You're forgetting something. Something that's been said over and over again but you conveniently choose to ignore it. Your way of playing this game is NOT the only one. High-sec is NOT safe, only safer. Every time you undock, you run the risk of losing whatever you undocked. If they are not completely on the straight and narrow...well that's eve for you. Personally, having once been part of a pirate corp, I know that it's not at all easy to keep a leash on pirates that are hungry for blood.

In the end, all I see here is a bunch of people trying to have their own brand of fun. It's obviously not your brand of fun but it is still well within the boundaries of this sandbox world we all choose to dwell in. We all have our opinions on how this game should be, but that doesn't change the rules of the game in any way. The options open to people here are very clear and very limited: either deal with this aspect of the way you chose to play this game, or avoid it. Losing stuff is a part of EVE, if it wasn't your very way of playing the game would not be viable, as there would be little to no demand for the ore you mine.

(Incidentally, I'm not a part of this New Order in any way, I'm just amused by what they do and I enjoy a good discussion. Unfortunately it seems you are unwilling to entertain the thought that there might be other ways of viewing this issue that are just as legitimate if not even more legitimate than your own. That makes it hard to have a good discussion...)