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Taua Roqa
Minmatar Sebiestor tribe
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Posted - 2008.12.20 12:46:00 -
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They start off at a severe skill point disadvantage to everyone who is already alive, and it takes them years to catch up :( Bad game design by god tbh.
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Super Whopper
I can Has Cheeseburger
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Posted - 2008.12.20 13:49:00 -
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Kids actually start with some really amazing attributes at lvl 5 already.
I will list a few - begging - stealing from your wallet/purse - phoning social services and lying that you beat them because you refused to buy them another xBox/PS3 as they already have two or three (advanced skill at 5) - demand that not only you take them to some exotic place on holiday but also take all of their friends so they can show off - beat their teachers - disrespect and talk back (advanced skill at 5) - impatience - ****, cry and keep you awake at all hours of the night - demand you throw away all of their clothing and buy the latest in fashion after you bought them an entire new wardrobe the week before - shoot parents because they take toys/games away (advanced skill at 5)
That's only a few skills they have at lvl 5, including their corresponding advanced skills.
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Steve Zodiak
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Posted - 2008.12.20 13:52:00 -
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Nah, the bad design is that by the time you've finally figured things out, its time to take the final taxi.
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Gnomes Rock
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Posted - 2008.12.20 14:27:00 -
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Originally by: Super Whopper Kids actually start with some really amazing attributes at lvl 5 already.
I will list a few - begging - stealing from your wallet/purse - phoning social services and lying that you beat them because you refused to buy them another xBox/PS3 as they already have two or three (advanced skill at 5) - demand that not only you take them to some exotic place on holiday but also take all of their friends so they can show off - beat their teachers - disrespect and talk back (advanced skill at 5) - impatience - ****, cry and keep you awake at all hours of the night - demand you throw away all of their clothing and buy the latest in fashion after you bought them an entire new wardrobe the week before - shoot parents because they take toys/games away (advanced skill at 5)
That's only a few skills they have at lvl 5, including their corresponding advanced skills.
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Slade Trillgon
Masuat'aa Matari Ushra'Khan
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Posted - 2008.12.20 14:45:00 -
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Originally by: Taua Roqa They start off at a severe skill point disadvantage to everyone who is already alive, and it takes them years to catch up :( Bad game design by god tbh.
Wins the forums for the day
Slade
Originally by: Niccolado Starwalker
Please go sit in the corner, and dont forget to don the shame-on-you-hat!
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Super Whopper
I can Has Cheeseburger
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Posted - 2008.12.20 14:57:00 -
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Edited by: Super Whopper on 20/12/2008 14:58:19
Originally by: Gnomes Rock No, you're just a bad parent.
And you're not a parent.
Also thank you for the compliment.
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Janu Hull
Caldari Terra Incognita Ethereal Dawn
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Posted - 2008.12.20 15:05:00 -
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Why? Because someone is going to have to pay for the broadband in your nursing home... In the event of an emergency, my ego may be used as a floatation device.
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Super Whopper
I can Has Cheeseburger
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Posted - 2008.12.20 15:15:00 -
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Originally by: Slade Trillgon
Originally by: Taua Roqa They start off at a severe skill point disadvantage to everyone who is already alive, and it takes them years to catch up :( Bad game design by god tbh.
Wins the forums for the day
Slade
Only people who don't have children or aren't teachers would think he won the forums. They start with major advantages over adults.
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Motaka
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Posted - 2008.12.20 15:20:00 -
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Originally by: Gnomes Rock
Originally by: Super Whopper Kids actually start with some really amazing attributes at lvl 5 already.
I will list a few - begging - stealing from your wallet/purse - phoning social services and lying that you beat them because you refused to buy them another xBox/PS3 as they already have two or three (advanced skill at 5) - demand that not only you take them to some exotic place on holiday but also take all of their friends so they can show off - beat their teachers - disrespect and talk back (advanced skill at 5) - impatience - ****, cry and keep you awake at all hours of the night - demand you throw away all of their clothing and buy the latest in fashion after you bought them an entire new wardrobe the week before - shoot parents because they take toys/games away (advanced skill at 5)
That's only a few skills they have at lvl 5, including their corresponding advanced skills.
No, you're just a bad parent.
This. _______________________________________________ Motaka ~ DirtyHarry ~ Original F-E Material |
Super Whopper
I can Has Cheeseburger
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Posted - 2008.12.20 15:22:00 -
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Originally by: Motaka This.
