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Jastra
Gallente Black Thorne Corporation
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Posted - 2008.07.30 14:13:00 -
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Originally by: brakespear
Originally by: Ghaylente 7864 Me and my GF have been out like 6 months. We both live with our parents and have seen eachother daily for the past 7 months. We also live 5minutes walk from eachother, go to the same school and attend the Air training Corps.
Recently we have had alot of time together. But ive had alot of work commitments working 40/50 hours a week. The days ive had off ive come rather lazy. Whenever i cant be assed to go to the ATC or go do somthing she wants to do aomthing together she goes in a massive mood with me for the next few hrs... =[
Is it just me acting like we arnt in an relationship or ... ?
welcome to the rest of your life
ROFL, yeah, this probably, a negotiation about what you do on your days off is probably in order
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Wil Smithx
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Posted - 2008.07.30 14:15:00 -
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Originally by: MotherMoon
Originally by: Imran put it in her butt.
what what?
ROFL - I hope this can become the new rickroll
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Wil Smithx
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Posted - 2008.07.30 14:18:00 -
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Originally by: Kaeten
Originally by: Taradis
Originally by: Kaeten oh man my ex then... sounds the same when we hit 6 months, however jsut got worse and worse, eventully she kinda punched me once in an argument with fists @ my face.
was a year ago we broke up, last month we had an argument of somekind she broke out her fists again, was bleeding from my lip and had a mark round my neck..
do like the other guys say tell her you need space, if she gets in a hassle/mood about that get out if your sad/unhappy..
don't do what I did and stay it out, I regret it..
Ouch yea my Dad told me to never hit a lady but their are some exceptions to this. When my g/f n I get into it most of the time cuz she's drunk and she's a mean drunk I just pick her up throw her over my shoulders slam her ass on the bed and tell her if she comes out imma bust her in the lip and not to talk to me until she sobers up... works to an extent never hit her tho which I am glad cuz i have a bad temper and i don't need the title of g/f beater added to me plus no matter what I would never hit a women closed fisted or at all for that matter cuz its just weak maybe I was raised right who knows
I was raised the same way, I never hit back at her, worst I've done is take by both arms and shout at her to calm down and stop. She was also a violent drunk however she could get violent sober too...
Never again lol
Damned straight, shake the shit out of that *****, then make her do the washing up!
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Isiskhan
Gnostic Misanthropy
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Posted - 2008.07.30 14:32:00 -
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Originally by: Ghaylente 7864 ... Is it just me ... ?
Buddy, you're screwed.
Can't wait to read the threads you'll make once you two move in together.
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Gungankllr
Caldari Isonami Syndicate
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Posted - 2008.07.30 14:32:00 -
[35]
Really depends on if you're still into her or not.
Only you know the answer to that.
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Viqtoria
Caldari Groping Hand Social Club
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Posted - 2008.07.30 14:44:00 -
[36]
dump her. seriously.
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Wil Smithx
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Posted - 2008.07.30 15:01:00 -
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Originally by: Viqtoria dump her. seriously.
Yea you already have eve for a mistress, and they don't come much better, eve goes down for an hour a day without fail...
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Tarminic
24th Imperial Crusade
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Posted - 2008.07.30 15:27:00 -
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Originally by: Xen Gin My uncle was like that, never hit a woman, right down to even when his ex-wife stabbed him in the heart with a kitchen knife.
There's is a difference between "hitting" and "keeping them from stabbing you," you know. ---------------- Play EVE: Downtime Madness v0.83 (Updated 7/3) |
Verone
Gallente Veto Corp
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Posted - 2008.07.30 15:40:00 -
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Originally by: Tarminic
Originally by: Spaztick
Originally by: Tarminic Dude...if your GF actually hits you, smack her back!
fix'd
My solution ends with being single. Your solution ends with you and your GF sitting in the back of a cop car.
His solution also ends with him being branded a woman beating moron.
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Wil Smithx
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Posted - 2008.07.30 15:49:00 -
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Originally by: Tarminic
Originally by: Xen Gin My uncle was like that, never hit a woman, right down to even when his ex-wife stabbed him in the heart with a kitchen knife.
There's is a difference between "hitting" and "keeping them from stabbing you," you know.
Oh wow am I putting a knife in her hand and taking pictures after next time...
