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        |  Coffee Rocks
 Thrall Nation
 Brave Collective
 
 217
 
 
       | Posted - 2014.08.08 22:37:00 -
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 The article is here, and feel free to throw this graphic around as much as you like.
 
 Since I'm posting this in GD, let me expand on the article and reddit thread above:
 
 We pick on one another here in GD. We poke, troll, and generally argue till we're breaking keyboards (up to 5 here). And, maybe, some of us go too far sometimes.
 
 The point is, though, that I bet if I contacted anyone here in GD and told them I was depressed and thinking of hurting myself, they'd be there to listen and would get me the help I needed.
 
 If you need help, broadcast. Let someone know.
 
 Fly safe.
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        |  Rowells
 Unknown Soldiers
 Fidelas Constans
 
 1147
 
 
       | Posted - 2014.08.08 23:05:00 -
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 And advice to the logibros: do not break lock until they are out of harms way.
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        |  Coffee Rocks
 Thrall Nation
 Brave Collective
 
 220
 
 
       | Posted - 2014.08.08 23:29:00 -
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 Rowells wrote:And advice to the logibros: do not break lock until they are out of harms way. 
 +1
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        |  Sibyyl
 Gallente Federation
 
 5615
 
 
       | Posted - 2014.08.08 23:38:00 -
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 7o. Always classy. Love (and miss) you guys.
 The Muppets: P+¦pc++rn (thanks Ria!)
 "So.. youre saying you cant create content.... because other people are out... creating content?" --United Arab Emirates
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        |  Unsuccessful At Everything
 The Troll Bridge
 
 16272
 
 
       | Posted - 2014.08.08 23:59:00 -
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 Coffee Rocks wrote:The point is, though, that I bet if I contacted anyone here in GD and told them I was depressed and thinking of hurting myself, they'd be there to listen and would get me the help I needed. 
 Confirming that I would indeed help. 7o.
 Since the cessation of their usefulness is imminent, may I appropriate your belongings?
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        |  Jonah Gravenstein
 Machiavellian Space Bastards
 
 20000
 
 
       | Posted - 2014.08.09 00:18:00 -
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 Coffee Rocks wrote:You and I have disagreed on many things in the past, this is not one of them.We pick on one another here in GD. We poke, troll, and generally argue till we're breaking keyboards (up to 5 here). And, maybe, some of us go too far sometimes. 
 I wholeheartedly support this.
 o7
 
 Never hold your farts in. They travel up your spine and into the brain, where they ferment. They then migrate to your keyboard via your fingers. That's where shiptoasts come from.
 
 
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        |  Lady Naween
 Immortalis Inc.
 Shadow Cartel
 
 589
 
 
       | Posted - 2014.08.09 00:34:00 -
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 In deed, well said.
 
 o7
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        |  Chicken Exroofer
 Regional Assault and Recon
 
 21
 
 
       | Posted - 2014.08.09 01:20:00 -
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 Such a short list of things in Eve forums I agree with.
 
 This is one of them.
 
 Plus 1.
 
 And Broadcast for reps? That's genius.
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        |  Wacktopia
 Noir.
 Noir. Mercenary Group
 
 668
 
 
       | Posted - 2014.08.09 01:48:00 -
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 7o
 
 Keep it real Coffee Rocks
  Kitchen sink? Seriousy, get your ship together - -áFleet-Up.com
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        |  Scipio Artelius
 The Vendunari
 End of Life
 
 2848
 
 
       | Posted - 2014.08.09 02:00:00 -
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 Unsuccessful At Everything wrote:Confirming that I would indeed help. 7o. +1 UAE would be right there.
 
 Along with the rest of us.
 Come Win At Eve - Join The Vendunari
 
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        |  Val'Dore
 PlanetCorp InterStellar
 
 755
 
 
       | Posted - 2014.08.09 03:30:00 -
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 I can help... if being a cheerleader is helping.
 