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Akita T
Caldari Navy Volunteer Task Force
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Posted - 2008.12.20 15:31:00 -
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Originally by: Gnomes Rock
Originally by: Super Whopper Kids actually start with some really amazing attributes at lvl 5 already. I will list a few - begging - stealing from your wallet/purse - phoning social services and lying that you beat them because you refused to buy them another xBox/PS3 as they already have two or three (advanced skill at 5) - demand that not only you take them to some exotic place on holiday but also take all of their friends so they can show off - beat their teachers - disrespect and talk back (advanced skill at 5) - impatience - ****, cry and keep you awake at all hours of the night - demand you throw away all of their clothing and buy the latest in fashion after you bought them an entire new wardrobe the week before - shoot parents because they take toys/games away (advanced skill at 5) That's only a few skills they have at lvl 5, including their corresponding advanced skills.
No, you're just a bad parent.
No, he just lives in the USA or another similar country which has a much-too-long tradition of silly "child abuse" laws that give children WAY too much entitlement... and has a relatively busy job so he can't afford to be with his young kids most of the day.
The moment your "disciplining" methods peak at stuff like "you're grounded" (yeah, right, so what) or a very stern talking to (lol?)... you can't possibly expect anything good to come of it. You wouldn't try to TALK to a puppy and explain to him why it's bad he shat on the carpet, now would you ? Even if the puppy COULD understand (well, a puppy can't, but a small child can) what you are saying, he simply does not care yet. The only thing he cares about is immediate, short-term drawbacks (like a couple of slaps to the ass).
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Gnomes Rock
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Posted - 2008.12.20 15:32:00 -
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Edited by: Gnomes Rock on 20/12/2008 15:35:11
Originally by: Super Whopper Edited by: Super Whopper on 20/12/2008 14:58:19
And you're not a parent.
Also thank you for the compliment.
No, I just speak out of experience of having a good parent that wouldn;t let me even think about doing the **** you listed.
And it's not a compliment.
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Originally by: Akita T
No, he just lives in the USA or another similar country which has a much-too-long tradition of silly "child abuse" laws that give children WAY too much entitlement... and has a relatively busy job so he can't afford to be with his young kids most of the day.
The moment your "disciplining" methods peak at stuff like "you're grounded" (yeah, right, so what) or a very stern talking to (lol?)... you can't possibly expect anything good to come of it. You wouldn't try to TALK to a puppy and explain to him why it's bad he shat on the carpet, now would you ? Even if the puppy COULD understand (well, a puppy can't, but a small child can) what you are saying, he simply does not care yet. The only thing he cares about is immediate, short-term drawbacks (like a couple of slaps to the ass).
Alright, i've never been to America so i'll stop talking. Didn't realise it was that bad over there though. However being in America doesn't (or shouldn't) give you an excuse to stop trying. |
TimMc
Gallente Brutal Deliverance OWN Alliance
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Posted - 2008.12.20 15:33:00 -
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Kids... if you can't beat 'em, whats the point of having kids?
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Akita T
Caldari Navy Volunteer Task Force
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Posted - 2008.12.20 15:40:00 -
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Edited by: Akita T on 20/12/2008 15:43:44
Originally by: Gnomes Rock Alright, i've never been to America so i'll stop talking. Didn't realise it was that bad over there though. However being in America doesn't (or shouldn't) give you an excuse to stop trying.
Basically, they get some phone numbers a kid can call and CLAIM he's being beaten, and without much investigation on wether the kid is actually beaten at all (and yes, physical disciplining of any kind seems to qualify as "abuse" over there too)... and some people will be coming over to your house and take the child away until some investigation can be made or the kid drops the claims. Of course, the child would be doing something incredibly stupid if he actually does this, but the mere threat or fear of your kid acting so short-sightedly on a mood swing will keep most parents NOT ONLY from physically disciplining their kids, but also make them cave in to the child's absurd demands (and it only gets worse as time goes by).
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Slade Trillgon
Masuat'aa Matari Ushra'Khan
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Posted - 2008.12.20 15:55:00 -
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Edited by: Slade Trillgon on 20/12/2008 15:58:06
Originally by: Super Whopper
Originally by: Slade Trillgon
Originally by: Taua Roqa They start off at a severe skill point disadvantage to everyone who is already alive, and it takes them years to catch up :( Bad game design by god tbh.
Wins the forums for the day
Slade
Only people who don't have children or aren't teachers would think he won the forums. They start with major advantages over adults.
I have worked with kids for 15 plus years. I found humor in my personal interpretation of sarcasm as it has to do with EVE and new pilots.
On a biological level, the human infant is one of the more susceptible vulnerable of mammalian infants, non debatable.
Slade
Originally by: Niccolado Starwalker
Please go sit in the corner, and dont forget to don the shame-on-you-hat!
