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Ryysa
Paisti
Paisti Syndicate
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Posted - 2008.08.01 19:20:00 -
[121]
 Originally by: Shirley Serious
Holidays can be a bit harder, true. Let me think for a while.
It's actually easy, since I doubt you will stay at your home during the holidays all the time...
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Originally by: Ryysa
I agree with that, but what stops you from doing just that in the same room?
Nothing really, except maybe the feeling that you're being watched. It bugs me if someone else is in the room when I'm looking at shoes on the internet for example.
I don't see why it bugs you?
If you have zero trust towards eachother, perhaps. We just kinda don't stick our nose into eachother's computers... like "OH HEY WHAT ARE YOU DOING RIGHT NOW"... I don't see why it is remotely interesting also.
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Victor Valka
Caldari
Kissaki Corporation
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Posted - 2008.08.01 19:23:00 -
[122]
Originally by: Isiskhan
Originally by: Victor Valka
Make up your bloody mind and review your stance and arguments! Right now, you're not making any sense.
Hey, it's not rocket science.
But then I gather from all your yada-yada about "psychological abuse" that either you're a wuss who cries all the way back to mommy's house whenever your bitch acts up (or makes a thread on some internet forums about it like the OP) instead of properly putting her back in her place, or that you simply don't have much experience with the opposite sex.
Out with the ad hominem attack. Right.
You keep on believing whatever you will. I'm going my way.
Originally by: Spaztick
You are not outnumbered, you are in a target-rich environment.
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Malcanis
We are Legend
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Posted - 2008.08.01 20:17:00 -
[123]
Originally by: Isiskhan
Originally by: Victor Valka
Make up your bloody mind and review your stance and arguments! Right now, you're not making any sense.
Hey, it's not rocket science.
But then I gather from all your yada-yada about "psychological abuse" that either you're a wuss who cries all the way back to mommy's house whenever your bitch acts up (or makes a thread on some internet forums about it like the OP) instead of properly putting her back in her place, or that you simply don't have much experience with the opposite sex.
If you don't think there's such thing as psychological abuse then all I can say is that I feel glad for you that you've never been on the receiving end. Because there certainly is.
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Amandin Adouin
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Posted - 2008.08.01 20:26:00 -
[124]
Edited by: Amandin Adouin on 01/08/2008 20:26:45
Originally by: Isiskhan
...you're a wuss who cries all the way back to mommy's house whenever your bitch acts up ... instead of properly putting her back in her place
Wow. Wow. Wow. 
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Shirley Serious
Imperial Academy
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Posted - 2008.08.01 20:50:00 -
[125]
Originally by: Ryysa
I don't see why it bugs you?
I'm probably just a very private person.
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Isiskhan
Gnostic Misanthropy
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Posted - 2008.08.01 21:16:00 -
[126]
Edited by: Isiskhan on 01/08/2008 21:20:34
Originally by: Amandin Adouin
Okay sorry for the edits but I just have to say something about this and I have absolutely no idea what to say. I don't know whether to make a joke (something about Ike Turner keeps going through my head) or ... cry 
Pfft... Ike Turner was a professional asshole, an exploiter, and a cheating junkie low-life who did all the wrong drugs.
At least I do the right drugs.
ps: just kidding ;)
pps: well, not about the drugs. I do smoke a lot of home-grown prime-grade weed.
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Amandin Adouin
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Posted - 2008.08.01 21:32:00 -
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Edited by: Amandin Adouin on 01/08/2008 21:32:57
Originally by: Isiskhan
Edited by: Isiskhan on 01/08/2008 21:20:34
Originally by: Amandin Adouin
Okay sorry for the edits but I just have to say something about this and I have absolutely no idea what to say. I don't know whether to make a joke (something about Ike Turner keeps going through my head) or ... cry
Pfft... Ike Turner was a professional asshole, an exploiter, and a cheating junkie low-life who did all the wrong drugs.
At least I do the right drugs.
ps: just kidding ;)
pps: well, not about the drugs. I do smoke a lot of home-grown prime-grade weed.
I know you were kidding and that I took it out of context, I just couldn't miss out on commenting on that hilarious statement 
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Dantes Revenge
Caldari
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Posted - 2008.08.03 05:55:00 -
[128]
Originally by: Victor Valka
Example of a reasonable behavior: Suggesting that we spend more time together, engaging in activities we both enjoy, instead of me playing with Internet spaceship.
Example of 'shit': Demending, in a fit of girly rage, that I stop playing with my Internet spaceships or else...
The difference is quite explicit.
In the former case, I will oblige - spending time together, doing things both partners enjoy, is one of the joys of a relationship - I would not be in a one if I didn't want that. In the later case - NEXT!
Where does reasonable stop and unreasonable begin though?
Using the example you used above of reasonable behaviour: She suggests you spend more quality time together which ends up being all the time so you have no time for yourselves.
While she may feel comfortable with that, you may find this too demanding and restrictive. Therefore, in your view, this may begin to feel like unreasonable behaviour. But where does the borderline lie? That is for the individual to decide because we all have our own tolerance levels.
I am in a relationship with a Philippino woman, she is far more mature in her attitude than any Western woman I have ever met even though she's only half my age. She recognises that time to yourself is necessary for a good relationship. You can't be in each others pockets all the time or it becomes stifling and restrictive. She also recognises that I have spent a long time on my own and the time I require to myself is probably a good deal more than most men due to having so much time in the past. She is mature enough to realise that if she pushes, I will feel restricted and it could result in me leaving her.
How these demands are worded and they are just as much a demand as an outright order for you to give up Eve, does not necessarily mean that she is being reasonable. What is reasonable is coming to an agreement regarding how much time you spend together and how much time out you both have.
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