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        |  Jessica Danikov
 Clan Shadow Wolf
 Fatal Ascension
 
 375
 
 
       | Posted - 2014.08.09 03:38:00 -
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 Thread should get a sticky and get featured or something.
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        |  Brea Lafail
 Center for Advanced Studies
 Gallente Federation
 
 8
 
 
       | Posted - 2014.08.09 03:42:00 -
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 Rowells wrote:And advice to the logibros: do not break lock until they are out of harms way. 
 That's actually the opposite of the (very limited) suicide prevention training I got. Pass them off to the professionals and disengage before you become their primary contact, because once that happens, you need to be available 24/7 for months.
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        |  James Amril-Kesh
 4S Corporation
 Goonswarm Federation
 
 10970
 
 
       | Posted - 2014.08.09 04:13:00 -
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 Coffee Rocks wrote:The point is, though, that I bet if I contacted anyone here in GD and told them I was depressed and thinking of hurting myself, they'd be there to listen and would get me the help I needed. I've seen statements from people here that make me believe otherwise, but probably for the majority here this would hold true. It would for me.
 No, this isn't it at all. Make it more... psssshhhh.
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        |  Coffee Rocks
 Thrall Nation
 Brave Collective
 
 233
 
 
       | Posted - 2014.08.09 07:42:00 -
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 Brea Lafail wrote:Rowells wrote:And advice to the logibros: do not break lock until they are out of harms way. That's actually the opposite of the (very limited) suicide prevention training I got. Pass them off to the professionals and disengage before you become their primary contact, because once that happens, you need to be available 24/7 for months. 
 This is actually true. Although it feels selfish or harsh, the most important thing you can do is make sure you get the person into the hands of professional folks as soon as possible. You are not passing the buck - if someone truly is on the brink, get them trained help.
 
 That said, Rowell's comment is equally true: if someone reaches out to you, don't drop the ball and expect "someone else will take care of it". Stay with them till they are in pro hands.
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        |  Kiryen O'Bannon
 Thrall Nation
 Brave Collective
 
 121
 
 
       | Posted - 2014.08.09 07:48:00 -
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 Coffee Rocks wrote:Brea Lafail wrote:Rowells wrote:And advice to the logibros: do not break lock until they are out of harms way. That's actually the opposite of the (very limited) suicide prevention training I got. Pass them off to the professionals and disengage before you become their primary contact, because once that happens, you need to be available 24/7 for months. This is actually true. Although it feels selfish or harsh, the most important thing you can do is make sure you get the person into the hands of professional folks as soon as possible. You are not passing the buck - if someone truly is on the brink, get them trained help. That said, Rowell's comment is equally true: if someone reaches out to you, don't drop the ball and expect "someone else will take care of it". Stay with them till they are in pro hands. 
 +1. And if you're the sort of person who wouldn't help, do us all a favor and unsub now.
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        |  Derrick Miles
 EVENumbers
 
 981
 
 
       | Posted - 2014.08.09 08:15:00 -
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 +1. And don't ever be shy to seek help if you think you might need it.
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        |  Faenir Antollare
 University of Caille
 Gallente Federation
 
 309
 
 
       | Posted - 2014.08.09 08:34:00 -
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 For when Eve doth humble.
 
 Well said Sir.
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        |  Jake Warbird
 Republic Military School
 Minmatar Republic
 
 4228
 
 
       | Posted - 2014.08.09 09:21:00 -
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 SevenO m8. Right behind you.
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        |  flakeys
 Guinea pigs inc.
 
 2404
 
 
       | Posted - 2014.08.09 09:31:00 -
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 Verry touching , can't get enough +1's and if i could i'd give you a tap on the shoulder .
 
 
 We are all born ignorant, but one must work hard to remain stupid.
 
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        |  Schmata Bastanold
 Black Rebel Rifter Club
 The Devil's Tattoo
 
 2525
 
 
       | Posted - 2014.08.09 10:02:00 -
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 Supported although if you really need help talk to your family/friends/doctor first. No shame in asking for help here but there's only so much pixel people can do for you.
 
 Sometimes you wish you could reach through your screen and choke that one idiot on the other side of argument, sometimes it could be useful to reach and hug some poor bastard.
 
 Now I'm gonna mine some veldspar because you made me feel sad...
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        |  baltec1
 Bat Country
 Goonswarm Federation
 
 12644
 
 
       | Posted - 2014.08.09 10:32:00 -
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 For a game full of brutal untrustworthy pirate renegades that are both feared and loathed by the rest of the MMO world we have an amazing ability to donate huge sums of cash to help people.
 Join Bat Country today and defend the Glorious Socialist Dictatorship
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        |  Coffee Rocks
 Thrall Nation
 Brave Collective
 
 246
 
 
       | Posted - 2014.08.09 10:44:00 -
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 baltec1 wrote:For a game full of brutal untrustworthy pirate renegades that are both feared and loathed by the rest of the MMO world we have an amazing ability to donate huge sums of cash to help people.  
 This entire thread/article/reddit-naught spurned a conversation when a newbie asked "What is Plex for Good?"
 