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Sunabi
Caldari Shade.
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Posted - 2008.12.20 16:25:00 -
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Maybe I was just a good kid, but the worst thing my parents ever had to threaten me with was taking away my PC Get 'em addicted to videogames, it's great parenting!
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Vega Alioth
Caldari
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Posted - 2008.12.20 16:33:00 -
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Originally by: Taua Roqa They start off at a severe skill point disadvantage to everyone who is already alive, and it takes them years to catch up :( Bad game design by god tbh.
pure win
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Super Whopper
I can Has Cheeseburger
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Posted - 2008.12.20 16:53:00 -
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Originally by: Akita T No, he just lives in the USA or another similar country which has a much-too-long tradition of silly "child abuse" laws that give children WAY too much entitlement... and has a relatively busy job so he can't afford to be with his young kids most of the day.
The moment your "disciplining" methods peak at stuff like "you're grounded" (yeah, right, so what) or a very stern talking to (lol?)... you can't possibly expect anything good to come of it. You wouldn't try to TALK to a puppy and explain to him why it's bad he shat on the carpet, now would you ? Even if the puppy COULD understand (well, a puppy can't, but a small child can) what you are saying, he simply does not care yet. The only thing he cares about is immediate, short-term drawbacks (like a couple of slaps to the ass).
Good classroom activity.
While the article took place in the US it is an example.
When I was in uni a teacher was knifed by a student. The teacher then got arrested for assaulting the kid and nothing was done about the kid because the teacher had laid hands on him before being rushed to hospital. How many of my fellow classmates do you think ended up in the classroom? As far as I know none.
Welcome to the UK.
Also I am glad I know the work of Dr. Winston and don't just spout political correct nonsense like the rest of you. Marching to the tunes of the SS (Social Services) while THE expert on behavioural science teaches otherwise doesn't make you look clever. This comment was not aimed at you Akita but at those who think that by echoing the fascist rhetoric of a bunch of half sane people (the SS are notoriously unstable).
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Ren Surkova
Sniggerdly Pandemic Legion
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Posted - 2008.12.20 17:12:00 -
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it really ****es me off that I can't beat my own kids, fukken government...
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Izzy Lizzy
Gallente
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Posted - 2008.12.20 17:46:00 -
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Bad design. Nah. My 1yr old son pulls at my heart strings. Despite him getting into all kinds of things he shouldn't and constantly testing to see what he can get away with there's pretty much nothing I wouldn't do for him. Having a little one that is totally dependant on you is a real life changer and any parent that's not a total **** takes the responsibility seriously.
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Karrade Krise
Galatic P0RN Starz
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Posted - 2008.12.20 17:58:00 -
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Children are just a side-effect of sex
Voluntold, New Webcomic
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Jacob Mei
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Posted - 2008.12.20 18:28:00 -
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Originally by: Gnomes Rock
Alright, i've never been to America so i'll stop talking. Didn't realise it was that bad over there though. However being in America doesn't (or shouldn't) give you an excuse to stop trying.
Geez you sound like bible thumper who sights the commandment to be fruitful with that line. Seeing as your not from America even if you have heard the stories you likely wouldnt be able to grasp just how messed up it is here.
Child services, Social services, whatever non threatening name they prefer often times act on a hunch or alleged complaint that the parents are abusing their children. They come to your home, take your child away, take several weeks or months before they will determine if you were at fault or not and depending on what they find either remove your child from you completely or eventually return them. Often times these groups trample American citizens constitutional rights. But wait, thereÆs more!
Parents are becoming afraid to even bring their children to the hospital now because doctors will often times report suspected abuse. Now you may think that isnÆt so bad but things like a bump on the head from the child running around and hitting their head on the table fall into that category. So something your three year old likely does several times a week is a sign that YOUÆRE A CHILD ABUSER.
Then we have the police actually going to the schools, going into each class room and preaching to the students ôif either of your parents hurt you or your mommy or daddy, its your job to call us so we can help.ö Do you see how disturbing that is? The police actually recruit our children to be their informants. When you consider how emotionally immature children are a simple argument over where to go for vacation can be viewed by the child as ôdaddy hurting mommyö.
