chribba Otherworld Enterprises Otherworld Empire	Posted - 2010.04.10 08:31:00 - [28] /me contracts some mining lasers for the big night after she said yes Secure 3rd party service \| my in-game channel 'Holy Veldspar'

Toshiro GreyHawk	Posted - 2010.04.10 09:52:00 - [29] First off - there isn't any way you are not going to be nervous the first few times you ask a girl out. It's just something you have to deal with. Yes - you may make a complete ass of yourself. Accept that - and move on. Look at it like PVP - you were probably nervous as hell the first time you PVP'd - and then you got blown up a few times - and after that it wasn't so bad. That's a lie by the way ... it always hurts to get turned down ... but ... look at it this way ... if you don't keep trying - you'll end up some bitter old bastard stuck in his room playing EVE because you can't get a date. Prepare for the worst, hope for the best and get on with it. All you have to lose is your pride and ... what the hell is that worth anyway? Your pride and a few dollars will get you a cup of coffee at Star Bucks. Actually ... Coffee isn't a bad idea. Coffee doesn't mean a "date" date. It's just ... coffee. (Of course ... that's kind of an old gimic ... so ... if it's become as cliched as "Do you come here often?" or "What's your sign?" then ... you don't want to do that ...). "Hey Traci (pretend her name is Traci) you wanna get a cup of coffee at Starbucks after school?" But it could be anything else. It doesn't have to be "coffee". Of course ... there are some logistical issues here ... you need to pick something that is practical for your age, your mobility and your wallet. I mean ... you could be ten years old for all I know. (If that's the case - take my advice and stay away from girls for as long as you can (... that is - until you reach puberty) ... they're nothing but trouble). Anyway - Good Luck And Remember - there are lots and lots of other girls out there. Regardless of whether or not she says yes or no - you probably are not going to marry this particular one. Just try to enjoy each relationship for what it is - and don't worry about what it isn't. Orbiting vs. Kiting Faction Schools
Whitehound The Whitehound Corporation	Posted - 2010.04.10 10:01:00 - [30] Edited by: Whitehound on 10/04/2010 10:03:07 Be prepared, and I don't necessarily mean the one thing every teenager will now think about: a condom. Instead, realize that she may already have a boyfriend, who you don't know about. Sometimes a friend may tell you that she hasn't got one, but when you think about it, only she can give you the true answer to that question. Realize that she may not like your type (personality, attitude, etc.). You may find her attractive and very likeable, but this may not be mutual. Or to put it in other words: don't let your feelings for her guide you, but use your head and be smart. A successful relation is not just all feelings ... Back off when there is trouble. Just in case. And don't forget about the condom. --
ThaMa Gebir Gallente SUECHTLER Inc. The Ascendent Dominion	Posted - 2010.04.10 13:15:00 - [31] Think of it like your first ever PVP experience. You may get totally rapd (She screams at you and calls you a creep). Or you may well win and get the loot (she likes you too, and she goes out with you for a coffee or more). Or, (last option) she likes you as a cool friend, and you both go out together and you can get off with her equally hot friend that just so happens to be single at the time and is looking for you... Or just be a gamer, make a character after her, then if she refuses to even look at you then pod the char repeatedly in the most degrading ways possible... Now, where are my smarties again? ---------------------------- Confirmed heaviest* member of RDEX........ Hah, no more hijacks here!!!!
Epicbeardman	Posted - 2010.04.10 14:18:00 - [32] Ask her in public, when she's with friends or in a group, act like you've got some balls and didn't ask for advice on a goddamn mmo forum.
