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Sgiliy
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Posted - 2010.10.10 22:53:00 -
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just thought that i would share something funny lol
Lately at UW Oshkosh, i have had an interesting turn of events. I recently decided to try and keep the stress out of my life be just not caring about women. The funny thing is- as soon as i don't care, the women start rolling in. One girl (we will call her Valentine) I met while relaxing at a friends house. Now i had never met Valentine before but i guess that i had really made an impression on her becuase the DAY after i met her, her friends all called me and told me that she really enjoyed me.
They all said that she would really like to get to know me. So i decided that i would try and see where this would go. SO the next day i noticed on my facebook that she had already had friend requested me. So all was good, or so i had thought. Valentine was very very beautiful. She had long curly hair and brown eyes. She was also quite charming.
You see i went out to coffee with her the next week, and had a good time. She came from a well off to do family, and seemed as an all around nice person. I thought that everything was going well. We had the chance to meet up some time and get to know each other a bit more. So after a week or two of us doing the bull**** bull**** and all of that i decide that she thinks that i am not that much of a creep, and ask her out on a date.
So while we are relaxing in my dorm room i pop the question to her. I ask if she would like to go out with me.
* I thought that i had a great date planned out for her. She really enjoys working out and doing sporty stuff. So i thought that bringing her cross country skiing with me and then going to dinner at a nice sushi place. Sounds nice right? well no. It wasn't. Screw me. I can do nothing right. I can't play SC and i defiantly can't make dates*
So moving forward:
So the day comes up and she calls me and tells me that she is very exited in going on our date. I pick her up and then we drive to my place, grab the ski equipment and then head out to go and enjoy the winter wonderland. She hadn't CC skied in awhile and while she did slip and fall, it was overall a god time.
She enjoyed it, and told me that she was having a lot of fun. So still skiing and in the middle of the woods, we stop at a rest station and then i pull out some PP&J. She liked this at well, and enjoyed the food lol. SO after a quick snack we head back out on our skis and start going back to the car.
Now one would think that this would be the start of a good date, or at least the start to something good. The conversation was always easy, never forced and we seemed to get along well.
So after we got back to the car, we drove back to my place and then dropped off the skis. Afterward, while driving back to College, we stop at a really nice sushi place. And me being the nice walk on me mat kind of gentleman that i am, i pay for it and think nothing of it.
Long story short, the end of the night finishes well and i spent the rest of the night in a really really good mood. I had thought that the date went well, and the next day i was defiantly assured of what i thought. Two of her friends call me and begin going bat**** insane on me, because they think that i am so cute, we look good together and your so nice balh blah blah. The tell me that she had a very good time, and all of that ****.
So now (With only one week before spring break) Me and her stared to hang out a bit more. She randomly is stopping by my room and cuddles with me, and everything is going well. Except when her friends tell me that she doesn't like me anymore, while at the same time is still ON A DAY TO DAY ****ING BASIS coming into my room and cuddling with me.
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I wasn't thrilled.
if you want to read the rest of this, or any other part of my blog look here:
http://bluelazybear.blogspot.com/2010/10/college-girls-and-more.html
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Lance Fighter
Amarr
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Posted - 2010.10.10 23:11:00 -
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and the morale of the story? Copy pasta is bad for you.
 Originally by: Cat o'Ninetails
so i'm pretty much anti cat at the moment (lol)
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Aragoni
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Posted - 2010.10.10 23:27:00 -
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That was interesting. No really, no sarcasm here. 
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Epegi Givo
Amarr
Department of Redundancy Dpt.
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Posted - 2010.10.11 00:32:00 -
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Edited by: Epegi Givo on 11/10/2010 00:38:27
Edit: just saw the blog. NVM.
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Intense Thinker
Minmatar
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Posted - 2010.10.11 00:35:00 -
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Please direct all woman hating to www.love-shy.com
They will give you all the support you need while condemning all women. Though tbh you got further in 1 day than about 99% of them have in their whole lives. 
And remember, no matter how crappy you feel, 2 minutes on that site will improve your mood because just think... you could be in the same mouth-breathing boat as them 
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Professor Tarantula
Hedion University
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Posted - 2010.10.11 01:06:00 -
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Edited by: Professor Tarantula on 11/10/2010 01:09:26
Her friends are trying to pick you up. Nothing makes girls hotter than nice guys who aren't desperate for sex.
They even might just want to bang you so they can rub it in her face. Girls are pretty savage.
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Intense Thinker
Minmatar
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Posted - 2010.10.11 01:32:00 -
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Originally by: Professor Tarantula
Edited by: Professor Tarantula on 11/10/2010 01:09:26
Her friends are trying to pick you up. Nothing makes girls hotter than nice guys who aren't desperate for sex.