Then there is the social stigma that comes from having social services coming to take your child away so yes, Americans have plenty of excuses to stop trying. Our own government has set it up so that a member of our family who is emotionally immature can call, make an ill informed or false claim and that is enough to brand us as child abusers. No evidence needed, no proof required to substantiate the claim, just a ôI saw such and such all by myself hurting their child.ö
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Wendat Huron
Stellar Solutions
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Posted - 2008.12.20 18:34:00 -
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Life Drain lvl5
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Aria Moana
Gallente The Aduro Protocol
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Posted - 2008.12.20 18:39:00 -
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I am a parent of 3 children. 4yo boy, 2yo girl and a 9moth old boy. There are a lot of things you can do to keep children from becoming "unmanagable" from the get go and hitting them isn't necessary. The only time I "might" smack my oldest sons hand is if he is about to do something dangerous that may cause him to get hurt: Ie: Pulling boiling water off the stove, sticking his hand into the oven when its hot, jabbing things in electricla sockets, etc etc...you get the idea.
The important thing I have found is that no matter what you do to punish them, timeout, yelling taking things away etc, you make sure they know that you still love and care for them. They are your children and to actually be angry at them is counterproductive. It is up to you as the parent to keep a clear head and some objectivity. -Vene Vidi Vice |
Xrak
Black Eclipse Corp Band of Brothers
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Posted - 2008.12.20 19:42:00 -
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Edited by: Xrak on 20/12/2008 19:43:35
Originally by: Aria Moana I am a parent of 3 children. 4yo boy, 2yo girl and a 9moth old boy. There are a lot of things you can do to keep children from becoming "unmanagable" from the get go and hitting them isn't necessary. The only time I "might" smack my oldest sons hand is if he is about to do something dangerous that may cause him to get hurt: Ie: Pulling boiling water off the stove, sticking his hand into the oven when its hot, jabbing things in electricla sockets, etc etc...you get the idea.
The important thing I have found is that no matter what you do to punish them, timeout, yelling taking things away etc, you make sure they know that you still love and care for them. They are your children and to actually be angry at them is counterproductive. It is up to you as the parent to keep a clear head and some objectivity.
Word to my mother here! I agree with nearly everything you said.
(See what I did there?)
Anyone that thinks that children will grow up to be an arrogent, ignorant drain on society if they arent repeatedly physically punished needs to look at countries like Sweden and Norway, where it has been illegal for decades. Hardly countries thought of as being full of yobs.
(That isn't aimed at you Aria Moana in the slightest.)
I cant really comment on opinion that in the USA, the CPS will take your child from you for next to nothing, as I dont live there.
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kor anon
Amarr The Tuskers
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Posted - 2008.12.20 19:56:00 -
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children's personalities are moulded throughout their childhood by circumstances and the environment they grow up in, if they turn out to be little ****s then most of the blame fall on the parents. However i do agree that social service cases do get out of hand, but fortunately only rarely.
Why do we have kids? Instinct, love, want of a family, carrying on the bloodline, help running the homestead, need of a successor, because its natural, because thats what people do, vocation, divine will. There are a thousand reasons to have children, and only a few not to.
I lolled at OP's remark, very funny. And super whopper its fairly obvious that you dont have kids, and you also seem to be a bit bitter. Those points you listed are sometimes true in kids, but adults have mastered them (adv. lvl 5's if you want). If you honestly believe what you wrote i have to offer my congratulations as you've bought into the crap spewed tabloid newspapers
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EmperorPirk
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Posted - 2008.12.20 20:04:00 -
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Originally by: Karrade Krise Children are just a side-effect of sex
that is a truly horrible side effect! don't do sex!! but then agin, this signature isn't really relavent to this topic, now is it? |
Lord Zoran
House of Tempers
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Posted - 2008.12.20 20:06:00 -
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kids are cute bet i won't be saying that if i ever have any hehe
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Mathias Mineros
Terran Resurrection
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Posted - 2008.12.20 20:15:00 -
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Quit letting the TV raise your kids. Maybe then they wouldn't turn into total morons, who want to stab their teachers and call the cops on you if you don't give them everything they want.
Besides, the dog is a much better role model. The only bad habits they will learn are sniffing peoples crotches and licking their own genitals...which might not be all that bad in the right situation.
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Motaka
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Posted - 2008.12.21 03:20:00 -
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I smack my kids if they go to far,had it done to me when i was growing up and i didnt turn out to some homicidal killer. _______________________________________________ Motaka ~ DirtyHarry ~ Original F-E Material |
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Aria Moana
Gallente The Aduro Protocol
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Posted - 2008.12.21 03:46:00 -
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Kids are still cute when you have them, even when you have 3. lol. Seriously, you learn patience and caution, all sorts of things. Heh. Its sort of cool, but sort of bad too. Like when I was younger I would drive 125mph down the interstate. Now I wouldn never do that even by myself. If I died my family would be in trouble.
Raising kids is weird, but awesome. As far as smacking kids goes, I think this philosophy is pretty accurate.
