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Terianna Eri
Amarr Terianna Eri Corp
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Posted - 2008.07.13 02:09:00 -
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Three simple rules:
Be handsome.
Be attractive.
Don't be unattractive. __________________________________
Originally by: Arthur Frayn How much to ruin all your holes, luv?
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Ryan Scouse'UK
omen. Triumvirate.
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Posted - 2008.07.13 03:43:00 -
[122]
Three simple rules:
Be handsome.
Be attractive.
Don't be unattractive. #
Of course this only works if ur as good looking as me,, prob 1 of the best looking ex eve players but anyways yer..
I normaly just ask a girl for a kiss followed by her phone number & her name..
if ya dont ask you dont get.. girls luv it when you just ask them for a kiss or say there fit or whatever to there face.. perhaps am to forward but am good looking enuff to get away with it, are you ?
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Tarminic
24th Imperial Crusade
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Posted - 2008.07.13 05:53:00 -
[123]
Originally by: Ryan Scouse'UK Three simple rules:
Be handsome.
Be attractive.
Don't be unattractive. #
Of course this only works if ur as good looking as me,, prob 1 of the best looking ex eve players but anyways yer..
I normaly just ask a girl for a kiss followed by her phone number & her name..
if ya dont ask you dont get.. girls luv it when you just ask them for a kiss or say there fit or whatever to there face.. perhaps am to forward but am good looking enuff to get away with it, are you ?
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Jim McGregor
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Posted - 2008.07.13 08:51:00 -
[124]
Edited by: Jim McGregor on 13/07/2008 08:51:19
Originally by: Tarminic
And so humble, too!
I dont think girls like humble guys anyway. I cant remember when the humble guy got the girl.
--- Its dead, Jim.
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Doc Extropy
Gallente Kinda'Shujaa
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Posted - 2008.07.13 09:02:00 -
[125]
Originally by: Jim McGregor Edited by: Jim McGregor on 13/07/2008 08:51:19
Originally by: Tarminic
And so humble, too!
I dont think girls like humble guys anyway. I cant remember when the humble guy got the girl.
Indeed.
Originally by: "Stephane Hemon"
Oh, stop being so HUMBLE... Humble sucks. It's boring, it's meaningless, and it's annoying. You don't need it; you can let Humble go now. Flowers are not "humble"! They stretch up toward the sun and seem to say, "Look at me, I'm beautiful!" My CAT is certainly NOT HUMBLE. He struts his stuff and women FLOCK to him. They walk right past me and go straight to him. My cat has no Approach Anxiety whatsoever. (Please note that I'm not bashing TRUE humble-ness. Most people ACT humble and then secretly feel proud about it.)
This is, I guess, the real truth about "humbleness". **** it. ---
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Shirley Serious
Imperial Academy
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Posted - 2008.07.13 10:06:00 -
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These things are good: Self confidence, like wearing a pink shirt without being self conscious. Having opinions and being able to express them coherently - shows ability to think. Able to make decisions but listens to opinions - doesn't leave it to me to decide everything. Showing interest in other people, and having something to do, like a hobby, during the day and able to talk about it - it's nice to make small talk. Feeling safe in their company.
Physical things like broad shoulders, square faces etc, are less important, but having energy to do things is important.
These things aren't: Complete devotion, I don't want a puppy. Overprotectiveness, it's suffocating. Neediness Arrogance
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Jim McGregor
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Posted - 2008.07.13 10:21:00 -
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Edited by: Jim McGregor on 13/07/2008 10:21:38
Originally by: Shirley Serious These things are good: Self confidence, like wearing a pink shirt without being self conscious. Having opinions and being able to express them coherently - shows ability to think. Able to make decisions but listens to opinions - doesn't leave it to me to decide everything. Showing interest in other people, and having something to do, like a hobby, during the day and able to talk about it - it's nice to make small talk. Feeling safe in their company.
Sounds like me, even though I leave it up to other men to wear pink shirts... 
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Originally by: Roguehalo Can you nano Titans?
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Victor Valka
Caldari Kissaki Corporation
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Posted - 2008.07.13 11:36:00 -
[128]
This is how I read this.