They even might just want to bang you so they can rub it in her face. Girls are pretty savage.
In my experience, nothing makes girls more desperate than a guy they can't have... all the girls that used to talk to me have been acting a little insane since I got together with the wench
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Professor Tarantula
Hedion University
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Posted - 2010.10.11 01:35:00 -
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Originally by: Intense Thinker
In my experience, nothing makes girls more desperate than a guy they can't have... all the girls that used to talk to me have been acting a little insane since I got together with the wench
That would probably fall under the other thing i said.
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They even might just want to bang you so they can rub it in her face. Girls are pretty savage.
My Warmest Regards.
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Danton Marcellus
Nebula Rasa Holdings
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Posted - 2010.10.11 04:33:00 -
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Originally by: Intense Thinker
Originally by: Professor Tarantula
Edited by: Professor Tarantula on 11/10/2010 01:09:26
Her friends are trying to pick you up. Nothing makes girls hotter than nice guys who aren't desperate for sex.
They even might just want to bang you so they can rub it in her face. Girls are pretty savage.
In my experience, nothing makes girls more desperate than a guy they can't have... all the girls that used to talk to me have been acting a little insane since I got together with the wench
That only works if you're with someone else. Women want what other women have already approved, if you're not approved by another woman first then you're useless.
Should/would/could have, HAVE you chav!
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Intense Thinker
Minmatar
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Posted - 2010.10.11 05:15:00 -
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Originally by: Danton Marcellus
Originally by: Intense Thinker
Originally by: Professor Tarantula
Edited by: Professor Tarantula on 11/10/2010 01:09:26
Her friends are trying to pick you up. Nothing makes girls hotter than nice guys who aren't desperate for sex.
They even might just want to bang you so they can rub it in her face. Girls are pretty savage.
In my experience, nothing makes girls more desperate than a guy they can't have... all the girls that used to talk to me have been acting a little insane since I got together with the wench
That only works if you're with someone else. Women want what other women have already approved, if you're not approved by another woman first then you're useless.
Actually it's sexual competition, not approval 
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Danton Marcellus
Nebula Rasa Holdings
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Posted - 2010.10.11 05:18:00 -
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Originally by: Intense Thinker
Originally by: Danton Marcellus
Originally by: Intense Thinker
Originally by: Professor Tarantula
Edited by: Professor Tarantula on 11/10/2010 01:09:26
Her friends are trying to pick you up. Nothing makes girls hotter than nice guys who aren't desperate for sex.
They even might just want to bang you so they can rub it in her face. Girls are pretty savage.
In my experience, nothing makes girls more desperate than a guy they can't have... all the girls that used to talk to me have been acting a little insane since I got together with the wench
That only works if you're with someone else. Women want what other women have already approved, if you're not approved by another woman first then you're useless.
Actually it's sexual competition, not approval
From their point of view in that time perhaps but they're not competing for your ass when you're single so I'll stick with the 'approved' label.
Should/would/could have, HAVE you chav!
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Intense Thinker
Minmatar
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Posted - 2010.10.11 05:26:00 -
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Originally by: Danton Marcellus
From their point of view in that time perhaps but they're not competing for your ass when you're single so I'll stick with the 'approved' label.
But exes never say good things about you, so I'm not seeing approval in any way
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Herzog Wolfhammer
Gallente
Aliastra
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Posted - 2010.10.11 05:51:00 -
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Eagerness puts women off.
This is why married men get hit on often. Heck when I was married I thought my wedding band was the One Ring for a while for it attracting many dark things.
(One woman in my life, I find, is enough trouble so nothing came of this).
As to the OP, I say, you will learn, Grasshopper, you will learn.
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Intense Thinker
Minmatar
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Posted - 2010.10.11 05:54:00 -
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Originally by: Herzog Wolfhammer
Eagerness puts women off.
This is why married men get hit on often. Heck when I was married I thought my wedding band was the One Ring for a while for it attracting many dark things.
(One woman in my life, I find, is enough trouble so nothing came of this).
As to the OP, I say, you will learn, Grasshopper, you will learn.
^What he said
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ivar R'dhak
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Posted - 2010.10.11 09:36:00 -
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Edited by: ivar R''dhak on 11/10/2010 09:37:56
Too much, too soon.
The times of wooing the chicks(especially young horny college slnts) are over.
Only saps like the OP still believe this Hollywood crap, while the ar$Çholes with inherent game get to frack the college sl÷ts immediately.
Learn game, disregard females, acquire knowledge to acquire currency.
Good luck breaking out of the feminist brainwashing, throwing females of that damn pedestal you have put them on.