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CCP Eris Discordia
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Posted - 2008.07.30 16:38:00 -
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Edited by: CCP Eris Discordia on 30/07/2008 16:38:42 following is here to protect the somewhat innocent If she is hitting you, well I guess the next question is whether you are in to that. If you are I think you should tell her that there is a time and a place for that, it comes with props and safewords.
If she is being an immature ***** who cannot express her frustration in any other way then I think you might want to sit her down and tell her to stop the hissy fitting violence and learn how to deal with life in a more responsible way.
If it doesn't help, leave her.
Honestly, the reason why girls and even some women can act like this is because they can get away with it. Don't put up with it because it might get worse. |
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Micheal Dietrich
Caldari Terradyne Networks
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Posted - 2008.07.30 16:56:00 -
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/stands in shock, envy, and awe of the mighty roar Eris post
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Spaztick
Canadian Imperial Armaments EVESpace
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Posted - 2008.07.30 17:36:00 -
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omg u siad bad word!1 But seriously, more people should have some type of spacer in their sigs to show it's not part of the post. |
Neth'Rae
Gallente Decorum Inc Tygris Alliance
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Posted - 2008.07.30 17:37:00 -
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Edited by: Neth''Rae on 30/07/2008 17:37:50
Originally by: Verone
Originally by: Tarminic
Originally by: Spaztick
Originally by: Tarminic Dude...if your GF actually hits you, smack her back!
fix'd
My solution ends with being single. Your solution ends with you and your GF sitting in the back of a cop car.
His solution also ends with him being branded a woman beating moron.
A woman-beating-man beating a man-beating-moron-woman rather?
edit: actually they would both be morons :P
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Hieronimus Rex
Minmatar Infinitus Sapientia New Eden Research
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Posted - 2008.07.30 17:39:00 -
[45]
Originally by: Imran put it in her butt.
This. She wants it in the ****er.
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Victor Valka
Caldari Kissaki Corporation
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Posted - 2008.07.30 17:43:00 -
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Originally by: CCP Eris Discordia Honestly, the reason why girls and even some women can act like this is because they can get away with it. Don't put up with it because it might get worse.
That is the most sensible thing I have _ever_ heard a woman say (write). (That's a compliment, if there were any doubts.)
@OP: Emotional abuse is just as bad as physical. If not worse. Don't let anyone abuse you - I understand that you're young and believe the myth of Awesome Pussy. Awesome Pussy is supposed to be all important (according to media, at least ) and if you ain't getting it daily you might as well expire there and then (again, according to media). Don't believe that. If you don't feel comfortable in a relationship - leave. Now!
No matter what you try, you can't change people - only people can change themselves. You're relationship will not get better, regardless of if you do X, Y or Z. Ergo, my advice - leave.
The bottom line, if only oh so cynical, is - plenty of fish in the sea.
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Akita T
Caldari Navy Volunteer Task Force
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Posted - 2008.07.30 17:47:00 -
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Originally by: Tarminic
Originally by: Akita T Short and painful version (as in, screaming, shouting and possible occasional pummeling by her on your hide if you don't hurry and blurt it all out from a safe distance): [thestuff] Stuff like that. Best uttered while running away [/joke]
Fool! She can still chase you down and/or throw things at you while running away. Follow up your statement with a smokebomb and ninja-like exit.
Poor planning. You can't possibly hope to tell her ALL of that before you use the smokebomb ! You have to start saying that, then when she starts to come closer, THEN you start wunning, and you throw the smokebomb and make the ninja exit AFTER you finished saying it all ! Using the phone is not a good idea, she can just hang up then come to your home and pummel you when you least expect it, because she knew what you were going to say (but you don't know that for sure). Well, you could ninja-hide somewhere close and use ventriloquism to project your voice from somehwere else. Or wear her out, then implant a small speaker close to her ear, and deliver the speech remotely.
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Radix Salvilines
dearg doom
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Posted - 2008.07.30 18:00:00 -
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when in bed and doing dirty things say "oh EVE" :P :P :P ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ ♥-☻BPINC☺-♥ ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ |
Slanty McGarglefist
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Posted - 2008.07.30 18:02:00 -
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Tell her that you'll always be there for her, but then leave the country. __________________________________________________
Originally by: CCP Wrangler No
Doh! |
Lord Zoran
House of Tempers
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Posted - 2008.07.30 18:45:00 -
[50]
Originally by: Imran put it in her butt.
lmao
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Kalahari Wayrest
Re-Awakened Technologies Inc
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Posted - 2008.07.30 19:11:00 -
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Edited by: Kalahari Wayrest on 30/07/2008 19:11:54 Uhm. I think everyones coming from a good place, i.e being supportive, but I think some are overreacting.