Originally by: Shirley Serious These things are good: Self confidence, like wearing a pink shirt without being self conscious. Having opinions and being able to express them coherently - shows ability to think. Able to make decisions but listens to opinions - doesn't leave it to me to decide everything. Showing interest in other people, and having something to do, like a hobby, during the day and able to talk about it - it's nice to make small talk. Feeling safe in their company.
This is everything women are not good at. So men have to be.
Originally by: Shirley Serious [...]having energy to do things is important.
Do things that are important to women, and only those! No. I don't think I will. Thank you.
Originally by: Shirley Serious
These things aren't: Complete devotion, I don't want a puppy. Overprotectiveness, it's suffocating. Neediness Arrogance
These are things women are good at. They don't like men infringing upon their territory.
Thanks for the LOLs. 
Originally by: Roxanna Kell You are insane.
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Doc Extropy
Gallente Kinda'Shujaa
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Posted - 2008.07.13 12:29:00 -
[129]
Hm, while women sometimes are very arrogant (I call this the ****ole - mode), they do this to get rid of, hm, accomodating nice guys in the first place who can't stand even the slightest bit of resistance.
Women are VERY keen about testing a guys resolve and dominance, you can see this arrogance (after approaching) and brattyness (when you are finally talking to them) as tests for your manliness.
Both are, tbh, easy to overcome... be strong and confident... well, this is the short version.
The long version is:
You have to internalize:
a) That you are worthy man, someone who went through hardships and challenges, someone who can handle himself and his life. b) That you own your own strength. Your willpower is your greatest gift, this is what makes you a man. c) Women are attracted TO MEN, not boys. Being a MAN is, in itself, attractive enough, the rest of this is to show her that you are normal, threedimensional, socially savvy and (at some point when she has "earned" it by other things than her looks) sexually interested in her ("wow... you are not only sexy, but also a great conversationalist" to take a popular example). ---
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Shirley Serious
Imperial Academy
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Posted - 2008.07.13 12:37:00 -
[130]
Originally by: Victor Valka
Originally by: Shirley Serious [...]having energy to do things is important.
Do things that are important to women, and only those! No. I don't think I will. Thank you.
Hmm? I'm meaning that I don't expect them to be olympic athletes, but I'd like someone who doesn't complain about being tired all the time, and says they don't have the energy to go out of an evening.
Quote: Thanks for the LOLs.
So, I like manly men, not girly men. What's lol about that?
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Ka'el Devwik
The Archaeological Squirrel Society
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Posted - 2008.07.13 13:51:00 -
[131]
Watch this vid? Supposedly the guy is very good but tbh I found it boring 
Originally by: Reven Cordelle Failing that. Equip : Balls and ask her if she wants to hang out
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Victor Valka
Caldari Kissaki Corporation
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Posted - 2008.07.13 16:55:00 -
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Originally by: Shirley Serious Hmm? I'm meaning that I don't expect them to be olympic athletes, but I'd like someone who doesn't complain about being tired all the time, and says they don't have the energy to go out of an evening.
Us men do this thing called work, to us, that means spending 50+ hours/week at the office/warehouse/factory. We do this to earn money and status. Amongst us men, it is understood that this makes us tired. Personally, least I want to do when tired is go to a job interview I have to pay to attend.
Originally by: Shirley Serious So, I like manly men, not girly men. What's lol about that?
More LOLs. 
Originally by: Roxanna Kell You are insane.
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Victor Valka
Caldari Kissaki Corporation
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Posted - 2008.07.13 17:05:00 -
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Originally by: Doc Extropy Women are VERY keen about testing a guys resolve and dominance, you can see this arrogance (after approaching) and brattyness (when you are finally talking to them) as tests for your manliness.
I see those as test to check if I'll put up with their bullshit. I won't. I refuse.
After a woman has given me favorable signs showing that I may approach her, I expect the situation to go uphill and be pleasant for both involved. Of course, either side can still break off if they find that the other partner is not to their liking after all. That's a given.
The crux of it is - you do not test people with negative stimulation.
Originally by: Roxanna Kell You are insane.
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Jim McGregor
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Posted - 2008.07.13 17:36:00 -
[134]
Edited by: Jim McGregor on 13/07/2008 17:37:12
Originally by: Victor Valka
Originally by: Shirley Serious Hmm? I'm meaning that I don't expect them to be olympic athletes, but I'd like someone who doesn't complain about being tired all the time, and says they don't have the energy to go out of an evening.