Dalmont Delantee Gallente Fidelis Discordia	Posted - 2010.04.10 17:22:00 - [33] 1) Women are like men, they like everything we do (except things like shoes etc) 2) Talk to women normally like a human being and all good 3) Don't say you would like to put your head between their chest and gooo BLLLURRGGHH, doens't always get a good response. 4) Basically, don't be scared, if you don't ask you'll never know, and don't get upset if you get told no. Its their fault not yours :) Take comfort in knowing that its probably some pimply faced twit, or 40 year old virgin, who gleens everytime mommy offfers to take them to needle point lessons
Dalmont Delantee Gallente Fidelis Discordia	Posted - 2010.04.10 17:28:00 - [34] Originally by: ThaMa Gebir Think of it like your first ever PVP experience. You may get totally rapd (She screams at you and calls you a creep). Or you may well win and get the loot (she likes you too, and she goes out with you for a coffee or more). Or, (last option) she likes you as a cool friend, and you both go out together and you can get off with her equally hot friend that just so happens to be single at the time and is looking for you... Or just be a gamer, make a character after her, then if she refuses to even look at you then pod the char repeatedly in the most degrading ways possible... Now, where are my smarties again? Mate I would use the R word in anything relating to chatting up women, shows a complete lack of respect... Take comfort in knowing that its probably some pimply faced twit, or 40 year old virgin, who gleens everytime mommy offfers to take them to needle point lessons*
Tigra LeMorte Gallente	Posted - 2010.04.10 23:37:00 - [35] Originally by: Toshiro GreyHawk Prepare for the worst, hope for the best and get on with it. All you have to lose is your pride and ... what the hell is that worth anyway? Your pride and a few dollars will get you a cup of coffee at Star Bucks. Heh, I love this, what a great piece of advice, and not just in the context of this thread. I trawl a few forums and communities in my no-lifeness at present and that's the best paragraph I've read in a while. Cheers. :) To the OP; best of luck, and the folks who just say to swallow your pride and/or fear and just go for it are right I think. I remember doing the same thing once with a girl I liked back in high school and approaching her after school one day (while my friends were there & hers) was so damn terrifying, I even stuttered and screwed up asking her out (my friends laughed) and nearly died - funny thing is though she said yes. <3 You'll be ok either way, just go for it.
Mutant Miner Caldari Red Federation	Posted - 2010.04.10 23:41:00 - [36] Just become gay and then you won't have to deal with the awkwardness of asking a girl out
Epegi Givo Amarr Araja clan	Posted - 2010.04.11 00:50:00 - [37] Lots of good advice here. Unfortunately, she wasn't there when passing in the hallway, and school doesn't get back in until next week . Kinda weird to want to be back into school. But the really cool thing is that she is not one of those "preppy" girls that everyone crushes on stereotypically. She doesn't even wear slightly revealing clothing. And that is the exact same personality I like in someone. And while she isn't the best looking person around, (And I heave heard gossip from fellow people that she is on the worse side of the spectrum) but I still find her attractive. I really like the PvP analogy, because every way I see it that is what it felt like. I will try using my PvP mindset, minus the attack everything that isn't explicitly friendly part. __________________________ My other alt is A Ferrari
Desudes	Posted - 2010.04.11 01:21:00 - [38] Edited by: Desudes on 11/04/2010 01:21:43 Just remember, you can either be the *** or the ***. censors suck :( hopefully you can guess what I said.
Blane Xero Amarr The Firestorm Cartel	Posted - 2010.04.11 01:38:00 - [39] Originally by: Desudes Edited by: Desudes on 11/04/2010 01:21:43 Just remember, you can either be the *** or the *. censors suck :( hopefully you can guess what I said. Quoting reveals all. _____________________________________ Haruhiist since December 2008 WIP Originally by:** CCP Fallout :facepalm:
Euxinus The Scope	Posted - 2010.04.11 03:52:00 - [40] Edited by: Euxinus on 11/04/2010 03:53:16 Here, tells you what to do step by step; THE MASTERPLAN
Lance Fighter Amarr	Posted - 2010.04.11 05:48:00 - [41] Originally by: Epegi Givo I really like the PvP analogy, because every way I see it that is what it felt like. I will try using my PvP mindset, minus the attack everything that isn't explicitly friendly part. just hope shes not wearing blue.. that might not go well with the higher-ups Originally by: CCP Shadow Have you ever wished you could have prevented a train wreck before it actually happened? I need to stop this one before the craziness begins.