--If you are worried that you are hitting your children too hard or too often, you are.--
People know when they are doing something wrong. Thats why thieves look left and right just before they are about to steal something. Parents realize when they have gone too far. The trick is to not let it get to that point. -Vene Vidi Vice |
Spaztick
Canadian Imperial Armaments EVESpace
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Posted - 2008.12.21 03:47:00 -
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"There is nothing cuter than someone else's child." But seriously, more people should have some type of spacer in their sigs to show it's not part of the post.
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Super Whopper
I can Has Cheeseburger
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Posted - 2008.12.21 04:22:00 -
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Edited by: Super Whopper on 21/12/2008 04:25:02
Originally by: Xrak Anyone that thinks that children will grow up to be an arrogent, ignorant drain on society if they arent repeatedly physically punished needs to look at countries like Sweden and Norway, where it has been illegal for decades. Hardly countries thought of as being full of yobs.
I knew a family in Sweden. They had a boy of about eight and the little ****er would touch everything, throw things, hit the cat and it would even try to throw the TV on the floor. Parents couldn't do a thing about it and all they would do is ask him not to stop, they wouldn't tell him but ask. They explained that in Sweden kids can phone the police, tell them they're being beaten and parents will end up in prison just because the child says so. I didn't understand what they were talking about until I went to the UK and saw it first hand.
As Jacob said, children are taught by the Gestapo and the SS to lie about their parents. It's entirely encouraged by a society that has no rules, no discipline and no respect. Children are brought up to disrespect, to be violent, to be yobs or whatever and to be the way they are. While the childless posters here cry **** that bad parenting is to blame when they have no idea what they're talking about people are actively fleeing the UK. One lady fled the UK and sought asylum in another European country and was granted it because of the severe violations of (parental) human rights in the UK. While I don't understand why she went to Sweden, as Sweden is just as oppressive, I do understand and support her for fleeing the UK.
Why do the SS do these things? Because there are no reprecussions. They can do whatever they want and there is nothing anyone is going to do about it. SS'er lets an eight year old girl die, is fined 500 Pounds by the court because she wouldn't turn up and then is allowed to continue to work with children.
The ultimate power of the SS.
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Khemul Zula
Amarr Black Plague. Kraftwerk.
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Posted - 2008.12.21 04:51:00 -
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Originally by: Karrade Krise Children are just a side-effect of sex
This.
People always look at me strangely when I try to argue that children are an STD. What else do you call a parasitic growth that results from sex?
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Super Whopper
I can Has Cheeseburger
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Posted - 2008.12.21 05:26:00 -
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Originally by: Khemul Zula
Originally by: Karrade Krise Children are just a side-effect of sex
This.
People always look at me strangely when I try to argue that children are an STD. What else do you call a parasitic growth that results from sex?
HAHAHAHA!
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xGradiusx
Minmatar Shoot To Thrill Un-Natural Selection
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Posted - 2008.12.21 05:44:00 -
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Originally by: Akita T
Originally by: Gnomes Rock
Originally by: Super Whopper Kids actually start with some really amazing attributes at lvl 5 already. I will list a few - begging - stealing from your wallet/purse - phoning social services and lying that you beat them because you refused to buy them another xBox/PS3 as they already have two or three (advanced skill at 5) - demand that not only you take them to some exotic place on holiday but also take all of their friends so they can show off - beat their teachers - disrespect and talk back (advanced skill at 5) - impatience - ****, cry and keep you awake at all hours of the night - demand you throw away all of their clothing and buy the latest in fashion after you bought them an entire new wardrobe the week before - shoot parents because they take toys/games away (advanced skill at 5) That's only a few skills they have at lvl 5, including their corresponding advanced skills.
No, you're just a bad parent.
No, he just lives in the USA or another similar country which has a much-too-long tradition of silly "child abuse" laws that give children WAY too much entitlement... and has a relatively busy job so he can't afford to be with his young kids most of the day.
The moment your "disciplining" methods peak at stuff like "you're grounded" (yeah, right, so what) or a very stern talking to (lol?)... you can't possibly expect anything good to come of it. You wouldn't try to TALK to a puppy and explain to him why it's bad he shat on the carpet, now would you ? Even if the puppy COULD understand (well, a puppy can't, but a small child can) what you are saying, he simply does not care yet. The only thing he cares about is immediate, short-term drawbacks (like a couple of slaps to the ass).
spare the rod, spoil the child
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Epegi Givo
Amarr Tundra Wolf.
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Posted - 2008.12.21 07:13:00 -
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Im 15, and I agree whole-heartedly with corporal punishment. Why?
Because even I can realize that adults have lost control over children.