 Holy hell, they stopped at "can we do this again so we can see the devs get shot with paintballs again?!?"
 
 I'm so proud of our little newbie nuggins.
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        |  Omar Alharazaad
 Lords.Of.Midnight
 The Devil's Warrior Alliance
 
 292
 
 
       | Posted - 2014.08.09 10:45:00 -
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 I'm strangely comfortable with the rest of the MMO world viewing us like that to be honest.
 The true nature of the community on here is kinda pretty awesome, and having that be something people find out only after crossing the threshold is something I approve of.
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        |  Bloody Slave
 Republic Military School
 Minmatar Republic
 
 138
 
 
       | Posted - 2014.08.09 11:01:00 -
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 There is an old saying I was always reminding myself on the bad times:
 
 Ask the wood what it thinks about the hacksaw and the answer will be: "It is the executioner that cuts my entrails mercilessly." But is from the hacksaw's work that the wood turns into something better.
 
 Most of the times, we will need someone else to remind us and you truly never know from where the help comes.
 
 Awesome thread, awesome community, that is why I love this game so much.
 
 o7
 If your balls are hurt and bleeding don't sit in a pool full of piranhas (note to myself: don't complain in GD)
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        |  Bel Tika
 Sebiestor Tribe
 Minmatar Republic
 
 254
 
 
       | Posted - 2014.08.09 11:59:00 -
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 lol had a draft that would make some college proff jealous all typed out an ready to post, then well deleted it
 
 Suffice it to say, i understand how ppl can be thinking, even feeling, so all i will say is i know how hard or even impossible it can be for ppl to talk to others they know/trust/respect in real life an how well going online playing having fun can be the escape an that talking to the ppl there about it all can well be even harder than talking to the ppl from real life, the internet can be a even nastier place after all or seem to be.
 
 Believe me when i say though talking helps, even if the person aint got the answers, sometimes the best thing is just to say the damn problem/s out loud, so if you wannae make a alt or even just rant like hell on your main via chat/mail comms etc just hit me up in game im norm just floating about on this char.
 
 Im no the smartest cookie in the box, heck i probably dont even have any answers for you, bit i'll listen
 
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        |  Ralph King-Griffin
 Lords.Of.Midnight
 The Devil's Warrior Alliance
 
 3669
 
 
       | Posted - 2014.08.09 12:19:00 -
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 CoffeeRocks, great move o7
 
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        |  Omar Alharazaad
 Lords.Of.Midnight
 The Devil's Warrior Alliance
 
 300
 
 
       | Posted - 2014.08.09 13:44:00 -
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 And yes, +1 for this whole thing. It's easy to feel isolated and alone. But, with EVE being a single server game, it creates a single worldwide community instead of a cluster of villages like other MMO's. This is a good thing, especially being that most of those who play this game are adults who have been kicked in the teeth at least a couple times by life. Bad things happen to good people, and most of us can relate to this.
 
 Those mature enough to understand the nature of the game are able to separate what happens within it from the person on the other side of the screen... the guy who just wtfpwnd your favorite ship and then pod expressed you back to the medbay doesn't necessarily hate you, hell, you may have just made his entire day with that fight. If RL is hitting you hard and you say the word, you might be surprised, that same guy who's still wiping your pod goo off his windscreen may take three leaping bounds into the abyss to help drag you out. Ask.
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        |  Riot Girl
 You'll Cowards Don't Even Smoke Crack
 
 3459
 
 
       | Posted - 2014.08.09 13:51:00 -
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 I got 99 mental illnesses but depression ain't one.
 Oh god.
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        |  Bloody Slave
 Republic Military School
 Minmatar Republic
 
 138
 
 
       | Posted - 2014.08.09 14:39:00 -
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 Riot Girl wrote:I got 99 mental illnesses but depression ain't one. 
 Denial is a symptom, take care.
 
 
 If your balls are hurt and bleeding don't sit in a pool full of piranhas (note to myself: don't complain in GD)
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