From what you said, it seems like she's gotten used to seeing you daily over the last 6 months and then maybe it feels to her that you suddenly don't want to spend time with her. I mean, if you've explained that you've worked hard and want days off/to be with yourself but it isn't her, and you want time to yourself as well as time with her, rather than instead of, then fair enough she's being completely unjustified in being moody. (and to be honest, seems a little high maintenance)
However, if you haven't explained things to her properly and just blown her off then she's fairly entitled to feel unwanted and neglected (hence moody) as she won't know what's going on with you. __________________________ Indulge Me Consider Yourself Indulged - Immy ♥ Wow immy scored - Xorus
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Victor Valka
Caldari Kissaki Corporation
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Posted - 2008.07.30 19:29:00 -
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Quote: put it in her butt.
Originally by: Kalahari Wayrest Edited by: Kalahari Wayrest on 30/07/2008 19:11:54 Uhm. I think everyones coming from a good place, i.e being supportive[...]
Does not compute!
(Sorry. I'll go sit in the corner now. )
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Grandeur
Gallente Eternity INC. Project Alice.
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Posted - 2008.07.30 19:39:00 -
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Originally by: Gungankllr Really depends on if you're still into her or not.
Only you know the answer to that.
Quotin' Gungan because he's right.
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Slanty McGarglefist
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Posted - 2008.07.30 19:41:00 -
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The lack of update from the OP probably means he decided to try out our advice and his GF killed him.
Should we flee the country? __________________________________________________
Originally by: CCP Wrangler No
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Tarminic
24th Imperial Crusade
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Posted - 2008.07.30 19:42:00 -
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Originally by: Victor Valka
Quote: put it in her butt.
Originally by: Kalahari Wayrest Edited by: Kalahari Wayrest on 30/07/2008 19:11:54 Uhm. I think everyones coming from a good place, i.e being supportive[...]
Does not compute!
(Sorry. I'll go sit in the corner now. )
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Akita T
Caldari Navy Volunteer Task Force
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Posted - 2008.07.30 19:45:00 -
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Originally by: Slanty McGarglefist The lack of update from the OP probably means he decided to try out our advice and his GF killed him. Should we flee the country?
Your sig gives the answer
Originally by: Your SIG
Originally by: CCP Wrangler No
Doh!
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EnslaverOfMinmatar
Yarsk Hunters DeaDSpace Coalition
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Posted - 2008.07.30 19:49:00 -
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If she's going to hit you in the face, quickly put on a helmet.
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Yoshimako
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Posted - 2008.07.30 21:58:00 -
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Edited by: Yoshimako on 30/07/2008 21:58:54 I'll always try to get out of a situation with out fighting, talking them round or even walking away. My experiences as a child and teenager taught me this, i don't do losing and it normally end with the other person getting badly hurt and that just isnt worth the hassle.
However, if someone really goes for you, then you go back, with equal force. Man or woman. If a woman really goes for, and i mean really goes for you not slapping, then I can't see how anyone can brand you a woman beating moron.
Women are all after equal rights surely this is all part and parcel?
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Tarminic
24th Imperial Crusade
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Posted - 2008.07.30 22:05:00 -
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Originally by: Yoshimako if someone really goes for you, then you go back, with equal force. Man or woman. If a woman really goes for, and i mean really goes for you not slapping, then I can't see how anyone can brand you a woman beating moron.
Women are all after equal rights surely this is all part and parcel?
Except men, on average, hit a lot harder than women. Equal force, when it comes to dealing with a woman attacking you, means that you restrain her without actually beating the crap out of her.
But if a woman comes at you and she's as strong as you are, then I'd say hitting is justifiable. ---------------- Play EVE: Downtime Madness v0.83 (Updated 7/3) |
Yoshimako
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Posted - 2008.07.30 22:18:00 -
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thats why i said equal force. But bear in mind it doesnt take alot of pressure if someone hits you in the throat or many other weak points of the human body, its better to be safe then sorry.
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