A while ago I though corporal punishment was a bad idea, but sometimes you just need corporal punishment to keep someone in line.
I finally realized this last year, when in one of my classes there was a kid who wouldn't shut up, he was talking and joking loudly in class, and the teacher couldn't do anything about him. "I'll give you a referral to the office." and he just laughed off her attempts to get him back in line.
of coarse they can't take corporal punishment too far, like whipping someone when they get up and look out the window because there was a car crash outside (yes, this did happen to one of my teachers when he was a kid, there was a screech and a crash outside and 9 kids got up to look outside, they all got whipped.) -------------------------------------
Originally by: Karrade Krise
Originally by: Epegi Givo
This is my sig, or is it?
Now the only thing I can think of are Yard Gnome Ninjas...
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Niama
Aliastra
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Posted - 2008.12.21 11:16:00 -
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Originally by: Akita T
Originally by: Gnomes Rock
Originally by: Super Whopper Kids actually start with some really amazing attributes at lvl 5 already. I will list a few - begging - stealing from your wallet/purse - phoning social services and lying that you beat them because you refused to buy them another xBox/PS3 as they already have two or three (advanced skill at 5) - demand that not only you take them to some exotic place on holiday but also take all of their friends so they can show off - beat their teachers - disrespect and talk back (advanced skill at 5) - impatience - ****, cry and keep you awake at all hours of the night - demand you throw away all of their clothing and buy the latest in fashion after you bought them an entire new wardrobe the week before - shoot parents because they take toys/games away (advanced skill at 5) That's only a few skills they have at lvl 5, including their corresponding advanced skills.
No, you're just a bad parent.
No, he just lives in the USA or another similar country which has a much-too-long tradition of silly "child abuse" laws that give children WAY too much entitlement... and has a relatively busy job so he can't afford to be with his young kids most of the day.
The moment your "disciplining" methods peak at stuff like "you're grounded" (yeah, right, so what) or a very stern talking to (lol?)... you can't possibly expect anything good to come of it. You wouldn't try to TALK to a puppy and explain to him why it's bad he shat on the carpet, now would you ? Even if the puppy COULD understand (well, a puppy can't, but a small child can) what you are saying, he simply does not care yet. The only thing he cares about is immediate, short-term drawbacks (like a couple of slaps to the ass).
And you my friend are on the road to the other extreme according to your parenthood attitudes. take a note and read about "limits" and how to impose them before you become a parent. if you already are, take that as a note of cautiousness
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Akita T
Caldari Navy Volunteer Task Force
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Posted - 2008.12.21 12:11:00 -
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Originally by: Niama And you my friend are on the road to the other extreme according to your parenthood attitudes. take a note and read about "limits" and how to impose them before you become a parent. if you already are, take that as a note of cautiousness
Where in my previous statement have I said anything akin to "beat your kids constantly and for every little thing" ? You apply a very good spanking only for the worst transgressions (putting himself or somebody else in danger) and increasingly less for the rest (hurting other people would be second on the list, gotta nip that in the bud fast... third would be intentional destruction of property). For minor things (like disobedience, screaming and shouting or similar), a simple "evil look" should suffice once you have established your authority.
It's like nukes : you don't really have to use them if the other one knows you CAN use them.
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Super Whopper
I can Has Cheeseburger
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Posted - 2008.12.21 12:44:00 -
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Originally by: Niama And you my friend are on the road to the other extreme according to your parenthood attitudes. take a note and read about "limits" and how to impose them before you become a parent. if you already are, take that as a note of cautiousness
My wife has a degree in Criminal Psychology (profiling) and she asks whenever someone comes out something as intelligent as this "How can you expect children not to criminalise when all they have been taught that the only concequence of their actions is no concequence?"
The moment you have realised why teenage pregnancy is out of control in the UK and US, why youths turn to violence and crime and why parents are fleeing such countries en masse is the moment you realise why spanking or other forms of harsh discipline are necessary. I know people who are living in Israel and would rather run the risk of getting blown up than raise their children in the UK and have them come home pregnant at 10.
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Calvin Firenze
Minmatar Eternal Guardians Corp. The Covenant Alliance
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Posted - 2008.12.21 14:08:00 -
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I live in Texas, where high school principals still keep a paddle in their office.
Back on topic though. The only real reason to procreate is for the survival of the human species, which begs the question...
Why bother?
Bring on the apocalypse.
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Khemul Zula
Amarr Black Plague. Kraftwerk.
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Posted - 2008.12.21 15:11:00 -
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Originally by: Akita T beat your kids constantly and for every little thing
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Out of context quoting ftw!
