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Ghaylente 7864	Posted - 2008.07.29 18:12:00 - [1] Me and my GF have been out like 6 months. We both live with our parents and have seen eachother daily for the past 7 months. We also live 5minutes walk from eachother, go to the same school and attend the Air training Corps. Recently we have had alot of time together. But ive had alot of work commitments working 40/50 hours a week. The days ive had off ive come rather lazy. Whenever i cant be assed to go to the ATC or go do somthing she wants to do aomthing together she goes in a massive mood with me for the next few hrs... =[ Is it just me acting like we arnt in an relationship or ... ?
Micheal Dietrich Caldari Terradyne Networks	Posted - 2008.07.29 18:18:00 - [2] This
brakespear Minmatar Heaven Up Here	Posted - 2008.07.29 21:48:00 - [3] Originally by: Ghaylente 7864 Me and my GF have been out like 6 months. We both live with our parents and have seen eachother daily for the past 7 months. We also live 5minutes walk from eachother, go to the same school and attend the Air training Corps. Recently we have had alot of time together. But ive had alot of work commitments working 40/50 hours a week. The days ive had off ive come rather lazy. Whenever i cant be assed to go to the ATC or go do somthing she wants to do aomthing together she goes in a massive mood with me for the next few hrs... =[ Is it just me acting like we arnt in an relationship or ... ? welcome to the rest of your life -------------------------------------------------- 'people will always be tempted to wipe their feet on anything with 'welcome' written on it.'
Patch86 Di-Tron Heavy Industries Atlas Alliance	Posted - 2008.07.29 21:55:00 - [4] Edited by: Patch86 on 29/07/2008 21:55:18 Are you happy: Yes/No If No, get out now. If Yes, quit complaining. 'Tis life for you. ------ Originally by: Micheal Dietrich You can even get a midget with a camera to sit on the floorboard.
Xtreem Gallente Knockaround Guys Inc. Exxxotic	Posted - 2008.07.29 21:55:00 - [5] yeah dude sorry to say, its only gonna at best, stay the same.
Imran Matari Akbar	Posted - 2008.07.29 22:02:00 - [6] put it in her butt. __________________________________________ EwokPoacher: Why hate Gallente? Blackest Sheep: Because we are beautiful.
Istvaan Shogaatsu Caldari Guiding Hand Social Club	Posted - 2008.07.29 22:06:00 - [7] Beat her terribly with a burlap sack full of oranges.
Spaztick Canadian Imperial Armaments EVESpace	Posted - 2008.07.29 22:07:00 - [8] Sounds like she's being selfish. Make it clear you need some time to yourself as well as time with her. But seriously, more people should have some type of spacer in their sigs to show it's not part of the post.
Tarminic 24th Imperial Crusade	Posted - 2008.07.29 22:23:00 - [9] Edited by: Tarminic on 29/07/2008 22:23:21 Originally by: Spaztick Sounds like she's being selfish. Make it clear you need some time to yourself as well as time with her. This. Communication is the foundation of a good relationship, if you're going out with her you need to be prepared to say things that she might not want to hear. Tell her what you just told us - that you need to have time to yourself and your friends too and that by not respecting that she's pushing you away. If she acts mature about it (may or may not happen), then problem solved and you can constructively come up with some rules about time to yourself or with your friends. If not, then you need to re-evaluate your relationship and ask yourself if you're really happy like this. If you are, then no harm done. If you aren't, then it's time to find yourself a new girlfriend. ---------------- Play EVE: Downtime Madness v0.83 (Updated 7/3)
Slade Trillgon Siorai Iontach Brotherhood of the Spider	Posted - 2008.07.29 22:28:00 - [10] If you feel like you are being nagged then you are. You have to communicate to her your feelings. If she is not receptable to those then things will not change so get yourself out. That being said if you open up the discussion you have to be receptable to her thoughts also. Communication is the root to all types of relationships especially intimate relationships. Slade "I am not saying there should be capital punishment for stupidity, but why can`t we just take the safety labels off everything and let the problem fix its self"

Kaeten Hybrid Syndicate	Posted - 2008.07.30 00:04:00 - [11] oh man my ex then... sounds the same when we hit 6 months, however jsut got worse and worse, eventully she kinda punched me once in an argument with fists @ my face. was a year ago we broke up, last month we had an argument of somekind she broke out her fists again, was bleeding from my lip and had a mark round my neck.. do like the other guys say tell her you need space, if she gets in a hassle/mood about that get out if your sad/unhappy.. don't do what I did and stay it out, I regret it.. ________________________ I'M POOR
Tarminic 24th Imperial Crusade	Posted - 2008.07.30 00:08:00 - [12] Originally by: Kaeten oh man my ex then... sounds the same when we hit 6 months, however jsut got worse and worse, eventully she kinda punched me once in an argument with fists @ my face. was a year ago we broke up, last month we had an argument of somekind she broke out her fists again, was bleeding from my lip and had a mark round my neck. Dude...if your GF actually hits you, run away! ---------------- Play EVE: Downtime Madness v0.83 (Updated 7/3)
Spaztick Canadian Imperial Armaments EVESpace	Posted - 2008.07.30 00:23:00 - [13] Originally by: Tarminic Dude...if your GF actually hits you, smack her back! fix'd But seriously, more people should have some type of spacer in their sigs to show it's not part of the post.