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Shirley Serious
Amarr
The Khanid Sisters of Athra
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Posted - 2010.10.11 10:22:00 -
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Originally by: Intense Thinker
Originally by: Danton Marcellus
From their point of view in that time perhaps but they're not competing for your ass when you're single so I'll stick with the 'approved' label.
But exes never say good things about you, so I'm not seeing approval in any way
A single man, women are encouraged (by magazines and such) to think "Why are they still single? What's wrong with them?".
An attached man, women are encouraged to think "Oooo, they must be worth having!". the magazines then do the whole "Are your friends plotting to steal your man?" spiel.
A recently seperated man, women are encouraged to think. "well they must be worth having, for a while anyway, but what's wrong with them?".
Exes saying mean things, is a subtle way of keeping a usable man "available". By sabotaging any potential relationships before they get started, the Ex remains single, but vulnerable to the "I'm sorry for earlier, can we give it another go?" strategy, which the unfortunate man may be all too willing to take up.
It's all pretty silly, because the magazine, fashion and related industries are in the business of selling discontentment and paranoia, with a slight hint of misogyny.
I mean, while it is reasonably true that say, a single man that's 30+ may not be ideal husband material, magazines and such say "No! Keep away! Don't have fun!". So what if it doesn't work out? You can at least have an amusing time for as long as it lasts, surely.
People aren't ideal, but a lot of them can learn to be such, if they're given the chance. But the industry doesn't want that to happen, so they sell mistrust and paranoia.
Heh.
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Danton Marcellus
Nebula Rasa Holdings
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Posted - 2010.10.11 10:36:00 -
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Originally by: Intense Thinker
Originally by: Danton Marcellus
From their point of view in that time perhaps but they're not competing for your ass when you're single so I'll stick with the 'approved' label.
But exes never say good things about you, so I'm not seeing approval in any way
Who said anything about exes? It's them being with you while being with you that is the stamp of approval.
Should/would/could have, HAVE you chav!
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So Sensational
GREY COUNCIL
Nulli Secunda
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Posted - 2010.10.11 10:53:00 -
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TODAI FOR LUNCH I HAD BANANES AND CORN FLAYKES AND A SANDWHICH AND SOME OBOY WIT MILK (COLD) AND FOR BREAKFAST I ATE SOME SANDWICH TOO AND FOR DINNER I DONT KNOW WHAT I WILL EAT.
YESTERDAY I ATE CHIKEN.
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Toshiro GreyHawk
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Posted - 2010.10.11 10:57:00 -
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Eh ...
People want what they can't have and take for granted what they can.
The "not acting like you care" thing works well with cute chicks as they are used to having guys chase them.
Your big problem is the transition from "not caring" to a more permanent relationship. At this point - you lose the aura of being unobtainable - and start falling into the taken for granted category. If that happens ... it's over.
This is the problem with putting up a front, of pretending to not care. What you have to do - is to REALLY not care - and that's a lot harder. This works out well for you if you can pull it off - as no matter what happens - you really don't care. If you get her - that's cool but (since you really don't care) it's not that big a deal. If you don't get her - since you really don't care - that's not a big deal either.
What helps here - is being self centered. If you are the center of your universe - it's easier to not care what anyone else does. That's one of the reasons self centered people do so well. It isn't that you have to be an ass hole about it - it's just that you need to see yourself as the most important thing in the world. If you can't have what you want - since you are more important than anything else - that thing you can't have - isn't that important and you can just shrug off not getting it or losing it if you had it.
Most people just can't pull that off though ... at least ... not in the long term. They become attached ... they start to care - and then they are vulnerable. Vulnerability is a weakness and is perceived as such.
Now ... head games are less important with normal chicks than with the head cases many really hot chicks are. The really hot chicks - have got all these guys after them - and they can have pretty much anyone they want - so ... their minds are ... not the minds of normal human beings. Thus - if you want to be happy - you are probably better off with an average looking girl than one that is really attractive. The really ugly girls - are their own style of head cases ... which just brings trouble of it's own.
So ... not to hot ... not to cold - but just right is where you want to be.
That - and not caring all that much about what happens ... but not appearing to be cold and indifferent. Here - you are much better off if you are in fact cold and indifferent - and just pretend to care - than if you care and are pretending not to. Since your own emotions are much more under control - the pretense is that much easier to maintain. Of course ... the problem here ... again ... is having that emotional distance in the first place as ... again ... most people can't pull that off.
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Goldman Suchs
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Posted - 2010.10.11 11:49:00 -
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What's all this cr@p about relationships? I thought I was logging onto the Eve forum but it looks like Teen Girl Magazine for Teenage Girls.