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Shirley Serious
Amarr Imperial Academy
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Posted - 2008.12.21 15:24:00 -
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Violence among young people is more intense and violent than before.
Children killing each other because of giving each other looks.
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Davey Chase
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Posted - 2008.12.21 15:50:00 -
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Edited by: Davey Chase on 21/12/2008 15:51:01 The funniest thing was seeing my 1yr old (then) point to my monitor when I was in game and say "Myrmidon", then as she progressed she was able to identify other ship types.
Shouting "Shabba" down vent, funny and only ever happened a few times
Recently after I taught her the "NO U!!!!" way of handling with arguments, I cant seem to win one??????!!!!11eleven? (my bad)
Oh and informing my daughter that mummy was a ginger didn't go down well either but again v.funny.
GOOD TIMES!!
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Slade Trillgon
Masuat'aa Matari Ushra'Khan
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Posted - 2008.12.21 18:44:00 -
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Originally by: Khemul Zula
Originally by: Akita T beat your kids constantly and for every little thing
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Out of context quoting ftw!
As for this topic. I give the OP a 10/10 for their troll.
Slade
Originally by: Niccolado Starwalker
Please go sit in the corner, and dont forget to don the shame-on-you-hat!
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Shameless Avenger
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Posted - 2008.12.21 18:59:00 -
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IMHO this thread needs pics of cute children. |
WidowMaker IX
Caldari
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Posted - 2008.12.21 19:29:00 -
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My parents use to beat the crap out of me when I did wrong, now I have a Cl65, an S600, 3 companies, and 6 bedroom villa in Dubai and I am not 26 yet.
To be honest could not have done it without them.
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Aria Moana
Gallente The Aduro Protocol
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Posted - 2008.12.21 20:38:00 -
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Woot...Unneccessary self-gratification FTW. I have a cat :P a living room, a computer, and some various other things that indicate I am not homeless! *furiously **********s in the corner* ----------------------------------------------- I want to get a full body tatoo of myself... Only taller. |
Khemul Zula
Amarr Black Plague. Kraftwerk.
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Posted - 2008.12.21 21:16:00 -
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Edited by: Khemul Zula on 21/12/2008 21:17:08
Originally by: WidowMaker IX My parents use to beat the crap out of me when I did wrong, now I have a Cl65, an S600, 3 companies, and 6 bedroom villa in Dubai and I am not 26 yet.
To be honest could not have done it without them.
That describes nearly every member of a middle-east royal family.
Personally, my parents didn't beat me. I just got devorced, have a deadend low-paying job, and finally got through college after 7 years. And am not 26 yet, so .
------ I can picture in my mind a world without war, a world without hate. And I can picture us attacking that world, because they'd never expect it. |
Rondo Gunn
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Posted - 2008.12.21 23:50:00 -
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Edited by: Rondo Gunn on 21/12/2008 23:54:39 They are good for light manual labor like: lawn care, cooking, cleaning, coal mining, etc.
You just have to put up with them until they can walk at least, the little parasites.
Edit, actually I thought about that for five seconds and realized even if they can't walk they CAN crawl. With jury rigging I'm sure you could work some sort of harness for a smal cart. So I guess:
1. Harness infant
2. Coal Mine
3. Profit
(I mean how else are you going to pay for their f'n college tuitions.)
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Alexis Machine
Minmatar Ceraphite Technologies
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Posted - 2008.12.22 00:40:00 -
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My father beat the crap out of me when I did anything I knew would get me in trouble. I'm talking belt flying every which way. Legs, back, ass, head.. they were all targets. God forbid you try to cover your butt with your hands.. He did that till I was 13.. Once I hit that age, he put the belt down and would just knock me senseless with whatever he could grab. If nothing was available, he'd just use his fists.
He wasn't a child abuser by any means. Aside from my punishment, we had a great relationship and he taught me more about the world than anyone or anything else. That's just how he was raised. lol.. But.. I was always one of those "meh.. let's do it anyway" type kids.. so I'd do something.. get one of those talking to's. Do it again, and BAM. I couldn't sit down for 5 days.
Seems fair to me. Every single time I did something "wrong" I would have to think about it. "Well.. first.. will I get caught? Second.. if I DO get caught.. how bad will I get my ass beat? Third.. does fun outweigh the pain?" Most of the time.. I'd just take a beating.. Man I had some good times. And some sore times. lol And I learned how to be super sneaky! lol
But there is NO doubt in my mind, I'd be in jail right now if it wasn't for those ass whippins. Sometimes, the fun just wasn't gonna outweigh the pain. risk v/s reward and all that. lol. Kept my ass out of 0.0.