Helmh0ltz Deep Core Mining Inc.	Posted - 2010.04.11 21:56:00 - [42] Once you're married and have kids you should totally show her this thread. (if she has a sense of humour ofc)
Tallaran Kouros Caldari	Posted - 2010.04.12 14:23:00 - [43] Originally by: Epegi Givo But the really cool thing is that she is not one of those "preppy" girls that everyone crushes on stereotypically. She doesn't even wear slightly revealing clothing. And that is the exact same personality I like in someone. And while she isn't the best looking person around, (And I heave heard gossip from fellow people that she is on the worse side of the spectrum) but I still find her attractive. Mate, YOU like her - that's what counts. You go out with the person, not the superficial looks that will fade over time. Give me a plain smart girl over a super-attractice airhead any day.
Zedic Amarr Universalis Imperium	Posted - 2010.04.12 18:48:00 - [44] Your first mistake is asking for "tricks". They're women, not wild beasts (sue me, I talk to them, and know their intimate details but I don't live with them LOL!). They're people. Yea, they do think somewhat differently than you do (on some stuff and that depends on the individual) but so what? Approach her with confidence, be yourself. Know the difference between "confidence" and "self assurance" and run of the mill douchebaggery. Yea, some girls like douchebags. Those individuals are allowing their evolution and daddy issues to rule them - not a really good idea for something beyond a ** buddy. If you haven't figured out who the hell "yourself" actually is, chances are less in your favor as most mature people prefer dating / whatever people who know themselves. Don't hide flaws, don't make excuses. Just ~ be. She'll either like you, or she won't. IF she does - sweet. If she doesn't, pick the pieces up and move on. You can't behave like women are horses and run around with a carrot tied to a stick. They'll usually take it away from you and beat the ** out of you with it. THEN they'll come complain to me about your silliness and really, I'd rather get on with my life. I swear, if it weren't for us, you people would never get together (and thus breed more of us.). Good Luck! :) "Zedic, would probably, somehow, make it all blow up." - Akima
BringItOnPunk Amarr Freelance Economics Astrological resources Tactical Narcotics Team	Posted - 2010.04.12 19:31:00 - [45] Did you get her yet? haha this thread is hilarious by the way Grow some nuts, nothing to lose =] plenty of fish in the sea my friend
Dimitryy Gallente Ever Flow Atlas Alliance	Posted - 2010.04.13 03:40:00 - [46] Originally by: 0bvious Alt .....chloroform ? ------------------------------------------ Jack Blackstone > Dimitryy I hope you die.
Alty VonAltenstein	Posted - 2010.04.13 03:52:00 - [47] give her surprise butt secks
N Ano Caldari Onyx Heavy Industries	Posted - 2010.04.13 09:58:00 - [48] Its easy just put on your Coolface and talk to her. Damn I wish I had me a Chimera
Shameless Avenger	Posted - 2010.04.13 10:18:00 - [49] a status updated is needed in this thread. OP: C'mon! tell us what happened!
Marlona Sky D00M. RED.OverLord	Posted - 2010.04.13 10:25:00 - [50] Originally by: Shameless Avenger a status updated is needed in this thread. OP: C'mon! tell us what happened! Apparently it was a trap. Was pr0 bait. Now he is on his stomach biting the pillow and gripping the bed rails hard. A moment of silence please.
Akita T Caldari Caldari Navy Volunteer Task Force	Posted - 2010.04.13 10:36:00 - [51] Originally by: Euxinus THE MASTERPLAN DAAAAAAANG ! _ Beginner's ISK making guide \| Manufacturer's helper \| All about reacting _
Locus Bey Gallente Anucaran	Posted - 2010.04.13 12:49:00 - [52] Working on the premise you are not a 45 year old virgin who has returned to college, just talk to her a little more. Ascertain if she really is showing some interest in you, whether that be as a friend or potential lover. Then, ask her straight up if she wants to do something on the weekend or such. Simple. Arrange to meet, get to know each other, take it as it comes. Don't go in with any expectations, who knows you may not even like her after getting to know her. As Merin rightly put it, "stop looking at girls as some mythical creatures that are totally different from you (a pretty creepy attitude, BTW), and talk to her just like you would talk to a guy."