The TX Gallente Earth Inc.	Posted - 2008.07.30 00:34:00 - [14] Originally by: Imran put it in her butt. LOL -------------------- [Signature] [/Signature]
Tarminic 24th Imperial Crusade	Posted - 2008.07.30 00:44:00 - [15] Originally by: Spaztick Originally by: Tarminic Dude...if your GF actually hits you, smack her back! fix'd My solution ends with being single. Your solution ends with you and your GF sitting in the back of a cop car. ---------------- Play EVE: Downtime Madness v0.83 (Updated 7/3)
Jago Kain Amarr Pan Galactic Traders	Posted - 2008.07.30 00:49:00 - [16] Edited by: Jago Kain on 30/07/2008 00:52:13 Yet more reams of good advice on relationships from unhappy blokes pretending to be brave warriors from beyond the stars and completely unable to pull anything other than a calf muscle when they leave the chair in front of the computer for their once-monthly toilet break. I'd say take any advice given here with a pinch of salt, but if the pinch is inversely proportionate to the quality of advice given, then you'd be needing the IRL equivalent of an Iteron V (with expanders) to haul that much sodium chloride and several legions of catapult equipped troops working shifts around the clock for weeks to throw it over your shoulder. You'd be better seeking advice on how to deal with relationships from Charles Manson than the EVE community.... ....but seeing as you asked, I'd say the best solution is to knock her on the head with a rubber mallet, tie some large weights to her ankles and drop her into the nearest reasonably deep river, not forgetting to check her pockets for small change first (every little helps). Don't thank me, it's just what I do. ___________________________________________________ The game will never be over, because we're keeping the meme alive.
Spaztick Canadian Imperial Armaments EVESpace	Posted - 2008.07.30 00:55:00 - [17] Originally by: Jago Kain Edited by: Jago Kain on 30/07/2008 00:52:13 Yet more reams of good advice on relationships from unhappy blokes pretending to be brave warriors from beyond the stars and completely unable to pull anything other than a calf muscle when they leave the chair in front of the computer for their once-monthly toilet break. I'd say take any advice given here with a pinch of salt, but if the pinch is inversely proportionate to the quality of advice given, then you'd be needing the IRL equivalent of an Iteron V (with expanders) to haul that much sodium chloride and several legions of catapult equipped troops working shifts around the clock for weeks to throw it over your shoulder. You'd be better seeking advice on how to deal with relationships from Charles Manson than the EVE community.... ....but seeing as you asked, I'd say the best solution is to knock her on the head with a rubber mallet, tie some large weights to her ankles and drop her into the nearest reasonably deep river, not forgetting to check her pockets for small change first (every little helps). Don't thank me, it's just what I do. You just used an EVE reference to give advice on taking advice on the EVE forums. But seriously, more people should have some type of spacer in their sigs to show it's not part of the post.
Eternal Error Exitus Acta Probant	Posted - 2008.07.30 01:00:00 - [18] Edited by: Eternal Error on 30/07/2008 01:00:12 Originally by: Jago Kain You'd be better seeking advice on how to deal with relationships from Charles Manson than the EVE community.... LOL EDIT: seriously this is ****ing me off, why do some of my posts get italicized without me hitting the key?