Us men do this thing called work, to us, that means spending 50+ hours/week at the office/warehouse/factory. We do this to earn money and status. Amongst us men, it is understood that this makes us tired. Personally, least I want to do when tired is go to a job interview I have to pay to attend.
Women dont work in your world? They do here where I live - a lot. My boss at my work is a female. Not only is she the manager of the whole thing, she also brings her kids to school and back and takes care of them while excelling at her high stress position at work.
I realize that some women are lazy and unemployed, but so are a lot of men.
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Originally by: Roguehalo Can you nano Titans?
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Tarminic
24th Imperial Crusade
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Posted - 2008.07.13 17:43:00 -
[135]
Originally by: Victor Valka
Originally by: Shirley Serious Hmm? I'm meaning that I don't expect them to be olympic athletes, but I'd like someone who doesn't complain about being tired all the time, and says they don't have the energy to go out of an evening.
Us men do this thing called work, to us, that means spending 50+ hours/week at the office/warehouse/factory. We do this to earn money and status. Amongst us men, it is understood that this makes us tired. Personally, least I want to do when tired is go to a job interview I have to pay to attend.
What part of the world do you live in, exactly? ---------------- Play EVE: Downtime Madness v0.83 (Updated 7/3) |

Victor Valka
Caldari Kissaki Corporation
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Posted - 2008.07.13 18:35:00 -
[136]
Originally by: Tarminic
Originally by: Victor Valka
Originally by: Shirley Serious Hmm? I'm meaning that I don't expect them to be olympic athletes, but I'd like someone who doesn't complain about being tired all the time, and says they don't have the energy to go out of an evening.
Us men do this thing called work, to us, that means spending 50+ hours/week at the office/warehouse/factory. We do this to earn money and status. Amongst us men, it is understood that this makes us tired. Personally, least I want to do when tired is go to a job interview I have to pay to attend.
What part of the world do you live in, exactly?
Eastern/Northern Europe. Depending on whom you believe.
Originally by: Roxanna Kell You are insane.
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Victor Valka
Caldari Kissaki Corporation
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Posted - 2008.07.13 18:46:00 -
[137]
Originally by: Jim McGregor Edited by: Jim McGregor on 13/07/2008 17:37:12
Originally by: Victor Valka
Originally by: Shirley Serious Hmm? I'm meaning that I don't expect them to be olympic athletes, but I'd like someone who doesn't complain about being tired all the time, and says they don't have the energy to go out of an evening.
Us men do this thing called work, to us, that means spending 50+ hours/week at the office/warehouse/factory. We do this to earn money and status. Amongst us men, it is understood that this makes us tired. Personally, least I want to do when tired is go to a job interview I have to pay to attend.
Women dont work in your world? They do here where I live - a lot. My boss at my work is a female. Not only is she the manager of the whole thing, she also brings her kids to school and back and takes care of them while excelling at her high stress position at work.
I realize that some women are lazy and unemployed, but so are a lot of men.
Of course women work in my world. 90% of employees at my workplace are women. Some of them work high level/high stress management jobs. And for them, I have nothing but respect. I've worked with them for long enough to see that they get the job done and they get it done good, but most importantly - they know what it takes it get it done.
Then there is a large number of women who seem to think that work gets done auto-magically and feel entitled to whine when going gets a little tough. Those are the ones I'm attacking here.
Unfortunately, the later is far more common then the former.
Originally by: Roxanna Kell You are insane.
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Doc Extropy
Gallente Kinda'Shujaa
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Posted - 2008.07.13 21:38:00 -
[138]
Edited by: Doc Extropy on 13/07/2008 21:39:57
Originally by: Victor Valka
Originally by: Doc Extropy Women are VERY keen about testing a guys resolve and dominance, you can see this arrogance (after approaching) and brattyness (when you are finally talking to them) as tests for your manliness.
I see those as test to check if I'll put up with their bullshit. I won't. I refuse.
After a woman has given me favorable signs showing that I may approach her, I expect the situation to go uphill and be pleasant for both involved. Of course, either side can still break off if they find that the other partner is not to their liking after all. That's a given.