dastommy79 Di-Tron Heavy Industries Atlas Alliance	Posted - 2010.04.13 15:21:00 - [53] 1. Take off pants 2. Say "you like?" 3. Get in a defensive stance 4. Accept the consequences Or see if you have any mutual friends and set up something where you both get to hang out and go from there. I role play ewok
Epegi Givo Amarr Araja clan	Posted - 2010.04.13 18:55:00 - [54] As I said, it is spring break, and school doesn't get back in until next week. __________________________ My other alt is A Ferrari
dr doooo	Posted - 2010.04.13 20:09:00 - [55] What would your older self say about it? Even if it somehow turns into your worst possible embarrassing nightmare, it will just be a funny story you maybe tell down the pub a few years down the line. Alternatively, your older self may want to give you a kick up the arse for not even trying. The world isn't likely to swallow you hole and spit you out the south pole, even though it may feel it could at that instant. These things get easier with experience, but you only get the experience by going for it and bumbling your way through. Just be honest.
Rick Rothsar Ghosts of Ragnarok	Posted - 2010.04.15 10:41:00 - [56] Just remember, your plan can't fail you if you don't have one to begin with.
Darth Kasbian Between the lines Terrebellum	Posted - 2010.04.15 12:10:00 - [57] No stinky pinky action yet then??
Megan Maynard Minmatar Tribal Liberation Force	Posted - 2010.04.15 14:43:00 - [58] Repeat the following, "Would you like to get some coffee after work?" It's that freaking simple. Even if you hate coffee, drink the filthy trash and talk about work, if she doesn't want to talk about work, ask about her dog/cat/kid/whatever. If she doesn't want to talk about that, game over find a different chick cause she ain't interested. (Or get her drunk) Originally by: F'nog Originally by: Stareatthesun No no no ... Polaris is where CCP keeps the death star that will destroy eve when the servers shut down. Thankfully I've got Interceptors trained to V. S
Ultin Harvor	Posted - 2010.04.15 15:47:00 - [59] Excuse me, does this smell of chloroform to you? Or if that doesn't work: Excuse me, does this taste of rohypnol to you? On a serious note; just something like 'I was going to go grab a coffee during lunch, would you like to join me?' Just something that will allow conversation between you too to get to know each other.
Jack Paladin Solar Storm Sev3rance	Posted - 2010.04.16 09:50:00 - [60] Start simple and go from there! The lunch idea would be a good starting point. 'I'm gonna grab some lunch, would you like to join me/hang out' As many have said in this thread, if she says no - move on to another girl and start your fantasy over again. There is nothing to be worried about! It is college after all. Just stay away from the ones that do social care. They has disease! Once youve asked a few girls out it becomes extremely easy to take rejection. Imagine it like them saying no to not liking a band. You: 'Do you like Rammstein?' Her: 'Nope' Case closed - move on, it's that simple. It's no big deal ............... unless it's Megan Fox but the likely hood of that happening are as likely as EVE getting Incarna (yep, I went there) Good luck. (btw, any girls reading this wanting to know more, drop me an in-game message) xD
Johanes Sajer Don't Taze Me Bro	Posted - 2010.04.16 17:53:00 - [61] Only read the OP, if you are serious and need help, contact me ingame and I have some information you may like.
DONJUAN v Tarnak inc. The Kadeshi	Posted - 2010.04.16 20:45:00 - [62] Originally by: AdmiralJohn Think about how much time you're wasting by not asking her right now. And that if she says no, it's only awkward about once a day in the hallway, so no biggie. **** yeah dude , ppl always over estimate the consequences rly! who cares its just one girl . you go to her and you let it go . keep it simple .nothing to long . i worked those skills in public transport or public places . go talk to a pretty girl in the subway . or that hot girl that work at cash register in grocery store not only will they become all red but most of the time you make there day and even if she says no , she will talk about you to all her friends sorry for the bad english but im french (1 more reason to trust my advices) oh and a BIIIIIG LOL at eve forums for making nerds talk about social relations aint it ironic , the game that destroys your real life social skills also helps you
Vernn Miller Caldari Volition Cult	Posted - 2010.04.16 21:29:00 - [63] This should be of some help.

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