Micheal Dietrich Caldari Terradyne Networks	Posted - 2008.07.30 02:22:00 - [19] Originally by: Jago Kain Edited by: Jago Kain on 30/07/2008 00:52:13 Yet more reams of good advice on relationships from unhappy blokes pretending to be brave warriors from beyond the stars and completely unable to pull anything other than a calf muscle when they leave the chair in front of the computer for their once-monthly toilet break. HEY, I'll have you know I just picked me up a total gym the other day for a great deal. In a few months I'll be as cool as Chuck Norris cause he says so! I'll be getting a freestand for the punching bag on thursday.
Amandin Adouin	Posted - 2008.07.30 02:46:00 - [20] Edited by: Amandin Adouin on 30/07/2008 02:46:24 Originally by: Spaztick Sounds like she's being selfish. Make it clear you need some time to yourself as well as time with her. Oh come on... the sensitive guy. I say if she gives you any lip you just get all Ike Turner on her ass - that'll shut her up real quick. Seriously, OP, you're asking for advice from people who say 'stick it in her butt'. I agree with Jago - this is the last place you should be asking for dating advice. Yeah if you want advice about pew pewing in space ships, ask away. Dating? No, I don't think so.

Xonkra Gallente	Posted - 2008.07.30 08:22:00 - [21] dude... your name... ... would explain alot --------- Founder of the Hug-a-troll initiative Hug a forum troll because they can probably use it !
Buff Plankchest Minmatar	Posted - 2008.07.30 08:34:00 - [22] Originally by: brakespear welcome to the rest of your life quoted for truth
Taradis Amarr The Imperial Assassins Ethereal Dawn	Posted - 2008.07.30 08:47:00 - [23] Originally by: Kaeten oh man my ex then... sounds the same when we hit 6 months, however jsut got worse and worse, eventully she kinda punched me once in an argument with fists @ my face. was a year ago we broke up, last month we had an argument of somekind she broke out her fists again, was bleeding from my lip and had a mark round my neck.. do like the other guys say tell her you need space, if she gets in a hassle/mood about that get out if your sad/unhappy.. don't do what I did and stay it out, I regret it.. Ouch yea my Dad told me to never hit a lady but their are some exceptions to this. When my g/f n I get into it most of the time cuz she's drunk and she's a mean drunk I just pick her up throw her over my shoulders slam her ass on the bed and tell her if she comes out imma bust her in the lip and not to talk to me until she sobers up... works to an extent never hit her tho which I am glad cuz i have a bad temper and i don't need the title of g/f beater added to me plus no matter what I would never hit a women closed fisted or at all for that matter cuz its just weak maybe I was raised right who knows
Akita T Caldari Navy Volunteer Task Force	Posted - 2008.07.30 09:46:00 - [24] Edited by: Akita T on 30/07/2008 09:51:30 Originally by: Eternal Error EDIT: seriously this is **ing me off, why do some of my posts get italicized without me hitting the key? You have an open "edit" tag with no closing one. You manually removed the closing one and forgot to delete the opening one. As to the OP : yeah, communication and all that crap. Short and painful version (as in, screaming, shouting and possible occasional pummeling by her on your hide if you don't hurry and blurt it all out from a safe distance): "I know you love to spend a lot of time together, but I need some personal time too. Don't get it the wrong way I still [love\|\|like\|\|adore\|\|whatever] you, but I feel suffocated if I can't ever hope to do anything by myself, because we're together every waking minute when we're not working or studying. I need a night with the boys, I need a couple of hours of solo relaxation, I need to sleep late in the weekend every now and then." Stuff like that. Best uttered while running away [/joke] _ THE APPRENTICE \|\| mineral balance \|\| nanofix**
Bilbo Bubbinz	Posted - 2008.07.30 12:08:00 - [25] Originally by: Ghaylente 7864 Me and my GF have been out like 6 months. We both live with our parents and have seen eachother daily for the past 7 months. We also live 5minutes walk from eachother, go to the same school and attend the Air training Corps. Recently we have had alot of time together. But ive had alot of work commitments working 40/50 hours a week. The days ive had off ive come rather lazy. Whenever i cant be assed to go to the ATC or go do somthing she wants to do aomthing together she goes in a massive mood with me for the next few hrs... =[ Is it just me acting like we arnt in an relationship or ... ? Just an observation, and some assumptions. But you are in full time education, and working 40/50 hours per week? Little wonder you dont want to do much, you're burning the candle at both ends (or throwing the damn thing into a furnace, as I like to say) Where you say you've become lazy, you've got yourself into a rut, and you are aware of it. (I know exactly how you feel here, I've been working 60+ hrs average lately, and been staying up till the likes of 3-4am just to be able to hang with my partner, as she works nights) In all honesty, something in your personal life needs to give a little, wether it be your job, or your education. Personally, I'd suggest your job, education is always far more important these days. As for some of the replies, the genuine ones at least, the key here really is communication. You haven't said how much you've talked about your feelings, but I get the impression that you've not really said too much about yours, and she thinks that you're being inconsiderate. Talk to her, let her know that you're exhausted and just want to unwind, maybe even suggest that instead of going to the atc, the two of you just veg out in front of the tv or something now and again instead. As for your last sentence; No, it doesn't sound like you are not in a relationship any longer. Clearly, you are by any standard. The fact that she wants to spend time with you is evidence of this. If the two of you genuinely care for each other, than you both will find a suitable compromise here.