The crux of it is - you do not test people with negative stimulation.
Heh, personally I even FORCE those congruency tests out of women, because:
a) Contrary to popular belief, they ARE a sign of sexual interest b) If you pass (and with the right mindset it is not THAT difficult, also contrary to popular belief 'n' whines) you get an enormous boost in female to male attraction c) It is good practice
Situation I was in a few months ago, was in a club with a few friends, a very cute chick (about 22 or 23, blonde) standing next to me...
Doc Extropy: "Who are you?" Girl: "What a stupid question..." (looking away) - this was the test! Doc Extropy (reaching for her hand): "I don't care. Turn around for me."
Held her hand, turned her around so I could check her out from all sides... then...
Girl: "omg." (blushes and gives me THE look) Doc Extropy: "yeah."
Kiss. 
Not beginners stuff, tbh... but doable with a little practice. ---
Skill queue now! Nerf skillpoint loss and half done skills! WE ARE PAYING CUSTOMERS AND DESERVE MAXIMUM COMFORT! |

Doc Extropy
Gallente Kinda'Shujaa
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Posted - 2008.07.13 21:41:00 -
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Originally by: Victor Valka
Then there is a large number of women who seem to think that work gets done auto-magically and feel entitled to whine when going gets a little tough. Those are the ones I'm attacking here.
You will always get what you believe you will get. ---
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Shirley Serious
Imperial Academy
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Posted - 2008.07.13 21:44:00 -
[140]
Originally by: Victor Valka
Then there is a large number of women who seem to think that work gets done auto-magically and feel entitled to whine when going gets a little tough. Those are the ones I'm attacking here.
And you see such women here?
5 days a week, I'm up at 6am, work 8-5 for the council parks&gardens service, and still have enough energy to go out for 2-3 hours in the evening if I feel like it.
Other people at the depot just sit about in the evening. That's not so good.
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Victor Valka
Caldari Kissaki Corporation
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Posted - 2008.07.14 04:52:00 -
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Originally by: Shirley Serious And you see such women here?
5 days a week, I'm up at 6am, work 8-5 for the council parks&gardens service, and still have enough energy to go out for 2-3 hours in the evening if I feel like it.
Other people at the depot just sit about in the evening. That's not so good.
Are you insane? I only see pixels. 
Originally by: Roxanna Kell You are insane.
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Victor Valka
Caldari Kissaki Corporation
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Posted - 2008.07.14 05:13:00 -
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Originally by: Doc Extropy Edited by: Doc Extropy on 13/07/2008 21:39:57
Originally by: Victor Valka
Originally by: Doc Extropy Women are VERY keen about testing a guys resolve and dominance, you can see this arrogance (after approaching) and brattyness (when you are finally talking to them) as tests for your manliness.
I see those as test to check if I'll put up with their bullshit. I won't. I refuse.
After a woman has given me favorable signs showing that I may approach her, I expect the situation to go uphill and be pleasant for both involved. Of course, either side can still break off if they find that the other partner is not to their liking after all. That's a given.
The crux of it is - you do not test people with negative stimulation.
Heh, personally I even FORCE those congruency tests out of women, because:
a) Contrary to popular belief, they ARE a sign of sexual interest b) If you pass (and with the right mindset it is not THAT difficult, also contrary to popular belief 'n' whines) you get an enormous boost in female to male attraction c) It is good practice
Situation I was in a few months ago, was in a club with a few friends, a very cute chick (about 22 or 23, blonde) standing next to me...
Doc Extropy: "Who are you?" Girl: "What a stupid question..." (looking away) - this was the test! Doc Extropy (reaching for her hand): "I don't care. Turn around for me."
Held her hand, turned her around so I could check her out from all sides... then...
Girl: "omg." (blushes and gives me THE look) Doc Extropy: "yeah."
Kiss. 
Not beginners stuff, tbh... but doable with a little practice.
I see that our approaches are vastly different and I know that yours does work. Lets leave it at that.
Originally by: Roxanna Kell You are insane.
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Siberys
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Posted - 2008.07.14 23:56:00 -
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Well, I would like to thank everyone who posted decent advice (As in all of you except like 2) for all the help you've given me. Can't wait to test it out... just gotta get through the summer, or find out if the girl I like is in town for the summer.