And yes, the Defax people are insane. They tried to arrest my mother, back when I was in highschool, because I skipped school. She dropped me off in front of the school, I would go eat breakfast, gather some friends, and leave. We did that ALL the time. They tried to arrest HER even though technically, I was already in the schools custody when I walked off campus. lol. I know people who have been taken from their parents because a family member (aunt, cousin, etc) was ****ed off and called. I've known people who have had their kids taken away because they smacked their ass in walmart or some place. My boss just had to go through an ordeal with them because his step daughter (who doesn't live with them) called and said they smoke pot around their kids. Which he they don't. They don't even drink. But they didn't even drug test. They just came and took the kids. They got em back and stuff.. but still.. that's something no parent should have to deal with. The sad thing is.. the kids who NEED to be in protective custody, aren't. That's the real joke about the whole thing.
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JordanParey
Minmatar Suddenly Ninjas
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Posted - 2008.12.22 08:30:00 -
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Originally by: Spaztick "There is nothing more annoying than someone else's child."
Fixed.
I don't mind little kids, as long as I know them or they're not bothering me or being little ****s.
I've met small children whose parents probably should have been castrated before procreating..there's nothing more irritating to me than parents who don't at least discipline thier own kids every once in a while.
My mom used to be a Social Services worker and the majority of the kids she worked with weren't really problematic enough to get their parents into trouble, but it's insane, the amount of power she actually had.
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Taua Roqa
Minmatar Branching Out
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Posted - 2008.12.22 08:47:00 -
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Originally by: Khemul Zula
Originally by: Karrade Krise Children are just a side-effect of sex
This.
People always look at me strangely when I try to argue that children are an STD. What else do you call a parasitic growth that results from sex?
*falls over and dies laughing*
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Taradis
Amarr The Imperial Assassins
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Posted - 2008.12.22 08:49:00 -
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Originally by: Gnomes Rock Edited by: Gnomes Rock on 20/12/2008 15:35:11
Originally by: Super Whopper Edited by: Super Whopper on 20/12/2008 14:58:19
And you're not a parent.
Also thank you for the compliment.
No, I just speak out of experience of having a good parent that wouldn;t let me even think about doing the **** you listed.
And it's not a compliment.
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Originally by: Akita T
No, he just lives in the USA or another similar country which has a much-too-long tradition of silly "child abuse" laws that give children WAY too much entitlement... and has a relatively busy job so he can't afford to be with his young kids most of the day.
The moment your "disciplining" methods peak at stuff like "you're grounded" (yeah, right, so what) or a very stern talking to (lol?)... you can't possibly expect anything good to come of it. You wouldn't try to TALK to a puppy and explain to him why it's bad he shat on the carpet, now would you ? Even if the puppy COULD understand (well, a puppy can't, but a small child can) what you are saying, he simply does not care yet. The only thing he cares about is immediate, short-term drawbacks (like a couple of slaps to the ass).
Alright, i've never been to America so i'll stop talking. Didn't realise it was that bad over there though. However being in America doesn't (or shouldn't) give you an excuse to stop trying.
Kids in the US are spoiled little hellions glad i don't have ne. You Sir should really read US news and see how many silly articles you can find about unruly kids specially teens, it will open u up to new horizons. Specially the little ass hat that shot his parents over a damn xbox. Child Laws in this country much like the court system is a fuking joke...
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WidowMaker IX
Caldari
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Posted - 2008.12.22 08:49:00 -
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Originally by: Khemul Zula
That describes nearly every member of a middle-east royal family.
Personally, my parents didn't beat me. I just got devorced, have a deadend low-paying job, and finally got through college after 7 years. And am not 26 yet, so .
Not from a very rich or royal family, if I was from a royal family the list will be much longer and will include Helicopters and 6 lvl super yacht to land them on, and about 10-20 super cars. DonÆt forget a house in London and Paris. Also thy would get 50 cent or Akon for their GF birthday. I am not joking one bit.
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Taradis
Amarr The Imperial Assassins
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Posted - 2008.12.22 08:50:00 -
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Originally by: Khemul Zula
Originally by: Karrade Krise Children are just a side-effect of sex
This.
People always look at me strangely when I try to argue that children are an STD. What else do you call a parasitic growth that results from sex?
the gift that keeps on giving
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NeoShocker
Caldari Foundation Sons of Tangra
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Posted - 2008.12.22 23:45:00 -
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Originally by: Khemul Zula
Originally by: Karrade Krise Children are just a side-effect of sex
This.
People always look at me strangely when I try to argue that children are an STD. What else do you call a parasitic growth that results from sex?
Omg, you made my day. Been awhile since I had a good laugh. -----------------------------------
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