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Malaclypse Muscaria
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Posted - 2010.10.11 17:09:00 -
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Originally by: Sgiliy
So now (With only one week before spring break)
*checks current month on calendar*
... sooo, this happened six months ago and you are still making blogs and forum posts about it?
Just let it go and move on dude, she already did a long time ago.
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alittlebirdy
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Posted - 2010.10.11 17:23:00 -
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Can I haz your stuffs?
I mean IRL when you kill yourself as you should.
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Zwen Johen
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Posted - 2010.10.11 19:04:00 -
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Edited by: Zwen Johen on 11/10/2010 19:10:06
Originally by: Danton Marcellus
Originally by: Intense Thinker
In my experience, nothing makes girls more desperate than a guy they can't have... all the girls that used to talk to me have been acting a little insane since I got together with the wench
That only works if you're with someone else. Women want what other women have already approved, if you're not approved by another woman first then you're useless.
In my experience same thing works for guys. I was single for a long time, somewhat busy and not really looking for a relationship, and per some extracurricular activities I was engaged in I was hanging out with a group that was mainly comprised of males. None of these guys have paid much attention to me beyond just being friendly and us getting projects done together. Then suddenly one of them decides he is going to start courting me. I wasn't looking for a relationship so I rejected him, but then a funny thing happened: several other guys started flirting and being extremely nice going beyond their previous just friendly behavior. I was really surprised with this kind of response because I was hanging out with them for over a year and a half at that point and they didn't pay that kind of attention to me. One of them decides to go for it, and from there on it was like a cascade
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So Sensational
GREY COUNCIL
Nulli Secunda
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Posted - 2010.10.11 19:08:00 -
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Originally by: Zwen Johen
from there on it was like a cascade
A sausage cascade
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Zwen Johen
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Posted - 2010.10.11 19:11:00 -
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Originally by: So Sensational
Originally by: Zwen Johen
from there on it was like a cascade
A sausage cascade
no, these were pizza and hamburger kind of guys
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Chribba
Otherworld Enterprises
Otherworld Empire
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Posted - 2010.10.11 19:31:00 -
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girls 
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Danton Marcellus
Nebula Rasa Holdings
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Posted - 2010.10.11 20:04:00 -
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Originally by: Zwen Johen
Edited by: Zwen Johen on 11/10/2010 19:10:06
Originally by: Danton Marcellus
Originally by: Intense Thinker
In my experience, nothing makes girls more desperate than a guy they can't have... all the girls that used to talk to me have been acting a little insane since I got together with the wench
That only works if you're with someone else. Women want what other women have already approved, if you're not approved by another woman first then you're useless.
In my experience same thing works for guys. I was single for a long time, somewhat busy and not really looking for a relationship, and per some extracurricular activities I was engaged in I was hanging out with a group that was mainly comprised of males. None of these guys have paid much attention to me beyond just being friendly and us getting projects done together. Then suddenly one of them decides he is going to start courting me. I wasn't looking for a relationship so I rejected him, but then a funny thing happened: several other guys started flirting and being extremely nice going beyond their previous just friendly behavior. I was really surprised with this kind of response because I was hanging out with them for over a year and a half at that point and they didn't pay that kind of attention to me. One of them decides to go for it, and from there on it was like a cascade
Not at all the same, they all went for you after one failed to prove they were more man than he was. It had nothing to do with you being 'taken', it was all male ego and your social status was irrelevant to the group I'm sure.
In short, women go for the sure thing, men play the field.
Should/would/could have, HAVE you chav!
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Templar Dane
Amarrian Retribution
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Posted - 2010.10.11 20:05:00 -
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I gave up on women long ago. Now I'm all about the man-love.
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So Sensational
GREY COUNCIL
Nulli Secunda
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Posted - 2010.10.11 22:17:00 -
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Originally by: Zwen Johen
Originally by: So Sensational
Originally by: Zwen Johen
from there on it was like a cascade
A sausage cascade
no, these were pizza and hamburger kind of guys
big sausage pizza?
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Spruillo
Gallente
Spruillo Corp
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Posted - 2010.10.12 03:27:00 -
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Edited by: Spruillo on 12/10/2010 03:32:55
This thread is garbage, all of it,
and yur a buncha noobs
Your doing it wrong btw.
edit- and why the hell would anyone reading op go look at a 'blog' with presumably more of the same tripe. I literally got diarrhea just reading op.
I mean literally. This has got to be the most terrible crap I have ever seen on eve-online forums and you should be perma banned, whipped, flogged, tarred and feathered IRL.
The whipped part is already underway she'll have you using men's toiletry products (besides soap and toilet paper) if your not already you limp-wristed weenie
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