quave Caldari Perkone	Posted - 2008.07.30 12:13:00 - [26] Take some advice from this guy advice
Kaeten Hybrid Syndicate	Posted - 2008.07.30 13:08:00 - [27] Originally by: Taradis Originally by: Kaeten oh man my ex then... sounds the same when we hit 6 months, however jsut got worse and worse, eventully she kinda punched me once in an argument with fists @ my face. was a year ago we broke up, last month we had an argument of somekind she broke out her fists again, was bleeding from my lip and had a mark round my neck.. do like the other guys say tell her you need space, if she gets in a hassle/mood about that get out if your sad/unhappy.. don't do what I did and stay it out, I regret it.. Ouch yea my Dad told me to never hit a lady but their are some exceptions to this. When my g/f n I get into it most of the time cuz she's drunk and she's a mean drunk I just pick her up throw her over my shoulders slam her ass on the bed and tell her if she comes out imma bust her in the lip and not to talk to me until she sobers up... works to an extent never hit her tho which I am glad cuz i have a bad temper and i don't need the title of g/f beater added to me plus no matter what I would never hit a women closed fisted or at all for that matter cuz its just weak maybe I was raised right who knows I was raised the same way, I never hit back at her, worst I've done is take by both arms and shout at her to calm down and stop. She was also a violent drunk however she could get violent sober too... Never again lol ________________________ I'M POOR
Wil Smithx	Posted - 2008.07.30 13:18:00 - [28] See seems violent, whatever you do don't dump her; I met a bloke once who tried to dump a girl cos she was mental... She chased him down the road with a kitchen knife and stabbed him in the arm!
Tarminic 24th Imperial Crusade	Posted - 2008.07.30 13:34:00 - [29] Originally by: Akita T Stuff like that. Best uttered while running away [/joke] Fool! She can still chase you down and/or throw things at you while running away. Follow up your statement with a smokebomb and ninja-like exit. ---------------- Play EVE: Downtime Madness v0.83 (Updated 7/3)
Xen Gin Universal Mining Inc Forged Dominion	Posted - 2008.07.30 14:08:00 - [30] Edited by: Xen Gin on 30/07/2008 14:08:40 Originally by: Kaeten Originally by: Taradis Originally by: Kaeten oh man my ex then... sounds the same when we hit 6 months, however jsut got worse and worse, eventully she kinda punched me once in an argument with fists @ my face. was a year ago we broke up, last month we had an argument of somekind she broke out her fists again, was bleeding from my lip and had a mark round my neck.. do like the other guys say tell her you need space, if she gets in a hassle/mood about that get out if your sad/unhappy.. don't do what I did and stay it out, I regret it.. Ouch yea my Dad told me to never hit a lady but their are some exceptions to this. When my g/f n I get into it most of the time cuz she's drunk and she's a mean drunk I just pick her up throw her over my shoulders slam her ass on the bed and tell her if she comes out imma bust her in the lip and not to talk to me until she sobers up... works to an extent never hit her tho which I am glad cuz i have a bad temper and i don't need the title of g/f beater added to me plus no matter what I would never hit a women closed fisted or at all for that matter cuz its just weak maybe I was raised right who knows I was raised the same way, I never hit back at her, worst I've done is take by both arms and shout at her to calm down and stop. She was also a violent drunk however she could get violent sober too... Never again lol My uncle was like that, never hit a woman, right down to even when his ex-wife stabbed him in the heart with a kitchen knife.



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