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Doc Extropy
Gallente Kinda'Shujaa
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Posted - 2008.07.15 07:30:00 -
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Originally by: Siberys Well, I would like to thank everyone who posted decent advice (As in all of you except like 2) for all the help you've given me. Can't wait to test it out... just gotta get through the summer, or find out if the girl I like is in town for the summer.
Don't. :D
Approach EVERY girl you like. There are plenty fish in the sea and everyone of them is special and unique.
Just give yourself the chances and build the skills in the process. Did it myself and it was very rewarding.
Don't EVER get a fixation on a single woman, not even when you're in a relationship... polyamory (which is what I chose) may or may not be the way to go for you, but keeping your eyes open and senses sharp is always a good thing.
Only thing you get out from fixation is frustration and a life of loneliness, had this once myself, never again... this is the real world, not Hollywood and not Disney.
Welcome to the jungle. ---
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Robert Rosenberg
Amarr Imperial Academy
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Posted - 2008.07.15 08:44:00 -
[145]
Do not date ever, give up now in advance and spare yourself the heartache. All that will happen is you will either
A: Not like her, and dump her. B: Like her a lot, and get dumped by her.
Are you going to marry her? No? Then there is a messy breakup in your future if you pursue it. Prostitutes are the better choice.
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Doc Extropy
Gallente Kinda'Shujaa
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Posted - 2008.07.15 08:51:00 -
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Originally by: Robert Rosenberg Do not date ever, give up now in advance and spare yourself the heartache. All that will happen is you will either
A: Not like her, and dump her. B: Like her a lot, and get dumped by her.
Are you going to marry her? No? Then there is a messy breakup in your future if you pursue it. Prostitutes are the better choice.
Trollposting 4tl. ---
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Pan Crastus
Anti-Metagaming League
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Posted - 2008.07.15 09:14:00 -
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Originally by: Doc Extropy LOL.
Here's what to do, honestly...
a) Be a bit arrogant, show active disinterest by not acknowleding how hot she is, but still you talk to her b) Befriend her friends c) Don't attempt to meet her alone... yet, instead use your brain to gather her together with friends, befriend them... oh, I said that before... nevermind, this IS important d) Stand upright, speak with a clear, low and projected voice, keep eyecontact e) Lower body movements to a minimum, radiate calmness and "being in control" f) Only start hitting on her when she gives you three signs of interest (like she plays with her hair, starts touching you and asks for your name) g) Topics to talk about: everything you are interested in, except bad and nerdy stuff like politics, religion, computer games h) Kiss her when she gave you enough signs of interest, lips only (makeout comes later)
Most important:
i) Treat her like your little sister, especially when she is bratty (and when she is interested in you she WILL be bratty).
That is so pre-youtube-age ...
Nowdays you need to: - have a cool profile on myspace/facebook/... - be a youtube star - then just mention her somewhere
How to PVP: 1. buy ISK with GTCs, 2. fit cloak, learn aggro mechanics, 3. buy second account for metagaming
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Pan Crastus
Anti-Metagaming League
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Posted - 2008.07.15 09:15:00 -
[148]
Originally by: Jim McGregor Edited by: Jim McGregor on 13/07/2008 08:51:19
Originally by: Tarminic
And so humble, too!
I dont think girls like humble guys anyway. I cant remember when the humble guy got the girl.
Right after he saved the world from aliens/the bad guys/... usually...
How to PVP: 1. buy ISK with GTCs, 2. fit cloak, learn aggro mechanics, 3. buy second account for metagaming
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Dantes Revenge
Caldari
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Posted - 2008.07.15 10:33:00 -
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Opening you mouth and saying something more interesting than "Gah..." might help.
Imagine she's just one of the gang and talk like you would to a mate. Don't try to be hard or put on some bravado act, she'll see right through it. Above all, don't lie, it will come back and bite you in the ass.
If you want the best way to strike up a convo, find subject she's good at and ask if she would be willing to help you get better grades. Even if you're already fairly good at the subject yourself, you've broken the ice and you're now talking to her. You've also flattered her by suggesting she's better at the subject than you which is a good start.
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